Still Holding Hands

Tim & Chris Peterson
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We’re Tim and Chris Peterson, and after four decades of marriage, we’re Still Holding Hands. Not because everything has always been easy—but because we’ve learned to stay connected through every season. Still Holding Hands is more than a name; it’s a reminder that marriage is built one small, intentional choice at a time. This channel is about honest conversations, faith, and practical encouragement to help couples keep choosing each other—no matter where they are in their journey.”

  1. 2h ago

    Adam, Where Art Thou? The Hidden Cost of Being Absent In Your Marriage & Family

    Adam, where art thou? That question from Genesis 3:9 still echoes today—and it may be one of the most important questions a husband can answer. You can be home and still be absent. You can provide financially, work hard, love your family, and still be emotionally, spiritually, and relationally disconnected from the people who need you most. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim and Chris Peterson take an honest, biblical look at the hidden cost of being absent in your marriage and family. Focusing especially on husbands, we explore what happened when Adam was physically present but spiritually passive—and what his story can teach today's husbands about showing up, taking responsibility, and loving their wives well. Genesis 3:9 (NKJV) Genesis 3:6 (TPT) Romans 5:19 (Good News Translation - GNT) Ephesians 5:25 (MSG) Hebrews 13:5 (CSB) Joshua 1:5 (CSB) Proverbs 18:13 (MSG) James 1:22 (NKJV) Joshua 24:15 (CSB) YouTube clip "Move One Step Forward" https://youtube.com/shorts/-NGw3j7o8RQ?si=fJGUameTrZsjkBP0 STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Show up Adam Challenge! Leave work at workGive your wife & children your full attentionDinner as a family at least 3x this week (take out is fine!)No TVNo Screen timeMeaningful dinner discussion: question examplesWhat was the best part of your day?What felt heavy/hard today?How can I love you better this week?or, make up your own questionsHere are a couple of resources to buy to helpFamily Life Convo Cards https://shop.familylife.com/product/convo-playing-cards-couples-edition/Tales Conversation Cards https://tales.com/Pray over your wife & kidsThank God for themAsk God to bless themHold your wife's hand (literally)This physical touch can/will connect you as a couple On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "What's the score? How to always win together in your marriage! " If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #Husband #ChristianHusband #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriagePodcast #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageAndFamily #Genesis3 #AdamWhereAreYou #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #MarriageGoals #HusbandLeadership #ChristianFamily #MarriageHelp

  2. Aug 12

    Is Comparison Quietly Killing Your Marriage - The Bible Cure For The Comparison Trap

    What if one of the biggest threats to your marriage isn't conflict, money, or communication—but comparison? In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim and Chris Peterson take an honest look at how comparison can quietly steal joy, intimacy, gratitude, and connection from your marriage. In a world filled with picture-perfect couples, romantic vacations, beautiful homes, happy families, and carefully edited social media posts, it's easy to look at someone else's marriage and wonder, "Why don't we have what they have?" But here's the problem: you're comparing your real marriage to someone else's highlight reel. Comparison can turn admiration into dissatisfaction, gratitude into resentment, and a healthy desire to grow into the belief that your marriage isn't good enough. And when you begin measuring your spouse, your relationship, your finances, your intimacy, or your family against someone else's, you can slowly lose sight of the unique marriage God has entrusted to you. Proverbs 14:30 (NLT) 2 Corinthians 10:3-6 (MSG) Galatians 6:4-5 (NLT) Matthew 14:22-32 (NKJV) Hebrews 12:2 (TPT) Proverbs 4:23 (NLT) Ephesians 4:29 (NLT) STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Every day this week, take 15 minutes to recognize & celebrate something great about your spouse/marriage One day this week, put your phone down.  Take a break from social media & scrolling Take a walk Cook dinner together Work on a puzzle Sit on the deck  Every day this week, pray together asking God to help you avoid the comparison trap  On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "Adam, where art thou? - The Hidden Cost of Being Absent in Your Marriage & Family"  If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #ChristianCouples #MarriageProblems #MarriageHelp #Comparison #ComparisonTrap #SocialMediaAndMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianMarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast

