Teach, Coach, Mentor

Michael Wish

Welcome to Teach, Coach, Mentor: the podcast about what it actually takes to reach people. We sit down with teachers, coaches, and mentors who are doing the work and we dig into their methods. How they teach so it lands. How they coach so it sticks. How they mentor so it matters. If you care about getting better at developing others — whether that's in a classroom, on a field, in a workplace, or across a lifetime — this show is for you. I'm your host, educator and coach, Mike Wish. Let's get after it.

  1. 5D AGO

    Choose Your Hard: Jon Bergmann on Flipped Classrooms, AI, and 40 Years of Teaching

    SummaryIn this conversation, Michael Wish interviews John Bergmann, a pioneer of the flipped classroom model, discussing his extensive experience in education, the importance of social learning, and the challenges and benefits of modern teaching methods. They explore the role of AI in education, the significance of reading and writing, and the impact of engaging projects on student learning. John shares valuable insights and advice for educators, emphasizing the need to inspire students and the importance of making intentional choices in teaching and learning. TakeawaysJohn Bergmann has 40 years of experience in education. The flipped classroom model was developed to help students who miss classes. Teaching is a deeply social experience that enhances learning. The primary role of a teacher is to inspire students to learn. Accountability is crucial in a flipped classroom setting. Lectures can still play a role in modern education. AI can be beneficial but also poses risks to student learning. Reading and writing are essential skills that need to be emphasized. Engaging projects can help students connect different concepts in physics. Choosing the right challenges in life can lead to better outcomes. TitlesRevolutionizing Education: The Flipped Classroom The Journey of a Physics Educator Chapters 00:00 Introduction to John Bergmann and His Journey 06:04 The Importance of Social Learning 11:56 Challenges and Accountability in Flipped Classrooms 17:49 AI in Education: Opportunities and Risks 23:49 Engaging Students Through Projects Keywords education, flipped classroom, teaching methods, AI in education, student engagement, social learning, John Bergmann, physics education, teaching strategies, accountability in learning

    34 min
  2. FEB 21

    The Honest Man Project with Jon Cooke: What Dads Won't Say Out Loud

    Why Dads Are Burning Out — And What to Do About It | Jon Cooke, Honest Man Project Jon Cooke built the Honest Man Project because 11 years ago he had nowhere to turn. Now he runs a free community helping professional dads navigate burnout, emotional isolation, and the pressure to perform at work and at home — without losing themselves in the process. Michael Wish and Jon go deep on why men don't talk, why that's killing them, and what actually works. Key Takeaways: Men don't need therapy-speak — they need a space to vent, a community that shows up, and the occasional honest complimentThe "bumbling dad" trope in pop culture masks a real crisis: male loneliness is at an all-time high and men account for over 70% of suicidesYoung men are absorbing pressure before they even become fathers — figures like Andrew Tate fill the void when no healthy masculine example existsThe fix isn't complicated: start your day with gratitude before touching your phone, end it by writing down what went well, and take 10 minutes mid-day to just stop Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:00 The "useless dad" trope and its real impact 05:30 Andrew Tate, masculinity hijacked, and young men at risk 10:00 Why men solve instead of share — and why that backfires 15:30 The Honest Man Project: origin and mission 22:00 The power of a single compliment for men 25:00 Letting men vent before coaching them 28:30 Legacy question: what you don't want to regret Guest: Jon Cooke is a men's coach and founder of the Honest Man Project, a free Skool community for professional dads working to balance career ambition with present fatherhood. 🔗 Find Jon: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-cooke-230a662b/ Honest Man Project on Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-honest-man-project-4222/about Subscribe, share this with a dad who needs to hear it, and join the conversation at teachcoachmentor.org. More Mike: LinkedIn: 💼 https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelwish0802/ Podcast Site: 🎧 https://teachcoachmentor.org/ Company Website: 🏫 https://vellelogos.com Personal Website: https://michaelwish.com

