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Bobby and Katie Fredericksen
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Fun with Faith, Family, and Friends! Hosted by Bobby and Katie Fredericksen

  1. 3D AGO

    Married but on Different Faith Pages? | Catholic Marriage Advice

    Married but on Different Faith Pages? | Catholic Marriage Advice When Your Spouse Isn’t Growing Spiritually What do you do when you love your spouse… but your faith lives look completely different? Many Catholic marriages experience a season where one spouse is growing deeper in their relationship with Jesus Christ, attending Holy Mass, praying the Rosary, and diving into the Catholic faith—while the other spouse feels distant, lukewarm, or uninterested. If you’ve ever wondered: • What if my spouse doesn’t go to Mass? • How do I help my husband grow in faith? • How do I lead my wife spiritually without pushing her away? • Can a marriage survive different levels of faith? This episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast tackles one of the most common struggles in Catholic marriage: being married but not spiritually aligned. We discuss: ✔ How to navigate different faith levels in marriage ✔ What the Catholic Church teaches about mixed-faith marriages ✔ The biggest mistakes couples make when trying to change their spouse ✔ How to evangelize your spouse without pressure or resentment ✔ The power of prayer, patience, and authentic witness We also explore insights from Sacred Scripture, the Catechism of the Catholic Church, and the example of Monica of Hippo, whose faithful prayers helped lead to the conversion of her son Augustine of Hippo. The reality is: You cannot force someone into faith. But you can inspire faith through love, patience, and holiness. If you’re struggling with: • A spouse who doesn’t believe • A husband who won’t go to church • A wife who isn’t interested in faith • Feeling spiritually alone in marriage This conversation will encourage you and give you practical Catholic guidance to help your marriage grow in unity and holiness. Because sometimes the most powerful evangelization in marriage isn’t arguments… It’s a faithful spouse living the Gospel. 🙏 Subscribe for more conversations about: • Catholic marriage  • Catholic family life  • spiritual leadership in the home  • discipleship and authentic masculinity  • growing in holiness as a couple Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    47 min

  2. 4D AGO

    The Hardest Catholic Prayer? The Litany of Humility Explained

    The Litany of Humility may be the most difficult prayer in the Catholic Church. Why would anyone ask God to be forgotten, overlooked, or even despised? In this episode, Bobby interviews Catholic author Patrick O'Hearn about the spiritual power behind this radical prayer and his book Humility of the Saints from Sophia Institute Press. In his new book  Humility of the Saints, published by Sophia Institute Press. Together, they unpack the spiritual depth behind the famous Litany of Humility, walking line-by-line through the prayer many saints loved—but most of us struggle to pray sincerely. Why do we resist praying to be forgotten, despised, or unnoticed? What does real Christian humility look like in everyday life? And how did the saints actually live this radical virtue? Patrick explains how the saints made humility possible, and how their lives show us that humility is not weakness—it’s the path to freedom and holiness. If you've ever found yourself uncomfortable praying the Litany of Humility, this conversation will help you understand why—and how God uses this prayer to transform our hearts. In this episode we discuss: • Why the Litany of Humility is so spiritually challenging • The saints who modeled radical humility • What humility actually looks like in modern Catholic life • How pride quietly shapes our spiritual lives • Why humility is essential for authentic discipleship About the Guest Patrick O'Hearn is a Catholic author and speaker whose work explores the lives of the saints and the beauty of the Catholic spiritual tradition. His newest book, Humilty of the Saints, helps readers discover the wisdom and intercession of the saints through prayer and reflection. Subscribe for more Catholic conversations On this channel we explore the Catholic faith, saints, prayer, conversion stories, and the deeper meaning of the Church’s teachings. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! Catholic humility  Litany of Humility explained  Catholic prayer for humility  how to grow in humility Catholic  Patrick O'Hearn interview  Catholic saints and humility  Sophia Institute Press books  Catholic spiritual growth  humility in the Catholic Church  Catholic podcast interview https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    39 min

  3. MAR 3

    What You CAN'T See at Mass!

