Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle Shay Au Lait

Switchress Shay Au Lait shares a story of an ally coming to Shay's side when they began to read the room and scan the corners during a festival. The person without needing any details noted someone who might need help. Moving beyond a bystander and into a direct aide, Shay was held and protected after being cornered. In this pop-up bonus episode, enjoy the lessons, the discomfort, and the hope as we move into a new season of Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle, the podcast.



Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started by asking ourselves, "Of what use is the Erotic?" as it's the undercurrent of everything we do. Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Kinky Siren Switchress & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring topics such as sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, cosmic spirituality, and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!


Shay Au Lait's website https://www.shayaulait.com/learn-more/
Siren Pack's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sirenpack/
SpeakEasy Noir's website https://speakeasynoir.com/

Should white burlesque producers give up their shows on Juneteenth and simply sit in the audience tipping all the black people? Should nonblack performers sit this one out? Should the whole world pause and only let black people make money on that day? Is it better to be white and have a "black" show theme? Maybe play all black people's music? Maybe I can be a white producer and hire all black performers? How should black and nonblack people approach entertainment and the nightlife industry as it relates to Juneteenth? You're invited to walk Shay Au Lait through a day in the life of a white producer in America on Juneteenth? She's looking for suggestions.


Visit Shay Au Lait.com - http://shayaulait.com/learn-more 



Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started with asking ourselves, "Of what use is the Erotic?" as it's the undercurrent of everything we do. Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Kinky Siren Switchress & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring topics such as sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, cosmic spirituality, and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!

What is a Switchress? Have you ever heard of that word? In today's episode of Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, Shay Au Lait shares about BDSM roles and the evolution of this Honorific and Title. How should you be addressed?


Kinky Siren Switchress - https://www.shayaulait.com/kinky-siren-switchress/
Visit Shay Au Lait.com - http://shayaulait.com/learn-more



Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started with asking ourselves, "Of what use is the Erotic?" as it's the undercurrent of everything we do. Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Kinky Siren Switchress & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring topics such as sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, cosmic spirituality, and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!

In today's episode, Shay Au Lait recounts a BDSM experience in becoming a "Latex Rubber Doll." In this deliberate and measured ritual of adornment, as part of agreed fetish protocols, Shay surrenders into a deep "Submissive Head Space," aka Subspace. In the practice of chronicling her experience in Subspaces, Shay also discovered Domspace too. Perhaps for you, it might be Topspace and Bottomspace. Is there such a thing as Switchspace? In either case, listen in to this core memory moment that ultimately led to the emergence of Kinky Siren Switchress. Shay didn't plan for it but discovered there was something quite spectacular in being a latex rubber doll. Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY! 


Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more

In today's BONUS episode, Shay Au Lait celebrates World Burlesque Day by sharing burlesque gratitudes, favorite burlesque performers, and burlesque goals and desires to reach for as we head towards World Burlesque Day 2023. What is Burlesque? According to SpeakEasy Noir, it is EMOTIONAL STORYTELLING, EXTREME PARODY AND EXTRAVAGANT REVEALS. Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY! 


LEARN MORE via ShayAuLait.com
What is burlesque? via ShayAuLait.com


Siren Pack Productions | Revival Hotel & Fox News | 
SpeakEasy Noir Burlesque
Glen Graham - 9|5 Killers
Queen Glow Job - House of Yes resident | RetroFactory & Broadway World
Perle Noire - The Noire Pageant, The House of Noire
Carmine Black 
Evon Michelle - SAD Brunch
Queerly Femmetastic
LostBoy 
Katie Torres
MaDda

In today's episode, Shay Au Lait reads an essay that recounts her notions about dating submissive men. After expressing her ignorance to a friend, he offered her a new archetype to consider. It changed her mind immediately!

*In this episode Shay Au Lait also begins with an introductory caveat, trigger warning and/or acknowledgment as in the timeframe of the story, she did not know to speak beyond the gender and sex binary.

ABOUT: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls.

Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you!

Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more