StrongHER Voices

Ashley Basilio

StrongHER Voices is the podcast for women ready to step into their StrongHER Era with confidence, clarity, and community. Hosted by Ashley Basilio, certified menopause health coach and fitness professional, this show helps women 40+ understand their changing bodies, strengthen their mindset, and build a life that feels energizing and aligned. Each episode delivers honest conversations, expert interviews, and practical tools on topics like hormones, mindset, aging, body confidence, strength training, identity shifts, emotional well-being, and thriving through every season of womanhood. Whether you're navigating symptoms, seeking answers, or simply wanting to feel more like yourself again, StrongHER Voices gives you real guidance, relatable stories, and support you can trust. Because this isn’t a pause. It’s Power. 💛

  1. When Strong Women Start to Break: The Hidden Cost of Always Being the Strong One

    5D AGO

    When Strong Women Start to Break: The Hidden Cost of Always Being the Strong One

    If you've ever felt like you're holding it all together — but you're running on empty, silently stretched thin, and quietly wondering how much longer you can keep going — this episode is for you. Today, Ashley sits down with Michelle Govan — speaker, coach, and founder of Restore Your Roar — a movement dedicated to helping women reclaim their voice, confidence, and God-given purpose. She's also the co-owner of the Govan Group, where she works with leaders and organizations on training and transformation. She's a trusted voice in Ashley's community and has even led a vision-setting masterclass inside StrongHER Together. In this honest, faith-grounded conversation, Michelle shares her own story of breakdown and restoration, why chronic stress is the pandemic of our time, and what it actually looks like for strong women to stop enduring and start thriving. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and practical, expert-backed support. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women's wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ Welcome + how Ashley and Michelle first connected through the Chamber of Commerce  ✅ Michelle's story: a breaking point on Route 422, losing her voice, and what it took to get it back  ✅ What is Restore Your Roar — and why it came from lived experience, not a textbook  ✅ The hidden costs of being the "strong one" — emotional isolation, chronic stress, and losing touch with yourself  ✅ Why stress is the pandemic of the 21st century (and why we wear it like a badge of honor)  ✅ Practical easy wins: how to prioritize your to-do list, take off the superwoman cape, and delegate  ✅ The perfectionism trap — and why excellence doesn't have to mean perfect  ✅ Identity, performance, and why your worth is not tied to your to-do list  ✅ What to say to the woman who's about to break — Michelle's powerful closing message  ✅ How to find Michelle + what she offers through Restore Your Roar and the Govan Group -- 👥 Featured Guest Michelle Govan — speaker, certified coach, and founder of Restore Your Roar Ministries, a faith-based movement helping women reclaim their voice, confidence, and purpose. She is also the co-owner of the Govan Group, where she delivers stress management and leadership transformation through her "Calm is My Corporate Strategy" program. With a heart for women who've been carrying too much for too long, Michelle brings honesty, faith, and practical tools to help women move from striving to thriving. Connect with Michelle:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michelle.davisgovan  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michelledavisgovan/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mlgovan/   -- If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger — inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership:  👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/  💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox:  👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/  💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel:  👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/  📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/

    45 min
  2. High-Functioning, But Struggling: Anxiety, Midlife, and the Mental Load Women Carry

    MAR 30

    High-Functioning, But Struggling: Anxiety, Midlife, and the Mental Load Women Carry

