Tell Me Where I'm Going (Wrong)

Josh Leuner and Sean O'Callaghan

Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

  1. 12h ago

    Ep 108 - Total Eclipse of the Charts

    This week Josh and Sean discuss the record-breaking chart performance of Kylie Minogue and Madonna as their collaboration, Love Sensation, hits the UK top ten. How many more hits does Madonna need to pass Cliff Richard? Why don’t old people know how to stream music? All this and more is discussed! The pair also discuss the recent partial eclipse seen around the UK and how the moon is actually travelling away from Earth, meaning one day eclipses will be a thing of the past. But don’t worry. That won’t happen for another 650 million years or so. The episode also explores the rising cost of renting a home in London. From bedrooms in share houses to caravans in a stranger’s driveway, working class people are being forced out of the capital by extortionate rents for tiny properties. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #Madonna #Kylie #KylieMinogue #LoveSensation #Eclipse #London #RentalCrisis Mentioned in this episode Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters 00:00 The Art of Selective Pruning 03:38 Celebrating Birthdays and Plant Care 09:43 Madonna and Kylie's Chart Success 19:37 Streaming vs. Physical Sales in Music 21:17 The Streaming Dilemma: Charting Success 24:33 Housing Crisis in London: The Cost of Living 29:51 The Struggles of Job Hunting in London 37:11 Eclipses and the Future of Earth 45:05 Public Safety Alerts: A Necessary Measure? 46:51 Outro

    Ep 108 - Total Eclipse of the Charts
  2. Aug 11

    Ep 107 - Quicker Than a Ray of Light

    This week Josh and Sean discuss the recent (and historic) controversies surrounding celebrity gossip blogger, Perez Hilton. Following the blogger’s apparent mental health emergency that was live-streamed, the duo discuss how he mistreated mostly-female celebrities across decades. The pair also discuss the death of music producer William Orbit, most known for his collaboration with Madonna on her Ray of Light album. Sean explores the diversity of Orbit’s work and uncovers some surpassing collaborations including Betty Boo, Blur, and Belinda Carlisle. The episode also explores the current UK political landscape as Josh suggests that perhaps the Conservative Party is losing votes to Reform (and Restore) because some voters don’t want to support a Black woman (Kemi Badenoch) as the potential Prime Minister. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #PerezHilton #WilliamOrbit #RayOfLight #Madonna #UKpolitics #KemiBadenoch Mentioned in this episode Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Light Banter 02:25 Celebrity Gossip and Mental Health 05:27 The Controversial Figure of Perez Hilton 08:37 The Impact of Celebrity Culture 11:38 Mental Health and Public Perception 14:35 Empathy in the Age of Social Media 17:25 Pop Culture and Personal Taste 22:09 Remembering William Orbit 35:03 The Conservative Party's Controversial Candidate 46:28 Celebrating Milestones and Upcoming Events 46:36 Outro

    Ep 107 - Quicker Than a Ray of Light
  3. Aug 4

    Ep 106 - Church of the Poison Mind

    This week Josh and Sean discuss the death of Academy Award-winning artist Glen Hansard, including his controversial reputation for having relationships with younger women. They ask the question about how easy it is to separate a celebrated artist from their controversial actions. The pair also discuss Boy George and his recently released AI-assisted song. The track contains lyrics that show support for Israel while condemning other musical artists that have publicly stood up for Gaza.  The episode spends time remembering comedian, conservationist, singer, bird enthusiast, and TV star Bill Oddie. Sean recalls how omnipresent Bill and his The Goodies castmates were during his childhood in Australia, whereas Josh talks of never having seen the show. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #GlenHansard #BillOddie  #UKpolitics #BoyGeorge #TheGoodies Mentioned in this episode Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts - Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Connection Issues 01:59 Personal Updates and Grooming Choices 05:04 Subcultures and Stereotypes in Fashion 07:53 Celebrity Deaths and Media Consumption 11:03 The Grammys and Cultural Representation 17:08 Reflections on Glenn Hansard's Legacy 22:03 Controversial Relationships in Music 24:07 Reflections on Recent Deaths in the Music Industry 26:01 The Legacy of Bill Oddie 33:22 Boy George's Controversial New Single 42:06 AI in Music Creation and Ethical Dilemmas 45:30 Outro

    Ep 106 - Church of the Poison Mind
  4. Jul 28

    Ep 105 - Is Andy Burnham a Virgin Who Can’t Drive?