    30 min
  3. FEB 17

    From the Corps to Coaching: Brandon Smith on Finding Purpose After the Uniform

    Episode 9: From the Corps to Coaching — Finding Purpose After the UniformGuest: Brandon Smith — Former U.S. Marine, Entrepreneur, Coach Host: Mike Wish Runtime: ~29 minutes Episode SummaryBrandon Smith spent six years as an enlisted Marine — motor transport operator with an artillery unit — before stepping into the civilian world and discovering that a 9-to-5 wasn't going to fill the void the Corps left behind. After stints at FedEx and an e-commerce company, he found his way to entrepreneurship as a path to restore purpose and serve others. Now Brandon coaches veterans and first responders through the hardest stretch in business: going from zero to one. He runs Mental Momentum, a Skool community built around helping people land their first clients and transition into entrepreneurship. In this episode, Mike and Brandon dig into the post-military identity crisis, why most new entrepreneurs focus on the wrong constraint, what 141 one-on-one calls and 20 straight rejections taught him, and why charging for your value isn't at odds with serving others. Key Timestamps[0:00] Intro and background — Brandon's Marine Corps service and transition out[2:50] Why entrepreneurship? The identity gap after the military[5:00] Lost sense of purpose and how entrepreneurship became the vehicle to serve[6:00] Service and entrepreneurship are not incompatible[6:45] Why veterans struggle to charge for their value[8:00] Brandon's two-year journey and leading with free value too long[9:30] Building teams to solve problems — the parallel between the Corps and business[10:00] Who Brandon helps: veterans, first responders, and beyond[11:30] The #1 problem: overwhelm — and how to create space before building a business[13:00] Case studies: a former border patrol agent and a single-mother nurse[15:00] Holistic coaching — health, relationships, mental bandwidth, and business are interconnected[16:30] The real constraint: getting in front of people, not perfecting the product[18:00] Every business is a people business — canvassing still works[19:30] Mike's failed student coaching business and lessons from falling flat[20:30] Brandon's rejection story: 141 calls, 20 consecutive nos, then the first sale[22:00] The psychologist who required 100 rejections before entry — fear vs. reality[23:30] Jocko Willink: "Besides death, all fear is psychological"[24:00] Catastrophization — catching the spiral in students, clients, and yourself[25:00] Where to find Brandon — YouTube, Skool, Mental Momentum[26:00] Final question: What's the one thing you can't get wrong?[28:30] Closing — why vets build communities Key TakeawaysThe zero-to-one gap is the hardest part of entrepreneurship. Most people get stuck because they focus on building and improving products instead of getting in front of people. The constraint is almost always distribution, not the product itself. Post-military identity loss is real — and entrepreneurship can be the antidote. When structure, routine, and brotherhood disappear overnight, the void is deep. Building something of your own can restore purpose, but only if you're intentional about it. Create space before you build. Brandon's coaching method starts with time management and eliminating noise — especially for people juggling jobs, families, and limited bandwidth. You can't grow a business if you don't have the mental capacity to think about one. Rejection is the cost of entry. 20 nos before a yes. 141 calls in a year. The fear of rejection stops more people than rejection itself. Getting comfortable with "no" is a prerequisite, not a setback. It's okay to charge for your value. Veterans especially tend to undervalue their expertise. Leading with free value is smart. Staying there forever is not. Your experience, your failures, your time — they're worth something. Connect with Brandon SmithYouTube: @BrandonSmithxSkool Community: Mental Momentum Connect with the ShowWebsite: teachcoachmentor.orgHost: Mike Wish — Educator, Coach, Entrepreneur

    26 min
  4. JAN 28

    Martha from Greek to Code: A Self-Taught Developer's Case for Unschooling

    Martha went from studying Latin and Greek to teaching herself software development while raising four kids—no bootcamp, no degree, just free online resources and building in public. Now she and her husband work remotely, travel, and practice "unschooling" with their children. In Part 1 of this conversation, we dig into what unschooling actually looks like, why interest-based learning creates what Martha calls a "superpower," and why she treats rules with her kids the same way she'd treat rules with a roommate. Topics covered: Teaching yourself to code vs. formal education (and why she calls it "cheating")The case against education inflation and credential bloatWhy "stay adaptable" is the only career advice that matters nowUnschooling vs. Montessori vs. traditional homeschoolingRespectful parenting: treating kids like roommates, not prisonersWhy AI will help kids learn faster—and cheat faster on things they don't care aboutStructure vs. rules: building internal motivation instead of external compliance Key ideas: "Aggressive curiosity" and "joyful experimentation" as core valuesInterest-based learning as superpower—the 5-year-old mushroom expertWhy kids only cheat when forced to learn things they don't care aboutThe problem with external structure: military vets who stop working out after discharge Referenced: Leisure, the Basis of Culture by Josef PieperThe Case Against Education by Bryan CaplanJohn Holt (founder of unschooling movement)

