TEA WITH JULES

Jules Sebastian

Tea with Jules Sebastian. We will spill tea, share stories and take away life lessons from meaningful conversations. Pop the kettle on - it's time for tea! 

  1. FEB 3

    What's Really Going On Inside Your Brain? How Social Media, AI, & Modern Life Is Reshaping Us - Dr Lila Landowski (Leading Neuroscientist)

    In this episode of Tea with Jules, Jules sits down with one of Australia’s leading neuroscientists, Dr Lila Landowski, for a fascinating, eye-opening conversation about what’s really going on inside our brains - and how modern life, social media, habits, multitasking, and AI are quietly reshaping the way we think, feel, focus, and connect. If you’ve ever wondered why your attention feels scattered, why habits are so hard to stick to, or why scrolling leaves you exhausted but oddly unsatisfied - this episode will make you feel deeply seen (and a lot more informed). Together, Jules and Lila break down complex brain science into practical, relatable moments. What you'll learn in this episode: Why your brain craves shortcuts and how habits are actually formed at  neurological levelThe real reason motivation drops off when there’s no immediate rewardHow dopamine works as both a reward and a habit-builderWhy multitasking feels productive but is actually draining your brain’s energyHow social media is designed to fragment attention and keep you scrollingWhy face-to-face connection gives us brain chemicals that texting never canWhat boredom actually does for creativity (and why kids need it)How exercise, silence, and green space physically improve brain healthWhy AI worries neuroscientists and how to use it without outsourcing your thinkingWhat happens to the brain as we age (and how to protect it)The powerful science of belief effects and how mindset literally changes physiologyDisclaimer: This podcast episode is intended for general information and personal reflection only. The content shared is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or mental health advice. If you are experiencing ongoing distress or mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional. Connect with Dr Lila Landowski Dr Lila's InstagramConnect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails, podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    49 min
  2. JAN 27

    From Craving Authenticity To Decluttering Everything - The 7 Signs You're Ready For A New Chapter Of Life (Solo Episode)

    In this solo episode, Jules explores the 7 Signs you’re ready for a new chapter of life. It’s not the drastic or dramatic changes but a subtle shift inward that is pulling us towards change. From craving solitude and decluttering everything, to feeling exhausted in a way rest can’t fix, Jules unpacks 7 powerful signs that something new is emerging. Grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and lived experience, this episode is a reassuring reminder that you’re not lost - you’re evolving. In This Episode, We Explore: Why the “in-between” phase of life often feels confusing but is deeply meaningfulHow exhaustion can be feedback, not failureWhy craving solitude isn’t antisocial - it’s neurologicalThe psychology behind decluttering during times of transitionWhy old goals can lose their spark (and why that’s okay)Learning to say no without over-explainingTrusting yourself without needing clarity firstDisclaimer: This podcast episode is intended for general information and personal reflection only. The content shared is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or mental health advice. If you are experiencing ongoing distress or mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional. Connect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails, podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    29 min
  3. JAN 20

    The New Year Doesn't Start Till Feb! Jules & Lisa Couch Catch-up: Manifesting, School Holiday Survival, & Taking Down Christmas Trees

    Welcome back, Tea-mates and welcome to the very first episode of Tea with Jules for 2026! This one is less “new year, new me” and more “this new year isn’t starting till February.” Jules is joined on the couch by the always-brilliant Lisa Johnston for a free-flowing, hilariously honest catch-up covering everything from mum-life realities and habit building, to manifesting, journaling, Taylor Swift, playdate pressure, and why January absolutely does not count as a fresh start for parents. This episode is pure banter, comic relief, and gentle reflection - the kind you listen to while driving, folding laundry, getting your steps or hiding in the pantry with a protein bar. ☕In This Episode, We Chat About: Why January isn’t the real New Year for mums (February starters only, thanks)School holidays, survival mode, and the chaos of the last two weeksTaylor Swift, the Eras Tour documentary, and behind-the-scenes tour lifeGuy Sebastian’s upcoming tour - huddles, fairy lights, and hosting anxietyManifesting vs “setting intentions” (and why the word makes some of us twitch)Journals, habit trackers, affirmation cards and the fear of being judged for all of themRemembering who you were before life got loudProtein peer pressure, fitness habits, and why it actually works (even when you’re sick of eggs)Play dates, snack pressure, being the “fun mum,” and ordering Uber Eats insteadChristmas trees, Easter in January, and Bunnings tripsThat feeling of coming out of the mud and sensing something good is comingConnect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails, podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    1h 8m
  4. 12/22/2025

    Preparing Your Child To Meet Difference With Empathy - Sean Szeps On Identity, Finding Acceptance, Otherness, & More

    In this deeply moving and powerfully honest episode of Tea with Jules, Jules sits down with writer, speaker, content creator, podcast host, and fierce LGBTQIA+ advocate Sean Szeps.  What begins as a conversation about parenting quickly expands into something much bigger: identity, belonging, empathy, religion, raising kind humans, finding love, rewriting the script of your life, and the courage it takes to live as your truest self. Sean shares his extraordinary journey - from growing up in a deeply religious community in the U.S., to navigating his sexuality alone as a child, to eventually coming out and finding acceptance, love, marriage, and fatherhood. He opens up about internalised shame, choosing between two impossible futures, the moment the world shifted and parenthood became a real possibility, and the emotional rollercoaster of raising twins through surrogacy. Jules and Sean dive into otherness - the feeling of being different and how every one of us, regardless of sexuality, gender, or background, has experienced moments of being the “only one in the room.” Together they explore how parents can prepare children to meet difference with empathy, curiosity, and compassion. This episode is emotional, uplifting, raw, hilarious, and full of wisdom, the kind that deepens your understanding of yourself and the world around you.  Tea-mates buckle up. We go there. Connect with Sean InstagramNot Like Other Dad’s - BookConnect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    1h 19m
  5. 12/17/2025