    This week Josh and Sean discuss the always soaring costs of subscription services, including YouTube movie rentals and Spotify Premium. Why do we increasingly find ourselves not ever owning anything, but rather leasing our experiences? The pair also remember music icon Sinead O’Connor on the third anniversary of her passing. They share their memories of the pop culture legend and recall the poignant experience of visiting her grave. Sean wraps things up by going on a rant about the UK’s news Prime Minister, Andy Burnham. He questions if announcements made by the new PM to fight the cost of living are just performative and how he thinks the Government should be going after elites and billionaires with wealth taxes and caps. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #AndyBurnham #Clueless #YouTube #AliciaSilverstone #UKpolitics #wealthcap #SineadOconnor Mentioned in this episode Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:37 Sean discusses YouTube's movie rental and purchase prices 02:04 The issue of digital ownership and passing rights to heirs 04:09 Lloyd Cole's views on digital music and ownership 05:44 Sean on YouTube Premium and quality restrictions 07:10 The experience of watching videos with and without Premium 08:20 Subscription services and targeted ads on Spotify and podcasts 12:44 The societal implications of subscription capitalism 14:10 AI models breaking containment and potential dangers 16:44 The dystopian future and AI hacking incidents 19:13 Personal reflections on anniversaries and mortality 20:13 Celebrating Sean and Hill's anniversary and plans 21:41 Dealing with illness and upcoming open mic performance 23:01 Josh's hosting style and musical interests 24:23 Remembering Sinead O'Connor and her legacy 25:23 The significance of her death and memorials 26:10 Reflections on aging, retirement, and economic concerns 28:18 UK political updates and cost of living measures 30:18 The future of work, pensions, and economic stability 35:45 Critique of capitalism and societal inequality 36:09 Closing thoughts and personal reflections 45:31 Outro

    Ep 105 - Is Andy Burnham a Virgin Who Can’t Drive?
  5. Jul 21

    Ep 104 - Do Italians Really Do it Better?

    This week Josh and Sean discuss Madonna's famous "Italians do it better" T-shirt. How did this tee become so iconic? It only appeared in one music video but went on to become forever linked to the pop superstar. The pair also chat about the death of film star Sam Neill, his views on meat eating, and some of his best known film roles, before tackling bigger conversations about privilege, consumerism, and the complexities of living ethically in an unequal world. Things then take a distinctly Australian turn as Sean attempts to explain the mysteries of "yeah nah" before the pair share some truly terrifying stories involving huntsman spiders, including one with a dead mouse that might make you think twice about visiting Down Under. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #SamNeill  #NigelFarage #AnnWiddecombe #Spiders #ItaliansDoItBetter #Madonna #Australia Mentioned in this episode Giant Spider Carries Mouse up wall: https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2016/oct/24/australia-giant-spider-mouse-carry-horrifying-impressive Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and T-Shirt Talk 02:55 Madonna and Karaoke Night 05:59 Cultural Identity and Ancestry 08:57 Sam Neill's Legacy and Impact 11:59 Controversial Views on Meat Consumption 14:56 Reflections on Wealth and Hypocrisy 21:37 Privilege and Consumerism 24:46 White Guilt and Global Disparity 27:46 The Complexity of Political Safety 31:25 Language and Cultural Nuances 35:11 Fears and Encounters with Nature 46:54 Outro