    If you’ve ever been told “but you seem fine” — while inside you’re overthinking everything, carrying everyone’s needs, and running on fumes — this episode is for you. Today, Ashley sits down with Jaclyn Burwell, LCSW, founder of JHB Therapy, to unpack the often-invisible experience of high-functioning anxiety in midlife. They talk about why midlife can feel like a pressure cooker, how the invisible mental load quietly drains women, and why minimizing your struggles (“others have it worse”) actually keeps anxiety stuck. You’ll leave feeling seen, validated, and equipped with practical tools to create relief — without waiting until you “fall apart.” 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and practical, expert-backed support. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ What high-functioning anxiety really is — “anxiety that hides behind capability” ✅ Why midlife magnifies anxiety (hormones, sleep disruption, peak responsibilities) ✅ How identity shifts can create emotional pressure and self-doubt ✅ What the invisible mental load actually looks like in daily life — and why it’s exhausting ✅ Why resentment builds when you feel responsible for everything (even the “unseen” stuff) ✅ The connection between chronic stress/anxiety and physical health over time ✅ Why “others have it worse” is not helpful — and how it adds shame to anxiety ✅ A mindset shift: how validation calms the nervous system and creates relief ✅ Practical strategies to redistribute the mental load through communication and teamwork ✅ Jaclyn’s ACE grounding tool (Accept, Connect, Experience) to reduce anxiety in real time ✅ How to know when stress is tipping into “it’s time for support” -- 👥 Featured Guest Jaclyn Burwell, LCSW — Founder of JHB Therapy LLC. Jaclyn supports women in midlife who are navigating anxiety, burnout, identity shifts, and the emotional changes of perimenopause and menopause. Her approach is warm, direct, and practical — focused on helping women move from overwhelm and self-doubt to clarity, balance, and self-trust. Connect with Jaclyn: Website: https://www.jhbtherapy.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifewithjaclyn/  -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/  💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/  💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/  📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/  -- ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan.

    35 min
  3. When Menopause Comes Early: How to Rebuild After Surgical or Treatment-Induced Change

    MAR 16

    When Menopause Comes Early: How to Rebuild After Surgical or Treatment-Induced Change

    If you’ve ever felt blindsided by menopause — especially when it comes early, suddenly, or after surgery — and you’re left thinking, “Why didn’t anyone warn me?” this episode is for you. Today, Ashley sits down with Julie Parana (The Menopause OT) — occupational therapist, certified menopause coach, and women’s health educator — to talk about what really happens when menopause doesn’t follow the “normal” timeline. Julie shares her own experience of entering menopause after a hysterectomy (even with her ovaries intact), the confusing symptoms that came first, and the life-changing support and education that helped her feel like herself again. This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply validating — with clear steps you can take to advocate for your health and build a plan that supports both symptoms and long-term wellbeing. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and practical, expert-backed support. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. In this episode, we cover: ✅ How Ashley met Julie at the Philadelphia Conference for Women — and why “The Menopause OT” instantly stood out ✅ Julie’s personal story: hysterectomy, unexpected symptoms, and the moment she realized it was menopause ✅ The wide range of “surprise” symptoms that can show up before hot flashes — including brain fog, dizziness, rashes, joint/foot pain, and weight changes ✅ Why a hysterectomy can still impact ovarian function — even when ovaries are left intact — and how it can shift menopause earlier ✅ What surgical menopause is and why symptoms can feel more severe when hormones drop abruptly ✅ The problem with “wait and see” after ovary removal — and what a real post-surgery hormone plan should include ✅ How to find a menopause-informed provider (and what to look for in the directory) ✅ What to do if you’re told “you can’t take hormones” — the exact follow-up questions to ask and why “hormones” is not one-size-fits-all ✅ Where to start when everything feels overwhelming: Julie’s 3 foundations — sleep, nervous system regulation, and blood sugar stability ✅ Why hormone therapy can support long-term health (bone, heart, brain) — and why lifestyle still matters either way ✅ Julie’s resources for women navigating early, surgical, or treatment-induced menopause — including her free audio series and coaching options 👥 Featured Guest Julie Parana — occupational therapist, certified menopause coach, and founder of The Menopause OT. With over 20 years of experience helping adults navigate complex health challenges, Julie now supports women through the physical, emotional, and cognitive shifts of midlife — with a special focus on early, surgical, and treatment-induced menopause. Her approach is grounded, practical, and empowering, helping women feel informed and supported when their menopause journey doesn’t follow the “expected” path. Connect with Julie: Website: https://themenopauseot.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themenoot/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themenopauseot  Resources mentioned: The Menopause Society provider directory (look for the Certified Practitioner seal): https://menopause.org/  ISSWSH (International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health): https://www.isswsh.org/  @sarahgirlstrong Tai Chi Routine: https://www.sarahgirlstrong.com/videos/energizing-tai-chi  "Menopause Doesn't Have to Suck" Audio Guide: https://the-menopause-ot.kit.com/da610e33d2  Early, Surgical & Treatment Induced Menopause Newsletter: https://the-menopause-ot.kit.com/07dd5fd3b4  -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/  💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/  💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/  📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/  ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan.

