Th/e Honest Edge

Shea Petaja
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I believe people become an authority on their pain if they choose to face it. The purpose of this podcast is to introduce you to those who have faced their edge of truth, jumped in and trusted who they would become on the other side. It's a collection of conquerers who have found their freedom in hopes that you find yours.

  1. Cutting Family Ties with Dr. Trisha Wolfe

    3 февр.

    Cutting Family Ties with Dr. Trisha Wolfe

    Are you considering going NC (no contact) or LC (low contact) with a family member? It’s one of the most difficult and emotionally loaded decisions a person can make — and one that often conflicts with our biological need for safety, attachment, and belonging. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Trisha Wolfe for an honest, grounded conversation about family estrangement, repair, and healing. She explains why cutting ties is best understood as a last option — not a first step — while honoring the very real pain that drives people toward it. With 1 in 4 Americans estranged from their families, there are very real consequences for everyone. We explore the different paths available, the likely outcomes of each, and what the work of healing looks like whether you stay in relationship or choose distance. Dr. Wolfe also answers five deeply personal audience questions, offering clarity and compassionate perspective. Boundaries are only one piece of the puzzle. There is much more to understand about repair, regulation, and relational healing. ---> A special thanks to Northbound Wellness and PT located in Traverse City, Michigan for sponsoring this podcast. Dr. Jabour is passionate about preventing pain before it happens and finding the body’s resilience when it does. You can find Trisha Wolfe on substack, instagram, and tiktok. This interview is with Shea Petaja.

    1 ч. 17 мин.
  2. Begin Again, Again! with Cathy Fitzgerald

    13.03.2025

    Begin Again, Again! with Cathy Fitzgerald

    My guest, Cathy Fitzgerald is not to be underestimated. She is no stranger to change and uncertainty. Her story begins at the age of 17 when she became a teen mom. She immediately married and had another child. The marriage ended in betrayal leading to a divorce. She quickly remarried and blended two families all before the age of 30! If that wasn't enough, she went on to start an incredibly successful dance studio (900 students) and had another child - putting her total to 6! On the outside things looked perfect. A great career and community, a nice home, 6 beautiful children and a successful spouse. What others didn't see was an empty marriage where she lived in a constant state of confusion and dread. She worked really hard at holding it all together until it all started to fall apart. It started with her own health, caretaking for her aging parents and the revelation about her husband that would change everything. This is a story about Cathy finding her honest edge more than once. She started her entire life over in her 50's and wants you to know that you can, at any time begin again ... again! You can find her HERE at age-wild.com Or on her instagram

    51 мин.
  3. A Life of Valor with Susie Grace

    08.02.2025

    A Life of Valor with Susie Grace

    Susie Grace has always been an independant woman. She left home at 18 to live a creative and adventurous life hoping to one day open her own business. Drawn to visual storytelling, she pursued a career in advertising. She followed her intuition one decision at a time from the coast of Maui, Hawaii to the coast of northern Michigan, riding the wave of opportunities. The most surprising opportunity came during a frigid winter in northern Michigan: Susie was pregnant and decided to become a single mother ... the greatest adventure of all. ... This podcast is about the complicated grief of motherhood lost. Susie took her pain and channeled that energy into finding answers. During that pursuit she created skincare that not only helped her heal, it was helping others. Hear Susie's unexpected journey into an industry that is based on surface level validation and how she has infused it with soul-deep purpose. Susie is living a life of Valor to honor the one she lost. You can learn more and purchaseValor Skincare HERE.

    58 мин.
  4. A Very Good Girl with Trisha Wolfe

    29.01.2025

    A Very Good Girl with Trisha Wolfe

    Trauma is a very trendy word these days. It's spoken of quite openly. You can't go very far without being fed a reel on socials about how trauma influences our lives. It has made me question what it really is and how do you know if you have experienced it? More importantly, can you heal from it? My guest, Trisha Wolfe, a Licensed Clinical Counselor (LPCC, SEP, NARM practitioner) and Ph.D. candidate has a lot to teach us. Her TikTok about people pleasers and intellectualizers went viral, hitting 7 million views! She explains that trauma can even show up as being a very good girl (or boy). Trisha simplifies for us the primal need to remain close to our caretakers in childhood regardless of safety in the relationship which sets us up for a lifetime of self-betraying patterns. In an attempt to heal ourselves through yoga, self-help books, classes and doing more we subconsciously attempt to bypass unresolved pain. The intent is good but the results may vary ... Our work is to get off the highway of well traveled neuropathways to create our own path. This is best done with the help of a guide who has done it themselves. Someone like Trisha. In this podcast she shares her own story which led her to become a counselor. She is an expert on neuroscience, empowering us to find agency in our choice to heal at the root so that we may flourish in life. In her words, "It's not sexy, but it works!" Grab a notebook and pen! You're about to be educated :) > > > Trisha & her partner have also created Field Day! A deck of cards (she designed!) to guide you through the trails of northern Michigan. This playful deck will inspire curiosity and adventure. Get offline and get outside! You can purchase your deck HERE. Learn more about Trisha's practice HERE. Follow her Substack HERE. She's also on Instagram and TikTok.

