The Calm Code

Lucy
  • 0,0 (0)
  • AUTOAJUDA

The podcast for ambitious, overwhelmed, burnout-prone women who want more energy, more balance, and more peace without giving up their ambition.

  1. HÁ 2 DIAS

    The Comparison Trap, And How to Get Out Gracefully

    In this episode, I’m talking about something we’ve all experienced falling into the comparison trap. You open Instagram for five minutes and suddenly you’re knee-deep in someone else’s highlight reel, questioning your own entire life. I explain how comparison isn’t a flaw. It’s biology. Our brains are wired to scan for social positioning because, back in the day, belonging meant survival. Now, it just means overwhelm and dysregulation. We talk about how comparison creates stress chemistry, why it’s not really about envy, and how to respond without spiralling. I guide you through four practical steps: name it, regulate your body before reasoning, ask what the comparison is revealing about your unmet desires, and clean up your digital inputs. You’ll also hear why the people who look the most “together” online are often the most tired and how true peace comes when you stop playing the game entirely. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    4min

  2. HÁ 2 DIAS

    How to Calm Your Body During an Anxiety Spike

    You know that sudden surge heart racing, breath short, chest tight and your brain shouting “Something’s wrong!” even when it isn’t? That’s an anxiety spike, and this episode is your toolkit for what to do in the moment. I guide you step by step through how to name the sensation (which creates distance from it), move the energy (with wall push-ups or hand-shaking), and ground with the 5-4-3-2-1 technique to pull you out of the panic loop. We also use the double exhale a short “huh” followed by a long “whooo” to activate your vagus nerve and help your body downshift into calm. This isn’t about stopping anxiety forever. It’s about giving your body the signals it needs to stand down when it thinks it’s in danger. Calm doesn’t start in the mind it starts in the body. And in this episode, I show you how. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min

  3. 12 DE FEV.

    The 10-Minute Evening Ritual That Actually Works

    You’ve probably tried a night routine before candles, chamomile, journalling and still found yourself wide awake, scrolling at midnight. In this episode, I share a realistic 10-minute ritual that actually helps your nervous system unwind. We move through four simple stages: dim the lights and ditch the phone, do a brain “dump and release” on paper, anchor into the body with a warm wash or face rinse, and end with slow breath and three tiny gratitudes. It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being consistent. I explain why predictability calms the nervous system far more than any ritual ever could. This episode is a gentle nudge to stop overcomplicating rest and start creating a nightly cue of safety your body can trust. If you’ve been stuck in the scroll-shame cycle, this is your exit ramp. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min

  4. 5 DE FEV.

    The Quiet Signs of Burnout You Might Be Ignoring

    Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it’s subtle. In this episode, I talk about the signs that often go unnoticed the flat joy, the small irritations, the decision fatigue that makes picking a sandwich feel like a major life event. I walk you through how these quiet symptoms are your body’s early warning signals signs that your nervous system is stretched thin. Things like snapping over small things, emotional numbness, and your pleasure response fading. We talk about how to respond before full burnout hits. I guide you to start “micro-replenishing”, one nourishing meal, one early night, one small joy with no expectations. Like watering a plant that’s been running on condensation. This one is your reminder that recovery doesn’t always need a crash to begin. If life feels like it’s in grayscale, that’s your cue to soften early, not collapse later. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    2min

  5. 29 DE JAN.

    How to Stop Overthinking (Without Turning Off Your Brain)

    If your brain loves to spiral, replaying conversations, catastrophising outcomes, or writing imaginary arguments you win three days later,this episode is for you. I explain why overthinking isn’t a mindset flaw. It’s a body cue. Overthinking is what happens when your nervous system doesn’t feel safe. So your brain tries to compensate by “solving” everything in advance. That’s not logic it’s anxiety in disguise. We walk through a few powerful tools to disrupt the spiral. First, naming the pattern (“Ah, I’m problem-solving for safety”) helps interrupt it. Then we move into the body: shaking, stretching, even walking helps discharge the energy fuelling the thoughts. I also share the 3-3-3 grounding reset a fast, easy technique to bring you out of the mental movie and back into the present. Because the goal isn’t to think less it’s to feel more. That’s where your calm lives. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min

  6. 22 DE JAN.

    Why You Keep Saying “I’m Fine” (When You’re Really Not)

    In this episode, we’re looking at the autopilot answer we all give, “I’m fine” and what it’s really covering up. I share how I used to say it so often it became a reflex, even when I was completely numb inside. Because the truth is, “fine” isn’t a feeling. It’s a defence mechanism. I explain how your nervous system uses “fine” to stay functional when honesty feels unsafe and how over time, it disconnects you from what’s actually going on inside. We talk about how to break the habit gently, starting with small, honest swaps. Instead of “fine,” try “I’m tired but hopeful.” Or “I’m stretched but managing.” These aren’t dramatic. They’re human. You’ll also hear why starting with the body (not the mind) is key. I guide you through a simple self-check-in that helps you notice what your body is feeling tightness, heaviness, restlessness and why that opens the door to real regulation. This episode is your invitation to stop performing wellness and start practising real connection with yourself first. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min

  7. 15 DE JAN.

    The Secret Power of Slowing Down, Without Losing Momentum

    If you’ve been afraid that slowing down will make everything fall apart, I made this episode for you. I open up about the time I got sick and was forced to stop and how, to my surprise, nothing collapsed. In fact, when I came back, I was more creative than I’d been in months. We explore the myth that success equals speed, and I explain what really happens when we’re stuck in a cycle of adrenaline-fuelled urgency. I offer practical ways to begin slowing down without feeling like you’re falling behind including a simple five-second pause before each task, and adding one tiny “slow ritual” to your day. This isn’t about doing less. It’s about choosing how you do things from a place of clarity, not panic. Calm doesn’t kill momentum. It protects it. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min

  8. 8 DE JAN.

    The “Good Girl” Burnout Trap

    If saying yes feels safer than saying no, even when you’re exhausted, you’re not alone. In this episode, I dive into the “good girl” conditioning that leaves so many of us stuck in people-pleasing, perfectionism, and quiet resentment. You can grab your copy of The Calm Planner here

    3min
Ver tudo (17)

Sobre

The podcast for ambitious, overwhelmed, burnout-prone women who want more energy, more balance, and more peace without giving up their ambition.

Informações

  • Criado por
    Lucy
  • Anos de atividade
    2025 - 2026
  • Episódios
    17
  • Classificação
    Livre
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Lucy
  • Site do podcast
    The Calm Code