The Derrick Jacobs Playbook

Derrick Jacobs

Welcome to DJP—the podcast. This isn’t another boring self-help pep talk. We’re talking real stories, real strategy, with a side order of chaos. Confidence. Charm. Hustle. Grit. The things you weren't taught in school—but you damn well need in life.

Episodes

  1. 12/05/2025

    EP5: Wrestling, Mentorship & the Fight for Today’s Young Men

    Manliness is under attack — not the loud, chest-thumping caricature, but the real thing: discipline, humility, courage, toughness, and the willingness to do hard things even when nobody’s watching. In Episode 5 of The Derrick Jacobs Playbook Podcast, recorded live at the Garage Bar in Ada, Derrick sits down with three men who embody those traits on and off the mat: Brad Anderson – Two-time state champ, D1 collegiate wrestler, lifelong coach, teacher, community pillar. Cody Dennis – Collegiate wrestler, championship-level coach, one of the sharpest minds in the sport. Caden Jacobs – All-State wrestler, D2 collegiate wrestler, BJJ practitioner, student-leader… and Derrick's son. Together, they break down topics only men in the arena can: • The real state of manliness • Why wrestling builds stronger men and stronger communities • How to rebuild confidence after losses • The value of grit, discipline, coachability, and mentorship • What today’s young men are missing—and how combat sports can bring it back • The coaches and moments that shaped them • The funniest, toughest, and wildest stories from life on the mat • Why we need rites of passage now more than ever This episode is loud, honest, sometimes hilarious, and full of the kind of wisdom you can’t get from TikTok gurus or keyboard warriors. If you're a dad, coach, athlete, leader, mentor, or any man trying to sharpen himself — this one will hit home.

    1h 4m
  2. 10/22/2025

    EP2: Breaking Rituals- An OCD Story

    The Derrick Jacobs Playbook Podcast — Live from Garage Bar (Ada) Most people think confidence means never showing weakness. In this raw, unfiltered episode, Derrick Jacobs—author of Complimentary Chips and Salsa: The Playbook for Getting What You Want—argues the opposite: real power starts with ownership. Recorded live at the Garage Bar in Ada, Derrick opens up about a lifetime of OCD—obsession, compulsion, and the disorder that can quietly imprison a life—and how putting love first helped him rewire his habits, save his marriage, and show up as a better husband and father. Derrick’s wife, Bonnie, joins to share the spouse’s perspective after 28 years together—the sticky-note moments, the rituals, the relapses, the slow wins—and why “comfort is the enemy of potential.” Michael moderates as they unpack how fear drives our daily choices, why labels can blind us to root causes, and the simple, brutal first step for anyone struggling: take ownership. What you’ll hear: The plain-English meaning of OCD and why it’s deeper than quirky habits How rituals, shame, and masking keep the cycle alive—and how to break it The strategy that actually helped: replacing obsession with something you want more Practical guidance for spouses/parents: compassion without enabling A mindset shift for fear—turning the unknown into a winnable outcome If this conversation hits home, grab Complimentary Chips and Salsa (paperback, ebook, or audio) and connect with Derrick on social to keep the dialogue going. Remember: what you won’t accept, you cannot change.

    47 min

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Welcome to DJP—the podcast. This isn’t another boring self-help pep talk. We’re talking real stories, real strategy, with a side order of chaos. Confidence. Charm. Hustle. Grit. The things you weren't taught in school—but you damn well need in life.