Strong Ambition Podcast

Rhyland Qually

You know those people who hang out at the top? The kind of people who have an internal drive to excel at everything they do? Maybe it's sports. Maybe its' academics. Maybe it's a professional career. Whatever it is....each person has their own unique story about how they became who they are. The Strong Ambition podcast is all about having conversations with high-performers, and getting to the core of what drives their ambition, so that you can apply those same lessons to your own training, nutrition and mindset.

  1. 22H AGO

    #137 - Emotional Eating Part 1 - How we develop our coping patterns - with Megan Grimord

    Do you ever wonder why or how you developed your emotional eating habits? Do you think about how you’d want to raise your kids so they don’t struggle with the same issues? That’s exactly what Megan and I discussed this week. Megan has been on the show before (Episode 127), and we realized we needed to go deeper into emotional eating and how it’s impacted both of our lives. We didn’t even get to everything we wanted to cover, but this week we really focused on our own development and how we might influence our kids’ relationship with food. In this episode, we talk about: • What emotional eating actually looks like (not the cleaned-up version)• How different upbringings can lead to the same struggles• The quiet habits that follow you into adulthood without you realizing it• Why “fixing your diet” doesn’t fix your relationship with food• What changes when you finally stop avoiding the deeper stuff• Why forcing kids to clean their plates can backfire• How labeling foods as “good” or “bad” can really mess with them• The difference between making food normal vs. making it emotional• Letting kids have a choice without turning every meal into chaos• Why some of the habits we thought were harmless weren’t If you’ve ever said, “I don’t even know why I eat like this sometimes…” This will hit. Because it’s not just about food. It’s about where the pattern started and whether you’re willing to actually look at it. This is part 1, and we’ll be doing another emotional eating episode in the future. Find Megan on Instagram: @megan_grimord

    1h 17m
  2. APR 15

    #136 - I’ve been doing this wrong for years — Rhyland Qually

    I’m 42 days into eating “fun food” every day… and still losing weight. Which sounds simple when you say it like that. It’s not. This episode is basically me walking through what’s actually making it work this time — because I’ve done versions of this before where it didn’t work. And the difference isn’t motivation. It’s the details. Here are my 6 biggest lessons so far: 1. “I overeat” isn’t specific enough to fix anything. That was my default answer for a long time. But this time I had to actually call it out properly: I overeat high-protein baking because it feels “safe”I snack while cooking and don’t track itI get looser on weekends and pretend it evens outOnce you see the exact behavior, it’s way harder to ignore it. 2. If you’re going to eat something, make it worth it. I’ve had donuts during this. Some were great. Some were honestly a waste of calories. Same with cookies, chocolate, whatever. If you’re building your day around 300–700 calories of “fun food”… and it’s not actually that good? You feel it. You’d rather just not have eaten it. 3. Weekends will quietly wreck this if you don’t pay attention. This is where I’ve screwed up in the past. Friday night hits, and I'm a bit more relaxed. Meals become less structured. I'm out more. Around more food. It’s not one big binge. It’s just… everything’s a bit looser. And when I do this every single weekend, it's enough to stall things. 4. High-protein, “fun” meals change everything. This has probably been the biggest difference. Instead of just plugging in random treats, I’ve been building meals that are actually satisfying: homemade nachos with lean beef and Greek yogurtpizza with higher protein baseschili, salmon dinners, carrot cake that actually fills you upIt still feels like you’re eating well… but you’re not blowing through your calories in two bites. 5. Don’t cut out the stuff that keeps you healthy just to fit in treats. This one caught me off guard. I pulled back on things like strawberries, fruit, vitamin C… just to make more room for “fun food.” And then I got sick for the first time in like four years. Could be coincidence. Could not be. Either way, it was a pretty clear reminder: don’t trade your baseline health habits for short-term flexibility. 6. You don’t need to eat the whole thing. This sounds obvious. It’s not. Restaurants. Family dinners. Dessert. Chocolate. You can stop halfway. You can take it home. You can eat the rest tomorrow. You don’t need to finish it just because it’s there. And then there's one big fitness lesson I've had to relearn: When you’re injured, stop trying to be clever. I dealt with some sciatica during this. I tried to work around it with mobility, adjusting my exercises, all that. Then I got to a point where I was like, "What am I doing?" Go use machines, train what doesn’t hurt, and keep things moving. Not everything needs to be optimal. It just needs to be consistent. If You've ever: done well all week, then watched the weekend undo ittried to include treats but felt out of control with themovercomplicated fat loss to the point it’s exhaustingor had an injury and no clue how to train around itthis episode will be helpful for you. It’s not a “here’s what you should do.” It’s just what’s actually happening, in real time, while I’m doing it.

