The Successful Solopreneur

Matthew Paetz
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Welcome to The Successful Solopreneur podcast—a show created for everyday change makers ready to break free from the 9-to-5 grind and build a life on their own terms. I built my business from scratch, and I know what it takes to hit your first $100k. This podcast is your go-to resource if you’re tired of living by someone else’s rules and are eager to create work that fuels your passion, supports your family, and transforms lives. Every week, we’ll dive into real strategies, share inspiring stories, and have candid conversations about overcoming self-sabotage, ditching trends, and embracing your unique gifts. We’ll explore how to live by the philosophy of “Less but Better”—focusing on what truly matters and building momentum with small, consistent wins. You’ll hear from guests who have mastered the art of discipline, purpose, and authenticity, and you’ll get actionable tips you can implement immediately. If you’re ready to reclaim your power, prioritize values over impressions, and finally start living a life that makes you and your family proud, you’re in the right place. Tune in, feel heard, and let’s unlock your unfair advantage together—because your journey to success is one conversation away. Intro music by IsMusic

  1. 06/03/2025

    The Secret to Success: Stop Taking it Personally

    Send us a text Have you ever wondered why some coaches thrive while others with equal talent struggle? The answer might surprise you. During a recent interview with my mentor Will Schiller for the Successful Solopreneur Summit, he revealed the single most important factor that determines a coach's long-term success—and it's not skill, followers, or even your network. After a decade in the industry, Will has observed that emotional maturity—specifically, the ability to not take business outcomes personally—separates thriving coaches from those who remain stuck. When we interpret unsubscribes, low engagement, or client rejection as personal failures rather than business data points, we create an exhausting internal battlefield. This emotional pattern prevents talented professionals from scaling their impact, regardless of how capable they are of helping others. This insight hit close to home. Looking at my workspace filled with notebooks containing years of unrealized ideas and innovations, I see the tangible evidence of how taking things personally has limited my creative output. As solopreneurs working in isolation, we're particularly vulnerable to self-doubt and insecurities without daily team interaction to provide perspective. For those struggling with this pattern, I recommend Dr. Michael Gervais's work on "FOPO" (Fear of Other People's Opinions). As a high-performance psychologist who coaches elite athletes, his book "The First Rule of Mastery" provides practical strategies for separating business outcomes from personal identity. Breaking free from taking things personally may be the most important psychological shift you can make as an entrepreneur. Are you ready to stop letting the fear of judgment hold back your business potential? Consider how differently you might approach your work if rejection no longer felt like a personal attack. Your best ideas deserve to see the light of day. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    7 min

  2. 06/02/2025

    Stop Chasing Clients

    Send us a text Ever felt trapped in the endless cycle of marketing yourself, even though it's the last thing you want to do? You're not alone. For most coaches, consultants, and creators who've dedicated years to mastering their craft, the marketing piece feels like an uncomfortable contradiction—making things about ourselves so we can eventually help others. Today, I'm challenging you to consider a fundamental shift that transformed my business: stop chasing clients and start creating partnerships. This approach isn't about becoming better at marketing; it's about eliminating the need for it altogether. When we focus on genuinely supporting potential collaborators by solving their problems—with no strings attached—we naturally position ourselves to grow through authentic connections rather than constant self-promotion. My business expanded significantly when I started identifying specific problems my ideal partners faced and created solutions for them. For instance, as someone with expertise in transformational psychology, I developed workshops on overcoming self-sabotage specifically to help business coaches address the mindset challenges their clients encounter. These transformational (not transactional) relationships allowed me to be introduced to audiences who already trusted my partners, creating a natural pathway to connect with ideal clients. The beauty of this approach? You get to focus on becoming better at what you love rather than becoming a reluctant marketer. You can build meaningful relationships with people who inspire you while growing your impact organically. If you have questions about implementing this partnership strategy in your business, reach out! I'd love to create more content addressing your specific challenges. Remember, if you feel that fire in your stomach and calling in your heart, don't give up—no matter how hard or lonely the journey gets. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    10 min

  3. 04/04/2025

    Stop Being True to Who You Are. Start Being True to Who You’re Becoming.