    48 min
  4. Perimenopause and the Highly Sensitive Mom (on Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms)

    MAR 2

    Perimenopause and the Highly Sensitive Mom (on Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms)

    If you’ve been feeling more reactive, more forgetful, or like your “stress buffer” has disappeared — you’re not failing. In this episode of Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms, Ashley Basilio joins Leah Andreoni and Adrienne Bishop to break down what perimenopause really is, why it can hit highly sensitive moms especially hard, and what can actually help (without turning self-care into another full-time job). Ashley shares both the science and the real-life experience — from brain fog and sensory overload to the surprising upsides of this transition, like stronger boundaries and clearer priorities. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and practical, expert‑backed support.  Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate.  --  In this episode, we cover: ✅ What perimenopause actually is (and why menopause is technically just one day) ✅ Why symptoms vary so widely — and why it’s a “whole body takeover,” not just hot flashes ✅ How perimenopause impacts parenting: lowered patience, heightened stress response, faster emotional shifts ✅ Highly sensitive nervous systems + hormonal fluctuation: why overstimulation can feel relentless ✅ Brain fog and memory changes — and why it can feel scary (and what helps) ✅ Practical, realistic self-care: micro-resets, movement breaks, grounding, tapping, and sensory boundaries ✅ Why “doing less” is sometimes the most powerful form of self-care (simplifying, lowering expectations, reducing clutter) ✅ Hormone therapy basics, what to know, and why finding a menopause-informed provider matters ✅ Vaginal estrogen, bone health, and the long-term “why” behind getting support sooner rather than later ✅ The unexpected upsides of this season: clearer values, stronger boundaries, and more authenticity -- 💗 Meet Leah Andreoni and Adrienne Bishop: I’m honored to be featured on Leah and Adrienne’s podcast Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms for a meaningful conversation on perimenopause and the highly sensitive mom. Leah Andreoni is a licensed perinatal therapist and the founder of Rising Sun Therapy, and Adrienne Bishop is a parent coach and owner of Adrienne Bishop Coaching who supports sensitive parents with practical tools and grounded guidance. Together, they create such a safe, validating space for sensitive parents.  📌 Connect with Leah Andreoni and Adrienne Bishop:  https://www.risingsuntherapy.com/ https://www.adriennebishopcoaching.com/   https://www.adriennebishopcoaching.com/podcast-real-parenting-for-sensitive-moms/   Resources mentioned:  The Menopause Society: https://menopause.org/   The Menopause Brain: https://amzn.to/3ZBmw6J  -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/  💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/  💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/  📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/    -- ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan.

    57 min
  5. Hormone Truths & Midlife Myths: What You’re Not Being Told About Estrogen, Thyroid & Stress

    FEB 16

    Hormone Truths & Midlife Myths: What You’re Not Being Told About Estrogen, Thyroid & Stress

