When you think of a “leader,” what comes to mind? For many, it’s the loudest voice in the room, the one who always networks, speaks up, and commands attention. But what if leadership didn’t require extroversion at all? In this powerful episode of STANDOUT From The Crowd, Darine is joined by Seyi Kakanfo, a global program leader with 16+ years of experience driving multimillion-dollar initiatives for Global Affairs Canada, the EU, USAID, DFID, and the UN. Despite excelling in global, high-stakes roles, Seyi describes herself as 80% introverted. She shares how her introversion has shaped her leadership style, why authenticity beats performance every time, and the powerful lessons she’s learned mentoring newcomer immigrant women in Canada. This conversation will inspire ambitious women to embrace their quiet power, stand out authentically, and redefine what leadership truly looks like. Key Topics Discussed: Debunking the myth of the extroverted leader — why leadership doesn’t have to be loud to be effective. Strengths introverts bring to leadership — deep listening, reflection, intentionality, and presence. Strategies for thriving in high-visibility and networking-heavy spaces without faking extroversion. Seyi’s journey of realignment — how she overcame career misalignment and reconnected to purpose. Why authenticity builds influence, trust, and impact — and how ambitious women can harness their quiet power in loud environments. Key Takeaways Leadership isn’t just for extroverts — quiet power can command influence without volume. Introverts bring unique strengths like deep listening, intentionality, and reflection that drive effective leadership. Visibility doesn’t require performance — presence, clarity, and authenticity are more impactful than pretending to be loud. Reconnecting with purpose transforms careers — alignment fuels confidence, resilience, and sustainable success. Authenticity builds trust and influence — when women lead as themselves, they inspire others to do the same. Actionable Steps: Reframe introversion as an advantage: write down 3 leadership strengths it gives you. Audit where you’re “performing” extroversion and experiment with authentic alternatives. Build reflection rituals into your week (journaling, intentional pauses, spiritual practices) to stay aligned. Practice visibility by focusing on clarity and message delivery rather than volume. Share your leadership story with another woman — empowerment multiplies when passed on Connect with Darine: - On Instagram - On LinkedIn - Visit her website Connect with Seyi Kakanfo: Linkedin: @seyidada Subscribe & Review: If you found this episode valuable, don’t forget to subscribe to STANDOUT From The Crowd on Spotify | Apple Podcast, and leave a review! Subscribe to The STANDOUT Newsletter, your weekly 5-min reset designed to help you stay clear, grounded, intentional. Delivered straight to your inbox every Wednesday. Follow us on Tiktok | Instagram | YouTube to stay updated. Check out our partner, AFROA Beauty, for wellness-focused skincare products that support a radiant, healthy lifestyle. Other episodes you may like: How to Bend Time - Align Energy, Work & Purpose Without Burnout Back to Work: Show Up Rooted, Not Rushed (3/3) Mid-Year Check-In for Women Leaders: Reflect, Realign & Reclaim Your Energy (2/3)
