The Common Veterans

Kenneth Holmes | Jeff Schrock | Fred Schlorke | Tony Buoscio | Casey Hendrickson
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The Common Veterans is a podcast created by Veterans, for Veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the Veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us!

  1. Jul 21

    Season 4: Episode 10: Tactical Networking

    Networking is a mission, not a mystery. For many Veterans, the word “networking” can feel artificial, transactional, or uncomfortable. In this episode of The Common Veterans, Kenny and Jeff welcome retired Army Veteran Brian Beal for a conversation about replacing empty networking with genuine relationship building. Brian served for 22 years in the Army, working in field artillery, human resources, resiliency training, and career counseling. Through his military service and continued work with Veteran organizations, he learned that strong connections are rarely built through business cards, social media requests, or carefully rehearsed sales pitches. They are built through curiosity, consistency, service, integrity, and the willingness to listen. In This Episode The difference between networking and making a real connectionWhy Veterans may struggle to communicate in civilian professional environmentsUsing reconnaissance to prepare for events, meetings, and opportunitiesBuilding rapport by asking sincere questions and actively listeningManaging social anxiety by planning ahead and bringing a trusted battle buddyThe importance of mentors, self-awareness, and learning from mistakesWhy face-to-face conversations still matter in a technology-driven worldFollowing up naturally without sounding forced or transactionalKeeping promises and protecting the reputation attached to your nameThe conversation also explores the role of VFWs, American Legions, stand downs, community events, and Veteran organizations in creating places where Veterans can reconnect with people who share a common core of experience. The lesson is simple: do not enter every room asking what someone can do for you. Prepare for the mission, show genuine interest, find common ground, keep your word, and look for opportunities to help another person. A contact may open a door. Trust, integrity, and follow-through are what keep it open. Guest: Brian Beal This episode is supported by the Bancroft Companies and Winter Oak Studios. The Common Veterans — where Veterans find common ground through uncommon conversations.

    Season 4: Episode 10: Tactical Networking

  2. Jun 29

    Season 4: Episode 9: The Silent Ranks

    When the Calls Stop Coming Military service creates bonds unlike any other. We train together, deploy together, struggle together, and celebrate together. There is always someone nearby who understands without needing an explanation. Then transition happens. Careers begin. Families grow. Life moves in different directions. Before long, some of the people we once talked to every day slowly disappear. In this episode of Common Veterans, the hosts explore The Silent Ranks—the Veterans who quietly fade into the background after leaving the military. They are the friends who stop answering texts, decline invitations, isolate themselves, or simply become harder and harder to reach. Sometimes it's intentional. Sometimes it's life. Sometimes it's something much deeper. Recognizing the Silent Ranks This conversation isn't about diagnosing mental health conditions or forcing people into conversations they aren't ready to have. Instead, it focuses on recognizing warning signs, understanding the difference between giving someone space and forgetting about them, and learning how to continue reaching out without creating additional pressure. Not every unanswered text message is a cry for help, but neither should silence always be ignored. Veterans often process life's challenges differently, and many choose isolation long before asking for help. The hosts discuss how awareness, patience, and consistency can often be more valuable than having the perfect words. Reaching Out Without Pushing The discussion centers around a simple truth: friendship doesn't require immediate responses. A text message. A phone call. An invitation to grab lunch. A reminder that someone is being thought about. These small acts of consistency communicate something powerful—you haven't been forgotten. Sometimes there won't be a response, and that's okay. Continuing to check in from time to time without guilt, pressure, or expectations demonstrates the same commitment and dedication that defined military service. Looking after one another doesn't stop when the uniform comes off. The Strength of Shared Experience Drawing from their own military experiences, the hosts reflect on the unique bond shared between Veterans. While careers, families, and life circumstances change, the common experiences of service remain. Those experiences create a foundation that allows Veterans to encourage one another in ways that are often difficult to explain to anyone who hasn't lived it. The mission after military service may look different, but the responsibility to care for one another never truly ends. Sometimes simply showing up—or reminding someone you're still there—is enough to make a difference. In This Episode Why some Veterans disappear after transitionRecognizing signs of isolationThe difference between giving space and giving upHow to reach out without forcing a conversationThe importance of gentle, consistent encouragementThe lifelong bond created through military serviceWhy shared experiences continue to unite Veterans long after service endsA Challenge for Every Listener If someone came to mind while listening to this episode, don't ignore it. Send the text. Make the phone call. Leave the voicemail. Invite them to coffee. Even if there isn't an immediate response, your effort lets them know they are remembered. We never truly know what someone is carrying. Sometimes the smallest act of connection is exactly what another Veteran needs to remember they are not carrying it alone. We Are The Common Veterans.