    If you’ve ever felt like your hormones are mysteriously sabotaging your life — leaving you tired, achy, irritable, or just “not yourself” — this episode is for you. Today, Ashley sits down with Marla Osner, NP, co‑owner of Eclipse Total Health, to break down hormone health in a way that finally feels clear, human, and hopeful. They talk about everything from hormone therapy myths and recent FDA updates to the foundational role of cortisol and thyroid health — and how women can walk away from this episode feeling informed, empowered, and equipped to take control of their wellbeing. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and practical, expert‑backed support. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ Marla’s personal hormone journey — and why she’s passionate about helping women feel seen in their symptoms ✅ What bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT) really is — and how it differs from synthetic hormones ✅ Why old hormone research created confusion — and what has changed with modern evidence and the removal of the FDA black box warning ✅ Why “normal” lab ranges don’t always equal optimal health ✅ The “hormone trio” — adrenals (cortisol), thyroid, and sex hormones — and why they must be viewed together ✅ Practical ways to support cortisol rhythms and your nervous system every day ✅ How to advocate for yourself when your provider says “your labs are normal” ✅ How hormone care can improve sleep, mood, weight, libido, and even relationships ✅ A reassuring message for women who feel like they’ve lost themselves -- 👥 Featured Guest Marla Osner, NP, DPT, CFNIP — Nurse Practitioner and co‑owner of Eclipse Total Health. Marla helps women ditch fatigue, fix hormone chaos, and finally feel human again by focusing on root‑cause medicine and honest, no‑nonsense conversations about hormone health. She blends clinical expertise with warmth and humor to help women step into midlife feeling strong, sexy, and unstoppable. Connect with Marla: Website: https://www.eclipsetotalhealth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eclipsetotalhealth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eclipsetotalhealthML Resources mentioned: The Menopause Society: https://menopause.org/ Podcast‑Exclusive Offer: Marla is offering $150 off first hormone package for StrongHER Voices listeners — ask about the StrongHER Voices podcast special when you contact Eclipse Total Health. -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/ -- 💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/ -- 💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/ -- 📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/   ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan. 00:00 Welcome & Marla’s Introduction 02:22 Marla’s Hormone Journey & Why She Started Eclipse Total Health 04:09 BHRT Explained: What Bioidentical Hormones Are & Why They Matter 09:45 HRT Study History & the Black Box Warning Update 13:14 How Hormones Affect Health Beyond Symptoms 15:59 The Hormone Trio: Adrenals, Thyroid, & Cortisol 18:55 Practical Ways to Support Your Cortisol & Circadian Rhythm 23:01 How to Advocate for Yourself with Healthcare Providers 31:06 Final Message: You Don’t Have to Feel ‘Off’ — There’s Hope 33:35 How to Connect with Marla & Special Offer

    37 min
  6. From Burnout to Balance: How to Stop Over-Giving and Start Living

    FEB 2

    From Burnout to Balance: How to Stop Over-Giving and Start Living

    If you’ve spent years being the one who shows up, supports everyone else, and keeps the peace — but lately, it’s all starting to feel too much — this episode is your reminder that you are not alone, and it’s okay to start putting yourself first. In this conversation, Ashley sits down with licensed perinatal therapist Leah Andreoni, founder of Rising Sun Therapy, to explore why people-pleasing patterns hit a breaking point in midlife — and how women can reclaim their time, energy, and sense of self with clarity and compassion. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and the honest, expert-backed support they deserve. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ Why people-pleasing patterns often intensify during perimenopause ✅ What happens when estrogen drops — and suddenly you start asking, “Why am I still doing this?” ✅ Signs you might be stuck in over-giving mode — and how it affects your relationships, energy, and identity ✅ Practical scripts and mindset shifts to start saying no with less guilt ✅ How understanding your personal values helps set better boundaries ✅ What to do with the guilt that creeps in when you finally prioritize yourself ✅ Why midlife is a powerful window to break old habits and choose a new way forward ✅ Leah’s personal and professional insights on supporting women through this transition ✅ One reframe that can help you feel more peace and less pressure in this next chapter -- 👥 Featured Guest Leah Andreoni has worked with families and mothers in various therapeutic capacities for over 20 years.  She now owns Rising Sun Therapy, a group wellness practice that serves teens and women with all transitions of life with a specialty in women's health.  Through personal and professional experience, Leah offers compassion, understanding, and expertise to support her clients through all of life's journeys.  This is where she uses community and connection to heal by providing a space clients feel seen, heard, and valued. Connect with Leah: Website: https://www.risingsuntherapy.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/leahandreoni/ Facebook (personal): https://facebook.com/leahandreoni/ Facebook (business): https://facebook.com/risingsuntherapy/ Podcast: https://realparentingforsensitivemoms.buzzsprout.com/ Book referenced: 12 Steps to Overcome People‑Pleasing by Trina Stutzman: https://amzn.to/3N4lNbc -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/ -- 💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/ -- 💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/ -- 📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/   ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan. 00:00 - Start 00:52 - Introduction and Leah’s Background 07:00 - Why People-Pleasing Peaks in Midlife 13:32 - Recognizing and Rewiring People-Pleasing Patterns 19:37 - Practical Tools for Boundaries and Communication 23:03 - Navigating Guilt and Shifting Identity 39:07 - Final Advice and How to Connect with Leah

