The Dapper Barbarian Show

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Welcome to The Dapper Barbarian Show, the podcast cutting through the noise of today’s self-help culture. Hosted by Julian Diaz, this is your antidote to the selfish, “me-first” mentality flooding the self-improvement world. Here, we’re reclaiming growth as a shared journey—one that strengthens families, enriches communities and preserves the relationships that truly matter. In a world consumed by individualism, climbing to the top means little if there’s no one to share the victory with. The Dapper Barbarian Show challenges the woke agenda dominating the self-help market, offering a bold, honest, and accountable approach to personal growth. Through thought-provoking solo episodes and powerful guest interviews, Julian helps you balance grit with grace, success with connection, and progress with purpose. What You’ll Gain from the Show: Practical strategies for self-improvement that prioritize family and community values Unfiltered conversations on the tough choices that define authentic growth A rejection of selfish success in favor of meaningful, accountable progress Insights into building a legacy of shared victories and enduring relationships At The Dapper Barbarian Show, we’re asking the fundamental questions: What’s the point of winning if you leave those you care about behind? Let’s navigate life’s challenges together, blending strength, accountability, and purpose in every step. Join us as we decide whether today calls for black ties, high heels, or the trusty battle axe to carve a better path forward. New episodes drop weekly—subscribe now and grow with intention!

  1. 10/31/2025 · VIDEO

    On Discipline, Creativity, and the Hero's Journey with Peter Gunn

    In this episode of The Dapper Barbarian Show, host Julian Diaz sits down with Peter Gunn — a U.S. Air Force veteran, father, poet, and creator — for a deep and inspiring conversation on discipline, creativity, and the spiritual hero’s journey. Peter opens up about his near-death experience at age seven, a moment that transformed his understanding of purpose and divine calling. From overcoming childhood obesity to balancing the worlds of military service and artistic creation, Peter’s story is a testament to the power of self-discipline, faith, and creative courage. As the mind behind The Amazons literary series and founder of LLP (Linked to Lyrical Poetry), Peter explores how his work redefines feminine heroism—merging strength, virtue, and emotional depth. Together, he and Julian discuss the tension between masculinity and modern culture, the impact of AI on creativity, and how authentic art remains one of humanity’s most sacred expressions of truth. If you’re a thinker, creator, or spiritual seeker—this conversation will challenge you to look deeper, create with purpose, and live a life of service. 🕰️ Episode Breakdown 00:00 – Welcome to The Dapper Barbarian Show 01:40 – Introducing guest Peter Gunn 02:18 – Peter’s childhood near-death experience and awakening 05:30 – Spiritual insights and early faith formation 11:19 – The Gnostic Gospels and the journey into graphic novels 17:33 – The power of self-discipline and daily growth 25:50 – Balancing art, duty, and military life 28:34 – The relentless drive for success and meaning 29:20 – Creating strong feminine heroes in literature 31:31 – Founding LLP: Linked to Lyrical Poetry 32:52 – Audience feedback and creative impact 33:57 – Balancing feminism and masculinity in storytelling 35:13 – The role of men in a feminine-driven culture 36:04 – Service and humility within relationships 37:25 – Community, teamwork, and shared purpose 38:20 – Spiritual awakening and living in service to God 41:32 – Cultural decay and the grotesque in modern media 45:35 – The creative crossroads: AI vs. human soul 49:46 – Final reflections and closing thoughts 🔗 Connect with Peter Gunn: Explore Peter’s work, poetry, and upcoming projects: 🌐 Website: https://www.petergunn.net/ 🎧 Listen on Spotify: Peter Gunn Music 📰 Read the Feature Article: “Rewriting the Hero’s Journey for Women Through Epic Poetry” ⚔️ Support & Subscribe Join The Dapper Barbarian Show community and keep these conversations alive: 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDapperBarbarianShow  🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dapper-barbarian-show/id1792072814  https://open.spotify.com/show/4fk4L4MCbJyhbMoTW6UDif?si=b1b880ccb7fb4bf5  💬 Support on Patreon: https://patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow  Stay sharp. Stay humble. Be the hero your world needs.

