Tell Me Where I'm Going (Wrong)

Josh Leuner and Sean O'Callaghan
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Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

  1. Ep 89 - Ooooooohhh... On The MAGA Tip with Chilli

    3D AGO

    Ep 89 - Ooooooohhh... On The MAGA Tip with Chilli

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the recent controversy surround Rozonda ‘Chilli’ Thomas of musical supergroup TLC. Chilli is facing backlash from fans after it was revealed she had made donations to Donald Trump’s campaign. Is this enough to stop people (and the hosts) from enjoying the music of TLC? The pair then chat about the phenomenon of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and its connection to ADHD. Why are some people disproportionately upset by criticism or feedback? Is there a way of working through these feelings This episode also touches on the current spaceflight of Artemis II as it makes its way to the Earth’s moon and back. Josh and Sean marvel at the extraordinary journey and question if it is something they would do if given the chance. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #Artemis #TheMoon #popculture #LGBTQ #RozondaThomas #TLC #Chilli #CurrentAffairs About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 02:44 Exciting Travel Plans to Romania 05:54 TLC's Chilli and Political Controversy 11:43 The Impact of Celebrity Politics on Fans 17:37 Navigating Personal Connections to Music and Artists 19:46 Current Events and Societal Concerns 22:03 Societal Norms and Breakdown 24:47 Understanding Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) 32:58 The Impact of RSD on Relationships 34:59 Space Exploration: Fear and Fascination 42:46 Controversial Laws and Human Rights Issues 47:23 Outro

    48 min
  2. Ep 88 - Who Will Save Us From The Manosphere?

    MAR 31

    Ep 88 - Who Will Save Us From The Manosphere?

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the recent Louis Theroux documentary dealing with toxic masculinity. Inside The Manosphere explores the phenomenon of modern male influencers and the young fans they impact. This dive into the online Manosphere includes the latest scandals surrounding streamer Clavicula and his arrest for battery, the investigation into suspected animal cruelty, and the troubling trend called looksmaxxing. The pair then chat about the problematic reality of billionaire property ownership across London and how corporations and individuals are avoiding paying tax on these properties by setting up head offices in tax havens. How can there be a fair future for working class Londoners? This episode also celebrates content creator Joe Santagato and his online channels including Santagato Studios and The Basement Yard. Sean gets Josh up to speed on Joe’s runaway success and how he and his childhood friends might very well be the antithesis of the toxic Manosphere with their wholesome, feel-good content. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #BasementYard #popculture #LGBTQ #JoeSantagato #CurrentAffairs #celebrity #Manosphere About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Another drink, Sue? Find out why Josh and Sean call each other ’Sue’: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRSRcMC7bsE&t=5s Basement Yard channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheBasementYard Londoner Article: Revealed: the billionaires who really own London: https://www.the-londoner.co.uk/we-reveal-the-billionaires-who-really-own-london/ Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Context 02:25 Exploring the Manosphere 10:45 The Impact of Toxic Masculinity 16:27 Positive Masculinity and Alternative Influencers 25:11 Engaging Word Games and Positive Masculinity 31:52 The Impact of Wealth on Urban Culture 39:55 Reimagining Democracy and Wealth Distribution 43:17 The Need for Renewable Energy and Revolution 44:56 Outro

    45 min
  3. Ep 87 - Is Chappell Roan Entitled to Privacy?

    MAR 24

    Ep 87 - Is Chappell Roan Entitled to Privacy?

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the public reaction to how pop superstar Chappell Roan chooses to handle herself when it comes to privacy and personal space. Is she rude for reacting when she feels boundaries are crossed? Do women get a tougher time than men when it comes to holding celebrities accountable for their behaviour? The pair chat about Lily Allen and her current West End Girl tour, with Josh recounting the gig he attended in London and Sean remembering his Sheffield show.  This episode also touches on the seemingly unchecked expansion of AI and what it means for our privacy and safety. Will AI centres in space create problematic space junk? Are we being tracked everywhere we go? Who will take responsibility for policing this technology? Enjoy the ride! #podcast #LilyAllen #ArtificialIntelligence #ChappellRoan #popculture #LGBTQ #DavidHarbour #CurrentAffairs #celebrity About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Lily Allen’s West End Girl album: https://lilyallenmusic.com Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Technical Issues 01:40 Navigating Global Anxiety 02:37 Lily Allen's Concert Experience 05:36 The Emotional Depth of 'West End Girl' Album 09:38 The Complexity of Artistic Expression 13:32 Fame and Personal Boundaries 19:48 Navigating Fame and Autonomy 22:18 The Right to Choose: Celebrity Boundaries 22:48 Misogyny in the Spotlight: The Pressure on Women 24:42 Concert Dynamics: Small Venues vs. Large Arenas 27:05 The Impact of Gaming: Pokémon Go and Data Collection 31:42 The Wild West of Technology: AI and Regulation 39:26 Imagining a World Without the Internet 42:44 Privacy Invasion: The Reality of Surveillance 45:24 Outro