    57 min
  5. JAN 28

    Scott Ferguson: Everyday Resume from 1.8 GPA to Elite Performance Coach

    In this powerful episode of Teach, Coach, Mentor, host Michael Wish sits down with Scott Ferguson: Navy veteran, elite performance coach, and host of the Time to Shine Today podcast (approaching 500 episodes). What starts as a conversation about military background and life transitions becomes a masterclass on overcoming adversity, the power of curiosity, and why coaching isn't about telling people what to do—it's about helping them discover what they already know. Scott's story is anything but ordinary. Born in the Philippines during the Vietnam War, adopted twice, passed between families, and graduating high school with a 1.8 GPA, the statistics said he shouldn't succeed. But a chip on his shoulder, a commitment to serving others, and the discipline forged in the Navy transformed him into a coach who now works with NFL players, UFC fighters, Olympic wrestlers, and Fortune 500 executives. If you've ever felt like your background disqualifies you from success—or wondered how to turn pain into purpose—this episode delivers. 💡 Topics We Cover: Scott's unconventional journey: from Filipino orphan to Navy veteran to elite performance coachWhy the military was "a billion percent" responsible for his coaching frameworkThe book that saved his life during his darkest moment (The Traveler's Gift by Andy Andrews)Coaching vs. consulting: why telling people what to do doesn't workHow the victim mindset traps us—and what breaks us freeWhy structure gives you freedom (the uniform paradox)The "everyday resume" concept: how to defeat imposter syndromeAttaching confidence to intentions vs. capabilitiesWhy military veterans make exceptional entrepreneurs and coaches 🛠 Key Concepts Discussed: Responsibility = the ability to respond (not react)Borrowing from the past vs. living in itThe difference between cultural rules and written rulesWhy "everyone knows what they want—they just don't know how to talk themselves into it" 🔥 Notable Quotes: "Everyone knows what they want—they just don't know how to talk themselves into it.""The more you mentor, the more immortal you become.""Attach your confidence to your intentions, not your capabilities. The second you do that, the sky's the limit.""Don't take life too seriously—we're not making it out alive.""Was I useful? That's my why. A hundred percent." 📚 Book Recommendations: The Traveler's Gift by Andy AndrewsThe Go-Giver by Bob Burg 📌 Connect with Scott: Podcast: Time to Shine TodayWebsite: timetoshinetoday.comStrava: Track his 1,000+ day streak of running a mile every morning 👥 Join the Community: Are you a student, teacher, coach, or lifelong learner looking to level up? Follow the Teach, Coach, Mentor podcast and join us as we explore the tools, mindsets, and habits that empower people to become who they're meant to be. If you are a student and want to join our community to discover your own values and embark on a guided journey of self-discovery, visit https://www.skool.com/self-architect.

    27 min
  6. 09/15/2025

    AI Won’t Replace Us, It’ll Amplify Us: Lessons from Mike Todasco

    In this inspiring episode of Teach, Coach, Mentor, host Michael Wish sits down with innovator, writer, and AI educator Mike Todasco, former Senior Director of Innovation at PayPal and current Visiting Fellow at the AI Center at San Diego State University. What begins as a conversation about creativity and artificial intelligence quickly evolves into a deeper dialogue on democratizing technology, defeating self-limiting beliefs, and why curiosity is the ultimate superpower. Mike shares his unconventional journey—from accountant to entrepreneur to PayPal’s innovation leader—where he proved that creativity belongs to everyone, not just the “creative types.” Since leaving PayPal, he’s become a leading voice in helping people use AI to expand their potential, not shrink it. If you’ve ever wondered how to embrace change, use technology without losing your humanity, or silence the inner critic that says “you’re not a writer” or “you’re not creative,” this episode is for you. 💡 Topics We Cover: Mike’s winding career path: from green visor accountant to innovation leader at PayPalHow AI can make us both “smarter” and “dumber”—and why it depends on how we use itUsing AI as a tutor, creative partner, and blank-page busterThe role of taste, judgment, and human “messiness” in an AI-driven worldWhy self-talk is the biggest barrier to growth (and how Hemingway’s advice helps)The MFA journey: going back to school at 48 and embracing the discomfort of learning anewHow culture shapes perceptions of human vs. AI-created workWhy live, imperfect, human experiences—from small comedy clubs to Broadway—will only grow more valuable in an AI-saturated world 🛠 Tools and Resources Mentioned: AI tutors and ChatGPT study modes for personalized learningClaude and other large language models for structuring lessons and overcoming the blank pageHumor writing exercises and publications as a practice ground for creativityExperiments at SDSU on how people perceive AI vs. human creativity across cultures 🔥 Notable Quotes: “AI can write you a B+ paper. But it can also help you learn an entire grade level more—if you use it the right way.” — Mike Todasco“Taste and judgment are going to matter more than coding in the future.” — Mike Todasco“All first drafts are crap. Even Hemingway said that. The point is to write anyway.” — Mike Todasco“The thing I’d regret most on my deathbed isn’t failure—it’s never trying.” — Mike Todasco 📌 Connect with Mike: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/todasco/Medium/Substack: Search “Mike Todasco” for essays, humor, and AI writing 👥 Join the Community: Are you a student, teacher, coach, or lifelong learner looking to level up? Follow the Teach, Coach, Mentor podcast and join us as we explore the tools, mindsets, and habits that empower people to become who they’re meant to be. If you are a student and want to join our community to discover your own values and embark on a guided journey of self-discovery, visit https://www.skool.com/self-architect.

    34 min

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Welcome to Teach, Coach, Mentor: the podcast about what it actually takes to reach people. We sit down with teachers, coaches, and mentors who are doing the work and we dig into their methods. How they teach so it lands. How they coach so it sticks. How they mentor so it matters. If you care about getting better at developing others — whether that's in a classroom, on a field, in a workplace, or across a lifetime — this show is for you. I'm your host, educator and coach, Mike Wish. Let's get after it.