    Ep 104 - Do Italians Really Do it Better?
  6. Jul 14

    Ep 103 - Goodbye Bonnie Tyler and Hello Count Binface

    In episode 103 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the death of Welsh pop music legend, Bonnie Tyler, and how public figures across the entertainment and political spectrums have reacted to the news. The pair also discuss the suspicious developments surrounding the passing of UK political figure, Ann Widdecombe. At the time of recording, police had announced they were approaching the situation as a possible murder investigation. This episode also touches on the many farces of Nigel Farage, his more than questionable cash gifts, and how a forced by-election in Clacton has him facing off with Count Binface. Farage’s dealings coupled with record breaking heatwaves in the UK give the impression we might already be in hell Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #CountBinface #NigelFarage #Clacton #AnnWiddecombe #SpiceGirls #MelanieC Mentioned in this episode Total Eclipse of The Heart Literal Video Version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMmXCyrV_WQ Count Binface’s manifesto: https://countbinface.com/makerfieldmanifesto Melanie C on the Louis Theroux Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-louis-theroux-podcast/id1725833532?i=1000775722622 Tickets for Queer Vegan Disco on 21st August: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-vegan-disco-tickets-1993624603857 About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Context of the Podcast 02:40 Cultural Differences and Australian Sayings 05:31 Heat Wave Experiences in the UK 08:34 Public Transport Challenges During Heat 11:43 Tributes to Bonnie Tyler and Anne Widdecombe 17:36 Political Legacy of Anne Widdecombe 21:25 Celebrity Deaths and Their Impact 23:21 Political Turmoil: Nigel Farage's Resignation 28:57 The Rise of Absurd Political Figures 35:38 Populism and the Disenfranchised Voter 39:00 The Spice Girls: Fame and Personal Struggles 46:18 Outro

    Ep 103 - Goodbye Bonnie Tyler and Hello Count Binface
  7. Jul 7

    Ep 102 - Billionaire Weddings and World Cup Fever

    In episode 102 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the current global obsession with the Mens World Cup. Football fans all over the planet are cheering for their national teams, but do the hosts of this podcast care? Not a lot, in all honesty. The pair also discuss the grotesque display of spending when billionaires get married. This conversation comes hot on the heals of pop superstar Taylor Swift and sport star Travis Kelce hiring Madison Square Garden for their wedding.  This episode also touches on the new album released by Madonna. Josh has listened a few times and doesn’t mind it. Sean does a lot of shrugging in his reaction to the new music by the music legend. Is it a wrap on Madonna? Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #TaylorSwift #TravisKelce #Billionaires #SocialJustuce #Wealth #Madonna #WorldCup #Mexico About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Light Banter 07:47 World Cup Fever and National Pride 18:09 Language and Terminology in Global Contexts 21:26 Socioeconomic Classifications and Capitalism 23:34 The Absurdity of Billionaire Weddings 28:04 Wealth Distribution and Personal Responsibility 30:51 The Impact of Wealth on Society 31:36 Pride and Public Events 34:16 Madonna's New Album and Artistic Reflection 39:42 Madonna's Persona and Public Perception 44:30 Concluding Thoughts on Wealth and Fame 45:37 Outro

    Ep 102 - Billionaire Weddings and World Cup Fever
  8. Jun 30

    Ep 101 - UK Heatwave, Political Upheaval, and Pop Flops

    In episode 101 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the ongoing heatwave in the UK, as the country swelters through multiple record-breaking daily temperature highs. Why are we so incapable of dealing with extreme heat and what does it mean for the future? The pair also discuss the political upheaval within the Labour Party, the resignation of Prime Minister Keir Starmer, and the seemingly unavoidable ‘coronation’ of King of the North Andy Burnham. Is the UK political system no longer fit for purpose? This episode also touches on the rise and fall of pop superstar Lizzo, who in a few short years went from being a multi-Grammy award-winning artist with mega hits to not being able to sell more than a few thousand copies of her latest album. Times have changes and everyone from Madonna to Katy Perry is desperately looking for creative ways to market their art. Enjoy the ride! #podcast #popculture #LGBTQ #CurrentAffairs #vegan #Lizzo #Madonna #AndyBurnham #UKPolitics #Heatwave  #KatyPerry About the Hosts Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts  Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here: https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan  Theme Music Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g Other things mentioned: Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates: https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Heat Wave Discussion 01:45 Coping with Extreme Heat in London 04:46 Health Concerns and Bowel Cancer Screening 10:52 Cultural Commentary on Music and Celebrity 16:42 Madonna's Controversial Public Image 23:05 Staying Relevant in the Attention Economy 23:57 The Saturation of Music Releases 26:45 The Cost of Concerts and Live Events 28:59 Language and Identity: The Use of 'Homosexual' 31:19 Navigating Body Language and Appearance 38:06 Political Resignation and Public Sentiment 41:33 The Process of Choosing a New Leader 44:59 The Future of Political Representation 47:42 Outro

    Ep 101 - UK Heatwave, Political Upheaval, and Pop Flops

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Two exes engage in an irreverent chat about pop culture, ageing in the queer world, and what it's like for a romantic relationship to morph into friendship. Interspersed are funny quips about current events, as well as plenty of trips down memory lane. Enjoy the ride!

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