    54 min
  2. 10/09/2025 · VIDEO

    Selling Without the Mask: Joe Kavanagh on Authenticity, Ego, and Real Influence | The Dapper Barbarian Show

    In this episode of The Dapper Barbarian Show, host Julian Diaz sits down with Joe Kavanagh—a seasoned sales expert, business coach, and author—to talk about what it means to live, lead, and sell with authenticity. Joe opens up about decades in sales, the dangers of ego, and how conditioning shapes mindset and limits growth. Together they explore the refining power of adversity, the discipline behind real opportunity, and how authenticity transforms every part of life—from relationships to leadership. If you’ve ever felt “successful” but stuck, this conversation will help you remove the mask, find purpose, and lead with genuine influence. Chapters 00:52 – Introduction and Recording Setup 01:28 – Meet Joe Kavanagh 02:30 – Joe’s Journey and Philosophy 05:59 – Balancing Personal and Professional Life 09:29 – Overcoming Adversity and Finding Purpose 10:49 – Joe’s Early Career and Lessons Learned 15:23 – The Power of Sales and Entrepreneurship 20:23 – The Importance of Coaching and Mentorship 37:02 – Mindset Shifts and Life Philosophy 38:57 – Choosing Happiness Every Day 39:48 – The Power of Perspective Shift 40:25 – The Refining Process of Adversity 42:24 – Conditioning and Social Adaptation 45:30 – Understanding and Managing Ego 48:37 – The Importance of Authenticity in Sales 50:46 – Navigating Life’s Negotiations 58:09 – The Impact of Legacy and Influence 01:13:06 – The Value of Emotional Openness 01:14:35 – Final Thoughts and Encouragement About Joe Kavanagh Joe is a Professional Business Coach, Mentor, and Trainer with more than 35 years of experience. A Certified NLP Coach, Licensed B.A.N.K. Trainer, Certified Real Estate Appraiser, and Broker, Joe teaches professionals how to increase influence, empathy, and income through authentic communication. Contributor to the book Ignite Impact. Learn more or register for his upcoming training: Effective Business Building Strategies for Communication to Close Sales   Support and Connect If this episode challenged or inspired you, leave a comment, share it with a friend, and subscribe for more unapologetic conversations on growth, faith, and accountability. Support the mission: Patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow   Hashtags #TheDapperBarbarianShow #JoeKavanagh #Authenticity #Ego #Leadership #FaithInBusiness #SalesCoaching #PersonalGrowth #ChristianEntrepreneurship #Legacy #Mindset

    1h 5m
  3. 07/23/2025 · VIDEO

    Voices For The One: Barbara Amaya's Story with guest Steve Williams

    In this powerful episode of the Dapper Barbarian Show, host Julian Diaz discusses the formation of an impactful new segment, 'Voices for the One,' aimed at addressing human trafficking and exploitation. Julian is joined by long-time police veteran Steve Williams from Colorado, who shares his experiences in combating trafficking through active anti-trafficking initiatives and intelligence gathering.   The episode features the harrowing and inspiring story of Barbara Amaya, a survivor who turned her traumatic past into a force for good, advocating for legislation and protecting victims of trafficking. Julian and Steve also delve into the complexities of parental involvement, the role of technology in exploitation, and the importance of community action.   To support the cause, visit Barbara Amaya's TED Talk, Mission991.org, and resources such as the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) and the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE). Join us in the fight to end human trafficking and protect our communities.   www.mission991.org  Donate to support Mission 991: https://www.mission991.org/checkout/donate?donatePageId=631e3bd3fdbd2e57f038d2f2    NCOSE: www.endsexualexploitation.org    NCMEC: www.missingkids.org    Barbara's Ted Talk: https://youtu.be/U_kXuQHZmWs?si=bQeL9xsr5CopRDzh    00:00 Introduction and Show Update 00:08 Introducing 'Voices for the One' 00:58 Barbara Amaya's Story 02:10 Interview with Steve Williams 03:18 Challenges in Anti-Trafficking Efforts 04:05 The Role of Technology and AI 06:52 Parental Responsibilities and Challenges 10:49 Barbara Amaya's TED Talk 15:27 Understanding Victim Psychology 18:31 Grooming and Exploitation Tactics 22:43 The Role of Community and Church 37:55 Global Perspectives on Trafficking 40:52 Online Exploitation and Prevention 41:33 The Dark Side of Sales Funnels 42:02 AI's Role in Modern Trafficking 42:48 The Vulnerability of Isolation 43:44 Community's Role in Combating Trafficking 44:18 Labor Trafficking and Consumer Responsibility 47:34 The Dangers of Sextortion 52:38 The Legal Battle Against Big Tech 01:00:32 Barbara's Story of Survival and Advocacy 01:09:02 The Importance of Community Vigilance 01:13:18 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    1h 19m
  4. 04/22/2025 · VIDEO

    Supporting Foster Families: Insights and Stories from Matt Darrah of Panhandle Orphan Care Network

