The Pet Parent Hotline | Real Help for Pet Behavior, Budgets, and Everyday Stress

Amy Castro - Pet Parenting & Behavior Expert

Feeling overwhelmed by your pet’s behavior or the cost of keeping them healthy and cared for every day? You thought a pet would be the perfect addition to your life. Instead, your bank account’s drained, your dog won’t stop barking, your cat’s peeing everywhere, and your house is such a disaster you can’t have friends over. You’ve paid for trainers, followed your vet’s advice, and you’re still up at 2 a.m. scrolling for answers and wondering how long you can keep trying to meet everyone’s needs while ignoring your own. Many podcasts talk about caring for animals like you’ve got endless time, money, and a perfectly behaved golden retriever straight out of a Disney movie. This one doesn’t. It’s for real people who love their pets and need real help with pet behavior, their budget, and the mayhem without losing their minds or giving up. This isn’t just about helping your pets, it’s about helping you communicate clearly, set boundaries, and advocate for your pet’s needs and your own. I’m your host, Amy Castro, longtime industry pro, animal rescuer, and trusted advisor to thousands of families looking for practical pet behavior help and support. I teach pet parents the communication and advocacy skills that make everything easier, from vet visits to behavior conversations to setting boundaries at home. After fostering more than 4,000 animals and helping their people go from overwhelmed to capable and confident, I’ve learned one thing: you’re not a bad pet parent, you just haven’t gotten advice tailored to your real life. Each week, I answer your questions and break down expert insights on everything from common pet behavior mistakes and litter box trouble to saving money on vet bills and everyday expenses. On the First Wednesday of each month, I'll drop you a Pet Parent Power-Up -  a short, under-10-minute episode designed to give you a quick boost of clarity, confidence, and calm. These mini episodes focus on the human side of pet parenting, helping you communicate better, advocate for your pet and yourself, and make everyday decisions with less stress and more control. Think of it as a monthly power-up for your mindset, your routines, and your sanity. You’ll walk away with bite-sized steps that actually work for your budget, your schedule, and your perfectly imperfect pets. So you can stop chasing your tail and finally enjoy your animals, and your life, again. Start with the episode that matches what you’re dealing with today, and let’s make things easier together.

  1. 10H AGO

    Why Pet Resolutions Fail By Week 2

    Ever hit January 10 and realize your “new year, new routine” with your pet is already sliding? If you have ever promised yourself you’ll walk your dog more, train your cat, brush your pet’s teeth, or finally fix the chaos, then watched real life blow it up, this episode is your reset. Because it’s not laziness, it’s because you didn’t have a real plan. In this solo New Year kickoff episode, I’m sharing what 15 years in rescue taught me about why pet parenting promises fall apart, and the simple way to build a tiny, realistic Pet Plan that survives messy mornings, tired evenings, and a barking dog when you cannot find the leash. You’ll leave with one repeatable action you can start this week, plus a 60-second reset you can do tonight to make tomorrow easier. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:  Why “walk more” and “be consistent” fail in real life, and what to do instead How to shrink any pet goal into something you will actually repeat How to anchor your habit, remove friction, and use a Plan B without quittingYour next step: send me your one-sentence Pet Plan. Email, DM, or leave a voicemail at petparenthotline.com. CONNECT WITH ME WEBSITE | petparenthotline.com OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Don’t miss our monthly Pet Parent Power-Up bonus episode dropping Wednesday, January 7, on the one question you can ask yourself to always ensure the best use of your time and energy. It’s the perfect follow-up to help you choose what’s actually worth your effort.  Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    24 min
  2. 12/28/2025

    Creating a Home You’re Proud Of, Even With Pets

    Can you really have a home you feel good about and live comfortably with pets? Absolutely. This week, award-winning designer Pamela O’Brien joins Amy to share practical ways to design and organize your home so it feels functional, pet-friendly, and put-together. From smart fabric and flooring choices to simple storage and feeding setups, Pamela explains how to create a space that looks good, works for everyday life with pets, and still feels comfortable when friends and family come over. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: • Which fabrics and flooring options hold up best in real homes with pets • How to organize entryways and feeding areas so clutter doesn’t take over • Simple design upgrades that protect your furniture, rugs, and sanity If you’ve ever hesitated to invite people over because of fur, mess, or wear and tear, this episode will help you feel more confident in your home without pushing your pets out of the picture. CONNECT WITH PAMELA O’BRIEN Website | PamelaHopeDesigns.com Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    45 min
  3. 12/21/2025

