The D Word

Rachel Bracken
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What happens when someone dies? Who do you call, what paperwork is needed, what choices do you have? The D Word answers these questions with calm, practical advice. Hosted by funeral director and celebrant Rachel Bracken, this podcast guides families, carers, and healthcare workers through end-of-life care, funerals, and grief. Expect clear steps, expert voices, and real stories to help you feel informed and supported when facing death, dying, and loss.

Episodes

  1. 11/12/2025

    Losing Dad Overseas — with Alice Hamilton

    When Alice’s father suffered a sudden stroke while travelling in Turkey, she and her family were thrown into a world of foreign hospitals, translation barriers and heartbreaking decisions. In this candid and compassionate conversation, Alice shares how she navigated the shock, the bureaucracy of bringing her father home, and the long, uneven road of grief that followed. Along the way, she and Rachel talk about: coping with sudden loss far from home the kindness of strangers and small acts of care organ donation and the unexpected comfort it can bring the emotional chaos of funeral planning living with grief years later This episode is a powerful reminder that grief doesn’t fade — we simply learn how to carry it. Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral processes. Please take care while listening. Crisis support (Australia):  Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)  Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention  13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples  Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling  Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support  Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25) If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line. 💬 Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram ⁠@TheDWord.podcast⁠ — your story or question might be featured in a future episode.

    36 min

  2. 10/29/2025

    After the Funeral

    Grief doesn’t end when the funeral does. In fact, for many people, that’s when it truly begins. In this episode, Rachel talks about what happens after the funeral — when the flowers are gone, the phone stops ringing, and reality begins to settle in. It’s the quiet, often overlooked chapter of loss that brings both practical challenges and emotional weight. You’ll hear about: What to expect in the weeks after the funeral The official Death Certificate and what it’s used for Notifying organisations and navigating post-funeral admin Managing belongings, mail, and digital accounts Receiving ashes or finalising a burial headstone How to handle the quiet that follows when everyone else seems to move on Gentle signs that you might need more support This episode is about finding your footing in the aftermath — one small, human step at a time. Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral processes. Please take care while listening. Crisis support (Australia):Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoplesSuicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counsellingBeyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health supportKids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25) If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line. 💬 Share your questions or experiences:DM on Instagram @TheDWord.podcast — your story or question might be featured in a future episode.

    30 min

  3. 10/15/2025

    Protecting Your Peace — Setting Boundaries and Finding Calm in Grief

    Grief is heavy enough on its own — but when you’re also carrying the emotional weight of other people, it can feel impossible to breathe. In this episode, Rachel talks about how to protect your peace through the chaos of loss — setting boundaries, understanding why others behave in strange or overwhelming ways, and learning to hold space for yourself first. You’ll hear about: The mental, emotional, and physical toll of grief Why some people over-help while others completely disappear How to respond with kindness and boundaries What real, practical help actually looks like (and how to ask for it) Gentle ways to protect your peace when everything feels too much This conversation blends lived experience, psychology, and heart. It’s for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone through it, or simply wanting to understand grief with more compassion. Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening. Crisis support (Australia): Emergency: 000 (immediate danger) Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention 13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25) If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line. Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram @TheDWord.podcast and we may include answers in a future episode.

    34 min

  4. 10/08/2025

    Part 2 - So… What Kind of Funeral Are We Planning?

    In Part Two, we bring the day to life. We talk through the elements that shape how a funeral feels — and what happens afterwards. In this episode: Coffins, caskets & shrouds — what they are, how to choose, and what’s practical for burial vs cremation Flowers, readings, orders of service & photo tributes — the storytelling tools that make it feel like them Music & rituals — simple participation ideas that help grief “land” Eulogies & who speaks — formats, tips, and gentle alternatives Missed Part One? It sets the foundations: burial vs cremation (plus aquamation), direct cremation (no service/no attendance), service types, venues, who leads, and timing — including why you don’t have to rush and how to split a private farewell and a later memorial. Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening. Crisis support (Australia): Emergency: 000 (immediate danger) Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention 13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25) If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line. Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram @TheDWord or email and we may include answers in a future episode.

