Sparking Everyday Discipleship

Terrie Hellard-Brown

A Podcast about Discipleship in the 21st Century providing tools for Everyday Discipleship Every Day

  1. 5h ago

    Lori Wildenberg on Grandparents as Spiritual Influencers

    Summary In this episode, Lori Wildenberg shares insights on grandparenting, passing faith, navigating family boundaries, and handling challenging relationships with adult children and in-laws. Discover practical advice rooted in scripture to strengthen family bonds and influence the next generation positively. Key Topics The importance of grandparents in passing faith and morals Scriptural commands for family teaching (Deuteronomy 4:9) Balancing fun and spiritual influence in grandparenting Handling challenging relationships with adult children and in-laws Respect and boundaries in family dynamics Practical advice for difficult family situations (e.g., estranged relationships, abuse) The power of prayer and wisdom in family conflicts Celebrating high points in grandparent-grandchild relationships The importance of respect over love in family interactions Navigating family traditions and holiday schedules Sound Bites "Grandparents are second only to parents in passing faith" "Scripture commands us to teach our children and grandchildren" "Respect is love in plain clothes"   Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Grandparenting 02:55 Navigating Spiritual Influence 06:13 Building Relationships Amidst Challenges 09:10 Setting Boundaries and Recognizing Abuse 11:56 Hot Spots in Grandparent-Parent Relationships 22:22 Navigating Respect and Kindness in Family Dynamics 26:57 The Importance of Open Communication and Reconciliation 30:21 Encouragement and Support: The Grandparent's Role 32:14 Celebrating High Points in Grandparent-Parent Relationships 34:28 The Influence of Grandparents in a Changing Culture

    17 min
  2. You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    5h ago ·  Bonus

    You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    Introducing Dr. Ramani: If You're Thinking About Going No Contact With a Family Member - Listen to THIS (How to Know If It's Time To Walk Away) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay Shetty Some relationships leave us questioning whether love is enough to stay. In this conversation, Jay sits down with Dr. Ramani to explore the painful reality of family estrangement and the growing number of people considering no contact with those closest to them. Together, they unpack the difference between self-protection and punishment, why guilt often accompanies healthy boundaries, and how years of unresolved hurt can lead someone to step away from a relationship they once fought hard to save. Rather than offering simple answers, this episode invites a deeper reflection on safety, repair, accountability, and healing. It challenges the belief that family ties should come at the expense of your well-being and reminds us that choosing yourself is rarely easy. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship, supporting someone who is, or trying to understand a loved one's decision, this conversation offers compassion, clarity, and the reassurance that healing doesn't always look the way we expect. In this episode you'll learn: How to Know When No Contact Is Necessary How to Stop Abandoning Yourself for Family How to Recognize When Repair Isn’t Working How to Handle Guilt After Going No Contact How to Protect Your Peace Around Toxic Relatives How to Navigate Family Pressure and Backlash How to Choose Self-Protection Over Self-Betrayal Not every relationship is meant to be kept at the cost of your peace. Sometimes healing means repairing a connection, and sometimes it means creating distance from what continues to hurt you. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe   Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:29 What Does Going No Contact Really Mean? 06:24 When No Contact Becomes Your Only Option  08:10 Can a Broken Relationship Be Repaired? 11:40 The Most Common Reasons People Go No Contact 14:48 It's Not the Mistake, It's the Repair 17:01 Pay Attention to Your Why 21:58 Detaching from a Harmful Relationship 26:29 You Have to Do What Feels Right for You 30:12 When Family Requires Self-Abandonment 35:37 The Weight of Internal Shame 36:44 The Hidden Cost of Always Keeping the Peace 42:26 When Someone Cuts You Off Without Explanation 44:13 When Is It Time to Cut Off Contact? 48:01 But They're Family... 53:16 Building Your Chosen Family 55:05 No Contact vs. A Falling Out 55:54 The Silent Treatment Is a Form of Emotional Aggression 58:01 Are We Getting Worse at Repairing Relationships? 01:02:38 The Relief of Finally Deciding to Go No Contact  01:04:09 How to Repair a Relationship After Being Cut Off 01:05:37 Forgiveness Isn't Always Healthy 01:08:26 The Challenges of Trying to Heal Trauma 01:11:29 Why Some Parents Don't Understand Estrangement 01:13:13 Handling Family Backlash After Going No Contact 01:15:12 When a Parent Is Both Supportive and Harmful 01:17:54 When Breaking No Contact Is Worth Considering 01:19:26 Can a Narcissistic Parent Change? 01:22:16 Should You Invite an Estranged Family Member to Your Wedding?  Episode Resources: Website | https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani  Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/  LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramani-durvasula-4132067  TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorramani  X | https://x.com/DoctorRamani See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. 5d ago

