That's What He Said

Natalie Vaughan

That's What He Said is a podcast hosted by Natalie Vaughan, that bridges the gap between men and women in today's complicated dating scene. Ladies, how many times have you asked yourself, "What is he thinking?" Well, we're going to find out. TWHS gives a platform to men to express their thoughts, feelings, and opinions, giving us more insight into their world. We want to cultivate more understanding between men and women, to help single people build relationships that thrive.

  1. 49| Will He Accept My Rose? with Alec Garza

    07/13/2025

    49| Will He Accept My Rose? with Alec Garza

    He lost his virginity to someone who robbed him. 😱 We're talking cheating, emotional games, and why so many men lie about who they really are. In this raw conversation with Alec Garza, Season 19 Bachelorette contestant, we get real about love, heartbreak, and the games both men and women play in modern dating. Follow for more conversations with Nat, on That's What He Said. 🎙️ Alec's Instagram: @alecjuliangarza ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alecjuliangarza/⁠ Alec's website: ⁠https://www.ajgworks.com/⁠ 💅🏼 1st Phorm Collagen with Dermaval: ⁠https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=natvau⁠ 💪🏼 1st Phorm Post-Workout Stack: ⁠https://1stphorm.com/products/post-workout-stack/?a_aid=natvau⁠ On this episode of That's What He Said, host Natalie interviews photographer, business owner, and Season 19 Bachelorette contestant Alec Garza. The two sit down for a fun yet brutally honest conversation about the secrets behind reality TV, the push and pull of modern dating games, and dating some CRAZY a*s women - like the girl who robbed his family's home. We unpack the emotional toll of cheating, why so many men "sell women a fantasy," and lie about who they are, "the bucket theory", and so much more. Alec brings an authenticity and light heartedness to the conversation that will have you reconsidering some of your dating strategies, yet will leave you with hope of finding the love of your life. ________________________________________ That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on YouTube and Spotify. Natalie's Personal Instagram: @nat_vaughan ⁠https://www.instagram.com/nat_vaughan/⁠ TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast ⁠https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/⁠TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast⁠ TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    1h 39m
  2. 46| Once Toxic, Always Toxic? with Mena Hakim

    05/18/2025

    46| Once Toxic, Always Toxic? with Mena Hakim

    Former, "toxic Habibi" tells his story of transformation through demonic attacks and real-life contact with Jesus Christ - sleep paralysis, vivid spiritual encounters, description of Jesus' appearance, demonic possession, and more. Mena has "set fire" to his old lifestyle of girls, booze, and money, and now lives at peace and with purpose. Mena's Instagram: @thecoptichabibi ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thecoptichabibi/⁠ 1st Phorm Collagen with Dermaval: ⁠https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=natvau⁠ 1st Phorm Post-Workout Stack: ⁠https://1stphorm.com/products/post-workout-stack/?a_aid=natvau⁠ Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): ⁠https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs⁠ On this episode of That's What He Said, a dating podcast, things are getting REAL real. Mena Hakim, formerly known as "the toxic Habibi," tells his story of radical transformation through spiritual encounters; some terrifying, some beautiful. After being raised as a Coptic Orthodox, he abandoned the church (for the same reasons many of us do), and went to be married and divorced, and to live a life of sex, drugs, and rock 'n roll. He was a big-shot in the Houston nightlife scene, sleeping with random women regularly, and at times drinking a bottle of tequila a night. While Mena has always had a special gift to see into the spiritual realm, things got really real for him one night when a demon took his body into a state of paralysis, and Jesus approached him at his bedside. After wrestling for many months, he completely abandoned his toxic lifestyle once the second demonic encounter shook him to his core. This episode may make you feel a type of way, but it is a testimony to God's grace; He will chase you down to save your soul. As far as dating goes, we know there are so many toxic people running around, stealing energy and breaking hearts. But when God intervenes, anything can happen. That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    1h 35m
  3. 44| What Is The Secret To Marriage? with The McMillians

    04/28/2025

    44| What Is The Secret To Marriage? with The McMillians

    30+ years of love, highs and lows, and growth... The McMillians are a true testimony of what a strong marriage looks like. On this episode of That's What He Said, Reid and Gina (Nat's bestie's parents) share their inspirational love story. Both now in their 60s, they say they are living the dream. What they have built together is fulfilling in so many ways; from their kids and grandkids being a close-knit family, to a beautiful property out in the country, and a God-centered household. These blessings came with no shortage of struggle. Gina shares one of the most terrifying moments of their relationship, they discuss their battles through cancer and disease, and all of the countless times they had to forgive one another, as Christ forgives us. This interview paints a perfect picture of what marriage REALLY is.....imperfect. It's no fairytale, but it's worth every moment, the good bad and ugly. Grab your tissues! It's no Hallmark movie, but this conversation will tug at your most tender heartstrings. McMillian Oak Creek Ranch (Columbus, TX): https://oakcreekranchtx.com/ _________________________________________ Thank you, Reid and Gina, for being a living example for me, always welcoming me as your fourth child, and allowing me to share your testimony. Love y'all. -Nat _________________________________________ That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    53 min
  4. 43| From Wh*re To Husband? with Rex Howard and Myles Harris