    1h 3m
  3. MAR 18

    #134 - You don't actually hate the gym — Amy Stroud Contreras

    If you've been avoiding going to the gym, it's probably not because you're lazy. Most people don’t avoid the gym because they’re lazy.They avoid it because they feel like they don’t belong there. That was Amy. She didn't have a sports background.Didn't like showing up to the gym. Tried all the diets. Fell off. Started over. Same loop. Now she coaches women (a lot of moms) who feel that exact same way. In this episode, we get into what actually changes when you stop trying to be perfect and just build something you can stick to. Because probably 99% of you reading this don't have a laziness problem. You have a problem with the broken way you've been taught to approach fitness. We get into: Why so many women think their “best body” is already behind themWhat fitness actually looks like when you’ve got kids and no timeWhy “I’ll find time later” never worksThe guilt around taking time for yourself (and why it’s backwards)How social media turns normal eating into a problemWhy calling food “good” or “bad” screws people upWhat beginners actually need (and what they don’t)Why having a plan matters more than motivationAnd why walking is still one of the best things you can doOne thing Amy said that stuck with me: Her whole message is basically: You’re not too late.You’re not too old.You’re not stuck. You’ve just been doing it in a way that doesn’t work. If you’ve ever felt behind, overwhelmed, or like you’re starting from scratch again — you’ll probably relate to this one. Find Amy on Instagram:​@amyrenefitness "There are seasons where you’re just trying to get through the day. That’s fine. But a lot of people stay there way longer than they need to."

    1h 6m
  4. MAR 4

    #133 - I’m eating Oreos for 100 days - Solo cast

    You don’t need to suffer to lose fat. I know that’s controversial. Because most people think if it doesn’t feel miserable, it’s not working. But allow me to prove that those people are wrong. In this solo episode, I’m doing something a little different. I’m committing to 100 days of eating some form of “fun food” every single day while still losing fat. Oreos.Pizza.Burgers.Candy.Whatever fits. Not because junk food is magical. And not because I’m trying to win the Cool Coach Award. But because fat loss isn’t about restriction. It’s about skill. And most of us don’t lack this skill — or discipline, for that matter.We lack structure. So in this episode, I break down exactly how I’m doing it: Leaving 300–700 calories open for something I actually enjoyLocking in protein first (two shakes a day, non-negotiable)Building lean meals around itEating enough fiberSlight calorie trades (almond milk swaps, sugar-free sauces, small stuff that adds up)Planning tomorrow before tomorrow shows up Simple does not mean easy. It takes planning.It takes appetite tolerance.It takes not panicking when you feel a little hungry. And that’s really what this episode is about. We also get into: How your metabolism actually works (in simple language)Why “micro, mezzo, and macro” yo-yo dieting keeps wrecking peopleWhy starving all week just to explode on the weekend isn’t a metabolism problemThe different ways your body burns calories (not just workouts)Why a good deficit should feel like “enough,” not “empty”Why maintenance is harder than fat lossAnd why planning beats motivation every single time I share where I'm personally at too — mobility wins, knee frustrations, maybe an MRI in my future — and how purposeful discomfort is different than self-punishment. There’s a big difference between: “I hate this but I deserve it.”​and​“This is uncomfortable, but it’s building something.” If you’ve been stuck in the Monday-to-Friday diet / Saturday blow-up cycle, this episode will probably call you out a little. In a good way. And if you want help building the skill instead of just trying harder, I opened a free Fun Food Fat Loss Facebook group where I’m sharing: My DIY fitness portalA meal plan generatorA metabolic calculatorWeekly accountabilityA place to practice this without getting overwhelmed This isn’t about eating cookies every day. It’s about being able to. Listen to the episode and tell me what you think. Join the Fun Food Fat Loss Group