    In this episode of the Dapper Barbarian Show, host Julian interviews Matt Darrah, the Executive Director of the Panhandle Orphan Care Network. Matt shares his personal journey growing up in the foster system, his transition into fostering, and the founding of his organization in 2017. The conversation delves into the pressing needs of foster families, especially during the initial days of receiving new placements, and how Panhandle Orphan Care Network provides immediate support through placement packages.   Matt also discusses the importance of community support, continuous learning in parenting, and the role of faith in his work. With over 600 children entering care annually in the Texas Panhandle, Matt's organization aims to make a tangible difference in the lives of foster children and families. Tune in to hear inspiring stories, valuable resources, and ways to contribute to this impactful cause.   Learn more about Matt's mission at https://www.panhandleorphan.org/    🎧 Follow and Support The Dapper Barbarian Show: Patreon: https://patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thedapperbarbarianshow Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDapperBarbarianshow  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedapperbarbarianshow Twitter/X: https://x.com/dpprbrbrianshow     00:00 Introduction to the Dapper Barbarian Show 00:26 Meet Matt Dara: Executive Director of Panhandle Orphan Care Network 01:08 The Birth of Panhandle Orphan Care Network 03:09 Challenges and Support for Foster Families 08:16 Personal Stories and Experiences in Foster Care 12:50 The Importance of Keeping Siblings Together 16:17 Marriage and Family Dynamics in Foster Care 21:36 Community and Faith in Foster Care 23:36 Lessons Learned in Fostering 24:19 The Importance of Continuous Learning 24:44 Humility and Apologizing to Your Children 25:11 The Role of Community and Prayer 25:56 Integrating Foster Children into the Family 26:24 The Power of Feeling Loved and Valued 27:19 Accountability and Taking Charge of Your Life 28:19 The Two-Way Street of Technology 32:40 Books That Influence Parenting 38:18 The Importance of Understanding Trauma 38:52 A Calling to Foster Care 40:55 Supporting Panhandle Orphan Care 43:01 Launching a Podcast for Foster Families 45:54 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

    47 min
  5. 04/07/2025

    Faith, Family & the Fight: One Pastor’s Mission to Rescue the Exploited audio only

    In this compelling episode of The Dapper Barbarian Show, Pastor John Gotz takes listeners into the challenging and critical fight against human trafficking, illuminating the indispensable role of family, community, and authentic masculinity in combating exploitation and vulnerability in our society. John shares his remarkable journey from a potential NFL career to his dedicated life as a pastor and missionary, leading Kabod International in impactful rescue and aftercare efforts. Hear powerful stories of redemption, courage, and community-driven change, and discover how placing Jesus at the center transforms lives and strengthens our collective fight against evil. To directly impact lives and support the vital work of Pastor John Gotz and Kabod International, visit Kabod International to donate and join the fight against human trafficking.  Donate today at https://kabod.donorsupport.co/page/FUNPVQMUVHV  Your support makes a difference! Please like, follow, and subscribe to The Dapper Barbarian Show wherever you listen to your podcasts. Every share helps spread this crucial message further. 🎧 Follow and Support The Dapper Barbarian Show: Podcast: https://patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thedapperbarbarianshow Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDapperBarbarianshow  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedapperbarbarianshow Twitter/X: https://x.com/dpprbrbrianshow Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Calling to Serve 00:26 Identifying and Overcoming Idols 00:46 The Game of Idols 02:39 Money and Its Influence 04:25 Leadership and Personal Struggles 08:11 Lessons from King David 10:18 David's Mighty Men 18:04 The Importance of Strong Community 22:47 Introduction to John Gotz 24:49 Combating Human Trafficking 26:49 Fatherlessness and Community Impact 36:42 Lessons in Leadership and Obedience 39:03 The Power of Worship and Leadership 41:29 The Influence of Music on Life 42:25 Daily Proverbs and Life Lessons 46:49 The Role of Fathers and Overcoming Adversity 48:58 Finding Purpose and Love 56:08 Marriage and Perseverance 01:12:08 The Mission of Kabod 01:20:29 The Hypocrisy of Comfort 01:21:39 The Rise in Human Trafficking During COVID 01:22:42 A Call to Action: Protecting the Vulnerable 01:22:52 The Role of the Church and Personal Sacrifice 01:23:35 Challenges in Rescuing Trafficking Victims 01:28:44 The Importance of Legislation and Law Enforcement 01:39:48 The Power of Family in Combating Trafficking 01:49:31 The Role of Masculinity and Community 01:54:01 Supporting Anti-Trafficking Efforts 01:57:32 Final Thoughts and Call for Support