    What is really happening at Mass… that we can’t see? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Joe Helow to unpack The Real Presence: The Mass (TheRealPresenceFilm)—a stunning 28-minute film that reveals the unseen spiritual reality of the Catholic Mass through breathtaking liturgical imagery and artistic augmented reality. At the heart of the film is the Church’s bold and beautiful claim: Jesus Christ is truly present in the Eucharist—not symbolically, not metaphorically—but in reality. With recent studies showing that many Catholics no longer believe in the Real Presence, this film was created to reawaken faith, inspire awe, and help viewers rediscover what the Church has always taught about the Eucharist. Through visually striking scenes and insightful commentary filmed at the 2024 National Eucharistic Congress, the film brings clarity to what is happening at every moment of the Mass—and why it matters for your life. Featuring powerful reflections from voices across the Church, including: Fr. Mike SchmitzDr. Scott HahnDeacon Harold Burke-SiversSr. Briege McKennaSr. Bethany MadonnaBishop David L. ToupsBishop Erik T. PohlmeierChristophe Cardinal PierreCurtis MartinFr. Robert SpitzerTogether, these leaders help us see the Mass as it truly is: Heaven touching earth. The tone of the film—and this conversation—is joyful, reverent, and inviting. Whether you are a lifelong Catholic, someone struggling with belief, or a seeker curious about the Eucharist, this episode will deepen your understanding of the greatest gift Christ left His Church. If the Eucharist is truly Jesus… then nothing at Mass is ordinary. Watch, reflect, and rediscover what you can’t see. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    27 min

  4. FEB 23

    Prodigal to Purpose: My Conversion + Pray40 Lenten Journey

    In this powerful episode, we unpack Luke 15’s Parable of the Prodigal Son and connect it to real conversion, Lenten prayer, and the transformative journey of returning home to God. 🌟 We dive into: 🔥 My personal conversion story — how I wandered, returned, and found mercy 🙏 The Lent #Pray40 Challenge with Hallow — inspired by the Prodigal Son’s return and The Brothers Karamazov theme of mercy and restoration 🌿 🕊️ The Jesus Prayer and how a daily rhythm of prayer helps us grow closer to Christ 📖 How Mother Olga, Mark Wahlberg & Chris Pratt are helping millions in this global Lenten prayer movement with Pray40  💡 The deeper meaning of repentance, forgiveness, and the joy of coming home to the Father This episode is perfect for anyone seeking spiritual renewal this Lent, looking to build a daily prayer life, or wanting to understand how the story of the Prodigal Son mirrors our own journey of faith and mercy. 🌄 👉 Watch until the end for practical prayer tips, encouragement for Lent, and how to join the Pray40 movement! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! #ProdigalSon #Lent2026 #Pray40 #CatholicPodcast #ConversionStory #JesusPrayer #HallowApp #ReturnToGod https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    31 min

  5. FEB 17

    Don’t Waste Lent: A 40-Day Reset for Your Marriage & Family

    Most Catholic families treat Lent like a 40‑day diet instead of a 40‑day transformation for their homes. In this episode, we show you how to stop “giving up chocolate and quitting by week two” and start using Lent as boot camp for your marriage and family. We’re talking to Catholic couples and families who are tired of going through the motions—Ash Wednesday, fish fries, a small sacrifice—and then hitting Easter with nothing really different in their hearts or homes. Instead of random Lenten promises, we walk you through a simple, 5-part framework to help you actually grow closer to God, closer to your spouse, and closer as a family. In this episode, you’ll hear about: Why most Catholic families quietly waste Lent year after yearHow to think of Lent as spiritual training, not just punishment or “ Catholic dieting”A simple way to treat these 40 days as a reset for your marriageHow to start leading your kids spiritually in small, realistic waysA practical, 5-part plan that makes Lent doable in real family life (without becoming monks)This conversation is for: Catholic couples who want a stronger, more prayerful marriageCatholic parents who want to bring their kids into Lent in a meaningful wayFamilies who feel spiritually “stuck” and want a clear, simple Lenten planAnyone who’s ever started Lent strong and fizzled out by the second weekWe’re not just talking about little sacrifices—we’re talking about real transformation in your home. 👉 If you don’t want to waste Lent this year, comment “LENT” and we’ll send you the full 40-day family plan and this episode breakdown so you can put it into action. Catholic Lent, Catholic family Lent, Catholic marriage Lent, Lent ideas for families, Lent ideas for couples, Catholic podcast, Catholic marriage podcast, Catholic parenting, how to prepare for Lent, Lenten practices for families, Catholic spiritual leadership, Catholic dads, Catholic moms, not wasting Lent, Lent spiritual boot camp, 5 step Lent plan, Catholic YouTube podcast, Catholic family spiritual growth https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    39 min

  6. FEB 9

    Marriage Secrets: It's Not About You!