    1h 24m
  5. FEB 18

    #132 - What the USDA food update means for us — Jesse Rosenthal

    The USDA updated its food pyramid — and most people missed what actually matters. So before you panic about carbs or seed oils... read this. The USDA increased protein recommendations. That’s a good thing. The saturated fat guidance stayed about the same.Whole foods are still prioritized over processed ones.Fruits and vegetables are still a must. But what most people missed is this: The average American still isn’t hitting baseline protein intake.Most people aren’t close to adequate fruit and vegetable intake.And almost nobody’s problem is “too many seed oils.”That’s what this conversation is about. I sat down with Jesse Rosenthal — an online fitness coach with 13+ years in the industry. We cover the updated USDA food guide… but not in a boring, policy-debate way. We talk about what it actually means for you. Because the bigger issue isn’t food dyes or ingredient lists. It’s unrealistic expectations, shiny-object programs, and quitting in week three because you’re sore and impatient. We get into: Why most people sabotage themselves with timeline pressureThe “bathtub model” of progress (and why month one feels worse)Why extreme diets go viral — and why they don’t lastThe real story behind the USDA’s protein recommendationsWhy 1 lb per week is boring… and undefeated“Everything in moderation” — and why that phrase misleads peopleHow 80/20 only works if you actually trackThe difference between balance and avoidanceWhy two years of consistency can undo decades of neglectHow to stop jumping programs and just let something workJesse’s whole philosophy is systems over motivation.If you’ve been stuck bouncing between carnivore, keto, detoxes, or the next viral plan — this episode is worth your time. Find Jesse on Instagram:​​@j​esserosenthalfitness

    1h 24m
  6. FEB 5

    #131 - Fat loss starts in your brain, not your fridge — Anna Murphey

    If your mindset runs the show… this episode hands you the remote. This is for anyone who's ever thought, "I know what to do — so why can't I do it?" This sit-down with Anna Murphey is one of the best conversations I’ve had about mindset — not just around food or fitness, but the deeper stuff:How you think, how you react, and how you talk to yourself when things go sideways. We didn’t just touch on macros or training programs — we dug into the internal patterns that shape everything. Because your mindset is the program. And if you’re constantly stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, guilt spirals, or identity labels like “I’m broken” or “I always screw this up”... it doesn’t matter what plan you follow. You’ll sabotage it. This is about how to stop doing that — with more compassion, better tools, and way less shame. We get into: Why mindset is the missing link in sustainable fat lossHow emotional eating can be healthy when it’s structured (donuts included)The “pause” — what it is, and how it builds self-trust fastIdentity work: how to stop calling yourself broken and start building someone newThe link between emotional maturity and long-term successStrength training as therapy — and what it teaches you about discomfortHow to stop moralizing food and start using it for fuel and joyWhat most diets miss about real-life consistencyWhy 80% effort wins over 100% pressureWhat to do when the old version of you won’t let go This episode will be MASSIVELY helpful for anyone stuck in a mental loop of “why can’t I just get it together?”​It’s not about working harder — it’s about thinking differently. Find Anna on Instagram: @commonsense.health

    1h 15m
  7. JAN 22

    #130 - Powerlifting for real life — Whiskey and Barbells episode

    This is a really common misunderstanding people have about powerlifting:They think it's all about "maxing out" and chasing medals. But the best powerlifters I know train to be better in life — not just for meets. In this in-person episode of Whiskey and Barbells, I sat down with my own coach, Kurtis Tallaire — a national-level powerlifter who's been in the game for over a decade, both as an athlete and a coach. Today, he trains athletes who are crushing international meets. Kurtis and I take a deeper, practical look at powerlifting principles — not just for competitors, but for the everyday lifter who wants strength that supports their life, their body, and their longevity. We get into: Why powerlifting is a mindset, not just a sportHow a strong squat looks different from a “textbook” squatThe right way (and wrong way) to use a weight beltStrength training vs. bodybuilding — and why they feel so differentProgressive overload and why it still worksHow to build strength without obsessing over your 1RMTraining principles that make workouts feel easier over timeThe importance of sleep and recovery for strength gainsSpecific cues for improving bench, squat, and deadliftCore strength tips to protect your backMy recent competition recap — what I’d do differently This episode is great if you care about getting stronger for real life — whether you train for performance, health, or just to feel powerful in your body. Find more from Kurtis on Instagram:​​@kurtis.t

    1h 51m

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You know those people who hang out at the top? The kind of people who have an internal drive to excel at everything they do? Maybe it's sports. Maybe its' academics. Maybe it's a professional career. Whatever it is....each person has their own unique story about how they became who they are. The Strong Ambition podcast is all about having conversations with high-performers, and getting to the core of what drives their ambition, so that you can apply those same lessons to your own training, nutrition and mindset.