    2h 1m
  6. 04/07/2025 · VIDEO

    Faith, Family & the Fight: One Pastor’s Mission to Rescue the Exploited

    In this compelling episode of The Dapper Barbarian Show, Pastor John Gotz takes listeners into the challenging and critical fight against human trafficking, illuminating the indispensable role of family, community, and authentic masculinity in combating exploitation and vulnerability in our society. John shares his remarkable journey from a potential NFL career to his dedicated life as a pastor and missionary, leading Kabod International in impactful rescue and aftercare efforts. Hear powerful stories of redemption, courage, and community-driven change, and discover how placing Jesus at the center transforms lives and strengthens our collective fight against evil. To directly impact lives and support the vital work of Pastor John Gotz and Kabod International, visit Kabod International to donate and join the fight against human trafficking.  Donate today at https://kabod.donorsupport.co/page/FUNPVQMUVHV  Your support makes a difference! Please like, follow, and subscribe to The Dapper Barbarian Show wherever you listen to your podcasts. Every share helps spread this crucial message further. 🎧 Follow and Support The Dapper Barbarian Show: Podcast: https://patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thedapperbarbarianshow Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDapperBarbarianshow  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedapperbarbarianshow Twitter/X: https://x.com/dpprbrbrianshow Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Calling to Serve 00:26 Identifying and Overcoming Idols 00:46 The Game of Idols 02:39 Money and Its Influence 04:25 Leadership and Personal Struggles 08:11 Lessons from King David 10:18 David's Mighty Men 18:04 The Importance of Strong Community 22:47 Introduction to John Gotz 24:49 Combating Human Trafficking 26:49 Fatherlessness and Community Impact 36:42 Lessons in Leadership and Obedience 39:03 The Power of Worship and Leadership 41:29 The Influence of Music on Life 42:25 Daily Proverbs and Life Lessons 46:49 The Role of Fathers and Overcoming Adversity 48:58 Finding Purpose and Love 56:08 Marriage and Perseverance 01:12:08 The Mission of Kabod 01:20:29 The Hypocrisy of Comfort 01:21:39 The Rise in Human Trafficking During COVID 01:22:42 A Call to Action: Protecting the Vulnerable 01:22:52 The Role of the Church and Personal Sacrifice 01:23:35 Challenges in Rescuing Trafficking Victims 01:28:44 The Importance of Legislation and Law Enforcement 01:39:48 The Power of Family in Combating Trafficking 01:49:31 The Role of Masculinity and Community 01:54:01 Supporting Anti-Trafficking Efforts 01:57:32 Final Thoughts and Call for Support

    2h 1m
  7. 03/26/2025 · VIDEO

    From Fearful to Fearless: Cultivating Courage Daily

    In this episode of The Dapper Barbarian Show, we delve deep into understanding and addressing fear. Host Julian explores the multifaceted nature of fear, examining its psychological, physiological, and spiritual dimensions. Learn effective strategies for overcoming fear, including Stoic principles, mindfulness techniques like the RAIN method, and gradual exposure therapy. Julian also emphasizes the importance of communal support and maintaining a proactive and resilient mindset when faced with modern-day fears such as social anxiety and financial insecurities. Don't miss this insightful exploration that will help transform your relationship with fear and harness it for personal growth! Connect with us and support the growth of The Dapper Barbarian Show: Patreon: patreon.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow Instagram: instagram.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow Facebook: facebook.com/TheDapperBarbarianShow Twitter: twitter.com/DapperBarbarian YouTube: youtube.com/@TheDapperBarbarianShow Please like, follow, and subscribe on your favorite platform to stay updated with new episodes and to help our community grow! Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Unknown 01:01 Welcome to The Dapper Barbarian Show 01:43 Understanding Fear and Its Impact 02:47 Physiological and Psychological Responses to Fear 08:25 Modern Fears and Their Evolution 10:52 Strategies to Combat Fear 15:29 The Role of Stoicism and Rationality 23:22 Spiritual Insights and Overcoming Fear 27:32 The RAIN Technique and Mindfulness 32:30 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    37 min

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Welcome to The Dapper Barbarian Show, the podcast cutting through the noise of today’s self-help culture. Hosted by Julian Diaz, this is your antidote to the selfish, “me-first” mentality flooding the self-improvement world. Here, we’re reclaiming growth as a shared journey—one that strengthens families, enriches communities and preserves the relationships that truly matter. In a world consumed by individualism, climbing to the top means little if there’s no one to share the victory with. The Dapper Barbarian Show challenges the woke agenda dominating the self-help market, offering a bold, honest, and accountable approach to personal growth. Through thought-provoking solo episodes and powerful guest interviews, Julian helps you balance grit with grace, success with connection, and progress with purpose. What You’ll Gain from the Show: Practical strategies for self-improvement that prioritize family and community values Unfiltered conversations on the tough choices that define authentic growth A rejection of selfish success in favor of meaningful, accountable progress Insights into building a legacy of shared victories and enduring relationships At The Dapper Barbarian Show, we’re asking the fundamental questions: What’s the point of winning if you leave those you care about behind? Let’s navigate life’s challenges together, blending strength, accountability, and purpose in every step. Join us as we decide whether today calls for black ties, high heels, or the trusty battle axe to carve a better path forward. New episodes drop weekly—subscribe now and grow with intention!