    Send us a text What if the advice to "be true to yourself" is actually holding you back from entrepreneurial success? This eye-opening episode challenges conventional wisdom about authenticity and self-development. After encountering Adam Grant's powerful story about overcoming his fear of public speaking, I experienced a profound revelation: successful entrepreneurs aren't loyal to who they currently are—they're committed to who they're becoming. This distinction changes everything about how we approach business growth. The journey of a solopreneur isn't about comfort or even confidence—it's about courage. Having worked with hundreds of business owners, I've discovered that phrases like "I need to be true to myself" often mask a deeper fear: "I'm avoiding what scares me because I don't believe I'm good enough." When we defend our authenticity, we're frequently just protecting our comfort zones. Growth demands discomfort. Your business will never outgrow the person running it, which means your evolution is the critical factor in your success. The limitations in your business directly reflect the limitations in your mindset and identity. If you want to create something meaningful and sustainable, you must stop fighting for your comfort zone and start fighting for your potential. Take a moment to fast-forward one year from today. What do you need to accomplish to feel successful? More importantly, what single action do you need to take today that would inevitably lead to that success? Is it launching that product, writing that book, or reaching out to potential clients? Whatever it is, say yes before you feel ready. Share your voice even if it shakes, because you become great not by being loyal to your past, but by committing to your future self. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    9 min

  4. 04/02/2025

    Your Environment Dictates Your Success, Not Your Goals

    Send us a text Your personality isn't permanent, but transformation requires more than just wishful thinking. In this thought-provoking exploration of personal evolution, I share a powerful morning revelation sparked by Dr. Benjamin Hardy's book that could be the missing key to your solopreneur success. Have you ever wondered why, despite setting ambitious goals and consuming endless self-development content, you still struggle to make meaningful progress? The answer lies not in what you know, but in what surrounds you. When we decide to become solopreneurs, we fundamentally change the rules we must live by—yet most of us continue operating in environments designed for our past selves rather than our future identities. This misalignment creates a constant battle between who you're trying to become and the subtle forces pulling you back to familiar patterns. Your environment—encompassing your physical spaces, relationships, consumption habits, entertainment choices, and everyday routines—has more power over your behavior than willpower ever will. As I share from my own transformational journey from addiction to entrepreneurship, the environments we inhabit either propel us forward or keep us tethered to outdated versions of ourselves. The path forward begins with uncomfortably specific clarity about your year-end goals, followed by reverse-engineering the environmental conditions needed for someone who achieves such outcomes. Remember this truth: you don't rise to the level of your potential; you fall to the level of your standards—and your environment is the physical manifestation of those standards. If you're ready to transform not just your business but your identity, start by auditing what surrounds you and aligning just one element with the future you're determined to create. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    28 min

  5. 03/30/2025

    The Beat the Odds Roadmap: Six Steps to Solopreneur Success Against All Odds

    Send us a text What if the greatest obstacle to your success isn't market competition or lack of resources, but the voice inside your head that whispers "you're not enough"? After investing $100,000 of my inheritance in mentorship and receiving minimal financial return for over 18 months, I discovered a profound truth: success in solopreneurship isn't about forcing your business into someone else's strategy—it's about leveraging what you already possess. The Beat the Odds Roadmap emerged from this costly lesson. This six-step framework begins with establishing crystal-clear direction (not vague goals like "becoming successful" but specific, measurable outcomes), then discovering your emotional "why" powerful enough to carry you through inevitable challenges. For me, this why transformed when my mother—who spent 50 years in work she hated—was diagnosed with cancer six months before retirement, making her final wish that I never abandon my dreams as she had done. Your "unfair advantage" lies at the intersection of your natural gifts, specific goals, and available resources. Most solopreneurs discount their natural strengths because they come easily, assuming everyone possesses them. By mapping these elements, you create tangible proof you already have what's needed to succeed. Combined with an honest audit of your self-sabotage patterns and mastering the art of pitching (remember: your income directly correlates to pitches sent—success is math, not luck), you have everything required to become the solopreneur who beats the odds. Ready to leverage what you already have to create a business aligned with your strengths and values? Join our seven-day "Unlock Your Unfair Advantage" mini-course in the show notes and discover how to build a business you're proud of without wasting years, money, and willpower forcing your unique gifts into someone else's template. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    27 min

  6. 03/30/2025

    My Mother’s Final Words: A Lesson About Work

    Send us a text Some truths hit hardest when whispered from the edge of mortality. When my mother was diagnosed with cancer just six months before her long-awaited retirement, everything changed. After 50 loyal years working at the same grocery store—a job she endured rather than enjoyed—her plans for finally experiencing life's joys were replaced with hospital visits and treatments. What haunts me most aren't the memories of her illness, but our raw conversations about regret. Despite raising two children with unwavering dedication and integrity, my mother couldn't shake the remorse of abandoning her remarkable artistic talents and dreams. She was an award-winning painter and gifted singer who set these passions aside because she saw no path to supporting her family through them. With profound clarity that only comes when time grows short, she urged me: "Never quit chasing your dreams. Never stop creating the life you're proud of." This powerful legacy drives my mission today. Through my background in transformational psychology and decade building my coaching practice, I've developed frameworks that help solopreneurs overcome the very obstacles that derailed my mother's dreams—and my own for too long. While entrepreneurship isn't easy, creating fulfilling, purpose-driven work has never been more possible than it is today. I refuse to let my struggles be in vain, and I'm committed to sharing every tool and breakthrough that can accelerate your journey toward meaningful success. My deepest hope is that you'll never face the pain of looking back on abandoned dreams when it's too late to pursue them. Share your questions, continue this journey with me, and remember: this precious life is too short to spend doing work you hate. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    10 min