    Marriage isn’t about getting what you want—it’s about getting each other to heaven. In this episode of The Catholic Couple, Bobby and Katie unpack one of the most counter-cultural truths of Catholic marriage: the path to holiness is paved with interruptions, inconveniences, sacrifice, and the Cross. From daily annoyances to seasons of real suffering, marriage constantly invites us to die to ourselves. In this conversation, we talk honestly about: Why marriage is full of interruptions (and why that’s not a mistake)Doing things you don’t want to do—and how that forms virtueHow spouses become each other’s crossesWhy inconveniences are actually gracesHow sacrifice sanctifies us and makes us more like ChristThe true purpose of marriage: mutual sanctification and salvationCatholic marriage isn’t about comfort, happiness, or self-fulfillment. It’s about love that costs something. Love that looks like the Cross. Love that transforms us if we let it. Whether you’re newly married, struggling, or decades in, this episode will challenge how you view marriage—and invite you to see even the hardest moments as opportunities for grace. 👉 If this episode encourages you, share it with another married couple who needs hope today.  👉 Subscribe for more conversations on Catholic marriage, family, and discipleship. #CatholicMarriage #TheCatholicCouple #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAndFaith #CatholicPodcast #MarriageAdvice #MarriageAndTheCross #FaithAndFamily #SacrificialLove #HolinessInMarriage #CatholicTeaching https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    43 min

  7. FEB 3

    Should Catholics Be Afraid of AI? with TJ Burdick

    In this episode, we unpack a powerful article we discussed on the show that tackles one of the most pressing questions of our digital age: What is an algorithm, really—and what is it doing to our souls? with guest, TJ Burdick we explore how modern AI systems are not neutral tools, but machines designed to exploit our weaknesses, feed our vices, and keep us addicted to a hyper-reality that slowly pulls us away from real life, real relationships, and ultimately, God. We dive into his article on CatholicExchange.com  Why algorithms are not “smart” in the human senseHow hyper-reality fuels addiction, isolation, and despairThe spiritual and psychological cost of constant digital consumptionWhy only humans—not machines—can love, sacrifice, and seek the common goodWhat a truly Catholic use of technology looks like in a world dominated by AIThis episode isn’t anti-technology—it’s a call to choose reality, practice virtue, and reclaim our humanity before ethics are completely removed from the digital systems shaping our lives. As St. Paul reminds us, we weren’t made to finish the doomscroll—we were made to finish the race. 👉 Learn more and read more from TJ Burdick Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    53 min

  8. JAN 27

    4 Simple Habits That Will Transform Your Marriage

    What if improving your marriage didn’t require a major overhaul—but a return to a few simple, intentional habits? In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we break down four powerful marriage habits inspired by a viral clip from Arthur Brooks (Harvard professor and happiness researcher) that he shared on the Tim Ferriss Podcast. While Arthur Brooks approaches marriage from science and psychology, we show how his insights beautifully align with Catholic teaching, Sacred Scripture, and the wisdom of the saints. Arthur Brooks challenges the idea that struggling marriages should immediately default to therapy alone. While therapy can help, he argues that many marriages heal not by digging up more past wounds—but by pouring in more joy, connection, and intentional love. Using his “dirty cup” analogy, we explore how adding the right habits can push out resentment and rebuild intimacy. In this episode, we discuss: ✔️ Why having more fun together matters and how many couples stop dating after marriage ✔️ How praying together—not just saying prayers—deepens spiritual and emotional intimacy ✔️ Why eye contact is essential for connection, trust, and feeling truly seen ✔️ The importance of physical touch in marriage, especially for men, and how it communicates love beyond words We connect each habit to:  📖 Scripture  ⛪ Catholic teaching and the Catechism  ✨ Quotes and insights from the saints  🧠 Modern science and relationship research Whether your marriage is thriving or feeling stuck, these four habits can help you strengthen your bond, grow in holiness together, and rediscover joy in your vocation. 👉 If this episode encouraged you, subscribe to the channel, leave a comment, and share this with another couple who could use hope and practical wisdom for their marriage. Great marriages aren’t found—they’re built. One intentional habit at a time. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! Keywords Catholic marriage, Catholic couples podcast, marriage advice, Arthur Brooks marriage, Tim Ferriss podcast marriage, Christian marriage tips, praying together as a couple, how to improve your marriage, Catholic relationship advice, marriage habits, Theology of the Body, faith and marriage https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

    34 min
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Fun with Faith, Family, and Friends! Hosted by Bobby and Katie Fredericksen

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  • Creator
    Bobby and Katie Fredericksen
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    179
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Catholic Couple
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