    46 min
  4. Ep 86 - Is Brighton the Saddest City in the UK?

    MAR 17

    Ep 86 - Is Brighton the Saddest City in the UK?

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss their recent day trip to the seaside city of Brighton and Hove. They share memories and insights, as well as reflect on the depressing qualities of British seaside resorts and towns. The pair chat about the vegan food scene in Brighton, as well as the strange trend of vegan businesses adding non-vegan options to their menus. This episode also touches on the animal cruelty prevalent in shows such as Crufts. Josh and Sean discuss being baffled by how a person once convicted of animal cruelty was permitted to compete in this dog show. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #Crufts #AnimalCruelty #Brighton #popculture #LGBTQ #VeganLondon #CurrentAffairs About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Listen to Fortitude Valley: https://fortitudevalley.co.uk Guardian article about Crufts: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/mar/12/channel-4-under-fire-after-crufts-winners-animal-cruelty-conviction-emerges Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Plant Talk 02:53 Reflections on Brighton: A Melancholic Seaside Town 05:42 The Nature of Youth and Public Behavior 08:53 Exploring Brighton's Atmosphere and History 11:49 Personal Connections to the Coast and Mortality 14:48 The Band Experience: Fortitude Valley and Remember Sports 17:40 Vegan Food Adventures in Brighton 24:19 Creating Safe Spaces for the Queer Community 25:50 The Controversy of Dog Shows 30:29 Animal Welfare and Cultural Traditions 34:21 The Vegan Business Dilemma 45:24 Navigating Veganism in a Non-Vegan World 48:01 Outro

    48 min
  5. Ep 85 - Is SNL The Unfunniest Show on the Planet?

    MAR 10

    Ep 85 - Is SNL The Unfunniest Show on the Planet?

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the aftermath of the BBC and the BAFTAs bungling of the John Davidson situation and how the entertainment industry has reacted to people living with Tourette Syndrome. They drill down on the Saturday Night Live skit which ridiculed the situation and ask why such an unfunny show keeps getting made year after year. The pair chat about the ongoing conflict in Iran and across the Middle East, sharing their own fears and concerns for global unrest. This episode also reflects on the news of beer company BrewDog being sold for a rock bottom price and how the brand caused problems throughout its history with problematic and offensive marketing. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #Iran #PeteHegseth #BrewDog #popculture #LGBTQ #popculture #Tourette #CurrentAffairs About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Hair Bleaching Rituals 02:54 Online Abuse and Controversial Opinions 05:59 Political Landscape: UK and US Relations 11:54 Tax Havens and Emergency Flights 17:55 Media Representation and Tourette's Syndrome 20:55 The Controversial SNL Skit 25:16 The Complexity of Humour and Offense 29:44 Institutional Responsibility and Inclusion 31:24 The Downfall of BrewDog 41:18 Reflections on the Future 44:47 Outro