    04/20/2025

    43| From Wh*re To Husband? with Rex Howard and Myles Harris

    If you do nothing else this week, WATCH THIS EPISODE. Every single minute of this conversation is incredible and absolutely anointed. Rex and Myles, hosts of Let's Talk Like Men, are two retired party boys who transparently share their testimonies of transformation, from wh*res to husbands. Myles is now a motivational speaker and best selling author. Rex is a s*x and relationship therapist, and loving husband. They describe themselves as having been "master manipulators" in their promiscuous pasts, swaying countless women to have s*xual relationships with them but never committing nor behaving according to any moral standard. Rex shares a story of inviting all 3 of his situationships to the same party....talk about f**k boy LOL! But, all of that is in the past which is undoubtedly evident during this interview, as both of these men always refer back to God's will in answering Natalie's tough questions. Why are so many "good" women single? How do we test a man's character i.e. how do we know if a man is full of sh*t? Should we be taking s*x off the table? For how long? And how do we resist the temptation? What sort of non-negotiables should women have? The men describe how valuable women are outside of the usage of their bodies (He who finds a wife finds favor with the Lord, Prov 18:22); elevating and multiplying everything that a man is on his own. This episode will answer so many of your burning questions and more. I'm telling you....literally just watch it. You won't regret it. Myles Instagram: @myles.themillennial https://www.instagram.com/myles.themillennial/ Rex Instagram: @iamrexhowardjr https://www.instagram.com/iamrexhowardjr/ Purchase "Change Your Mind, Change Your Life" by Myles Harris: https://mylesthemillennial.com/products/preorder-change-your-mind-change-your-life-bookjan-1st-release That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    1h 60m
  5. 42| Can I Change Him? with Matt Davies

    04/13/2025

    42| Can I Change Him? with Matt Davies

    The one and only Matt Davies has returned! You'll recognize his wit and charm from episode 28, The Great Debate. Ladies, I know 110% of you have been with a man that you wanted to change..."he would be perfect if ___," "he needs me to help him get to a better place," "he's just __ right now, but that will change." Do any of these sound familiar? On this episode of That's What He Said, a dating podcast, Natalie presses Matt for answers. Can we change a man? Do men want women to change them? Why are men so resistant to change, growth, and even criticism? After all, aren't we supposed to be changing? I mean...do you want to stay the same??? It's a tough subject to dissect but Matt brings just enough sensitivity, transparency, and open-mindedness to the table. And of course, there's no shortage of comedy. Guest, Matt, also shares his own story of transformation; having had a huge substance abuse problem, to now being completely sober, and how the stars aligned for him and his boo thang Joanna (we love her). Cozy up! This episode is a conversation with your bestie guy friend that you didn't know you needed. Matt Instagram: @mattdavies1019 https://www.instagram.com/mattdavies1019/ Book recommendation "Who Ate My Cheese?": https://www.amazon.com/WHO-ATE-MY-CHEESE-Freedom/dp/B0DHXY2YMV/ref=asc_df_B0DHXY2YMV?mcid=86d87f9f14d0304cbb931f667399d2d2&hvocijid=7201821562381683446-B0DHXY2YMV-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=721245378154&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7201821562381683446&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027597&hvtargid=pla-2281435176698&psc=1 That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7 TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast

    1h 26m
  6. 41| What She Said: Dating Horrors, Psychic?, Sobriety, and Entrepreneurship with Sunnie Ray

    04/13/2025

    41| What She Said: Dating Horrors, Psychic?, Sobriety, and Entrepreneurship with Sunnie Ray