    Two Questions Parents Ask All the Time

    Summary In this episode, Terrie Hellard-Brown shares practical advice on teaching apologetics to young children, evaluating parenting effectiveness, and supporting homeschooling families. She emphasizes the importance of understanding truth, addressing sibling rivalry, and praying for your children's spiritual growth.   Key Topics Teaching apologetics to young children How to evaluate if you're doing enough as a parent Supporting children with learning disabilities in homeschooling Addressing sibling rivalry and conflict Praying for children's spiritual and emotional well-being Sound Bites "Check out Foundation Worldview for great resources" "If you're asking, most likely you're doing a good job" "Pray for your children in every area of life" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:31 Teaching Apologetics to Toddlers with Foundation Worldview 01:54 Resources and Discounts for Apologetics Education 02:51 How to Know if You're Doing Enough as a Parent 04:20 Signs of Thriving Children and Parental Evaluation 05:42 Addressing Sibling Rivalry and Conflict Resolution 07:37 Setting Respectful Boundaries and Family Rules 10:30 Recognizing When You're a Good Parent 12:21 Understanding Children's Needs and Love Languages 14:19 Praying for Wisdom and Family Peace 15:17 Supporting Children with Learning Difficulties 16:40 Using Audiobooks and Creative Learning Strategies 19:50 Handling High School Subjects and External Help 21:14 Parenting Challenges and Resilience 22:38 Daily Prayer for Children's Spiritual and Emotional Needs 23:33 Encouragement and Invitation for Listener Questions Resources Foundation Worldview You Can Homeschool by Nathan Ritter

    20 min
  4. May 15

    Special on Storybook Inkspiration-Overcoming Fear & Procrastination in Writing

    This special episode is for those who are writers and illustrators or who want to become writers and illustrators. We will have our regular episode again at the beginning of June. Summary This episode explores the journey of Christian writers, addressing fears and procrastination that hinder writing, and promoting a transformative writing retreat in a castle in Oklahoma. Host Terrie Hellard-Brown shares insights on overcoming obstacles, the importance of faith, and how to turn writing dreams into reality. Key Topics Fear as a barrier to writing Procrastination and prioritization The spiritual calling of writing Details of the upcoming castle retreat in Oklahoma Strategies for overcoming writer's block and fear  Takeaways Fear of judgment cripples many Christian writers, but faith can overcome it. Procrastination often stems from feeling overwhelmed; prioritizing writing is essential. Writing retreats provide clarity, community, and spiritual renewal. Getting started is the hardest part; write even if it's terrible at first. God's calling is bigger than our fears; stepping out in faith is crucial. Sound Bites "You're afraid they'll laugh at you." "Fear not, over 300 times in the Bible." "Write even if it's absolutely terrible." Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Sparking Everyday Discipleship 00:30 The Calling to Write and Share Stories 01:55 The Excitement of the Upcoming Retreat 03:20 Overcoming Fear in Writing 06:44 The Importance of Perspective in Writing 09:36 Confronting Procrastination 12:54 Embracing the Writing Process 13:59 The Retreat Experience and Writing Goals 15:23 Logistics and Final Thoughts on the Retreat

    16 min
  5. May 8

    The Heart of Patience with Elisha Lee

    Summary In this engaging conversation, Elisha Lee discusses her new children's book, 'Patricia Learns Patience,' exploring the challenges of writing for children and the deeper meanings of patience and love. She emphasizes the importance of understanding these concepts before teaching them to children, drawing from her Christian faith. The discussion also covers how parents and educators can use the book to foster meaningful conversations about faith and patience, as well as Elisha's work in counseling and her podcast that integrates mental health with Christian principles.  Takeaways Writing for children requires deep self-reflection. Patience is about enjoying the journey, not rushing it. Roadblocks are part of the journey, not the end. Love is the catalyst for change in relationships. Children need to learn patience through relatable stories. Early intervention is crucial for children's development. Parents should be honest about their need for help. Integrating faith with mental health can provide hope. Teaching children about love and patience is essential. Elisha's journey as an author has transformed her personally. Sound Bites 00:00 "Jesus spoke in parables to explain things." 07:30 "We want to enjoy the journey, not rush it." 11:39 "You do not start where you stay."  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Elisha Lee and Her New Book 02:55 The Challenge of Writing for Children 06:10 Understanding Patience and Long-Suffering 08:49 The Importance of the Journey 12:04 Patricia Learns Patience: A Christian Perspective 15:02 Using the Book for Teaching and Conversations 17:54 Elisha's Counseling Practice and Podcast

    22 min

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A Podcast about Discipleship in the 21st Century providing tools for Everyday Discipleship Every Day