  7. 03/30/2025

    Define Success on Your Own Terms: A Solopreneur's Guide to Authentic Living

    Send us a text What does it mean to be a Successful Solopreneur? Matthew Pates kicks off his new podcast by challenging conventional success narratives and offering a refreshing perspective on entrepreneurial fulfillment. Success isn't static—it evolves through different life stages and personal priorities, making the journey to define success on your terms perhaps the most challenging yet rewarding path you'll ever walk. The Successful Solopreneur has broken free from traditional workplace constraints to build a life of autonomy and purpose. These mission-driven individuals have transformed their struggles, challenges, and even traumas into powerful catalysts for helping others. They've mastered the art of turning personal pain into purpose, and purpose into a thriving business. Matthew explains why reaching the $100K income milestone matters—not for the money itself, but because it fundamentally transforms your beliefs about what's possible when you align business with passion. Through four essential traits of successful solopreneurs, Matthew provides a framework for authentic entrepreneurship: overcoming self-imposed limitations, embracing the "less but better" philosophy, living authentically regardless of others' opinions, and building a legacy your family can depend on. The podcast promises to share candid insights, practical strategies, and inspiring stories from Matthew's personal journey and those of his clients. Whether you're just starting or well along your entrepreneurial path, this show will help you leverage your unique gifts to create something truly meaningful. Join the journey to discover how you too can reclaim your power and build disciplines that create freedom in every aspect of life. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    10 min

  8. 06/27/2024

    Redefining Success and Authentic Manhood with Gerard Adams

    Send us a text What defines true success? Is it financial freedom, personal fulfillment, or something deeper? Join us as we sit down with Gerard, a remarkable entrepreneur with over 21 years of experience, who shares his compelling journey from immigrant roots to becoming a respected business leader. Gerard opens up about the challenges solopreneurs face, the transformative power of focus and decision-making, and how aligning with one's true self can pave the way to a life of pride and authenticity. This is not just a story of business triumphs but of personal growth and the relentless pursuit of one's potential. Our conversation takes a poignant turn as Gerard recounts a life-changing trip to Colombia that redefined his identity and sense of belonging. Born of mixed Italian and Latino heritage, Gerard reveals the struggles of fitting in and how financial success alone did not fulfill him. A heartfelt moment with his father shifted his focus to personal happiness and family, emphasizing the importance of defining oneself beyond societal expectations and material achievements. This chapter is a heartfelt reminder that true contentment lies in personal growth and meaningful connections. In a powerful exploration of masculinity, leadership, and spirituality, Gerard discusses the qualities that define authentic manhood—integrity, honor, respect, and compassion. He shares his journey of healing through plant medicine and psychedelics, and how a deeper relationship with God has guided him from seeking validation to becoming a guardian and mentor. We delve into the significance of small wins, consistent effort, and the courage to evolve, highlighting that true success is about more than external accolades—it's about leaving a legacy of wisdom and sacred masculinity for future generations. Tune in for an episode filled with profound insights, personal anecdotes, and inspiring stories of transformation. Connect with Me IG: @matthewpaetz Click Here to Unlock Your Unfair Advantage

    38 min
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About

Welcome to The Successful Solopreneur podcast—a show created for everyday change makers ready to break free from the 9-to-5 grind and build a life on their own terms. I built my business from scratch, and I know what it takes to hit your first $100k. This podcast is your go-to resource if you’re tired of living by someone else’s rules and are eager to create work that fuels your passion, supports your family, and transforms lives. Every week, we’ll dive into real strategies, share inspiring stories, and have candid conversations about overcoming self-sabotage, ditching trends, and embracing your unique gifts. We’ll explore how to live by the philosophy of “Less but Better”—focusing on what truly matters and building momentum with small, consistent wins. You’ll hear from guests who have mastered the art of discipline, purpose, and authenticity, and you’ll get actionable tips you can implement immediately. If you’re ready to reclaim your power, prioritize values over impressions, and finally start living a life that makes you and your family proud, you’re in the right place. Tune in, feel heard, and let’s unlock your unfair advantage together—because your journey to success is one conversation away. Intro music by IsMusic

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  • Creator
    Matthew Paetz
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 The Successful Solopreneur
  • Show Website
    The Successful Solopreneur