Space for Life

Space for Life is a podcast with honest conversations designed to help cultivate the space we need for a more fulfilling and abundant life. Despite our culture’s wiring for excess and overload, our souls desperately need the very opposite. Space for Life seeks to help you take small steps into a spacious life .

  1. 5H AGO

    Katherine Wolf on Why Pain Is Too Precious to Waste

    Tommy sits down with Katherine Wolf, stroke survivor, author, and co-founder of Hope Heals, for one of his dream conversations. At 26, Katherine had a massive brain stem stroke that left her permanently disabled, and nearly two decades later she is one of the most compelling voices on suffering, hope, and what it means to live a truly good life in the middle of an impossibly hard one. This is a conversation about what it looks like when good and hard coexist, and why the pain you are carrying right now might be too precious to waste. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Katherine's story: the brain stem stroke at 26 that changed everything and the nearly two years of recovery that followedWhy there is no quota on suffering this side of heaven, and how that reframing actually brings freedomThe invisible wheelchairs we all carry, and why the disabilities nobody can see often do the most damageThe difference between wanting a cure and actually needing healing, drawn from the blind man in John 9What the practice of hope looks like when the feeling of hope is completely goneThe Isaiah 45 passage that became the foundation for Treasures in the Dark and why she chose to gather treasure instead of waste itHow to radically accept your story and trust an unknown future to a known God Timestamps: (0:00) Intro and Katherine's story (7:35) No quota on suffering (11:51) Invisible wheelchairs (14:43) Redefining what good actually means (21:34) Treasures in the Dark and Isaiah 45 (28:18) The difference between a cure and healing (30:18) Practicing hope when you can't feel it (36:04) Hope Heals Camp and radical belonging (45:51) Trusting an unknown future to a known God Resources / Next Steps: Learn more about Katherine and Hope Heals at hopeheals.com. Listen to The Good Hard Story podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Pick up Treasures in the Dark on Amazon. If you are in Atlanta, visit Mend Coffee!

    56 min
  2. APR 2

    Exploring the Reality of the Resurrection with Drew Daniels

    Tommy sits down with Drew Daniels, founding pastor of Boulevard Church in Richmond, Virginia, to explore what the resurrection of Jesus Christ actually means, not just theologically, but historically and personally. They walk through the evidence, wrestle with the hard questions, and land on why a 2000-year-old event still changes everything about how we live today. Drew brings an honest, grounded faith to one of Tommy's favorite conversation topics of the year. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Drew's family inheritance of faith, from a self-taught preacher grandfather in rural Nebraska to his own call to plant a churchWhy Christianity is the only world religion built on the claim that God came to you, not the other way aroundThe historical and extra-biblical evidence that gives the resurrection credibility 2000 years laterWhy Tommy believes the resurrection can't be proven but says the preponderance of evidence is overwhelmingThe C.S. Lewis framework: Jesus is either a liar, a lunatic, or LordWhat Tim Keller meant when he said the gospel changes everythingDrew's raw story of asking God for a week off from belief during the hardest season of church planting, and what happened the next morning Timestamps: (0:00) Intro (3:37) Drew's story (10:31) Why the resurrection matters (22:57) Historical evidence for the resurrection (26:11) The disciples' martyrdom and women at the tomb (34:03) What difference does it make? (50:22) Final Thoughts + Connect with Boulevard Church Resources / Next Steps: Learn more about Drew and Boulevard Church at blvdchurchrva.com. They meet Sundays at 1212 N Arthur Ashe Blvd in Richmond's Scott's Addition neighborhood. Whether you're a person of faith or still figuring out what you believe, they'd love to have you. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org

    55 min
  3. MAR 19

    The Power of Presence in an Age of Distraction and Loneliness with Dr. Nelson Ould

    Loneliness is rising in a world that has never been more connected. In this episode, Tommy sits down with longtime friend and recently retired pastor Dr. Nelson Ould to explore the power and practice of presence. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and personal experience, Nelson shares a simple insight: in life’s most difficult moments, people rarely remember the exact words that were spoken, but they always remember who showed up. Together they discuss why distraction and hurry are eroding real connection, why loneliness continues to rise, and how the simple act of being present with someone can transform relationships. They also share practical ways to grow in presence, including listening for open doors in conversation, asking thoughtful follow-up questions, creating margin before important interactions, and checking back in with people after meaningful conversations. In a culture filled with noise and constant distraction, this conversation is a reminder that one of the greatest gifts we can offer someone is our full attention. (0:00) Loneliness, distraction, and why presence matters today (2:16) How pastoral ministry revealed the power of presence (9:39) The biblical foundation of presence and God with us (19:01) Listening for open doors in conversation (22:07) The two enemies of presence, distraction and hurry (29:42) Practicing presence with the people closest to you (32:09) The underrated power of following up with people (40:02) Creating margin and quieting distraction before conversations