    10 Rescue-Tested Pet Essentials We Can’t Live Without

    Think you’re set because you have food bowls, toys, and a leash? Most pet supply lists focus on gimmicks or generic basics and completely miss the tools that actually make life with pets easier and safer. In this episode, Amy Castro and Bev Brooks share 10 rescue-tested pet essentials they can’t live without, five for dogs, five for cats,  plus bonus items drawn from decades of real-world pet parenting and rescue experience. These are the same types of tools Amy routinely recommends to adopters to help pets succeed once they’re home.  These aren’t trendy products or influencer favorites. They’re practical tools that support safety, behavior, and day-to-day management, the kinds of items you don’t think about until you really need them. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: The overlooked tools that help you handle messes, stress, and unexpected situationsWhy some of the most boring supplies matter more than expensive gearHow the right setup can prevent small issues from becoming bigger problemsWhich items are worth spending money on and which might not beWhether you’re shopping for a last-minute gift, preparing for a new pet, or realizing your current setup has gaps, the pet advice in this episode will help you rethink what your pet actually needs. If this episode made you think, “oh wow, I don’t have that,” please share it with another pet parent who might be buying all the wrong things. PS- we don't name a bunch of specific brands in this episode, but we do mention the FURBO Pet Camera/Pet Nanny. Get more info about the Furbo Pet Camera's mentioned in the show! (note- if you buy a Furbo product from this link, it helps support the show!) FURBO: The Trainer's Choice Pet CamerasDesigned for pets. See, talk, and toss treats to your pets from anywhere.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    35 min
  4. 12/14/2025

    How to Get Through the Holidays When Facing Pet Loss

    Why do the holidays feel so much heavier when you’ve lost a pet, or when you know a goodbye is coming soon? If you’re finding yourself dreading traditions, avoiding gatherings, or feeling pressure to “hold it together,” this episode is for you. Holiday pet grief can show up in unexpected ways, especially during a first holiday without your pet or when you’re living in that anticipatory space of knowing time with your pet is limited. In this conversation, licensed clinical social worker and author Nancy Gordon helps make sense of why this season hurts more and how to move through it with compassion instead of pressure. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: If you’re grieving a pet you’ve already lost: • Why holidays intensify pet grief, even when you think you’re coping just fine • How to prepare emotionally for gatherings so you’re not blindsided by questions or comments • Ways to honor your pet without forcing traditions or “last moments” to be perfect If you’re anticipating the loss of a pet: • What anticipatory grief looks like and why it can quietly take over the season • How to stay present with your pet and yourself without burning out emotionally This episode is dedicated to Rosy, Debbie’s beloved dog, and to every pet parent navigating the holidays with a missing piece of their heart. CONNECT WITH NANCY GORDON Email: nancygordon7practices@gmail.com Phone: (858) 952-0936 Petworks.com to schedule a session with Nancy: Discounted first session. Website: growbeyondgrief.com Instagram devoted to pet loss and grief: @nancy.gordon.global  OTHER LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Listen to Nancy's first appearance on the show in 2023: "The Grief Before Goodbye: Preparing For Your Pet's Final Days" Join us in The Pet Parent Hotline Insiders group Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    38 min
  5. 12/07/2025