    56 мин.
  5. Choosing Estrangement with Michael Jon Watt

    15.11.2024

    Choosing Estrangement with Michael Jon Watt

    We are post election and heading into the holiday season. Yay. This means that we will have to choose how and when to spend time with our families. This is a complicated decision for most people and for good reason. As the saying goes, "Blood may be thicker than water, but blood clots." Our conversation today is about choosing estrangement from family. This is not a popular choice and it's one that is often questioned by others. I asked my friend Michael Jon Watt to join me for his 4th episode in our series to talk about his choice to cut ties with his adoptive parents. He is not the "poster-child" on this topic. However, he is very clear and concise about what brought him to that edge. This is not cancel culture. It's a thoughtful choice to protect one's mental and emotional health by doing what feels the most unnatural - choosing to leave relationships with family members. It doesn't mean that it has to be forever. Other times, it is necessary to remain no contact if the violations have been severe and damaging. We hope this podcast will bring clarity and healing. ... A special thanks to Rhonda and Patrick for sponsoring this podcast. They are big fans of Michael and supporters of the arts and people. They are chosen family.

    54 мин.
  6. Finding Paul with Michael Jon Watt

    09.07.2024

    Finding Paul with Michael Jon Watt

    In this podcast we unpack what it means to find your inner voice - your intuition. What is it? How can you hear it? Is it the voice of God or something else? What happens when we follow that "intuitive hit"? We talk openly about our evangelical upbringing and how it influenced our ability to trust our own knowing. Michael’s intuition led him down many good paths in his lifetime. In this story, we hear about his search for Paul, his birth father - a man who never knew he existed. Would he receive the news of Michael well? Would he want to meet with him? What about the other news ... that his son is gay? There is a lot at stake for Michael in this podcast but even more for Paul. Find out why ... If you haven’t already, I’d highly recommend listening to the first two episodes: Queerly Beloved & Channeling Janice which explore the discovery and unfolding of Michael's life which led him to this point. This podcast is sponsored by Sawyer Scott of Local Riff Raff Co. and the Bay to Braman Bolt foot race happening this Labor Day Weekend in Northport, Michigan. CLICK HERE to register for a day of family fun and to support history.

    53 мин.
  7. Channeling Janice / An Adoption Story with Michael Jon Watt

    23.05.2024

    Channeling Janice / An Adoption Story with Michael Jon Watt

    Part II of Queerly Beloved: Michael Jon Watt's adoption cost $200. He knows because he has the receipt. A young woman, 5' 9" and 130 pounds, gave him up for adoption in the state of California on Christmas Eve, 1966. His adoptive family was picture perfect as was he: blond hair, blue eyes and a smile that lit up the room! Looks can be deceiving (as you heard in the first interview). Michael always longed to know who his birth mom was. It wasn't until he turned 26 that he began to search. There was a new tool to help speed up the process: the internet. This lead him to a chat room on CompuServe where he found a woman named Janice. Her side hustle: a PI for adoptees looking for their birth parents. It wouldn't be easy. It's estimated that 2 million babies were adopted during the 1960s alone. Janice was on a mission. This show is a heart-warming story of reunification and redemption that was nothing short of a miracle. I named this podcast, "Channeling Janice" simple because, the search wasn't done alone and without a little magic. This podcast is sponsored by our friend Sawyer Scott of Local Riff Raff Co. A brand that supports local artists like myself and Michael! Local Riff Raff Co is also the official sponsor of The Bay to Braman Bolt: A foot race to preserve history. This takes place in Northport, Michigan on Labor Day weekend. Register now!

    48 мин.
  8. Queerly Beloved with Michael Jon Watt

    01.05.2024

    Queerly Beloved with Michael Jon Watt

    Michael Jon Watt was raised by his adoptive parents on a Christian fundamentalist commune tucked into the woods near Long Lake in Traverse City, Michigan. His connection to God existed outside of this dark reality as did an inner knowing that he was also gay. He was told that he could love God or be gay, but not at the same time. He would have to choose. He tried. For decades. Multiple confessions, accountability groups, conversion therapy and an eventual engagement to a woman didn't change what he knew to be true. The harder he worked to deny his identity, the more pain consumed him. This episode isn't about coming out and life becoming easier. It's about the journey of a man destined to live an authentic life and the peace he found along the way back to his birth mom, his identity and his home. Michael is a graphic designer, Etsy shop owner and improv artist who returned to the north country and made it his own. We hope you are encouraged by his story and the clarity offered to those searching for identity. Queerly beloved, “The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of." -Blaise Pascal

    54 мин.
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I believe people become an authority on their pain if they choose to face it. The purpose of this podcast is to introduce you to those who have faced their edge of truth, jumped in and trusted who they would become on the other side. It's a collection of conquerers who have found their freedom in hopes that you find yours.

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  • Автор
    Shea Petaja
  • Годы выхода
    2020 - 2026
  • Выпуски
    14
  • Ограничения
    С ненормативной лексикой
  • Авторские права
    © Shea Petaja
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