    Season 4: Episode 9: The Silent Ranks

  3. Jun 16

    Season 4: Episode 8: You Can't Say That Here

    Military culture has its own language, humor, rhythm, and rules. The problem is that what makes perfect sense in uniform does not always land the same way in a civilian workplace, a customer service job, a staff meeting, or even a casual conversation. In this episode of Common Veterans, the hosts take on social rules, workplace landmines, and communication whiplash through the only way they know how: real stories, blunt honesty, and plenty of inappropriate laughter. From first civilian job mistakes to military sarcasm, misunderstood jargon, and the moment you realize, “I probably should not have said that,” this episode explores what happens when military communication meets civilian expectations. The conversation gets into the language Veterans carry with them after service. Military humor, direct feedback, acronyms, old habits, and phrases that used to build camaraderie can suddenly become confusing, awkward, or completely unacceptable in civilian life. Sometimes it is funny. Sometimes it is uncomfortable. Sometimes it leads to a write-up on the first day. The hosts also talk about why Veterans often feel more comfortable around other Veterans. There is a shared understanding, a common rhythm, and a kind of trust that allows people to joke, vent, and speak plainly without explaining every word. But outside of that circle, communication takes more awareness. Knowing your audience matters. Reading the room matters. And learning how to say what you mean without losing yourself matters too. This episode covers: Military humor and civilian culture shockWorkplace communication mistakesBlunt honesty versus professional diplomacySarcasm as a second languageMilitary jargon that does not translateWhy intent and impact are not always the sameHow Veterans can adapt without losing authenticityThis one is part comedy, part cautionary tale, and part group therapy session. The stories are honest, the language gets rough, and the lessons are real. Because every Veteran has probably had at least one moment where they walked away thinking, “Yeah... I can’t say that here.” Warning: This episode contains mature language, military humor, and discussions that may not be suitable for all audiences. Any inappropriate examples are shared for educational and comedic purposes only. We Are The Common Veterans.

    Season 4: Episode 8: You Can't Say That Here

  4. May 6

    Season 4: Episode 7: Own the Damn Story

    What happens when Veterans stop trying to tell the “perfect” story and start telling the honest one? In this episode of Common Veterans, the table gets practical about the power of storytelling. Not storytelling as performance, but storytelling as a tool for resilience, connection, healing, and helping others understand what lived experience really means. Guest host SGT Eric Donoho, U.S. Army Retired, joins the conversation. Eric is a decorated combat Veteran, Purple Heart recipient, author of Canyon of Hope, and a national advocate for Veterans and military families. His work focuses on moral injury, healing after war, and helping others find meaning through truth and connection. This discussion breaks down real stories in real time: what to keep, what to cut, and how tone changes meaning depending on the audience. A story told to another Veteran may land differently than the same story told to a civilian, a spouse, a child, or a room full of strangers. The episode explores how Veterans carry stories, how those stories shape identity, and how lived experience can become more than memory. It can become a tool. In this episode: Why storytelling matters for VeteransHow resilience shows up through lived experienceWhat details make a story strongerHow tone changes depending on the audienceWhy owning your story can help others find their wayWhether you have told your story a hundred times, avoided telling it altogether, or are still trying to understand what it means, this conversation is about learning how to carry it with purpose. Guest Host: Eric DonohoProducer: Sarah Holmes #CommonVeterans #Veterans #Storytelling #MilitaryPodcast #VeteranSupport #Resilience #MoralInjury #PurpleHeart #HealingAfterWar #FreedomSystem