    Holiday Hazards That Send Pets to the Emergency Vet

    Are you sure your home is ready for the holidays, or are there hidden dangers for your pet that could have your pet end up at the Emergency Vet? Most pet parents prep for the obvious hazards, but the real risks are the ones you never see coming. In today’s episode, veterinarian Dr. Zoo joins me for a walk-through of the surprising holiday hazards that slip into your home without you realizing it that land you and your pet at the emergency vet for the holidays. From toxic treats to vintage décor to medications in bags and purses, we’re breaking down the early warning signs that something is wrong and why timing matters more than most people realize. To raise awareness of common, current-day hazards, we discuss a wide range of items and substances that may appear in homes during the holidays, including some that may be legal in some places and illegal in others. No matter where you live, anything intoxicating or medicinal should always be kept securely out of reach of pets.  By the time you finish listening, you’ll discover: • How to spot the subtle early signs of toxicity before they escalate • Why some holiday substances become dangerous long before symptoms appear • What to do immediately if you find evidence your pet got into something • The one resource every pet parent should save in their phone for emergencies Holiday chaos is stressful enough without a trip to the emergency vet. This episode gives you the insight you need to catch problems early and keep the season safe for your pets. CONNECT WITH DR. ZOO Family Animal Hospital | Website OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center (888) 426-4435 Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    32 min
  6. 12/03/2025 · BONUS

    Pet Parent Power-Up: Set Boundaries With Pet-Complaining Guests (Quick Fix)

    Do your holiday guests expect your pets to be quiet, invisible, or perfectly behaved on command? If you have friends or family visiting who are not big pet lovers, it can put pressure on you and cause a lot of confusion for your pets. This "Pet Parent Power-Up" episode breaks down simple ways to keep the peace, protect your pets’ emotional safety, and avoid the uncomfortable moments that happen when visitors expect your animals to disappear. A lot of pet parents feel guilty when guests complain about barking, hair, or normal pet behavior, but guilt leads to last-minute scrambling and stressed-out pets. You’ll learn how to set expectations, guide your guests, and prevent holiday chaos before it starts. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:  • How to set expectations with guests before they arrive  • Simple scripts that stop people from correcting or confusing your pets  • How to create a calm zone that reduces holiday stress for everyone A little planning goes a long way toward keeping your holidays calm and keeping your pets happy, safe, and understood.  ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Don't Be THAT Person: How To Be a Great Houseguest When You Bring Your Pets Along Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    7 min
  7. 11/30/2025

    Is Your Child Really Ready for a Pet? 6 Signs You Can’t Ignore

    Are you wondering whether your child is actually ready for a pet, or are they just deep in the “please please please” phase? Most parents hear “Can we get a dog?” on loop, but pet parenting isn’t as simple as saying yes. When kids aren’t truly ready, it can create pet behavior issues, safety concerns, and a whole lot of pet care stress for the adults. In today’s episode, parenting expert and children’s book creator Dori Durbin joins me to break down six signs of true pet readiness so families can make confident decisions before bringing a new pet home. This conversation gives you practical pet help you can actually use, especially if you want to avoid common pet behavior problems in those early weeks. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: • Emotional Control: Why kids need to regulate big feelings and excitement before adding a new pet to the family • Respect for Boundaries: How understanding personal space and basic animal body language keeps kids and pets safe • Realistic Responsibility: What age-appropriate responsibility looks like and how to tell whether your child can consistently follow through with daily pet care • Empathy: How helping kids connect a pet’s needs to real-life experiences builds long-term commitment and better pet behavior outcomes • Handling Frustration With Support: Why kids must be able to manage frustration when pets don’t cooperate, especially during training or behavior hiccups • Family Readiness: How family routine, stability, and financial capacity shape success more than your child’s excitement alone If you’re trying to decide whether your child is ready for a dog or cat, this episode gives you clear pet advice, next steps, and practical ways to prepare your home for a calmer, safer experience with family pets. CONNECT WITH DORI DURBIN Website | www.doridurbin.com Podcast | That’s Good Parenting: Episode with Amy on What Parents Should Know Before Getting a Pet Support the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    33 min
  8. 11/23/2025

