Tell Me Where I'm Going (Wrong)

Josh Leuner and Sean O'Callaghan

Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

  1. 13h ago

    Ep 105 - Is Andy Burnham a Virgin Who Can’t Drive?

    This week Josh and Sean discuss the always soaring costs of subscription services, including YouTube movie rentals and Spotify Premium. Why do we increasingly find ourselves not ever owning anything, but rather leasing our experiences? The pair also remember music icon Sinead O’Connor on the third anniversary of her passing. They share their memories of the pop culture legend and recall the poignant experience of visiting her grave. Sean wraps things up by going on a rant about the UK’s news Prime Minister, Andy Burnham. He questions if announcements made by the new PM to fight the cost of living are just performative and how he thinks the Government should be going after elites and billionaires with wealth taxes and caps. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #AndyBurnham #Clueless #YouTube #AliciaSilverstone #UKpolitics #wealthcap #SineadOconnor Mentioned in this episode Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:37 Sean discusses YouTube's movie rental and purchase prices 02:04 The issue of digital ownership and passing rights to heirs 04:09 Lloyd Cole's views on digital music and ownership 05:44 Sean on YouTube Premium and quality restrictions 07:10 The experience of watching videos with and without Premium 08:20 Subscription services and targeted ads on Spotify and podcasts 12:44 The societal implications of subscription capitalism 14:10 AI models breaking containment and potential dangers 16:44 The dystopian future and AI hacking incidents 19:13 Personal reflections on anniversaries and mortality 20:13 Celebrating Sean and Hill's anniversary and plans 21:41 Dealing with illness and upcoming open mic performance 23:01 Josh's hosting style and musical interests 24:23 Remembering Sinead O'Connor and her legacy 25:23 The significance of her death and memorials 26:10 Reflections on aging, retirement, and economic concerns 28:18 UK political updates and cost of living measures 30:18 The future of work, pensions, and economic stability 35:45 Critique of capitalism and societal inequality 36:09 Closing thoughts and personal reflections 45:31 Outro

    Ep 105 - Is Andy Burnham a Virgin Who Can’t Drive?
  2. Jul 21

    Ep 104 - Do Italians Really Do it Better?

    This week Josh and Sean discuss Madonna's famous "Italians do it better" T-shirt. How did this tee become so iconic? It only appeared in one music video but went on to become forever linked to the pop superstar. The pair also chat about the death of film star Sam Neill, his views on meat eating, and some of his best known film roles, before tackling bigger conversations about privilege, consumerism, and the complexities of living ethically in an unequal world. Things then take a distinctly Australian turn as Sean attempts to explain the mysteries of "yeah nah" before the pair share some truly terrifying stories involving huntsman spiders, including one with a dead mouse that might make you think twice about visiting Down Under. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #SamNeill  #NigelFarage #AnnWiddecombe #Spiders #ItaliansDoItBetter #Madonna #Australia Mentioned in this episode Giant Spider Carries Mouse up wall: https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2016/oct/24/australia-giant-spider-mouse-carry-horrifying-impressive Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and T-Shirt Talk 02:55 Madonna and Karaoke Night 05:59 Cultural Identity and Ancestry 08:57 Sam Neill's Legacy and Impact 11:59 Controversial Views on Meat Consumption 14:56 Reflections on Wealth and Hypocrisy 21:37 Privilege and Consumerism 24:46 White Guilt and Global Disparity 27:46 The Complexity of Political Safety 31:25 Language and Cultural Nuances 35:11 Fears and Encounters with Nature 46:54 Outro

