That'll Be The 'Tism

That'll Be The 'Tism, Emma Sails

We are Emma and Claire, and we are late diagnosed AuDHD and autistic... this podcast is us talking about our journeys, through initially learning about autism (and ADHD) in our thirties to discovering how that impacts us personally, and why our neurodivergent brains work like they do.

  1. Episode 28: Crochet Pudding

    1D AGO

    Episode 28: Crochet Pudding

    Episode 28 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 28 contains:- Catchups - Hormones, hen parties, Eurovision and Emma's book progress- Main section - Not knowing when to stop in conversations and in life- Autistic trait of the week - Easy overwhelm- Capybaras, bird sleep, bats, Danny DeVito as a unit of measurement, and hold musicCapybara clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXrOTYhjaT8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Our sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites: - Wobsterly- The look of the drawer- Di Blobber- Make noise in this podcast- A Club Seven- All the creaturesMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    59 min
  2. Episode 27: Section of Beans

    MAY 10

    Episode 27: Section of Beans

    Episode 27 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult is here!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 27 contains:- Catchups - work, hormones, birthdays, anxiety- Main section - RSD and the effect on social situations and work- Autistic trait of the week - Memory quirks- Robbie Williams, David Attenborough and animal gas or lack thereofOur sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites (there were lots this time!):- Plane sailing- Wil Williams Wils- You weren't me?- Get my hair caught- The look of the door- Laura, thanks- Books were Bush- Books were British- Bernie face thing- Treat of the week- Special interest wear- Mice can fall- Cheese monga qualificationMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    58 min
  3. Episode 26: Mr Lobby

    APR 26

    Episode 26: Mr Lobby

    Episode 26 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 26 contains:- Catchups - routine changes, gardening, wedding craft updates- Main section - Accents - reasons why autistic people may copy these or use others than their natural one- Autistic trait of the week - Needing to know things- Mr Blobby, Psyduck and the red-lipped batfishOur sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites (there were lots this time!):- You in a to tea cake- I'm naer today- Ling it up- These bowls- Some bed implants- Like Liz- Mr Ploi- Webster Lee- Side hook's behind me- No's House Party- We're all side duck- Friends or hot foods- I'm reasonably monitor- Well received and rankly soMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    59 min
  4. Episode 25: Well Received, and Dryly

    APR 12

    Episode 25: Well Received, and Dryly

    It's our birthday episode of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult! 25 episodes! #proudThanks to everyone that's joined us and supported us this past year, we appreciate it so much!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 25 contains:- Catchups - networking, easter safaris, and Emma's book progress- Main section - our highlights from the past year of our podcast, which sometimes link to autistic traits...and often don't- Bumper animal fact bonanza featuring octupuses, lemurs, potoos, coal t**s, bats and more.Our sounds were kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Parenting Business Connections is at: https://parentingbusinessconnections.com/ Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Spoon less or non spoon list- Trish Cade Phobia- Everything that I cook for in coaching- The oldest wee- You do know Quackers Claire- Heat and wheeze- Wipe your other buttons- Dak fruit bath- I'm on a canMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    1h 11m
  5. Episode 24: Tonic Tea Cake Sauce

    MAR 29

    Episode 24: Tonic Tea Cake Sauce

    Welcome to episode 24 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 24 is a spoonless episode (meaning a little less structure than usual) and it contains:- Why we're overwhelmed - work and weddings- Perfectionism- RSD- How our autistic traits have affected all of this- Tunnock's teacakes...if you want one, e-mail us and Emma will* make it happen*Emma MAY make it happen.Our sounds were kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Yoann Bourgeois' performance about life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_DA3dgRSrw Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Chuck GPT- Lady parent counter- Giant tonics tea cake- I love tonics- My dark minds- Karaoke atman army- An ice bonus- No talk talksMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    56 min
  6. Episode 23: Warm Sounds

    MAR 15

    Episode 23: Warm Sounds

    It's time for episode 23 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 23 contains:- Catch ups/hyperfocuses - Cheese, birthdays, career changes, Emma's book and Formula 1- Main Section - Parenting children and things- Autistic trait of the week - Object permanence- Clownfish, Avon (not sponsored), wedding craft updates, unusual food combinations and mumdrops galore.Our new intro, rave (rey-ve), mumdrop and not sponsored by sound are provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com For more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different.Amy & the Wet Pets: https://www.tiktok.com/@amydoessomestuff Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Wednesday di creamery- Handle my equipment- A new divergent family- Autism versus people- Didn't make the cult- About Yvonne- If it's a doctor- Tearing up cheeser- Concept cheese backer- Hammond bananaMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    56 min
  7. Episode 22: Laser Affection

    FEB 22

    Episode 22: Laser Affection

    Welcome one and all to episode 22 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult, hosted by Emma Sails and Claire. Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Note a couple of Trigger Warnings: at around 05:26 for vomit. 31:50 for a couple of minutes Emma discussed a previous emotionally abusive relationship. Episode 22 contains: - Exciting sound updates to our podcast (thanks Audio producer Chris) - Catch up - Emma's hyperfocus is her book, and Claire has had an overwhelming few weeks. - Main section - Autism and romantic relationships. - Autistic Trait of the week - Pathological Demand Avoidance. - Random factoid of the week - Sloths and cats. Our new intro, rave (rey-ve) and mumdrop are provided by our Audio Imaging Producer Chris Demetriou, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com For more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different. Toilet sloth: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQCsV1pFZiU/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites: - Sloth Moss - Jin Goman - Old lady card - Which is luck - Spoon list situation - Anika Author - A new rave club - Brave Top - A room rave - Bush, Brush, Brush - Random factor - Ms. Theoretical Carol Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    59 min
  8. Episode 21: Having Some Jiggles

    FEB 8

    Episode 21: Having Some Jiggles

    Episode 21 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived for your viewing or listening pleasure.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 21 is a spoonless episode, meaning a little less structure, but it contains:- Emma's exciting documentary news- Data validation (and weird spreadsheets)- Scarfigan progress- Claire's CCTV saga- Emma's National insurance number discovery- The new Take That documentary- What Emma would use a cow for.For more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Ms. Theoretical Cow- Floy- Wilma's Mum- Quite far from my mouseMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

    55 min

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We are Emma and Claire, and we are late diagnosed AuDHD and autistic... this podcast is us talking about our journeys, through initially learning about autism (and ADHD) in our thirties to discovering how that impacts us personally, and why our neurodivergent brains work like they do.