  3. Aug 5

    Who Wrote The Book Of Love - A Still Holding Hands Look at 1 Corinthians 13

    What if everything you've been taught about love is incomplete? The world says love is a feeling. Movies tell us it's chemistry. Social media says it's finding the right person. But God gives us a completely different picture in 1 Corinthians 13—a love that isn't based on emotions but on daily choices, selfless actions, and the transforming power of Christ. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim and Chris Peterson take a fresh look at what many call the greatest love chapter ever written and discover why God is the true Author of the "Book of Love." Together, you'll unpack the timeless truths of 1 Corinthians 13 and learn how biblical love can strengthen your marriage, deepen your friendship, and help you build a relationship that reflects the love of Jesus. "Love Is A Decision" Gary Smalley and John Trent https://a.co/d/0ePVmQeY John 13:34-35 (CSB) 1 Corinthians 13:1-8;13 Ephesians 4:2 (TPT) Ephesians 4:32 (TPT) James 3:16 (CSB) Philippians 2:3-4 (TPT) John 3:16-17 (NKJV) 1 Timothy 2:4 (NKJV) James 4:6 (TPT) Proverbs 15:1 (TPT) Mark 10:45 (CSB) James 1:19-20 (TPT) Colossians 3:13 (TPT) Ephesians 4:14 (NLT) Romans 5:5 (TPT) American's Family Coaches - Dr. Gary & Barb Rosberg https://www.youtube.com/@DrGaryAndBarb "The Proof of Your Love" - For King & Country https://youtu.be/b-2dKOfbC9c?si=hy3nT3HRBywrDXvF "Portrait of Love" - Billy Crockett https://youtu.be/o2eqXtKeYTo?si=Pz19HtpSd8baytYQ&t=64 STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: The Love Chapter 7 Day Challenge   Day 1:  Read 1 Cor 13 together Day 2:  Each choose 1 characteristic of love to intentionally practice Day 3:  Ask how can I love you better this week (don't defend, just listen) Day 4:  Serve your spouse without announcing it Day 5:  Tell your spouse 1 reason that you are thankful for them Day 6:  Pray together verses 4-7-Ask God to grow these qualities in both of you Day 7:  Go on a simple date…no phones.  End the day (clothing optional) reading 1 Cor 13:13.  Pray together for your future  On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "Is Comparison Quietly Killing Your Marriage-The Bible cure for the Comparison Trap"  If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #BiblicalLove #1Corinthians13 #MarriageAdvice #FaithAndMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageGoals #StillHoldingHands

  4. Jul 29

    How To Stay United When Your Faith Journey Looks Different

    What do you do when one spouse seems spiritually stronger than the other? In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim and Chris Peterson explore one of the most common—and often unspoken—challenges in Christian marriage: navigating seasons when one spouse is growing spiritually faster than the other. Whether you're longing for your spouse to pray with you, attend church more consistently, or take greater spiritual leadership, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical encouragement, and hope without guilt or comparison. Discover how to encourage rather than pressure, pray instead of criticize, and create an environment where spiritual growth can flourish together. You'll learn practical ways to strengthen your marriage while honoring each other's unique faith journey, along with this week's Still Holding Hands Challenge to help you intentionally support your spouse's walk with Christ. Romans 14:13 (CSB) Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV) Hebrews 10:24 (TPT 1 Peter 2:12 (TPT) Galatians 6:2 (NIV) YouVersion Bible for Device: Get wherever you go to get apps for your device Check them out at: https://www.youversion.com/ Bible Study (to be used with your YouVersion App) from The Bible Project: God's Eternal Love https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22466 STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: The "Pray, Encourage, Celebrate" Challenge (plus one more!) Pray  Spend five minutes each day praying specifically for your spouse's spiritual life—not asking God to make them more like you, but more like Jesus.  Start a Devo together  The Bible Project-there are lots of great ones…."God's Eternal Love" suggestion  Encourage  Speak one genuine affirmation about something you see God doing in their life.  Celebrate  If your spouse takes even one small spiritual step this week, celebrate it instead of evaluating it.  At the end of the week, ask each other:  - "How did you feel most encouraged by me spiritually this week?"    On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "Who Wrote the Book of Love? A Still Holding Hands look at 1 Corinthians chapter 13" If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Let us know where you are listening/watching from, whether it is a City and State in the US or a Country outside of America. Let's add to the count of countries! Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #BiblicalMarriage #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianCouples #MarriageEncouragement #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #ChristCenteredMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageCommunication #MarriageAdvice

