56 episodes

Is stepmomming the most challenging thing you’ve ever done in your life? If so, you’re in the right place!
Welcome to the Stepmomming Made Easy podcast, where your host, Certified Stepparent Coach Kristen Skiles will ensure you never feel alone on this stepmom journey again. We’ll never be able to predict every stressor or struggle you could anticipate as a stepmom, but each week, you’ll learn new tools and techniques to prioritize your peace. Tune in for your weekly dose of validation, inspiration, and step-by-step guidance to build a stepmom life you love.

Stepmomming Made Easy Kristen Skiles

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 49 Ratings

Is stepmomming the most challenging thing you’ve ever done in your life? If so, you’re in the right place!
Welcome to the Stepmomming Made Easy podcast, where your host, Certified Stepparent Coach Kristen Skiles will ensure you never feel alone on this stepmom journey again. We’ll never be able to predict every stressor or struggle you could anticipate as a stepmom, but each week, you’ll learn new tools and techniques to prioritize your peace. Tune in for your weekly dose of validation, inspiration, and step-by-step guidance to build a stepmom life you love.

    EP 54: Unpacking the Double Standard Between Moms and Stepmoms

    EP 54: Unpacking the Double Standard Between Moms and Stepmoms

    Sometimes as a stepmom, you're damned if you do, and damned if you don't. And a big reason for that, is because of the double standard between moms and stepmoms. There is an underlying—often misguided—prejudice in our society that stepmoms are less than "real" moms, and today, we're going to break this double standard wide open.Stepmoms are not less than "real" moms, or anyone else. This is an archaic notion, and it's time for us to rewrite the narrative!Ready to create a stepmom life you lov...

    • 13 min
    EP 53: 3 Tips for Taking Back Control as a Stepmom

    EP 53: 3 Tips for Taking Back Control as a Stepmom

    When I first became a stepmom, I felt like everyone else (my partner, my stepdaughter, and my partner’s ex-wife) had more control over my life than I did, and it drove me WILD. Today, I’m happy to report, I have firmly taken back control and am happier than ever, and I want the same for you, stepmom. So, here are 3 very tangible ways to take back control as a stepmom!Links Mentioned:Listen to EP 28: Why I Think “Keep the Peace” is S****y Advice: https://stepmomming.com/ep-28-why-i-think-keep-...

    • 13 min
    EP 52: 5 Challenges Stepmoms Face (& What To Do!) with Dr. Patricia Papernow

    EP 52: 5 Challenges Stepmoms Face (& What To Do!) with Dr. Patricia Papernow

    Stepparenting is not hard because you're doing it wrong. Stepparenting is hard because it's an entirely different family structure and dynamic than we've experienced before. Today, I'm joined by arguably the foremost expert on stepfamily dynamics, Dr. Patricia Papernow, to discuss 5 challenges stepfamilies face. We're normalizing the challenges you struggle with and talking all about what works and what doesn't work!Dr. Patricia Papernow is an internationally recognized expert on stepfamilies...

    • 52 min
    EP 51: 3 Tips to Make Transition Day Easier

    EP 51: 3 Tips to Make Transition Day Easier

    Transition Day can be SO challenging for stepmoms! Stepchildren often have a difficult time making the switch from one house to another, and act out in emotional ways. It makes stepmoms around the world dread transition day!In today's episode, I'm sharing 3 tips to make transition day easier! Set yourself and your stepchildren up for success with these tips, and you'll find that transition day isn't one to dread anymore!Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Ways to Be...

    • 11 min
    EP 50: Adding An Ours Baby with Kimberly King

    EP 50: Adding An Ours Baby with Kimberly King

    One of the biggest, most challenging transitions that stepmoms can make is adding a baby to their blended family. Today, Kimberly King joins me to discuss her experience and best tips for stepmoms who are preparing to add an "ours baby" to the family! We're answering all of your burning questions, like:How do you prepare your stepchildren for adding a baby to the family?Do you need to tell the ex you're expecting?Did your love for your stepchildren (or perception of that love) change after ha...

    • 37 min
    EP 49: Shitty Advice for Stepmoms from Well-Meaning Therapists

    EP 49: Shitty Advice for Stepmoms from Well-Meaning Therapists

    So many stepmom clients I work with have tried therapy before coaching, and the advice they get from well-meaning therapists who aren't trained in blended families actually does more harm than good. Maybe you've heard this advice before too, or maybe you'll be just as shocked by some of it as I was. Regardless, I want you to know that you deserve a stepmom life you love.This is a safe space for stepmoms. I want you to feel validated and comforted here.Ready to create a stepmom life you love? ...

    • 10 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
49 Ratings

49 Ratings

WB16 ,

Topics and Vocabulary I Didn’t Know I Needed!

As a new stepmom you see and have feelings you can’t quite define - this podcast helps me wrap my head around what I am seeing and feeling. It is great to feel seen and know I’m not alone❤️

tiarrak1 ,

Highly Recommend ! ✨

I’ve been listening to this podcast almost since the beginning and I think it’s fantastic! The advice Kristen gives, the guests she speaks with and the topics she decides to approach always have my interest as a stepmom of almost 6 years! It’s always thoughtful and tangible advice and you know you’ll feel seen or heard with each episode.

I highly recommend this podcast to any stepmom who’s struggling or just wants to hear another more affirming perspective. Kristen is kind and real, the delivery is comforting and it’s been awesome listening to. I enjoy seeing the evolution of her podcast and her podcasting style over time. I can’t wait for the next season and I hope you give it listen. Add it to your weekly podcasts, and then go out and share with a stepmom friend, your partner or a bio mom who may need to hear this perspective!! You won’t regret it! ✨

jenn Lehou ,

THIS! All of this!

I have been a full time stepmom to 4 children for the last 10 years. While I certainly had some struggles early on, it’s the teen years I am really finding challenging. I can absolutely relate to all the emotions you express. But the 5 Things I Want My Partner to Know NAILED everything I’ve been wanting to express to my partner but couldn’t put into words THANK YOU! Would love an episode on parenting teens.

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