    44 min
  7. Happiness Reimagined: How to Be Happy for No Reason in Midlife

    JAN 19

    Happiness Reimagined: How to Be Happy for No Reason in Midlife

    If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll be happy when things calm down” — this episode gently challenges that belief. In this heartfelt and uplifting conversation, Ashley sits down with happiness coach, speaker, and podcast host Jodi Silverman to explore what it really means to be Happy for No Reason — especially in midlife, when stress, loss, caregiving, and major transitions collide. Jodi shares her personal journey, the science behind happiness set points, and why joy isn’t something you wait for — it’s something you practice. Together, they unpack how stress robs women of happiness, why guilt often shows up when we prioritize joy, and how small, intentional habits can help women feel more resilient, grounded, and hopeful — even during hard seasons. This episode is a reminder that happiness doesn’t require perfect circumstances — and that choosing joy is not selfish, it’s necessary. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and the honest, expert-backed support they deserve. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ What Happy for No Reason actually means — and why happiness isn’t dependent on circumstances ✅ The concept of a happiness set point and how it influences your baseline mood ✅ Why happiness can be learned (and strengthened) at any stage of life ✅ The difference between toxic positivity and true emotional resilience ✅ How gratitude practices physically rewire the brain ✅ Contraction vs. expansion — and how stress keeps us stuck ✅ Why stress is one of the biggest thieves of joy in midlife ✅ Navigating guilt around happiness during caregiving, grief, and loss ✅ Why accepting reality is often the first step toward feeling better ✅ How menopause and midlife transitions can actually support emotional growth ✅ A simple “dare” you can try this week to reconnect with joy ✅ How to measure and track your happiness over time -- 👥 Featured Guest Jodi Silverman — Founder & Chief Dare Officer of Dare On with Jodi, happiness coach, speaker, and host of the Dare On with Jodi podcast. Jodi empowers midlife women to dare more, doubt less, and live fully by building emotional resilience, confidence, and joy — no matter their circumstances. Connect with Jodi: Website: https://jodisilverman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jodi_silverman/ Podcast: https://youtube.com/@BeyondEmptyNest   Resources referenced: Happy For No Reason by Marci Shimoff: https://amzn.to/4qMNWBR Happy in Midlife Quiz: https://www.dareontowhatsnext.com/happy-in-midlife-quiz -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/ -- 💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/ -- 💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/ -- 📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/   ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan. 00:00 Start 00:53 A Full Circle Moment & Jodi’s Story 04:58 What “Happy for No Reason” Really Means 09:43 Raising Your Happiness Set Point 17:11 Stress, Midlife, and the Thieves of Joy 25:20 Guilt, Grief, and Giving Yourself Permission to Feel Joy 31:13 The Dare: Finding the Good + How to Go Deeper