    45 min
  6. Ep 84 - Smizing As World War III Commences

    MAR 3

    Ep 84 - Smizing As World War III Commences

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean share their reactions to military strikes on Iran by the United States of America and Israel, as well as the role the UK will or won’t play in the ensuing conflict. The pair chat about the recent UK by-election in Gorton and Denton in which Green candidate Hannah Spencer stormed past Reform and Labour to win in a parliamentary seat in a stunning upset. This episode also reflects on the legacy of reality TV show America’s Next Top Model, especially in light of recent docu-series Reality Check. They remember their own memories of the show and explore the problematic nature of the production, as well as catch up on what host Tyra Banks is up to now. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #Iran #Israel #TopModel #TyraBanks #ByElection #HannahSpencer #Green #Smizing #LGBTQ #popculture About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Dynamics 02:58 Reality Check: America's Next Top Model Docu-Series 11:54 The Problematic Nature of Reality TV 14:53 Current Events: The Onset of World War III 22:37 Historical Context and Oil Politics 24:28 The Impact of Oil Supply Disruptions 25:49 Venezuela's Political Turmoil 27:46 The Complexity of Oil Reserves 28:07 UK By-Election Dynamics 32:45 The Rise of the Green Party 35:25 Voter Sentiment and Political Shifts 39:47 Racial Politics and Voting Dynamics 42:40 The Future of Political Representation 44:54 Outro

    45 min
  7. Ep 83 - Will He Go To Prison? Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor Reaction

    FEB 24

    Ep 83 - Will He Go To Prison? Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor Reaction

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean share their reactions to the arrest of Andrew Mountbatten-WIndsor, formerly known as Prince Andrew. The pair chat about this huge news that has shaken the world and consider what it means for the future of the British Monarchy. Who knew about Andrew’s misdeeds? Was there a cover-up? The episode also reflects on the life and music of celebrated lyricist, Billy Steinberg. Billy passed away last week so Sean and Josh take time to remember the incredible contribution he made to popular culture, as well as some their favourite songs from the Billy Steinberg catalogue. Of course Madonna gets a mention but the list of artists who recorded Billy Steinberg compositions is enormous. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #BillySteinberg #Madonna #PrinceAndrew #AndrewWindsor #RoyalScandal #LGBTQ #popculture #CyndiLauper About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts    Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Things mentioned: Billy Steinberg playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1EFI22fcx3hB9x?si=a5d8e70bbe73438c  Sodajerker on Songwriting Billy Steinberg episode: https://sodajerker.com/billy-steinberg-1950-2026/ Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Virtual Reality Experience 10:42 Remembering Billy Steinberg: A Musical Legacy 19:25 The Legacy of Billy Steinberg 28:13 The Arrest of Andrew Mountbatten Windsor 45:24 Reflections on Royal Accountability 47:00 Outro

    47 min
  8. Ep 82 - Super Bowl Reaction and Virtual Squabbles with Drag Queens

    FEB 17

    Ep 82 - Super Bowl Reaction and Virtual Squabbles with Drag Queens

    In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean share their emotional reactions to the Bad Bunny Super Bowl Half Time show. The pair chat about the cultural impact of the show, the symbolism contained within the performance, and how it delivered an emotional impact that rippled around the world. And of course they weigh in on Lady Gaga’s surprise appearance. Sean explains how he has recently butted heads with drag superstars Bob The Drag Queen (about using harsh language to give feedback) and Trixie Mattel (in an open letter in which he asks her to reconsider keeping caged birds). The pair also discuss the lasting effects of childhood trauma and explore the concept of limerence, the mental state of being overly infatuated with an individual and how this is often associated with abandonment issues from early years. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #BadBunny #SuperBowl #LadyGaga #ChildhoodTrauma #LGBTQ  #Limerence #TrixieMattel #BobTheDragQueen About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Things mentioned: Our Whole Childhood Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/our-whole-childhood-with-patrick-teahan/id1659927347⁠ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1tOAzOD0sB0ZZ4HvJBqhhsKGm9RwOxoE Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Technical Challenges 02:37 The Power of Dr. Theatre 05:40 Emotional Impact of the Super Bowl Halftime Show 08:41 Cultural Representation in Performance 11:29 Symbolism and Celebration of Latin Culture 14:41 Lady Gaga's Impact and Performance 17:25 Reflections on Bad Bunny and Vocal Performance 20:34 Engagement with Pop Culture and Controversies 23:49 The Ethics of Pet Ownership 25:13 Mental Health and Self-Care Journeys 25:43 Exploring Overeaters Anonymous 35:34 Understanding Limerence and Its Impact 44:38 Art as a Reflection of Personal Struggles 46:51 Outro

    47 min
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Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

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  • Creator
    Josh Leuner and Sean O'Callaghan
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    89
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Josh Leuner and Sean O'Callaghan
  • Show Website
    Tell Me Where I'm Going (Wrong)

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