The Bits In Between Podcast

Carelle Rose

"I would look after myself more but... I DON'T HAVE TIME!" - I get it. We are expected to work like we don't parent and parent like we don't work and what about the never ending life admin? The cooking, the cleaning, the paperwork, the food shop, the washing etc. In 'The Bits In Between' podcast I interview women that inspire me and we lift the lid on their reality... Do they REALLY juggle it all? Do they have any hacks and tips on how they manage their life admin? Do they out source the ironing and if so is worth it? Do they hate life admin as much as I do? And most importantly, how can we support one another with systems and hacks to stream line the bits inbetween our careers and motherhood to enable time for some well earnt selfcare away from the washing basket and ironing pile!Come and say hi over on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/

  1. 04/28/2022

    Mothering Yourself, Connecting With Your Cycle & Outsourcing Household Jobs

    I loved this chat with Laura and found learning about womanhood in a more holistic and spiritual way truly fascinating! I just wish I had learnt about this sooner as I really believe I'd have understood myself and my emotions many years before it actually all started slotting into place. I loved what she said about how our babies already exist but we have to do inner work, heal passed traumas and mother ourselves before our baby can come to us in physical form! Gosh that was so powerful and emotive. How Laura mentioned the art of surrendering and putting our faith in the universe to deliver what is meant for us was so lovely especially as I think so many of us can feel like innocent control freaks yet sometimes the best thing to do is surrender to the 'what will be will be' mantra. I often say that the bits in between is hard enough without having to analyse and understand our emotions and PMS every month and I truly believe this conversation with Laura has made me connect with myself and my body more than I ever have done before! So looking forward to sharing this beautiful holistic wisdom to my daughtrs when the time is right! *Trigger warning* Laura refers to her Ectopic pregnancy within this episode. Laura is such a lovely lady and a real champion of females! Please go follow and support her. There is so much more to learn and she is a wonderful teacher. Connect with Laura https://www.instagram.com/laura_beddoe_Coach.mentor/ Laura's membership will be opening soon too! Laura's Podcast  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/spiritual-and-sassy/id1551863818 Women Who Run With Wolves https://www.amazon.co.uk/Women-Who-Run-Wolves-Contacting/dp/1846041090/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=1180876387300616&hvadid=73804974661263&hvbmt=bp&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=69091&hvnetw=o&hvqmt=p&hvtargid=kwd-73804913214356%3Aloc-188&hydadcr=11896_1899971&keywords=the+women+who+run+with+wolves&qid=1651099355&sr=8-1 Say hi! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/ If you would like to find out more about my online facial self-care workshops please do drop me a message - fireflyformula@gmail.com Book a Gua Sha 1:1 with me - https://10to8.com/book/fireflyformula/ Purchase a Gua Sha - https://fireflyformula.bigcartel.com/products

    1h 3m
  2. 04/21/2022

    Being Judged & Caring Less

    I've learnt in recent years how SO many of mine and other womens insecurities are pretty much all centred around judgement and worrying about being judged by others! I've tried to disect it and really understand where this fear comes from and the further into motherhood I go I realise that judgement is natural! How can we avoid being judged? We simply can't!!! So many of us are being robbed of our freedom and joy for fear of something we cannot control or change. We will be judged whether we like it or not and we will judge others too but i've become very at peace with the fact judgement isn't always a bad thing. We can be judged positively just as much as negatively and since starting to live my life and navigate motherhood and becoming prepared and accepting of being judged I feel so free and at home with myself.  The bits in between is hard enough without even more pressure on ourselves to never put a foot wrong - that's a quick way to feel miserable I'm sure of it! So now my youngest is a year old I spent the weekend of her birthday reflecting on my 3.5 years of motherhood and what advice I would give anyone wanting to live a care free life void of fear of judgement... So here are my thoughts and here's to caring less, a hell of a lot less! Say hi! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/ If you would like to find out more about my online facial self-care workshops please do drop me a message - fireflyformula@gmail.com Book a Gua Sha 1:1 with me - https://10to8.com/book/fireflyformula/ Purchase a Gua Sha - https://fireflyformula.bigcartel.com/products

    45 min
  3. 03/31/2022

    Reflecting on: Multitasking, Letting Things Go, & Becoming Less Selfish

    How are we a quarter of the way through the year already? I have past form that in March/April time my intentions for the year ahead slowly start to go to pot... I become less motivated, less self-aware, less intentional and old habits (that I've tried hard to ditch) come creeping back in! But it's not all doom and gloom, there are a few things so far this year that I'm incredibly proud of too and I figured, if I could mark the end of the first quarter of 2022 with some self reflection I will hold myself accountable for what's been and gone and be ready to receive whatever is coming next! So many people just don't subscribe to self development with the attitude of 'I am who I am' and I fully respect that opinion but for me I just can't relate to that notion. I am not changing who I fundamentally am, I want to enhance who I am and become the best, less frazzled and stressed version of who I am so I can handle the bits in between as best as I possibly can! I mentioned in the pod I listened to a great podcast about focusing. Here it is - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/228-johann-hari-on-how-to-reclaim-your-attention/id1333552422?i=1000547609183 Here is my podcast episode 'How To Become More Grateful'  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/im-trying-to-be-more-grateful/id1600587652?i=1000549773867 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/ If you would like to find out more about my online facial self-care workshops please do drop me a message - fireflyformula@gmail.com Book a Gua Sha 1:1 with me - https://10to8.com/book/fireflyformula/ Purchase a Gua Sha - https://fireflyformula.bigcartel.com/products

    52 min
  4. 03/10/2022

    Admitting I Can't Do It All!

