That's Our Time

with Macey Isaacs and Dr. Bijan Zarrabi

Psychiatrist Dr. Bijan Zarrabi and comedian Macey Isaacs talk through their guest's "chief complaint" AKA something that's been on their mind that's bothering them. Episodes delve into topics such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, and more, aiming to debunk misinformation and demystify mental health, all within the 50 minutes of a typical session. Their goal is to destigmatize these issues through a blend of expertise and humor, making listeners feel understood and supported.

  1. What Social Media is Doing to Our Attention Spans (and What We Can Do About It)

    07/22/2025

    What Social Media is Doing to Our Attention Spans (and What We Can Do About It)

    In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatrist, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, talk about social media and what it’s doing to our attention spans. From flashlight metaphors to memory recall, they explore how attention works, what “brain rot” really means, and how to use social media more intentionally. They dive into the science behind attention, including why multitasking can actually make it harder to focus and how engaging with multiple forms of media at once might affect memory and sustained concentration. Macey and Bijan also talk about the difference between passively scrolling and deeply engaging with a book or movie—and why that difference matters for your brain. They cover: What is attention, and why your brain is like a flashlight The limited, precious nature of attention Why it’s so easy to procrastinate with social media The concept of “brain rot” and whether it holds up Passive consumption vs. immersive media Research on media multitasking and attention Is the problem the amount of time we spend on social media—or how we use it? Tips and tools for more intentional use (including Opal and Brick) The link between attention, memory, and even pupil dilation Plus, Bijan shares a personal story about being sleepy at the wheel, and the episode ends with both hosts sharing what’s helping them feel “OK” these days. Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    1 hr
  2. What OCD Really Is (and Isn’t): A Comedian with OCD & a Psychiatrist Break It Down

    07/08/2025

    What OCD Really Is (and Isn’t): A Comedian with OCD & a Psychiatrist Break It Down

    Our guest Julian Stern has a show in Los Angeles on Friday, July 18th at The Crow. If you liked this episode and are in the area, please go see him live!  In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatry resident, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, are joined by comedian Julian Stern—who shows up a little late, but jumps right into the deep end with us. Julian opens up about what it’s actually like to live with OCD—beyond the casual “I’m so OCD” comments people throw around. We talk about what OCD really is (hint: it’s more than just liking things tidy), the difference between obsessions and compulsions, and how anxiety and depression often tag along for the ride. Julian shares what it was like to be diagnosed at 10 years old, and how his early compulsions involved Animorphs, ice cubes, and checking locks. As an adult, OCD shows up in different ways—praying on airplanes, ordering iced red eyes, and obsessing over social media posts. We also explore different types of OCD, including harm, checking, contamination, intrusive thoughts, and something called scrupulosity (yep, it’s real). We dive into how OCD differs from general anxiety, how indecision can feel paralyzing, and what treatment has helped Julian manage it all—plus how comedy fits into the picture.   Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today! Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    1h 14m
  3. The Mediterranean Diet Might Change Your Mood—Here's How with Matt Durndak

    06/24/2025

    The Mediterranean Diet Might Change Your Mood—Here's How with Matt Durndak

    In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatry resident, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, are joined by their favorite comedian and skeptic, Matt Durndak, to talk about the Mediterranean diet—and why it’s one of the best things you can do for your mental health. They break down what the Mediterranean diet actually is (spoiler: it’s more than just olive oil and red wine) and why it’s considered the healthiest diet in the world. They cover how it supports brain health by reducing inflammation through folate, omega-3s, and antioxidants—and yes, they explain what antioxidants actually are. They discuss: The SMILES trial and how diet can support depression treatment How to get started with the Mediterranean diet (even if you're overwhelmed) 10 quick tips to make the switch more doable Why gut health is so important—and how fiber and fermented foods play a role What you should and shouldn’t eat (hint: whole wheat, not white bread) If cheese and eggs are allowed (Matt eats six eggs for breakfast—so we get into it) Whether you can lose weight on the diet Why eating slowly, socially, and mindfully matters Their favorite Mediterranean snacks Also, plants should be at the center of your plate. And yes—red wine is okay in moderation. Resources Mentioned:  https://www.thedoctorskitchen.com/   Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    50 min
  4. Bonus: Misery Loves Mental Health from Misery Loves Mandy

    06/10/2025

    Bonus: Misery Loves Mental Health from Misery Loves Mandy

    Here is a special bonus episode! Dr. Bijan Zarrabi and Macey Isaacs were guests on the podcast "Misery Loves Mandy" for episode number 146 titled "Misery Loves Mental Health." We loved it so much that we wanted to share it here on our feed. Below are the show notes taken from Misery Loves Mandy. ---- They are miserable about the stigma that antidepressants kill creativity, performance anxiety, and the struggle to stay productive without burning out. In this special episode of 'Misery Loves Mandy' for Mental Health Awareness Month, Mandy sits down with Macey Isaacs and Bijan Zarrabi, hosts of the podcast 'SSRI'M OK.' The discussion covers a wide range of topics, including mental health, depression, anxiety, and the stigmas associated with these conditions. Bijan, a psychiatrist, shares professional insights while the group also explores the intersection of mental health and creativity, how antidepressants affect people, and tips for achieving a balance between personal life and professional ambitions. Tune in for an engaging and informative conversation that also touches on personal anecdotes and the challenges of life in comedy. 🌟Support the pod and join us for Misery Loves Mandy Unfiltered in Patreon:   / miserylovesmandy   📩 Email YOUR "Misery Loves Company" story to miserylovesmandypod@gmail.com --- Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    1h 14m
  5. How to Find the Right Therapist—Even Without Insurance