    38 min
  8. How to Keep Playing Big Without Burning Out in Perimenopause

    JAN 1

    How to Keep Playing Big Without Burning Out in Perimenopause

    If you’re used to being the woman who “handles it all”… but lately you feel more exhausted, foggy, or emotionally maxed out—this conversation will make you feel seen, validated, and so much less alone. In this episode, Ashley sits down with psychotherapist and Menopause Society Certified Practitioner Shonda Moralis, MSW, LCSW to talk about what perimenopause can do to your mental health, confidence, and daily functioning—and how to keep showing up for your life without burning yourself out in the process. 🎙️ StrongHER Voices is the empowering podcast helping women navigate their StrongHER Era with clarity, confidence, and the honest, expert-backed support they deserve. Hosted by Ashley Basilio — certified menopause health coach, fitness professional, and women’s wellness advocate. -- In this episode, we cover: ✅ What perimenopause can look like in real life—why symptoms impact your mood, motivation, and ability to function day to day ✅ “Peri-Duck Syndrome” and why so many high-achieving women feel like they’re barely staying afloat ✅ Anhedonia (the loss of joy)—how it shows up, why it’s common, and how to stop blaming yourself for it ✅ What to do when you don’t recognize yourself anymore and how to rebuild confidence in this season ✅ How mindfulness actually helps (even if you’re busy and don’t think you have time) ✅ Shonda’s “Triangle of Awareness” strategy and simple tools you can use right away ✅ What it really means to “play big” in midlife—and how to do it sustainably ✅ How to spot burnout before it hits and the role boundaries play in protecting your energy ✅ Perimenopause in the workplace—how symptoms affect performance and confidence, and why support matters ✅ First steps for self-advocacy at work + what policies companies can implement to better support women -- 👥 Featured Guest Shonda Moralis, MSW, LCSW — psychotherapist, author, speaker, and Menopause Society Certified Practitioner helping high-achievers struggling with perimenopause feel like themselves again so they can get back to running the world. Through her programs and workplace partnerships, Shonda empowers women to reclaim their energy and confidence while helping organizations retain and engage top female talent. Connect with Shonda: Website: https://www.shondamoralis.net/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shonda.moralis/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shonda-moralis-msw-lcsw-1b909356/ Freebie: Menopause Resource Guide - https://www.shondamoralis.net/subscribe Program: Reclaim Midlife (7-week virtual group program) - https://www.shondamoralis.net/reclaimmidlife -- If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to keep supporting you on your StrongHER journey. 💛 🩷 Join StrongHER Together Get ongoing support, accountability, education, and the tools you need to feel stronger—inside and out. Use code VOICES for $25 off any membership: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/strongher/ -- 💌 Stay Connected Sign up for my email list to get blogs, classes, coaching updates, podcast drops, free workouts, and upcoming events delivered right to your inbox: 👉 https://getfitwithashley.com/signup/ -- 💪 Move With Me Enjoy free, beginner-friendly to advanced workouts any time on my YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/getfitwithashley/ -- 📲 Follow Along on Social Media Daily tips, real talk, behind-the-scenes, and encouragement for your StrongHER Era: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitwithashley2012/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getfitwithashley2012/   ⚠️ Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with a qualified professional about your individual health needs before making changes to your diet, exercise, or treatment plan. 00:53 Introduction 01:50 Welcome Shonda! Shonda's Background 03:31 How does Perimenopause impact women in mid-life? Peri-Duck Syndrome. 06:10 What is anhedonia and how does it show up in perimenopause? 09:23 What do you do when you don't recognize yourself anymore? How do you move forward? 11:42 How does mindfulness factor into midlife and menopause? 18:04 Shonda's books and her Triangle of Awareness strategy 20:42 How does a woman know if she's Playing Big? 22:43 How to recognize if you're entering into burnout? 22:40 The role of boundaries and preventing burnout 26:53 Menopause in the workplace and how to manage it effectively 30:30 What types of policies can companies implement? 34:27 What is a first step a woman can take while working to advocate for themselves? 35:47 One thing a woman should know in midlife 36:45 How to contact Shonda? What programs does Shonda offer? 39:08 Wrap-up

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StrongHER Voices is the podcast for women ready to step into their StrongHER Era with confidence, clarity, and community. Hosted by Ashley Basilio, certified menopause health coach and fitness professional, this show helps women 40+ understand their changing bodies, strengthen their mindset, and build a life that feels energizing and aligned. Each episode delivers honest conversations, expert interviews, and practical tools on topics like hormones, mindset, aging, body confidence, strength training, identity shifts, emotional well-being, and thriving through every season of womanhood. Whether you're navigating symptoms, seeking answers, or simply wanting to feel more like yourself again, StrongHER Voices gives you real guidance, relatable stories, and support you can trust. Because this isn’t a pause. It’s Power. 💛

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