Manliness is under attack — not the loud, chest-thumping caricature, but the real thing: discipline, humility, courage, toughness, and the willingness to do hard things even when nobody’s watching. In Episode 5 of The Derrick Jacobs Playbook Podcast, recorded live at the Garage Bar in Ada, Derrick sits down with three men who embody those traits on and off the mat: Brad Anderson – Two-time state champ, D1 collegiate wrestler, lifelong coach, teacher, community pillar. Cody Dennis – Collegiate wrestler, championship-level coach, one of the sharpest minds in the sport. Caden Jacobs – All-State wrestler, D2 collegiate wrestler, BJJ practitioner, student-leader… and Derrick's son. Together, they break down topics only men in the arena can: • The real state of manliness • Why wrestling builds stronger men and stronger communities • How to rebuild confidence after losses • The value of grit, discipline, coachability, and mentorship • What today’s young men are missing—and how combat sports can bring it back • The coaches and moments that shaped them • The funniest, toughest, and wildest stories from life on the mat • Why we need rites of passage now more than ever This episode is loud, honest, sometimes hilarious, and full of the kind of wisdom you can’t get from TikTok gurus or keyboard warriors. If you're a dad, coach, athlete, leader, mentor, or any man trying to sharpen himself — this one will hit home.