    Many of you may know this firecracker of a woman from her time on TLC's sMothered, or her comedic online personality. Sober Sunnie Ray is here to stay and she is unapologetically sharing her imperfect journey from addiction to sobriety. On this episode of That's What He Said, host Nat really just gets to sit back and enjoy a good laugh. Sunnie expands on some of her UNBELIEVABLE and hilarious dating stories from her book, "The Chronicles of John Doe Dating Disasters." Threesome disasters, exposing closet addicts, and more...all leading up to her finding her now husband Scott, whom she very specifically prayed for. Sunnie Ray could be likened to a sourpatch candy...colorful, sour and tart on the outside, but sweet and mushy on the inside. She's the perfect combo of both complete ADD chaos, and a deep soul that loves hard and lives fast. Sunnie Instagram: @sunnie.ray https://www.instagram.com/sunnie.ray/ Nat on Sunnie's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1cKw3kA2XmhGqOJ8tdETvj?si=MFKKvMlUTBmNfgYD_KEDdA Purchase Sunnie's book: https://www.amazon.com/Chronicles-John-Doe-Dating-Disasters-ebook/dp/B0CTRXSJRZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2BX06EPHQ884&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.grHE9XpyhcJgCthBpwW7aQ.XSh61t0cF1s7C-jhOA_WD4b-Oljl3fKEpaCp53T3jvc&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+chronicles+of+john+doe+sunnie+ray&qid=1743341187&sprefix=the+chronicles+of+john+doe+sunnie+ray%2Caps%2C158&sr=8-1 That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7 TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast

    1h 2m
  7. 39| Story Time: Wheelchair Man and Secret Hookers with Landri and Nathalie

    03/16/2025

    39| Story Time: Wheelchair Man and Secret Hookers with Landri and Nathalie

    Two Nats and a Lan bring you....the most epic story time thus far. To be honest, y'all might not be ready for this. Buckle up because these dating stories are absolutely unbelievable and pure hysteria. The lying, the cheating, the lying...the catfishing, the paid prostitutes, the closet men...and so much more. If your (male) one-night-stand for the night told you to open a "special gift," and it's a very long masculine strappable device, what's your next move? Remember Landri's man she told us about on The Great Debate? Well, she has an update for you. And, you're gonna wanna hear this. The episode is the perfect combination of comedy, utter shock, and real talk. Enjoy! Landri Instagram: @landreezy22 https://www.instagram.com/landreezy22/ Nathalie Instagram: @nathaliebabyy https://www.instagram.com/nathaliebabyy/ That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. Order DoTerra DigestZen (25% off for a year): https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/twhs TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS YouTube: @twhs.podcast https://www.youtube.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    1h 22m
  8. 37| Why Are Men Staying Single? with Chandler Watson

    02/16/2025

    37| Why Are Men Staying Single? with Chandler Watson

    Is it by choice? Is it because women's expectations are too high? Do they no longer value having a partner? Are the days of men asking "will you be my girlfriend," dead? Do they just want to sleep around? Why do they pull away after sex? On this episode of That's What He Said, a dating podcast, Fox 26 cameraman Chandler Watson is here to answer all of these questions. Chandler's genuine spirit brings a trustworthy honesty to what could be a frustrating conversation. Host, Nat, digs deep into why men become distant after intimacy and the two discuss the infamous 90 day rule from Kevin Hart movie, "Think Like A Man." Women often hear that our expectations are too high; while they may in fact be too high in some ways, in others they may not be high enough. Chandler's number one recommendation for single people is to STOP chasing toxicity. Are we drawn to toxicity as humans, though? This conversation covers all the bases while bringing you some funny stories along the way. Oh and, is the news real??? Find out. Chandler Instagram: @cwatscope https://www.instagram.com/cwatscope/ That's What He Said, a dating podcast, brings you dating and relationship advice, insight to the male vs. female mind, and a wide array of stories such as sexual encounters, weird dates, getting dumped, getting over heartbreak, and of course, success stories to be admired. Natalie interviews men from all walks of life so that women can hear the answers to their questions directly from the source. How do I find true love in this crazy dating world, you ask? We are here to figure that out together. Tune into TWHS every weekend, wherever you get your podcasts. ON SUNDAYS WE POD. Also available on Spotify and YouTube. TWHS Instagram: @twhs.podcast https://www.instagram.com/twhs.podcast/ TWHS TikTok: @twhs.podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@twhs.podcast TWHS YouTube: @ThatsWhatHeSaid_ https://www.youtube.com/@ThatsWhatHeSaid_ TWHS Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natalie-vaughan7

    1h 42m
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15 Ratings

About

That's What He Said is a podcast hosted by Natalie Vaughan, that bridges the gap between men and women in today's complicated dating scene. Ladies, how many times have you asked yourself, "What is he thinking?" Well, we're going to find out. TWHS gives a platform to men to express their thoughts, feelings, and opinions, giving us more insight into their world. We want to cultivate more understanding between men and women, to help single people build relationships that thrive.