I Think I Love My Wife Podcast

Chiedozie Eric Okafor
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This podcast explores the inner workings, struggles, challenges, and beauty of being in a relationship. It goes deep in uncovering how people have overcome challenges to become engaged and then married. It intentionally focuses on getting perspective from married men of color, especially married Black men, while providing a platform where people can learn from their stories. This podcast also highlights the mental burdens that stem from societal pressures, generational curses, gender related norms, and personal expectations.

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  1. Allen Part 1: I gave her an ultimatum

    第 1 集

    Allen Part 1: I gave her an ultimatum

    In this episode (I gave her an ultimatum), I explore Allen's journey to marriage and challenges that come with dating. I talk to a friend, who's recently married after being engaged for five years, to uncover lessons learned. We discuss navigating life's transitions on one's journey to getting married. We talk about how having a child impacts your calculus on getting married. Allen and I investigate why guys are scared to shoot their shot and the best places for singles to meet each other. We share different views on dating versus courting. We explore why people look for symbolic things, when dating, that don't have a lot of meaning when it comes to marriage. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    39 分钟
  2. Allen Part 2: Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect

    第 2 集

    Allen Part 2: Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect

    In this episode (Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect), I continue my conversation with Allen, exploring the ups and downs of his relationship and journey to marriage.  We discuss his five-year engagement and how he navigated this journey with his fiancee. We talk about his rationale for having a child during the COVID epidemic and discuss how he was able to get past a bump in the road with his in-laws. Allen and I explore the importance of moving as a unit in marriage. We also break down a few different approaches to finances for a household. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    42 分钟
  3. Allen Part 3: Sometimes you don't want to hear $h!t about yourself

    第 3 集

    Allen Part 3: Sometimes you don't want to hear $h!t about yourself

    In this episode (Sometimes you don’t want to hear $h!t about yourself), I wrap up my conversation with Allen and his evolution as a husband and father. We discuss how “good sex” looks different to different people. We talk about the misconceptions of sex and challenges that can come up in that area once married. We explore why women do not usually communicate or give feedback to their partner when they’ve had poor sexual experiences. Allen and I unpack how fatherhood has changed him and the importance of preparing your children for adult experiences. We also touch on therapy and I get his perspective on what is hard about going as well as why people should go to therapy. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    39 分钟
  4. LaDarius Part 1: Your joy is your responsibility

    第 4 集

    LaDarius Part 1: Your joy is your responsibility

    In this episode (Your joy is your responsibility), I begin my conversation with LaDarius as we tackle how he faced his history, created boundaries, and found happiness as he pursued his now-wife for marriage. We discuss the importance of maintaining boundaries when dating and while trying to grow a deeper relationship with Christ. We talk about navigating our personal history, more specifically, his wounds from his mother and how it’s part of the preparation process. We unpack his realization during a period of time when he wasn’t making the best decisions for himself and the effects of placing blame on others when you’re getting what you want. We dissect his mindset shift required to maintain his joy. We also explore the need to acknowledge and be present in your partner’s feelings when you are working to achieve your personal goals as well as the things you want for your relationship. We touch on the challenges of being an influencer and entrepreneur while maintaining a marriage.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    41 分钟
  5. LaDarius Part 2: Healing is not a one day thing

    第 5 集

    LaDarius Part 2: Healing is not a one day thing

    In this episode (Healing is not a one day thing), I wrap my conversation with LaDarius as we discuss his journey in marriage and faith.   We talk about the importance of communicating expectations upfront. We discuss how he and his wife navigated several major life changes - getting pregnant, being engaged, becoming a father, dealing with COVID epidemic, and getting married - within less than two years. We explore the need to heal and the way having a strong relationship with Jesus Christ can show you how to operate in marriage. We also highlight the impact therapy can have and how it proactively helped him get in front of things that he needed and wanted to navigate.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    43 分钟
  6. Lamar Part 1: There was some healing that I needed

    第 6 集

    Lamar Part 1: There was some healing that I needed

    In this episode (There was some healing that I needed), I begin my conversation with Lamar as we discuss his journey in marriage and learning to trust.   We talk about how to shoot your shot at a woman you see rejecting other guys. We discuss the importance of having a ride-or-die partner and someone who is willing to “shoot with you in the gym.” We unpack the struggles that can come in a relationship from issues with trust and vulnerability. We go on to highlight his process of learning how to love someone and creating an infrastructure for vulnerability. We spend time expressing our thoughts on therapy as a preventative measure and pathway for growth and healing. We explore his first few years of marriage and how he and wife survived the challenges that made it rough. We also touch on learning how to balance passions and personal interests with the things that actually matter (i.e., God, wife, children, family). We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    49 分钟
  7. Lamar Part 2: You want someone that chooses you

    第 7 集

    Lamar Part 2: You want someone that chooses you

    In this episode (You want someone that chooses you), I wrap up my conversation with Lamar as we discuss his journey in marriage and fatherhood.   We talk about navigating pregnancy issues and an atopic pregnancy. We discuss how you have to move differently in a committed relationship or marriage. We unpack some of the joy he gets from doing things with your children that you didn’t get to during his childhood. We highlight getting a vasectomy and how it’s a better preventative measure than options available to women. We spend time exploring his fatherhood journey, where his kids have become his biggest mirror, raising children on the autism spectrum, and learning that there is nothing to fix with neurodivergent children. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    49 分钟
  8. Terrence Part 1: Trying to protect you from me

    第 8 集

    Terrence Part 1: Trying to protect you from me

    In this episode (Trying to protect you from me), I begin my conversation with Terrence as we discuss him playing the gray prior to marriage and what changed for him in his  journey to marriage. We talk about how proposing and getting engaged can feel heavier than actually getting married. We discuss why he waited until he proposed to say “I love you” for the first time. We highlight the importance of providing reassurance to your partner. We unpack the effects and impact on him from not growing up in a traditional environment or seeing healthy relationships. We spend time exploring why he tried to let go of a relationship that he was not ready for. I also get his explanation on the difference between selfishness and strategy when being involved with someone. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!

    49 分钟
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This podcast explores the inner workings, struggles, challenges, and beauty of being in a relationship. It goes deep in uncovering how people have overcome challenges to become engaged and then married. It intentionally focuses on getting perspective from married men of color, especially married Black men, while providing a platform where people can learn from their stories. This podcast also highlights the mental burdens that stem from societal pressures, generational curses, gender related norms, and personal expectations.

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  • 创作者
    Chiedozie Eric Okafor
  • 单集
    78
  • 季
    4
  • 分级
    儿童不宜
  • 版权
    © 2024. The Office of Chiedozie Eric, LLC. All Rights Reserved
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    I Think I Love My Wife Podcast