    Solo Episode! The Chaos Of Modern Lives, To-Do Lists, Multitasking, & The Gentle Pep Talk You Need

    In this solo episode of Tea with Jules, Jules gets real about the chaos of modern life, 35-page to-do lists, and why multitasking is quietly frying our brains. She shares the small, science-backed habits that have completely reshaped her days – from becoming a 5:30 am morning person (yes, really) to breaking the chips-and-Netflix cycle at night. This is a gentle, practical pep talk for anyone who feels busy, scattered, time-poor, and wants to feel calmer, clearer, and more on top of life without doing a full personality transplant overnight. In This Episode, We Chat About Why up to 40% of your day runs on autopilot – and how to make that work for you, not against youThe difference between “good” and “bad” habits (and why your brain doesn’t know the difference)How Jules accidentally trained herself to wake up naturally at 5:35 amThe chips-and-Netflix habit she had to lovingly retireWhy our to-do lists are actually wish lists and why we only ever tick off a few thingsWhat “attention residue” is and how multitasking makes us feel more stressed and less productive How to start designing your environment so it quietly supports the life you actually wantThe simple mindset shift that can turn mornings from frantic to doableHow to Put This Episode Into Action Choose one habit from the seven to start with this weekTell Jules which one you’re trying and how it’s going – tag her or send a messageTry the “one thing rule” for just one focused block in your day and notice how it feelsConnect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    37 min
  6. 12/08/2025

    Why Sleep Is The Ultimate Superpower - Dr Carmel Harrington (Sleep Scientist) On Sleep's Role In Mood, Memory, Dementia, & More

    In this powerful and deeply moving episode of Tea with Jules, I sit down with sleep scientist, author and advocate Dr Carmel Harrington, whose life’s work began with unimaginable loss. After the sudden infant death of her son Damien, Carmel left a successful law career to pursue a PhD in sleep medicine and has since become an internationally recognised expert in the science of sleep. Carmel shares what actually happens in our brains and bodies while we sleep, why it impacts everything from our mood and memory to dementia risk, and how our modern, always-on lifestyles are quietly eroding one of the most important foundations of our health. If you’ve ever stayed up scrolling, pulled an all-nighter, or told yourself you can “push through” on little sleep, this conversation will gently (but firmly) change the way you think about rest. You’ll walk away with a new understanding of why sleep is non-negotiable, plus practical, realistic strategies to protect your sleep – even in busy seasons of life with kids, work, and a very full plate. In this episode we chat about Carmel’s origin storyA groundbreaking SIDS discoveryWhy sleep is not optionalYour brain’s nightly ‘shower’Sleep, memory and moodThe melatonin storyReclaiming sleep in a busy lifeWind-down rituals that workWhen your brain won’t switch offDifferent sleep schedules under one roofThe one mindset shift that changes everything Connect with Dr Harrington Sleep for Health LinkedIn Connect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesCredits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    44 min
  7. 12/01/2025

    How To Rebuild Connection With Ourselves - Nicole Armstrong (Relationship Therapist) On Healthy Partnerships, Boundaries, & Slowing Down

    Today’s Tea with Jules episode is one of those conversations that sits with you. The kind that gently nudges you to look inward, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and the people you love. I’m joined by relationship therapist Nicole Armstrong, Managing Director of The Relationship Practice, a specialist in attachment theory, communication patterns, emotional awareness, and helping individuals, couples and families navigate relational challenges with honesty, courage, and compassion. Nicole isn’t just an expert in her field, she has been my personal therapist, and someone whose guidance has helped me rebuild calm in seasons of anxiety, deepen connection in my relationships, and nurture a healthier relationship with myself. In this episode, we explore why women historically place themselves last, how to rebuild connection with ourselves, and what a healthy partnership actually looks like. We talk attachment styles, conflict, boundaries, time, and why sometimes the bravest thing we can do is slow down. Key Takeaways Your needs are not less important than anyone else's.You cannot pour from an empty cup - you have to refill yours first.Connection deepens when we are genuine, vulnerable, and willing to communicate honestly.Thinking time isn’t indulgent - it's essential.We all deserve a life that feels meaningful and joyful.Connect with Nicole Nicole's Website Sign Up For articles, notes and research from Nicole and her practice Connect with Jules Get Jules’ Newsletter – a letter each week with personal antidotes, recipes, fashion, cocktails podcast episodesJules Best Selling Book – Tea & HonestlyWatch Tea with Jules on YouTubeFollow Jules on InstagramFollow Tea with Jules on InstagramFollow Jules on TikTokSubscribe to Tea with Jules the Podcast in iTunesDisclaimer The content in this episode is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended to replace individual therapy, medical care or professional advice. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a qualified health professional or trusted support service in your area. Credits: Sound Engineer & Music: @kailesh_reitmans Videographer & Editor: @nathan_niguidula Producer: @lisajohnston_ @julessebastian Welcome to Tea with Jules hosted by Jules Sebastian. Here we spill the tea and learn life lessons from honest conversations with experts, celebrities and friends.

    1h 10m

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Tea with Jules Sebastian. We will spill tea, share stories and take away life lessons from meaningful conversations. Pop the kettle on - it's time for tea! 

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