    Well well well... this chat got me good and proper! I didn't expect to get so teary talking about this but when those flood gates open you know what happens! It's so important to me to share a true representation of 'the bits in between' so when things aren't going well and I need to check in and reevaluate a few things then that's exactly what I'll do. I personally feel so frustrated with the amount of smoke and mirrors out there on social media. So much bending of the truth and I just feel it can become very toxic. On social media I gravitate to the accounts and people that represent honesty, real life and true representation of what it's like to spin so many plates where one day it's all going well and we feel like we have our shi*t together and the next day it all comes tumbling down! It happens to us all right? So here's how things have been the last few days and here's an example of that magical moment when you feel like your back is against the ropes and then suddenly things change for the better. Every problem births a solution and I have been reminded that in the midst of a problem the solution is literally just around the corner... A few tears and sleepless nights later of course!  Thank you always for your lovely words of encouragement with the podcast. It means so so much.  Come and say hi over on Instagram @fireflyformula and please do leave a little review on here if you have a few seconds to spare. Each review really helps with the visibilty of the pod - thank you thank you thank you! xx Gua Sha tools - online shop. If you are interested in purchasing a crystal Gua Sha please do click the link to find out more! https://fireflyformula.bigcartel.com/products

    45 min
  5. 03/03/2022

    My House Is Stressing Me Out!!

    I am really starting to view my Podcast as my own little personal diary. I really wanted to share my house stress because I feel like I am often looking at the 'bigger picture' of a problem when actually all I need to do is break it down and notice the smaller niggles... If lots of smaller niggles are addressed then the impact over time is huge! There is no shoddier feeling than not being totally relaxed and at ease in your own home I am so impacted by my environment! I hate mess and clutter but struggle to find the time at the moment to keep things how I want them, I am much calmer when my environment is reflected in that. This is why I get such a kick out of packing a bag and going away for a few days because I actually love only having a limited number of posessions, I like only having access to things I need and I love the ease of having less stuff. This is how I want to live but I find it hard with two young kids and a busy lifestyle, it takes constant tweaking, sorting, organising and I am currently feeling very time poor (although I'm doing something about that which is exciting!). It felt quite liberating to share all this because by saying it out loud I feel even more determined to follow through on the solutions I have up my sleeve for when we move house! I am feeling grateful more than ever for the safe and wonderful home I live in. What is happening in the world at the moment is truly devastating and I hope you are able to join me on my charity facial workshop to raise vital funds for Unicef to help Ukranian Children. Please see the link to my online shop to book your place...x Come and say hi on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/ Online store - https://fireflyformula.bigcartel.com/product/charity-facial-workshop

    56 min
  6. 02/23/2022

    Releasing Negative Emotions, Speaking Up & Household Roles with Sarah Tobin

    Before I met Sarah I had never heard of Tapping but I now think to myself... Where has this technique been all my life!!?? It just makes so much sense to me. Giving our feelings validation, a colour, a place where we feel the emotion in our body, giving the emotion a number on the scale of 1-10 and then giving it the permission to leave our bodies! Seeing the emotion play out and come full circle! I said to Sarah that the technique is amazing but there always needs to be someone that is incredible at sharing the magic of the technique and allowing it to really resonate with people - Sarah has that gift! I truly believe this is the most perfect self help technique for the busy and overwhelmed modern day woman!  I always feel very appreciative when my guests share a little window into their home life, their family dynamics and their own personal boundaries etc. This side of things always fascinates me and I liked knowing Sarah is terrible with maths and timings too!! A women after my own heart - ha! Please do come and check out our LIVE over on Instagram where Sarah will be talking me through a little tapping taster! It will be saved as an IGTV so you can be sure to watch it on the replay! Please go and support Sarah Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarah_tobin/ Booking link and more info where you can book a 1:1 or become part of her online community https://tapping-into-motherhood.mykajabi.com/sarah-tobin Sarah's Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/tapping-into-with-sarah-tobin/id1533245525 Come and say hi to me! https://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/

    56 min

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"I would look after myself more but... I DON'T HAVE TIME!" - I get it. We are expected to work like we don't parent and parent like we don't work and what about the never ending life admin? The cooking, the cleaning, the paperwork, the food shop, the washing etc. In 'The Bits In Between' podcast I interview women that inspire me and we lift the lid on their reality... Do they REALLY juggle it all? Do they have any hacks and tips on how they manage their life admin? Do they out source the ironing and if so is worth it? Do they hate life admin as much as I do? And most importantly, how can we support one another with systems and hacks to stream line the bits inbetween our careers and motherhood to enable time for some well earnt selfcare away from the washing basket and ironing pile!Come and say hi over on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/fireflyformula/