Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cate and Darrell
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A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.

  1. MAR 4

    Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP216 – Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama After 11 years on Apple Podcasts, we’ve suddenly been removed from the US Apple directory and we’re still trying to figure out why We also share a real update on shooting our shot in the lifestyle after sending 13 messages to potential matches on SDC. We break down the results (including ghosting statistics), and debate whether people actually owe a “no thank you” response on dating sites Plus, a kink guessing game based on Cosmopolitan’s list of 55 kinks, and a fascinating story out of Nevada where workers at a legal brothel are attempting to unionize over controversial contract terms involving likeness and content rights Rate our dating profile photos on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder   Links Cosmo Kink List https://sex.cosmopolitan.com/pleasure/a24481923/kinks-fetish-list/ Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing For Swingers https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/    Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers - Intimacy Gummies  Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine      apple podcast removed, swinger podcast, lifestyle dating ghosting, SDC swingers, swinger dating etiquette, kink list explained, figging kink, mirror arousal, vore kink, Sheri’s Ranch brothel, Nevada sex workers union, adult content censorship, non monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.

    33 min

  2. FEB 18

    Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP215 – Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise In this episode, we dive into a lifestyle topic that sparks massive debate: playroom etiquette and the “grey areas” that aren’t written in the rules. We share a real experience from Fata Morgana (Netherlands) where another couple began having sex very close to us (around 20cm) in a small open playroom. No rules were broken, nobody touched anyone… but the vibe shifted fast, mainly due to proximity and intense watching. That led to the real question: When something is technically allowed, can it still be socially tone-deaf? We also share highlights from the Reddit discussion (yes, some people roasted us), unpack the difference between rules vs social awareness, and give practical advice for navigating open play spaces when everyone’s boundaries are different. Plus: Cate’s upcoming Bliss Cruise hotwife adventure, and our latest attempt at making new local lifestyle friends (with very Dutch planning timelines). In This Episode - Playroom etiquette vs “grey area” social awareness - Parallel play, proximity, and when it feels invasive - Why eye contact can change the dynamic fast - Reddit reactions: “technically allowed but socially tone-deaf” vs “open room means accept it” - Newbie advice: you can’t control others, only your response - Cate’s Bliss Cruise plans with Mallory (two hotwives on the loose) - Unicorn/hotwife dynamics + messages on the Bliss app - Seasickness tips wanted + the drink package debate - Finding new swinger friends: Cate sent 13 local messages and is tracking replies Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26       Playroom etiquette, swinger club rules, open playroom, parallel play, voyeur etiquette, lifestyle consent, swingers Netherlands, Fata Morgana swingers, Bliss Cruise, hotwife lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.

    37 min

  3. FEB 2

    Swinger Cruises - Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP214 – Swinger Cruises: Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens In this episode, we’re joined by Russell Stephens, CEO and part owner of Bliss Cruise, the world’s largest and most influential lifestyle cruise brand, for an unfiltered conversation about the past, present, and future of Bliss Cruise. Russell shares how Bliss Cruise was acquired, why the ownership structure changed, and how decisions are actually made behind the scenes. We talk candidly about community concerns, guest privacy, pricing, drink packages, sponsorships, and the realities of working with major cruise lines while protecting a sex-positive lifestyle experience.   Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests   We also dive deep into what most guests never see, the logistics, planning, staffing, and production required to transform a “vanilla” cruise ship into a full-scale lifestyle event with thousands of guests. If you’ve ever wondered: - Who actually owns Bliss Cruise and how decisions are made - How a cruise ship is converted into a swinger cruise in under 24 hours - Why drink packages cost what they do - What happened with cameras, videography, and privacy concerns - How Bliss balances legacy guests with modernizing the experience - Whether West Coast Bliss cruises are ever coming - What goes into playrooms, music programming, and themed cruises   In This Episode - Why Bliss Cruise was acquired and what changed with new ownership - Russell’s personal history in the lifestyle and why that matters - How guest feedback and surveys directly shape future cruises - Privacy, consent, videography, and lessons learned - Drink packages, pricing realities, and why sneaking alcohol hurts the community - Sponsorship decisions and why some partnerships won’t happen again - Behind-the-scenes logistics: staffing, playrooms, AV, decor, and scheduling - How Royal Caribbean crews actually feel about Bliss sailings - What makes Bliss Cruise different from resorts, clubs, and land-based events     Useful Links  Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Swinger Cruises, Bliss Cruise, Lifestyle Travel, Swinger Podcast, Adult Cruises, Non-Monogamy, Sex Positive Travel, Lifestyle Events, Swinger Community, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger cruises, lifestyle travel, Bliss Cruise, adult cruises, playrooms, sex-positive vacations, privacy, pricing, behind-the-scenes logistics, and what it really takes to run a floating lifestyle city.

    52 min

  4. JAN 26

    Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.   Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners?   In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work   Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Delay Spray, Pleasure Products, Swingers, Swinger Podcast, Better Sex, Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Sex, Arousal Gel, Female Pleasure, Male Performance, Last Longer in Bed, Sex Toys for Couples, Promescent, Urologist-Backed Sex Products, Sexual Health Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

    56 min

  5. JAN 19

    HOTTAKES - The Hotwife Boom, Trend, Evoluation or Opportunism

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode) Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging? Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms.   In this Episode: What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”) Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment) The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label? Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor) Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities” Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy) The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend   Useful Links from this Episode: Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Hotwife Boom, Hotwifing, Hotwife Podcast, Hot Takes, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Trends, Separate Play, Hall Pass, Porn and Swinging, Lifestyle Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

    39 min

  6. JAN 12

    Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years? In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces. And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe. In this Episode: Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want) MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe A consent violation and how quickly things escalated What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces 2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans   Useful Links from this Episode: Club Eroxx Review (Belgium): https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/ Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/  Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Swingers Club Drama, Swingers Club Consent, Club Rejection, MFM Threesome, Hotwife Podcast, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Podcast, Swingers Club Safety, Lifestyle Boundaries, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Belgium Swingers Club, Libertine Events

    49 min

  7. 12/03/2025

    Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend. You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event. Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental c**k-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection. In this Episode: Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys Playrooms vs private rooms Lingerie catwalk moments Introverts in the lifestyle Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up Open-door hotel rooms   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/  Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V  Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Event Stories, Lifestyle Takeover Review, What Happens at a Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, First Swingers Event Advice, Playroom Etiquette, Swinger Confidence Tips, Meeting Couples at Events, Swinger Lifestyle Interviews, How to Survive a Swingers Takeover, Soft Swap Story, Group Play Story, Swinger Couple Dynamics, Swinger Travel Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events Review.

    1h 12m

  8. 11/19/2025

    Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London

    Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap. We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights. In this episode: - Our Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, logistics, location, and first impressions. - Friday single-male night vs Saturday’s more couples-heavy energy. - Dungeon play: a sensual, soft-swap session in the catacombs and how we navigated boundaries. - Why dress down rules and playroom etiquette matter more than most people think. - Dealing with vibe-killers (like BV and fully clothed spectators) without shaming anyone. - Swinger success tips: dressing down, mingling beyond your friend group, and following up on missed connections.   Watch the Le Boudoir YouTube Club Tour   https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – Lifestyle takeovers & events: https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – See the Dress Down Lingerie Cate wore: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, Halloween Swingers Party, London Swingers Club, Soft Swap Story, Dungeon Play, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

    39 min
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A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.

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