  5. Jul 22

    Still Holding Hands Through Hard Seasons- Finding Strength Together In Marriage

    Every marriage will face difficult seasons—but those seasons don't have to pull you apart. Whether you're navigating financial stress, job loss, illness, grief, infertility, parenting challenges, ministry pressures, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, there is hope. In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim and Chris Peterson share practical, biblical wisdom on how to find strength together in marriage when life gets hard. Discover why the strongest marriages aren't those that avoid storms—they're the ones that learn to walk through them hand in hand with Christ at the center. John 10:10 Matthew 7:24-27 3 John:2 Hebrews 13:8 Ephesians 6:12 Galatians 6:2 Ephesians 4:6-7 Romans 5:13 Psalms 23 James 1:19 (MSG) Nehemiah 8:10 STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: 30 minutes of uninterrupted time together Pray together Each spouse will ask themselves the following questions & give the answers to their spouse Here is what feels heavy & is what is the hardest part of this season for me What is one way that you have helped me that I haven't thanked you for? Each spouse will ask the other What can do to support you this week? Speak words of encouragement over your spouse & your marriage "We are going to make it!" "We are still holding hands & I'm not letting go!"  Gal 6:9 (NIV)  "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."  On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "How To Stay United When Your Faith Journey Looks Different" If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Rate & Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #BiblicalMarriage #ThroughTheStorm #ChristianCouples #MarriageEncouragement #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #ChristCenteredMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageCommunication #MarriageAdvice

  6. Jul 15

    When 2 Become 3 - Protecting Your Marriage When Starting A Family

    Bringing your first baby home is one of life's greatest blessings—but it can also become one of the biggest adjustments your marriage will ever face. Sleepless nights, new responsibilities, shifting priorities, and the demands of parenthood can leave even the strongest couples feeling disconnected. In this episode of the Still Holding Hands Podcast, Tim and Chris Peterson share practical, biblical wisdom on how to protect your marriage while embracing the incredible journey of becoming parents. Drawing from over 40 years of marriage and raising a family together, they discuss how to intentionally keep your relationship strong as your family grows. You'll discover: How to keep your marriage the foundation of your growing family.Why communication becomes even more important after your first child arrives.Practical ways to stay emotionally, spiritually, and physically connected.How to navigate changing roles and expectations with grace.Biblical principles for building a healthy Christian family without losing each other in the process.Whether you're expecting your first baby, navigating the newborn stage, or preparing to grow your family, this conversation will encourage you to keep holding hands through one of marriage's biggest transitions. Psalms 127:3-5 (TPT) Children are God’s love-gift; they are heaven’s generous reward.  Children born to a young couple will one day rise to protect and provide for their parents.   Happy will be the couple who has many of them! A household full of children will not bring shame on your name but victory when you face your enemies, for your offspring will have influence and honor to prevail on your behalf!  Life's Priorities: Your Relationship with GodYour Relationship with your Spouse Kids Church Work STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: The Us before busy challenge  Choose 1 evening where you intentionally connect after the baby/kid(s) go to bed OR the house is quiet Have 30-60 minutes of uninterrupted time No conversations about kids, work Ask each other "What has been the hardest part of this season for you?" Ask each other "What can I do to help/support you in this season?" Ask each other "How can I make you feel loved?" Ask "What is one thing we can look forward to as a couple?" Pray together over each other, your children & ask God to help you to protect your marriage  On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "Still Holding Hands Through Hard Seasons - Finding Strength Together in Marriage" f you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Rate & Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #MarriageAfterBaby #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageEncouragement #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #ChristCenteredMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageCommunication #MarriageAdvice

  7. Jul 8

    Growing Older Without Growing Apart - How To Stay Best Friends For Life! (Anniversary Week!)