    Pet Bills Keep Surprising You? Here’s How to Plan

    Are pet costs sneaking up on you every month? Instead of scrambling when a vet or food bill hits, what would change if you planned for every common expense ahead of time? Most pet parents underestimate costs because they do not track them, then feel stressed or guilty when money gets tight. In this conversation with Certified Financial Planner Joe Okaly, you'll learn simple pet cost hacks to treat pet expenses like any other recurring life cost, so you can be prepared, confident, and calm when bills arrive. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: • The first step to get ahead of pet expenses without overwhelm • How to choose a payment approach you can stick with, insurance, self-fund, or a mix • Why “pay yourself first” works and how to automate a pet fund even on a budget to prepare for routine vet visits and even emergency vet trips • A quick annual checkup routine to adjust your plan as your pet ages Our challenge for you: Set up one automatic transfer today, even $5, into a separate “Pet Fund” account and rename it so you will not touch it.And hey! We want to know how you're doing, so share one small change you are making after this episode inside the Pet Parent Hotline Insiders Facebook Group to help other listeners do the same. CONNECT WITH JOE Insta:https://www.instagram.com/joe.okaly.finance/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61571485276280LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-p-okaly-733b6b90/Resources: www.thefinancialpinwheel.comNew Horizons Wealth Management:www.nhwmllc.comGet Joe's Book:https://www.amazon.com/Financial-Pinwheel-Building-Perpetual-Machine-ebook/dp/B0DJG2FH3LSupport the show Love the show? Share it with someone navigating the chaos of pet parenting, and please leave a 5-star review so others can find the pet advice they need. Follow:🌍Official Site |📱Facebook |📺YouTube | 🍏 Apple |🎵Spotify Pet parenting gets overwhelming fast, especially with behavior issues, rising costs, and conflicting pet advice. This show gives you pet care solutions, pet behavior help, and pet budgeting tips you can use right away. Each week we bring you pet parenting advice plus expert guidance on dog and cat behavior, dog training, nutrition, stress-free vet visits, and routines that make life easier. We also tackle challenges from puppy biting to cat anxiety, emergency vet decisions, hidden hazards, and how to stay ahead of the everyday problems that create stress for pets and their pet parents. No fluff, no guilt, just practical pet advice and specific tools that save money and help you enjoy a calmer home and life with pets. Follow so you can stop chasing your tail and start enjoying your pets again. Contact: Amy@petparenthotline.com ©Ⓟ 2025 Amy Castro ...

    31 min

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Feeling overwhelmed by your pet’s behavior or the cost of keeping them healthy and cared for every day? You thought a pet would be the perfect addition to your life. Instead, your bank account’s drained, your dog won’t stop barking, your cat’s peeing everywhere, and your house is such a disaster you can’t have friends over. You’ve paid for trainers, followed your vet’s advice, and you’re still up at 2 a.m. scrolling for answers and wondering how long you can keep trying to meet everyone’s needs while ignoring your own. Many podcasts talk about caring for animals like you’ve got endless time, money, and a perfectly behaved golden retriever straight out of a Disney movie. This one doesn’t. It’s for real people who love their pets and need real help with pet behavior, their budget, and the mayhem without losing their minds or giving up. This isn’t just about helping your pets, it’s about helping you communicate clearly, set boundaries, and advocate for your pet’s needs and your own. I’m your host, Amy Castro, longtime industry pro, animal rescuer, and trusted advisor to thousands of families looking for practical pet behavior help and support. I teach pet parents the communication and advocacy skills that make everything easier, from vet visits to behavior conversations to setting boundaries at home. After fostering more than 4,000 animals and helping their people go from overwhelmed to capable and confident, I’ve learned one thing: you’re not a bad pet parent, you just haven’t gotten advice tailored to your real life. Each week, I answer your questions and break down expert insights on everything from common pet behavior mistakes and litter box trouble to saving money on vet bills and everyday expenses. On the First Wednesday of each month, I'll drop you a Pet Parent Power-Up -  a short, under-10-minute episode designed to give you a quick boost of clarity, confidence, and calm. These mini episodes focus on the human side of pet parenting, helping you communicate better, advocate for your pet and yourself, and make everyday decisions with less stress and more control. Think of it as a monthly power-up for your mindset, your routines, and your sanity. You’ll walk away with bite-sized steps that actually work for your budget, your schedule, and your perfectly imperfect pets. So you can stop chasing your tail and finally enjoy your animals, and your life, again. Start with the episode that matches what you’re dealing with today, and let’s make things easier together.

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