    51 min
  4. MAR 5

    Redemptive Healing and the Fellowship of Suffering with Pastor Steve Ruetschle

    Fifteen years ago, Pastor Steve Ruetschle was left paralyzed after a catastrophic motorcycle accident. Doctors told him he would never walk again. But this episode is not primarily about a medical outcome. It is about something deeper. In this conversation, Steve reflects on the different ways God heals, the power of community, and what it means to participate in the fellowship of suffering. He shares how the faith of others carried him when he could not believe for himself, how pain can either harden the heart or deepen it, and how redemptive healing does not always mean the removal of suffering. This is a thoughtful and pastoral conversation about chronic pain, unanswered prayer, community, gratitude, and the surrounding love of God. If you are walking through illness, loss, or long term suffering, this episode offers a steady reminder that you are not alone and that God’s faithful love surrounds you even here. (0:00) Introduction and How Steve’s Story Reached Space for Life (2:19) The Motorcycle Accident and Becoming Quadriplegic (6:31) Degrees of Paralysis and Living with Chronic Pain (11:26) Community and the Story of the Paralytic (16:00) The Turning Point and Moving His Toe (21:10) Different Types of Healing (30:06) Redemptive Healing and the Fellowship of Suffering (36:33) Guarding Against Bitterness (45:09) A Word for Those Walking Through Pain Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org

    49 min
  5. FEB 19

    How to Start Writing and Actually Get Published with Terry Whalin

    So many people carry the quiet dream of writing something meaningful. A book. A devotional. A story that has been sitting inside them for years. But the question lingers Where do I even begin? In this episode of Space for Life, Tommy sits down with Terry Whalin, acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing and author of more than 60 books, to talk about what it really takes to move from dream to discipline. Terry pulls back the curtain on the publishing world and explains why most aspiring authors start in the wrong place, what publishers are actually looking for, and why writing success is often 80 percent about the author and 20 percent about the book. They explore the catch 22 of publishing, the power of critique groups and apprenticeship, and why becoming a better reader is foundational to becoming a better writer. If you have ever considered writing, or simply want to understand how books truly shape lives, this conversation offers practical clarity and grounded encouragement for taking your next step. (0:00) Why So Many People Dream of Writing (6:41) How One Book Can Change a Life (14:16) What Publishers Really Look For (18:07) Where Aspiring Writers Should Start (32:32) The Catch 22 of Getting Published (40:19) The Power of Critique Groups (48:34) Why Reading Shapes Better Writing (58:53) Building Consistency as a Writer Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org

    1h 7m
  6. JAN 22

    A Conversation About Suicide, Losing Loved Ones, Warning Signs, and Caring for One Another

    This is one of the most difficult and meaningful conversations Space for Life has ever held. In this episode, host Tommy Thompson is joined by David Dwight, Senior Pastor at Hope Church Richmond, and Ray Paul, National Board Chair of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Together, they share deeply personal stories of losing close family members to suicide and reflect on what it means to grieve, to care for one another, and to hold hope in the midst of profound loss. Listener discretion is advised. This is a heavy and sensitive topic, and we encourage you to listen at your own pace and with support if needed. This conversation is rooted in lived experience, not theory. With honesty, compassion, and care, they explore: What makes suicide-related grief uniquely complexHow to recognize warning signs and risk factorsHow to talk about suicide without shame, fear, or judgmentThe role of community, presence, and faith in healingHow we can better support both those who are grieving and those who may be at risk This episode is for anyone who has lost someone they love, is walking alongside someone who is struggling, or wants to learn how to respond with greater care and understanding in these moments. Important Support Note If you or someone you love is struggling or in crisis, help is available. In the United States, you can call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, to connect with trained counselors 24/7. You are not alone. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to a Difficult Conversation 03:49 Personal Experiences with Suicide 11:27 Understanding Grief and Loss 24:08 The Complexity of Suicide 32:17 Statistics and Prevention Strategies 42:56 Navigating Conversations about Suicide 54:34 The Role of Community and Support 01:06:17 Faith and Understanding in Grief 01:14:35 Final Thoughts and Resources Key Themes & Takeaways Suicide loss carries layers of grief that are often misunderstoodPrevention and compassion must exist togetherWarning signs often show up as subtle changes in behavior or moodAsking direct questions and listening carefully can save livesPresence matters more than having the “right” wordsThe way someone dies does not define the value or meaning of their lifeHealing often happens in community, not isolation Resources Mentioned American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) https://afsp.orgWhat to Do When Someone Is at Risk https://afsp.org/what-to-do-when-someone-is-at-risk/Risk Factors, Protective Factors, and Warning Signs https://afsp.org/risk-factors-protective-factors-and-warning-signs/Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) Call or text 988 Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org

    1h 44m
4.9
out of 5
80 Ratings

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Space for Life is a podcast with honest conversations designed to help cultivate the space we need for a more fulfilling and abundant life. Despite our culture’s wiring for excess and overload, our souls desperately need the very opposite. Space for Life seeks to help you take small steps into a spacious life .

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