    What does it take to build a marriage that lasts 40 years? In this special anniversary episode of Still Holding Hands, we celebrate four decades of marriage by sharing the biblical principles, practical lessons, and everyday choices that have helped our relationship grow stronger through every season. Whether you're newly married or have been together for years, discover Christian marriage advice on lasting love, friendship, communication, faith, forgiveness, and staying connected as you build a Christ-centered marriage that stands the test of time. Proverbs 17:22 (Christian Standard Bible - CSB) 1 Corinthians 7:3-4 (CSB & MSG) Mark 10:9 (MSG) Book: "Boundaries" - Dr. Henry Cloud and John Townsend https://www.boundariesbooks.com/pages/free-boundaries-resources Song (didn't discuss, but a good one!) - "Always Remember You Young" - Thomas Rhett https://youtu.be/f5pHiXBt8UU?si=BMh5xhTESwDulo00 STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Hold hands every day this week Pray together Hold hands when praying Thank God for your spouse Ask him to strengthen your friendship & your marriage Thank God for every year behind you…. And every year that is ahead Be intentional with your uninterrupted time together and/or plan a date During this time together ask each other these questions What is one of your favorite memories of us? What do you appreciate about me? What is something new you would like to experience together? How can I be a better friend to you?  On the Next STILL HOLDING HANDS: "When 2 become 3 - Protecting Your Marriage When Starting A Family." If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Rate & Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #AnniversayEpisode #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageEncouragement #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #ChristCenteredMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageCommunication #ChristianLiving #MarriageAdvice

  8. Jul 1

    Fruit Snacks for Couples - How the Fruit of the Spirit Can Transform Your Marriage

    Can the Fruit of the Spirit really transform your marriage? In this episode of Still Holding Hands, Tim & Chris explore how the powerful truths of Galatians 5:22-23 can strengthen communication, deepen intimacy, reduce conflict, and help couples build a Christ-centered marriage that thrives. Join us as we discuss how love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control are more than spiritual qualities—they are practical relationship tools that can change the way husbands and wives interact every day. Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, you'll discover how allowing the Holy Spirit to work in your life can create healthier patterns, stronger connections, and a more fulfilling Christian marriage. Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT & TPT) Matthew 7:3-5 (TPT) Ephesians 2:17 (NKJV) Proverbs 31:10-31 "The Virtuous Wife" (NKJV) Proverbs 18:21 (NKJV) Romans 12:2 (NKJV) Song: VBS Song, "The Fruit of the Spirit" https://youtu.be/PR5OLu7xkvo?si=wQxkHqoQme7Bkyeo STILL HOLDING HANDS CHALLENGE: Fruit Focus  Read Galatians 5:22-23 together OUT LOUD every day Pray & ask God what fruit of the Spirit do you need to grow in right now Choose one fruit & work on it that week Each day pray for growth in that area Every day intentionally practice that fruit with your spouse When reading the scripture with each other, share an example of the fruit At the end of the week, ask each other what fruit had the greatest impact in our marriage this week? In me?  In you? Remember the goal isn't perfection, it's becoming more like Jesus together!  On the Next Still Holding Hands: IT'S ANNIVERSARY WEEK! 40! "Growing Older Without Growing Apart - How To Stay Best Friends For Life" If you enjoyed today's episode, here's how you can help us:  Like Us:  Subscribe where you listen/watch podcast Love Us:  Leave a rating, review, comment & share with someone else Email Us: TimandChrisPeterson@gmail.com  Remember, strong Christian marriages aren’t shaped by perfection, but by perseverance, faith, and the commitment to KEEP HOLDING HANDS.  Until next time..... #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #FruitOfTheSpirit #Galatians52223 #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianCouples #MarriageEncouragement #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StillHoldingHands #StillHoldingHandsPodcast #ChristCenteredMarriage #HealthyMarriage #MarriageCommunication #ChristianLiving #MarriageAdvice #

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We’re Tim and Chris Peterson, and after four decades of marriage, we’re Still Holding Hands. Not because everything has always been easy—but because we’ve learned to stay connected through every season. Still Holding Hands is more than a name; it’s a reminder that marriage is built one small, intentional choice at a time. This channel is about honest conversations, faith, and practical encouragement to help couples keep choosing each other—no matter where they are in their journey.”

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  • Creator
    Tim & Chris Peterson
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    22
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    © 2026 Tim & Chris Peterson