    Ep 104 - Do Italians Really Do it Better?
  3. Jul 14

    Ep 103 - Goodbye Bonnie Tyler and Hello Count Binface

    In episode 103 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the death of Welsh pop music legend, Bonnie Tyler, and how public figures across the entertainment and political spectrums have reacted to the news. The pair also discuss the suspicious developments surrounding the passing of UK political figure, Ann Widdecombe. At the time of recording, police had announced they were approaching the situation as a possible murder investigation. This episode also touches on the many farces of Nigel Farage, his more than questionable cash gifts, and how a forced by-election in Clacton has him facing off with Count Binface. Farage’s dealings coupled with record breaking heatwaves in the UK give the impression we might already be in hell Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #CountBinface #NigelFarage #Clacton #AnnWiddecombe #SpiceGirls #MelanieC Mentioned in this episode Total Eclipse of The Heart Literal Video Version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMmXCyrV_WQ Count Binface’s manifesto: https://countbinface.com/makerfieldmanifesto Melanie C on the Louis Theroux Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-louis-theroux-podcast/id1725833532?i=1000775722622 Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Context of the Podcast 02:40 Cultural Differences and Australian Sayings 05:31 Heat Wave Experiences in the UK 08:34 Public Transport Challenges During Heat 11:43 Tributes to Bonnie Tyler and Anne Widdecombe 17:36 Political Legacy of Anne Widdecombe 21:25 Celebrity Deaths and Their Impact 23:21 Political Turmoil: Nigel Farage's Resignation 28:57 The Rise of Absurd Political Figures 35:38 Populism and the Disenfranchised Voter 39:00 The Spice Girls: Fame and Personal Struggles 46:18 Outro

    Ep 103 - Goodbye Bonnie Tyler and Hello Count Binface
  4. Jul 7

    Ep 102 - Billionaire Weddings and World Cup Fever

    In episode 102 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the current global obsession with the Mens World Cup. Football fans all over the planet are cheering for their national teams, but do the hosts of this podcast care? Not a lot, in all honesty. The pair also discuss the grotesque display of spending when billionaires get married. This conversation comes hot on the heals of pop superstar Taylor Swift and sport star Travis Kelce hiring Madison Square Garden for their wedding.  This episode also touches on the new album released by Madonna. Josh has listened a few times and doesn’t mind it. Sean does a lot of shrugging in his reaction to the new music by the music legend. Is it a wrap on Madonna? Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #TaylorSwift #TravisKelce #Billionaires #SocialJustuce #Wealth #Madonna #WorldCup #Mexico About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Light Banter 07:47 World Cup Fever and National Pride 18:09 Language and Terminology in Global Contexts 21:26 Socioeconomic Classifications and Capitalism 23:34 The Absurdity of Billionaire Weddings 28:04 Wealth Distribution and Personal Responsibility 30:51 The Impact of Wealth on Society 31:36 Pride and Public Events 34:16 Madonna's New Album and Artistic Reflection 39:42 Madonna's Persona and Public Perception 44:30 Concluding Thoughts on Wealth and Fame 45:37 Outro

    Ep 102 - Billionaire Weddings and World Cup Fever
  5. Jun 30

    Ep 101 - UK Heatwave, Political Upheaval, and Pop Flops

    In episode 101 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the ongoing heatwave in the UK, as the country swelters through multiple record-breaking daily temperature highs. Why are we so incapable of dealing with extreme heat and what does it mean for the future? The pair also discuss the political upheaval within the Labour Party, the resignation of Prime Minister Keir Starmer, and the seemingly unavoidable ‘coronation’ of King of the North Andy Burnham. Is the UK political system no longer fit for purpose? This episode also touches on the rise and fall of pop superstar Lizzo, who in a few short years went from being a multi-Grammy award-winning artist with mega hits to not being able to sell more than a few thousand copies of her latest album. Times have changes and everyone from Madonna to Katy Perry is desperately looking for creative ways to market their art. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #Lizzo #Madonna #AndyBurnham #UKPolitics #Heatwave  #KatyPerry About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Heat Wave Discussion 01:45 Coping with Extreme Heat in London 04:46 Health Concerns and Bowel Cancer Screening 10:52 Cultural Commentary on Music and Celebrity 16:42 Madonna's Controversial Public Image 23:05 Staying Relevant in the Attention Economy 23:57 The Saturation of Music Releases 26:45 The Cost of Concerts and Live Events 28:59 Language and Identity: The Use of 'Homosexual' 31:19 Navigating Body Language and Appearance 38:06 Political Resignation and Public Sentiment 41:33 The Process of Choosing a New Leader 44:59 The Future of Political Representation 47:42 Outro

    Ep 101 - UK Heatwave, Political Upheaval, and Pop Flops
  6. Jun 23

    Ep 100 - Is AI Becoming a New Religion?