    05/27/2025

    How to Find the Right Therapist—Even Without Insurance

    In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatry resident, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, talk about how to find a good therapist—even if you don't have insurance. They break down the steps, starting with figuring out how you’re going to pay and whether you’re using insurance. If you're not, don’t panic—there are still affordable options like sliding scale therapists and training clinics. Bijan shares insights from his recent trip to the APA (American Psychiatric Association) conference, including what he learned about mental health and social media. They also get real about how just starting the search is often the hardest part. They discuss: Tools that can help you actually sit down and start the process (like body doubling and setting timers) How to choose a therapist based on your goals Why ACT or CBT might be helpful—but why you shouldn’t stress too much about the specific modality The importance of connection over credentials Red and green flags to look out for What to ask during a first call (which you should always do) What Macey personally looks for in a therapist Why it’s completely OK to prefer certain therapist traits—like gender, sexual orientation, or therapeutic approach And a reminder that you’re not stuck with the first therapist you meet—you’re allowed to shop around Also, Bijan has a great furrowed brow. That’s not helpful for finding a therapist, but it is true. Resources Mentioned:  https://psychologytoday.com/ https://zencare.co https://www.zocdoc.com/ https://www.therapyden.com/ https://therapymatcher.org/ https://openpathcollective.org/ https://www.focusmate.com/   Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    42 min
  6. Using Humor to Cope: When It Helps—And When It Hurts with Mandy Martino

    05/13/2025

    Using Humor to Cope: When It Helps—And When It Hurts with Mandy Martino

    In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatry resident, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, are joined by fellow comic Mandy Martino (from Misery Loves Mandy) to explore the psychology of humor: 👉 Is humor always a healthy coping mechanism—or can it sometimes be harmful? We dive into research on humor, mental health, and defense mechanisms, and explore how the jokes we make can reflect deeper emotional patterns. Topics include: Mandy’s childhood trauma (yes, involving hamsters) and how comedians often turn pain into punchlines How using humor as a child can be a coping strategy—and whether that pattern evolves or gets stuck in adulthood The "sad clown" archetype in comedy: from Chris Farley to cult classics like Superstar and Joe Dirt Are comedians actually more mentally unwell than the average person? Coping mechanisms vs. defense mechanisms: what makes a defense “mature” or “immature”? Self-deprecating humor: why comedians  use it, and when it becomes empowering—or toxic How humor can be adaptive or maladaptive—and what to do if your humor style isn’t serving you anymore We also talk about what it means to bring purpose to pain and how comedy can be a powerful tool for healing—but only if it’s rooted in honesty rather than avoidance. 🎧 Whether you’re a fan of stand-up, a therapist, or someone who jokes their way through hard times, this episode offers real insight into how and why we laugh—and what that laughter might be covering up. Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SSRIMOKPod Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    1h 2m
  7. Sleep Apnea: The Snore You Ignore with Scotty Cav

    04/29/2025

    Sleep Apnea: The Snore You Ignore with Scotty Cav

    In this episode of SSRI’M OK, hosts Dr. Bijan Zarrabi, a psychiatry resident, and Macey Isaacs, a stand-up comedian, are joined by standup comedian Scotty Cav to talk about sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is surprisingly common, yet many people don’t even realize they have it. We break down exactly what sleep apnea is — a condition where breathing repeatedly stops and starts during sleep — and discuss the two main types: obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), the more common form caused by physical blockage of the airway, and central sleep apnea, which happens when the brain doesn't send the right signals to the muscles that control breathing. We also cover the serious health risks that can come with untreated sleep apnea, including high blood pressure, heart problems, and cognitive issues. Interestingly, sleep apnea can sometimes mimic symptoms of ADHD, making it even trickier to spot. We introduce listeners to the STOP-BANG questionnaire, a simple screening tool that can help identify potential sleep apnea risk. Scotty Cav shares his personal journey of undergoing a sleep study, getting diagnosed, and adjusting to life with a CPAP machine and mask. We also touch on different types of CPAP masks and explore alternatives for those who struggle with CPAP therapy. If you think you might be dealing with sleep apnea, this episode is a reminder to talk to your doctor and take the first steps toward better sleep — and better health. Resources Mentioned: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/2764461 https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/24443-obstructive-sleep-apnea-osa https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK459252/   Go to PureYogaTexas.com/pure-yogatv to become a member today!   Art by Zoe Zakson Music by Raul Garcia Edited by Katie Hettenbach   Check out our website: ssrimokpod.com Follow us on IG: @ssrimokpod Contact us: ssrimokpod@gmail.com

    58 min
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Psychiatrist Dr. Bijan Zarrabi and comedian Macey Isaacs talk through their guest's "chief complaint" AKA something that's been on their mind that's bothering them. Episodes delve into topics such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, and more, aiming to debunk misinformation and demystify mental health, all within the 50 minutes of a typical session. Their goal is to destigmatize these issues through a blend of expertise and humor, making listeners feel understood and supported.