That Work Podcast

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Exploring creativity, culture, and the bts of the work + that work. For the work wifeys, by Tunisia Wilson. Follow @ThatWorkBTW podcast on Instagram for updates. for inquiries: hello@thisisbtw.com Produced by BTW Studios | thisisbtw.com

  1. 12/02/2025

    We Won't All Be Chosen [And That's Ok]

    There's a quiet grief so many of us carry behind the degrees, the flights, the promotions, the accomplishments, and the soft life montages. Inspired by a TikTok from Les Alfred of She’s So Lucky, this conversation goes straight into the heartbreak of realizing some of us might not get the partnership we dreamed about, the ways successful Black women get punished in modern dating, and the pressure to hold it all together while feeling like we are never quite chosen in the spaces where it matters most. This episode is heavy, yes, but it is honest. It is soft. It is reflective. And it is for every corporate baddie, lover girl, and ambitious woman trying to make peace with life’s timeline, not society’s. Takeaway: Acceptance. Alignment. Openness. Self-worth. Hope is not delusion. Desire is not desperation. And acceptance is not giving up, it is releasing the pressure, the panic, and the performance. If we want love to find us, we cannot disappear inside fear. Staying open, aligned, and grounded in our worth is the path. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Personal Reflections: Tunisia sets the stage for a candid discussion on dating challenges. 03:00 - Challenges in the Dating World: Navigating the complexities of dating as a "successful" Black woman. 09:00 - Societal Expectations and Pressures: The impact of societal norms on personal relationships and self-worth. 15:00 - Acceptance and Choosing Oneself: Embracing self-acceptance and setting the tone for how others choose us. 21:00 - Finding Contentment and Self-Worth: Building a fulfilling life beyond societal expectations. 27:00 - Conclusion and Takeaways: Key reflections and encouragement for listeners to embrace their journey. Follow @ThatWorkBTW on Instagram.

    34 min
  2. 11/24/2025

    The Conversation We All Need [w/ Jillian O'Malior]

    What happens when a Black woman and a White woman sit down and actually tell the truth about work, race, privilege and layoffs? Meet Jillian O'Malior on TikTok, where she talks openly about the dumpster fire job market on TikTok and Corporate nihilism, and honestly, this episode just scratches the surface of the WTF is happening in the workplace diaries for all the corporate baddies. This is a conversation about layoffs, yes, but it is also about self-worth, power, and what it means to burn down the system without burning yourself out. Takeaway: Partnership. Allyship. Accountability. Openness. Outrage feels good in the moment, but it does not build a new world. Honest conversation, accountability, and self-worth do. If we want a different future of work, Black women, White women and everyone in between will have to stop performing and start partnering for real. Episode Chapters: 00:00:00 - Meet Jillian, unhinged bosses and the "I bet you think strippers like you" story 00:05:30 - Niceness is not consent and why men misread women at work 00:10:00 - Corporate nihilism, toxic startups and emotional labor for your boss 00:15:30 - Layoffs, Disney, DEI and 300,000 Black women pushed out of work 00:23:00 - White guilt vs white empathy and what privilege actually means 00:30:00 - Performative DEI, being hired for optics and the sting of being replaced 00:39:00 - The reputation of white women at work and why so many choose a white male boss 00:47:30 - Bias, accountability and how both Black and white women can unlearn harmful patterns 00:55:00 - Career PTSD, self-sabotage and rebuilding a life that actually fits 01:03:00 - Side business vs fixing a broken company and redefining success on your own terms 01:10:00 - Game of This or That Jillian is an Employer Brand Consultant, Leader, and Culture Strategist, and real talker on TikTok. Follow her @JillianDoesBranding. Follow @ThatWorkBTW on Instagram.

    1h 9m

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Exploring creativity, culture, and the bts of the work + that work. For the work wifeys, by Tunisia Wilson. Follow @ThatWorkBTW podcast on Instagram for updates. for inquiries: hello@thisisbtw.com Produced by BTW Studios | thisisbtw.com