    In episode 100 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss their love for award winning television show, Hacks. The pair discuss what appeals to them about the dark comedy while sharing praise for the iconic cast including Jean Smart, Megan Stalter, and Paul W. Downs.  The pair also discuss the ups and downs of air travel, from economy seating not suitable for larger people through to vegan meal requests that go ignored. How easy is it to travel as a vegan in 2026? Sean also reports back on the vegan food scene in Tokyo, while Josh remembers his culinary adventures from a recent trip to Barcelona. This episode also touches on AI. The topic has been discussed a lot by the pair however artificial intelligence and its impact on our lives doesn’t seem to be going away. Is AI a new form of religion? Are people relying on it too much? Does it stop critical thinking skills from developing in humans? As always, we have none of the answers but lots of opinions. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #Travel #vegan #Hacks #JeanSmart #AI #MegStalter  About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned Queer Open Mic London: https://www.meetup.com/queer-open-mic-london/  Buy your tickets for London Vegan Beer Fest: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Celebrating 100 Episodes: A Reflection 12:36 The Challenges of Modern Travel 19:45 Culinary Adventures: Vegan Food Around the World 24:42 AI: The New Deity? 25:40 The Rise of AI as a New Religion 29:52 AI in the Workplace: A New Mandate 32:51 The Impact of AI on Critical Thinking 36:45 Cognitive Decline and AI Dependency 38:49 Reflections on 'Hacks': A Cultural Commentary 46:32 Outro

  7. Jun 16

    Ep 99 - Dirty Jeans at Danceteria

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the coming out of Australian sportsperson Kane Evans, while also reflecting on their own coming out experiences. They question how attitudes towards the LGBTQ communities in both Australia and the UK have changed across their lifetimes. The pair also discuss the latest long form music video by superstar Madonna and what it means for women to age in the public eye. This also creates an opportunity to discuss the music of Australian rock music legend Adalita of the band, Magic Dirt. This episode also touches on travel etiquette, especially since Sean is currently in Australia and preparing for a flight back to the UK. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #Madonna #MagicDirt #Adalita #KaneEvans #GayNFL About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned Interview about Kane Evans coming out: https://qnews.com.au/former-nrl-player-kane-evans-comes-out-as-gay-in-powerful-interview/ Madonna’s Facts About AIDS leaflet from the Like A Prayer album: https://www.threads.com/@matthewhodsonlondon/post/DXT1eyjiDZG/media Madonna’s Confessions II Film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJtckcMHM2g Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Time Zone Challenges 02:24 Weather and Wildlife in Australia 05:22 Magic Dirt: An Australian Rock Band 11:33 Personal Encounters with Celebrities 14:25 Discussion on LGBTQ+ Representation in Sports 21:21 Reflections on Coming Out and Identity 21:55 The Struggles of LGBTQ+ Identity and Perception 24:05 Media Representation of HIV/AIDS 26:34 Madonna's Impact on HIV Awareness 29:09 Madonna's New Artistic Direction 41:30 Travel Etiquette and Passenger Behaviour 47:23 Outro

    Ep 99 - Dirty Jeans at Danceteria
  8. Jun 9

    Ep 98 - Frida Kahlo: Talent Vs Fame

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the cultural legacy of Mexican artist Frida Kahlo ahead of a new opening of her work at the Tate in London. What is it about her art or perceived personality that still generates such infamy, decades after her death? The pair also discuss whether a disconnect exists between the influx of new members to the Green Party and what the political party actually advocates for. Are people throwing their support behind the Greens for single issues and, if so, is that a problem? And could Labour’s Andy Burnham actually turn out to be a progressive leader who pushes inclusive agendas? This episode also includes a bit of comic relief as Josh and Sean ask each other questions from the official Life in the UK test. Do they have what it takes to prove their Britishness? Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #FridaKahlo #AndyBurnham #Greens #LifeInTheUK #UK #London About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lacuna  Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Plant Care Discussion 02:51 UK Citizenship and Cultural Knowledge Test 05:54 Frida Kahlo: An Artistic Icon 11:49 Cultural Appropriation and Legacy of Frida Kahlo 17:46 The Complexity of Frida Kahlo's Life and Art 20:59 The Evolution of Frida Kahlo's Legacy 29:00 The Green Party: A Bandwagon or Genuine Support? 37:50 Navigating Political Ideologies and Environmental Concerns 45:50 The Future of Progressive Politics in the UK 47:09 Outro

    Ep 98 - Frida Kahlo: Talent Vs Fame

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Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

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