    Season 4: Episode 7: Own the Damn Story

  5. Apr 20

    Season 4: Episode 6: The Stuff We Don't Diagnose

    The Stuff We Don’t Diagnose is a conversation about the weight people carry when life does not fit neatly into a label. In this episode of Common Veterans, we sit down with Reverend Pastor Mason Vieth to talk about the things that do not always show up in a chart, a report, or a diagnosis, but still shape the way people live, think, and relate to the world around them. This episode steps away from clinical framing and leans into lived experience. We talk about moral injury, guilt, anger, avoidance, silence, faith, and the long shadow certain moments can leave behind. Some experiences do not sit right with who we believe we are, and even when time moves on, part of us can stay caught there. That is where this conversation begins. Pastor Mason Vieth brings a perspective that is both personal and pastoral. As Kenny and Tony’s home church pastor, he knows them well enough to keep the conversation honest, grounded, and, when needed, from going too far off the rails. His role in this episode is not to hand out easy answers. It is to help make room for reflection, accountability, forgiveness, and hope without pretending every wound can be explained away. Together, this conversation explores what happens when emotions no longer move in straight lines. Anger does not always have a clear target. Guilt does not always fade with time. Avoidance can look like staying busy, shutting down, laughing things off, isolating, or refusing to revisit certain memories. On the surface, that may look like coping. Underneath, it can be evidence of something unresolved still asking to be acknowledged. One of the central ideas in this episode is that not everything needs to be diagnosed in order to be real. There are experiences that carry deep emotional and spiritual weight without fitting neatly into a category. That does not make them less important. If anything, it makes conversations like this more necessary. In this episode, we talk about:moral injury and the burden that can linger when an experience does not sit right with who you believe you areguilt, regret, anger, and resentment that do not always make sense on the surfaceavoidance, silence, and the ways people distance themselves from painfaith, forgiveness, and accountability without easy answersthe importance of being seen and heard without being reduced to a diagnosis This is one of those episodes that does not rush toward a solution. It sits in the hard space on purpose. It makes room for honesty, reflection, and recognition. Sometimes the first step is not explanation. Sometimes it is simply naming what has been carried for a long time. Guest: Reverend Pastor Mason Vieth Podcast: Common Veterans Slainte

    Season 4: Episode 6: The Stuff We Don't Diagnose

  6. Mar 31

    Season 4: Episode 5: Permission to Fail

    Episode 5: Permission to Fail Veterans are good at telling the version of the story that makes sense. Service. Transition. Forward movement. Progress. What often gets left out are the moments in between — the jobs that did not work out, the leadership decisions that fell short, the relationships that took a hit, and the seasons where nothing felt as steady as it was supposed to. In this episode, the hosts take a more honest look at what failure can mean after service. Not as a dramatic ending, but as part of the road that many Veterans quietly walk. This is a conversation about setbacks, identity shock, hard lessons, and the uncomfortable reality that growth often comes through struggle rather than in spite of it. Too often, failure is treated like something to hide or explain away. Veterans especially can feel pressure to present a clean, polished version of life after the military — one where discipline always wins, experience always translates, and the next step always makes sense. But real life is rarely that neat. Sometimes the plan falls apart. Sometimes the transition hits harder than expected. Sometimes what looked like the right move turns out to be the wrong one. FreedomSystem.org joins the conversation to talk about what they see in the Veteran community when those moments happen. They discuss the pattern of Veterans knowing help is there, delaying the reach for it, and then eventually showing up when life has pushed them to a point where something has to change. It is a real look at what failure can stir up — and what can begin when it is finally faced head-on. This episode is not about glorifying mistakes or pretending every setback is somehow inspiring. It is about ownership, reflection, and perspective. It is about understanding that failure does not cancel out growth. In many cases, it creates the conditions for it. The suck is real. The frustration is real. But so is the possibility that what felt like a breaking point was actually the beginning of a better footing. If you have ever felt like your story got messy after service, this conversation is for you. If you have ever looked back at a bad season and realized it taught you more than an easy win ever could, this one will hit home. We are The Common Veterans.Clink.

    Season 4: Episode 5: Permission to Fail

  7. Mar 17

    Season 4: Episode2: The Translation Lie

    Introduction One of the most common pieces of advice Veterans hear during transition is simple: “Translate your MOS.” The idea sounds reasonable. Replace acronyms with civilian terminology. Turn missions into projects. Convert leadership into management language. Take the language of the military and make it sound like something a corporate hiring manager might recognize. But for many Veterans, that advice never quite works the way it is supposed to. In this episode of Common Veterans, we examine what we call The Translation Lie — the assumption that transition is primarily a matter of converting military language into corporate language. The Limits of Translation Military service is built around mission clarity, hierarchy, and shared expectations. Civilian organizations operate differently, often with less structure and far less shared context. When Veterans are told to simply “translate” their MOS, the result can feel forced. The words may change, but the experience behind them often becomes diluted. Leadership, responsibility, and decision-making shaped in a military environment rarely fit neatly into a few lines of corporate language. Real Conversations About Resumes In this conversation, we walk through examples many Veterans recognize — resumes that sound impressive but say very little, LinkedIn advice built around buzzwords, and well-intended transition guidance that oversimplifies the reality of military experience. The result can be frustration on both sides. Veterans struggle to communicate what they actually did, and employers struggle to understand the depth of responsibility that service often requires. Bridging Two Different Worlds The real challenge of transition is not just language. It is culture. Veterans benefit from learning how civilian organizations define responsibility, leadership, and accountability. At the same time, employers benefit from understanding the environments where Veterans developed their experience — environments where decisions are often made under pressure and leadership begins early. When both sides understand each other better, the conversation changes. Special Thanks This episode also gave us the opportunity to sit down with Ty Bancroft of Bancroft Companies, who joined the conversation and offered perspective from the civilian leadership side of the table. We also want to offer a sincere thank you to Ty and the Bancroft Companies for their generosity in supporting the Common Veterans podcast. Their support helped us upgrade the video equipment used to record these conversations, allowing us to continue sharing these discussions with a wider audience. Closing Transition from military service is rarely solved by a simple formula. It takes time, reflection, and honest conversations about how experience translates across two very different professional cultures. At Common Veterans, we believe those conversations matter. The more openly Veterans talk about the reality of transition, the more prepared the next generation will be when their time comes. If you are looking for community, resources, or conversations with others who understand the journey, visit FreedomSystem.org. Common Veterans We are the Common Veterans. Slainte.

