Subjective

Donyelle Murray

Hosted by Donyelle, the show breaks down what the f*ck is going on in the world of politics, policy, culture, and current events into clear, usable information—with context you weren’t taught, sources you can actually click, and next steps that go beyond doom-scrolling. Every episode answers one question: What does this mean for you? For me? For us? This isn’t about hot takes or keeping up with every headline. It’s about understanding what actually matters, especially for Black and marginalized communities.

  1. 09/01/2025

    (Part 1) You Are My Lil Friend: Lessons From My Mom on Survival, Sacrifice & Showing Up

    What happens when you’re still figuring out who you are, but you already have kids depending on you? In this episode of the Subjective podcast, Donyelle sits down with her mother for one of the most personal conversations yet, an honest reflection and real story of what it looks like when a mother is still figuring herself out while raising kids at the same time. They reflect on young motherhood: the fear, the strength, and the survival tactics no one prepares you for. Her mom opens up about telling her family she was pregnant at 16, the relief of having her own mother as a support system, and the constant tension between growing into womanhood while raising children. She shares moments where she felt unequipped, how community and faith carried her, and the quiet strength it took to show up for her kids every day, even when life behind closed doors was crumbling.Together, they unpack what it meant to “grow up together”. This isn’t just a story about motherhood; it’s about survival, resilience, and the complicated ways love and strength get passed down from one generation to the next. —🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY: → 🎧 Listen on Spotify/Apple → 📝 Read the newsletter/Substack → 📲 IG / TikTok: @TheSubjectivePod → 📸 IG @_DonyelleMurray → 📥 Business: subjective@donyellemurray.com ✨ Reviews help us grow and reach more listeners, thank you for your support!

    59 min
  2. 06/12/2025

    Check On Your Strong Friends

    In this episode, I’m unpacking what it means to be the “strong friend.” The one who’s always checking in but never checked on. The one who performs strength so well, no one realizes she’s falling apart. I share personal stories of how I learned to suppress my emotions, why I thought crying made me weak, and how I built an identity around being dependable and “fine”, even when I wasn’t. I open up about the quiet expectations that formed in childhood, how I used to “practice” being strong in unhealthy ways, and the turning point where I realized: I never wanted to be strong. I just didn’t have another option. This episode is a love letter to every strong friend who’s tired, and a wake-up call to the people who never ask how she’s doing. — 🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY: 🎧 Listen on Spotify/Apple: https://beacons.ai/subjectivepod⁠📝 Read the newsletter/Substack: https://thesubjectivepod.substack.com/⁠ 📲 IG / TikTok: @TheSubjectivePod📸 IG @_DonyelleMurray 📥 Business: subjective@donyellemurray.com 🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS: Community Receipts: https://beacons.ai/thesubjectivepod/receiptsresourcesHave a burning question? Need advice? Or want to share your wildest, craziest story? Submit your question, request advice, or share an experience you want to know how I’d handle in the '⁠⁠⁠What Would Donyelle Do⁠⁠⁠?' segment on Subjective. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/13QwIYqeb_bYz9Z0LNHV1RWtAHWqrEUX2f7XfaE5dfpQ/edit ✨ Reviews help us grow and reach more listeners—thank you for your support! 📅 Upload Schedule: Episodes are available every other Friday on your favorite podcast platforms and on YouTube. Make sure to subscribe so you never miss a new upload!

    29 min
  3. 05/23/2025

    Too Loud, Too Soon: The Cost of Being Yourself

    They used to say I “talked back.” Now I talk for a living. In this episode, I’m sharing what it’s really like to be the person who always speaks up—even when it’s easier (and safer) to stay quiet. From being labeled a big mouth as a kid to building a career rooted in communication, I’m unpacking the cost and the calling of radical authenticity. What does it really cost to be yourself in a world that rewards performance? For me, it meant being misunderstood, mislabeled, and left out. It meant being called outspoken, dramatic, opinionated, loud, sometimes all in the same breath. But it also meant building a life where I could finally own the very thing I was once punished for: my voice. This episode is personal. I’m reflecting on how I tried to shrink myself, how I failed at being anyone but me, and how I finally realized that the thing they tried to silence was actually my gift. — 🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY  🎧 Listen & ⁠⁠subscribe⁠⁠ 📬 ⁠⁠Newsletter⁠⁠ 📲 IG / TikTok: @TheSubjectivePod 📸IG @_DonyelleMurray  📥 Business: subjective@donyellemurray.com 📚📰 ⁠⁠Receipts & Resources⁠⁠ — Have a burning question? Need advice? Or want to share your wildest, craziest story? Submit your question, request advice, or share an experience you want to know how I’d handle in the '⁠⁠What Would Donyelle Do⁠⁠?' segment on Subjective. 🎧 Listen to more ⁠⁠episodes⁠⁠ of Subjective on all podcast platforms. ✨ Reviews help us grow and reach more listeners—thank you for your support! 📅 Upload Schedule: Episodes are available every other Friday on your favorite podcast platforms and on YouTube. Make sure to subscribe so you never miss a new upload!

    39 min

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

Hosted by Donyelle, the show breaks down what the f*ck is going on in the world of politics, policy, culture, and current events into clear, usable information—with context you weren’t taught, sources you can actually click, and next steps that go beyond doom-scrolling. Every episode answers one question: What does this mean for you? For me? For us? This isn’t about hot takes or keeping up with every headline. It’s about understanding what actually matters, especially for Black and marginalized communities.