A Stogie for the Road

Shawn Dirksen aka Stogie

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A Stogie for the Road Raw. Real. Redeemed. A Stogie for the Road is a no-fluff podcast for men who’ve been through hell and are ready to rise. Hosted by a man who lost it all and built it back, this show dives into mental health, masculinity, fatherhood, addiction, and finding purpose — one hard conversation at a time. Light up, tune in, and walk the road toward something better.

JAN 11

Since when did relationships need a jury to survive ?

This episode is about ownership — the kind that doesn’t come from blame, excuses, or public explanations. I talk honestly about where I handed my power away, how outside voices influenced decisions that weren’t theirs to make, and what it looks like to stop defending yourself and start fixing what actually matters. This isn’t about calling anyone out. It’s about calling myself forward. In a culture that encourages quick exits, loud opinions, and constant judgment, this conversation explores why repair is harder than walking away — and why it’s worth it. I share what changed when I stopped outsourcing my judgment, stopped recruiting opinions, and started taking full responsibility for how I show up in my life and relationships. If you’ve ever felt pulled in too many directions by advice, pressure, or noise — this episode is a reminder that ownership is quiet, clarity is internal, and growth begins when you choose to stand where you actually live the consequences.

51 min
12/27/2025

What This Year Took From Me — And What It Gave Back

This isn’t a highlight reel or a motivational speech. It’s an honest end-of-year reckoning. In this episode of A Stogie for the Road, I break down what this last year actually took from me — the illusions, relationships, and versions of myself that couldn’t come forward — and what it gave back in return: clarity, boundaries, discipline, and responsibility. We talk about why men repeat the same year, the quiet weight they carry, the danger of “good enough,” and the decision that makes a year matter. If this year broke you in places, it doesn’t mean it failed you. It might mean it prepared you. Listen carefully. And don’t carry this into next year.

41 min
12/19/2025

RAISING THE MAN . A podcast about the unknowing boys and the unfinished men .

Most boys are not broken. They’re unfinished. They grow up without instruction, without initiation, and without a clear understanding of what responsibility actually looks like. So they drift — distracted, anxious, reactive — mistaking noise for strength and comfort for meaning. This podcast is about the slow, demanding work of becoming someone solid.

1h 1m
12/05/2025

THE MOSTER WE HAVE TRAINED, AND WHY WE CAN NEVER LET HIM OUT AGAIN

Today we talk about the biggest fight against our biggest enemy .........OURSELVES!!!!

50 min
11/30/2025

When the people love Become the people you escape .

Men die every day from family that eat them alive inside and out. Stogie talks about this and everything in between. You are not going to want to miss this.

38 min
11/28/2025

The great 5 month stall of 2025

Why so quiet ? oh ill tell ya why . you know Stogie may get quiet but it never stays that way . tune and see what has happened and what is next .

32 min
07/18/2025

SIT DOWN B%TCH BOY..... MEN ARE TALKING

Tonight stoge goes off on the beta male masses the are everywhere !!! They have no idea of what is coming as stogie rains down an air strike against them . Sit back RELAX and listen to the soothing sounds of Stogie let them have it while enjoying a premium hand rolled cigar .

44 min
07/16/2025

Weak men, Loud World : Why Adversity is the Test You Were Built For

This one ain’t for the faint of heart. In a world full of excuses, victimhood, and men hiding behind comfort, this episode delivers a ruthless wake-up call. We’re diving into why so many men have gotten soft — and how adversity isn’t your enemy… it’s your invitation to rise. I’ll walk you through hard stats, real talk, and my own personal hell — raising kids that aren’t mine while standing beside a woman healing from abuse — not for pity, but to show you what standing the f**k up looks like. This episode isn’t about motivation. It’s about obligation. It’s about Brotherhood. And it’s about you. Listen in if you’re ready to stop bitching and start building.

43 min

4.4

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14 Ratings

A Stogie for the Road Raw. Real. Redeemed. A Stogie for the Road is a no-fluff podcast for men who’ve been through hell and are ready to rise. Hosted by a man who lost it all and built it back, this show dives into mental health, masculinity, fatherhood, addiction, and finding purpose — one hard conversation at a time. Light up, tune in, and walk the road toward something better.

Creator

Shawn Dirksen aka Stogie
Years Active

2023 - 2026
Episodes

39
Rating

Explicit
Copyright

© A Stogie for the road
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