    Season 4: Episode2: The Translation Lie

  8. Mar 2

    Season 4: Episode3: When the Uniform

    Introduction We begin the way we always do. Host roll call. A moment to recognize the voices in the room and the stories behind them. This episode is brought to you by Winter Oak Studio, who continues to support conversations that matter. Toast: “To the Uniform. There’s ceremony when you put it on. There’s paperwork when you take it off. There’s nothing in between. To the uniform that formed us, the silence that followed it, the mistakes that shaped us, and the purpose that still calls us. Slainte.” The Last Day We take a slow walk through the final day. CIF turn-in. Signatures collected. Gear accounted for. A last formation that feels both significant and strangely procedural. Then comes the drive off post for the last time. No band. No closing speech. Just an open road and the realization that something structured and familiar has ended. It isn’t dramatic. It’s administrative. And somehow that makes it heavier. Expectations vs. Reality Most of us imagined transition would feel like relief. More freedom. Better pay. Less pressure. Instead, many of us found something else: silence. No rank on your chest. No clear chain of command. No defined mission. And eventually, someone asks, “So what do you do?” It’s a simple question. But when your identity was once summarized in a title, answering it can feel more complicated than expected. Identity Shock When the rank is removed, what remains? That question isn’t tactical. It’s philosophical. If identity has been tied closely to function, what happens when the function changes? Are you still the same man or woman without the uniform? Without the authority? Without the structure that once shaped your days? No checklist prepares you for that internal recalibration. Emotional Collision Transition carries emotions that don’t sit neatly together. Pride in having served. Grief that it ended. Relief mixed with longing. You may find yourself missing people you once complained about. Missing routines you once counted down to escape. Missing the clarity of knowing exactly where you stood. And at times, standing in a crowded civilian space can feel strangely isolating. Mistakes We Made Some of us withdrew. It felt easier to assume, “They wouldn’t understand,” than to risk explaining. Often some of us carried ego into rooms that didn’t operate on rank. We measured civilian life against military standards and quietly judged what didn’t align. Many of us resisted help. We expected structure to appear on its own, yet expected purpose to be assigned. Things Nobody Warned You About Your family built a rhythm while you were serving. Reintegration means learning that rhythm, not overriding it. Civilians do not organize their lives around mission clarity and ambiguity is normal for 'em. You will miss parts of service you once disliked. That realization can be unsettling; most importantly, brotherhood does not automatically continue. It must be maintained intentionally. Theology & Philosophy of Transition For many of us, service felt sacred. There was meaning in the discipline. A kind of liturgy in the repetition. Civilian life can feel ordinary by comparison; ordinary does not mean meaningless. The Warrior Principle A warrior without direction can become restless. Restlessness, left unattended, can turn destructive... the work of transition is not to erase the warrior. It is to redirect him. To rebuild tribe with intention. To choose a mission rather than wait for one to be assigned. This requires humility. And patience. And community. Closing Taking off the uniform does not remove your calling. It simply changes the environment in which that calling is lived out. Our encouragement in this episode is simple: call one Veteran. Have one honest conversation. Admit one struggle out loud. Silence loses power when it is shared. If you are looking for community or structured support, FreedomSystem.org continues to build spaces where Veterans can reconnect with purpose. WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS Clink.

    Season 4: Episode3: When the Uniform
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The Common Veterans is a podcast created by Veterans, for Veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the Veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us!

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  • Creator
    Kenneth Holmes | Jeff Schrock | Fred Schlorke | Tony Buoscio | Casey Hendrickson
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Kenneth Holmes | Jeff Schrock | Fred Schlorke | Tony Buoscio | Casey Hendrickson
  • Show Website
    The Common Veterans