    35 min

  5. 09/27/2025

    Part 1 - So… What Kind of Funeral Are We Planning?

    Where do you even begin? Part One sets the groundwork so the decisions feel calmer and more doable - without turning it into a checklist. In this episode: Burial vs cremation (with a note on aquamation) — what this early decision shapes next No Service, No Attendance (direct cremation) — why some families choose it, and simple rituals so grief still has a place to land Service types — traditional funeral, memorial, celebration of life, and mixing a private farewell with a later gathering Venues & who leads — chapels, churches, wedding venues, halls, surf clubs, restaurants, backyards; clergy vs celebrant vs family-led Timing — why you don’t have to rush, common timelines, and practical factors (paperwork, travel, customs, venue diaries) What’s in Part Two: We bring the day to life — coffins/caskets/shrouds, flowers/readings/orders of service/photo tributes, music & rituals, eulogies & who speaks. Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening. Crisis support (Australia): Emergency: 000 (immediate danger) Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention 13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25) If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line. Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram @TheDWord or email us — we may include answers in a future episode.

    35 min

  6. 09/17/2025

    You Need to Engage a Funeral Director

    “You need to engage a funeral director.” Even when you’ve tried to prepare, those words signal a shift. In this standalone episode of The D Word, I talk through the moment of making the call - why it can feel disloyal, why it isn’t, and how opening a conversation early can give Future You more space and support. I share the practical steps (what to say, what information helps, and what to do if you change your mind), plus the core questions to ask and the red flags that mean you should pause and reassess. We move into ceremony - why it matters, what it does for the living as well as the dead, and how to shape something that feels true to your person. Whether your family leans on religious tradition or you prefer a personalised, celebrant-led service, you have choices. I offer simple ways to prevent decision fatigue and keep your energy for the parts that matter most. If you’re facing a funeral now, or simply listening to feel more prepared, this episode is a gentle guide to agency, clarity, and care. If you need support: Speak to your GP or local grief support service. In Australia, Griefline: 1300 845 745.

    29 min

  7. 09/11/2025

    Death Is Not an Emergency: What Really Happens When Someone Dies

    Welcome to The D Word - thoughtful conversations about death, dying, and end-of-life matters. Because living fully means facing life’s challenges, including life’s final chapter. In this first episode, host Rachel Bracken, end-of-life educator, funeral director, and celebrant, guides you through one of the biggest unknowns: what actually happens when someone dies. You’ll learn: The first steps when a death happens at home, in hospital or aged care, or suddenly and unexpectedly. Why death is not an emergency — and why slowing down matters. The role of doctors, palliative teams, funeral directors, and the Coroner. The choices and agency families have, even in moments that feel overwhelming. Rachel’s goal is simple: to help you feel more prepared, more supported, and less alone. 👉 If today’s episode has stirred up difficult feelings, and you’re listening in Australia, you can always call Lifeline on 13 11 14. Follow Rachel on Instagram @thedword.podcast or visit rachelbracken.com/thedword for resources.

    33 min

  8. 09/05/2025

    Trailer - The D Word

    Welcome to The D Word — thoughtful conversations about death, dying, and end-of-life matters. Hosted by Rachel Bracken, an end-of-life educator, funeral director and celebrant on the Northern Rivers of NSW. New episodes every Thursday. Links Website: rachelbracken.com/thedword Instagram: @thedword.podcast Crisis supportIf this episode has brought up difficult feelings, support is available. In Australia, call Lifeline 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636. Elsewhere, check local services or call your local emergency number. More links at rachelbracken.com/thedword.

    3 min

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What happens when someone dies? Who do you call, what paperwork is needed, what choices do you have? The D Word answers these questions with calm, practical advice. Hosted by funeral director and celebrant Rachel Bracken, this podcast guides families, carers, and healthcare workers through end-of-life care, funerals, and grief. Expect clear steps, expert voices, and real stories to help you feel informed and supported when facing death, dying, and loss.

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  • Creator
    Rachel Bracken
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  • Episodes
    8
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    © Rachel Bracken
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