TAKE ME OUT THE GROUPCHAT

A-Dub & msdiiaa

Take me out the Group Chat is a podcast  hosted by cousins A-Dub & Msdiiaa.  This podcast will provide you antidotes, banter, advice and maybe even a little laughter, surrounding moments when we wanted to be either left out or simply just taken out the group chat. Follow and listen as we talk about topics involving family, friends, dating, world events, and more.  

Episodes

  1. 07/15/2024

    At This Big Age

    Send us a text Did you know a simple photo with Chris Brown could end a relationship? Join us as we unpack the controversy that erupted from a fan meeting her idol and the dramatic breakup that followed. We'll dissect the photo that triggered the split and debate whether insecurities played a larger role. Additionally, we'll evaluate the true worth of celebrity meet and greet experiences, questioning if the high costs deliver real value or just fleeting moments of excitement. Communication is the bedrock of any strong relationship, but how often do we shy away from crucial conversations out of fear? We dive into the importance of honest discussions about relationship goals, boundaries, and expectations. This episode also features a spicy debate on what constitutes cheating, sparked by a story of a woman justifying an out-of-state visit with a so-called "forever friend." Through personal anecdotes, we explore how open communication can either solidify trust or lead to misunderstandings. Finally, we tackle the often confusing timelines of modern relationships. Is the traditional path of dating, engagement, and marriage still relevant, or should couples define their own routes? We discuss everything from the significance of promise rings versus engagement rings to the impact of age and circumstances on relationship dynamics. Whether you're navigating the friend zone or contemplating the perfect engagement ring, our latest episode offers rich insights and candid advice to help steer your romantic commitments. Support the show

    55 min
  2. 05/27/2024

    Ooooooh You Gettin' Big

    Send us a text Have you ever winced at a relative's "compliment" about your weight, or felt that uncomfortable tug at your heart when family conversations steer towards body image? We've been there too, and that's exactly what we're unpacking in our heartfelt chat on weight perception in family dynamics. We share our own rollercoaster of emotions, from the exhaustive demands of our daily routines to those precious moments of self-care that restore our spirits. The dialogue takes a deep dive into the subtleties of comments that sting and the journey of self-acceptance, whether it's dealing with the transition from our athletic days to loving the 'mom bod' or handling the complex emotions that come with fluctuating weight. Then, stepping into the broader world, we explore the pressing conversation around body image and size inclusivity. We'll discuss the powerful message of a New Orleans musician who's calling out the fashion industry for its lack of plus-size options in stores, and amplify voices from the fitness community who are breaking free from toxic stereotypes. It's a candid reflection on the struggle for representation and the importance of cultivating a supportive space in both physical and online communities. Expect to leave with a renewed perspective on health, an appreciation for your unique journey, and a reminder to spread kindness everywhere, even in the comment sections. Join us for this uplifting episode that's all about embracing who we are and celebrating every body type.Support the show

    21 min
  3. 05/13/2024

    Social Media is not a Real Place with CBRO

    Send us a text Navigating the murky waters of modern love, we're joined by CBRO of the Dry Ass Water podcast for an honest dissection of relationship advice in the age of social media. Our conversation takes us from the flood of unasked-for guidance across our feeds to the real effects of internet culture on the authenticity of our romantic lives. As we unpack the complexities of privacy versus public declaration in relationships, we explore the ramifications of posting personal milestones online and how it impacts our loved ones. Ever noticed the subtle tug to flaunt your relationship on social media or felt the sting of intrusion from prying eyes on your digital circle? We tackle these modern predicaments, weighing the pros and cons of seeking validation from outside the partnership. Our banter delves into the dynamic of active versus passive social media use in relationships and the delicate decision-making behind what, and whom, we allow into our online sanctuaries. The lens then shifts to the mirage of reality TV dating and the sometimes dubious advice from public figures like the late Kevin Samuels. Bringing his unique perspective, CRBO helps dissect the presentation of romance on our screens versus the real deal. From the portrayal of single parenting in the dating world to the necessity of upholding personal standards, this episode doesn't shy away from challenging the misconceptions peddled by self-proclaimed love gurus. Join us for a candid look at the pursuit of genuine connection in a time where the line between real and virtual is ever-blurring. Support the show

    46 min
  4. 04/15/2024

    A-Dub: Social Media Privacy and Navigating Dynamics of Family/Friend Chats

    Send us a text Navigating the complexities of group chats, especially within the context of family dynamics, can be likened to a maze where every turn presents a new challenge in communication and privacy. This topic is at the heart of our recent podcast episode, which takes listeners on a journey through the intricacies of group messaging, balancing digital dialogues, and setting boundaries to maintain harmony in our virtual interactions.Group chats have evolved from a mere convenience to a virtual space where we exchange ideas, share updates, and sometimes, unfortunately, become embroiled in disputes. In this episode, our hosts Msdiiaa and Adub candidly discuss their experiences with family group chats that quickly escalate into debates, and work threads that demand constant attention. Their insights provide listeners with relatable anecdotes and strategies for managing these digital dialogues effectively. In a world that's increasingly shifting towards online interaction, the episode emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between staying connected and preserving our sanity. The pandemic has reshaped how we engage with one another, making group chats a necessary, yet sometimes overwhelming, aspect of our daily lives. The hosts delve into their personal methods for maintaining peace, such as selectively sharing on Instagram stories to manage their online presence and avoiding the "public glare." One of the most relatable moments in the episode is the discussion around the desire for a mute button during relentless family group chat notifications. The hosts peel back the layers of the art of group messaging, offering a look into how they navigate these digital spaces while maintaining their boundaries. This conversation resonates with anyone who has ever found themselves in the middle of a chaotic group chat, seeking solace in silence or a strategic exit. The podcast also explores the notion of social media as a colossal group chat, where participation is voluntary, and the repetitive nature of online topics can become exhausting. Adub shares her cautious approach to social media, highlighting the significance of privacy and the selective nature of her online interactions. As the episode progresses, it becomes evident that group chats are more than just a means of communication; they are a reflection of our family dynamics and personal relationships. The hosts share their experiences with different types of group chats and the subjects they prefer to discuss, ranging from work-related issues to planning family events. They emphasize the role these digital gatherings play in fostering connections, underscoring the nuances of communication that occur within these spaces. Navigating the dynamics of group chats, requires a delicate balance. The hosts discuss their tactics for participating without becoming overwhelmed by constant notifications or drawn into unnecessary conflicts. They explore the challenges of discussing sensitive topics like money within group chats and how such conversations can quickly become awkward.As the episode concludes, Adub paints a vision of her ideal group chat – one that is enriching rather than draining. They share stories of their most cherished digital gatherings and how they've become essential in maintaining a balance between online interaction and real-life connections in the post-pandemic world. This podcast episode offers a deep dive into the digital dance of  boundaries, providing listeners with strategies for crafting harmony in the echo chamber of group chats. It serves as a guide for anyone looking to master the art of group messaging while keeping their virtual living rooms comfortable and their inboxes manageable. Support the show

    29 min

About

Take me out the Group Chat is a podcast  hosted by cousins A-Dub & Msdiiaa.  This podcast will provide you antidotes, banter, advice and maybe even a little laughter, surrounding moments when we wanted to be either left out or simply just taken out the group chat. Follow and listen as we talk about topics involving family, friends, dating, world events, and more.