The Divorce Revolution

Amber Shaw
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The Divorce Revolution

You’re divorced. Now let’s make your next chapter your best one. Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who’s been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same. This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn “moving on” into moving UP. Divorce isn’t the end—it’s your launchpad. Whether you’re rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that’s fully yours. Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn’t just about starting over, it’s about leveling all the way up. If you’re ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let’s do this.

  1. 9H AGO

    360. The Truth About Feeling Invisible in Marriage and Healing After Divorce with Gina Conover

    Feeling totally invisible in your marriage, even though divorce was the last thing you wanted?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I chat with Gina Conover, a coach who helps women heal from divorces they never saw coming after years of feeling unseen in their marriages. We dig into that painful mind-twist many women face—feeling like a ghost in their own relationship while still desperately wanting to make it work. Gina breaks down her concept of "the orbiting effect," where we end up circling our partners like satellites, losing ourselves completely in a desperate attempt to be noticed.    Gina shares some game-changing strategies for breaking free, including a simple technique to flip those obsessive questions into statements that actually help you process emotions (instead of spinning in circles). We talk about rebuilding trust in yourself, how to know when you're actually ready to date again (hint: being okay alone is key!), and creating a healthy co-parenting situation—even with someone who made you feel invisible for years.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: Why women struggle to let go of painful marriages Understanding "the orbiting effect" and how it keeps you stuck The emotional toll of invisibility in a relationship How anxious attachment manifests after divorce Rebuilding trust in yourself and learning to be okay alone Navigating co-parenting while still healing   Key Takeaways: "If I need them to step in and make me feel okay versus I'm okay on my own and I want to share my life with someone." "It's okay that it's hard. It's okay that you're hurting. It's okay that you're heartbroken and feel betrayed."   Find more from Gina Conover: Website: confidentlydivorced.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidently_divorced/   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    48 min

  2. 3D AGO

    359. Spring Clean Your Life: Tips to Reset After Divorce

    Feeling overwhelmed by emotional and physical clutter after your divorce?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down how to use the spring season as a catalyst for renewal in your post-divorce life. I share my proven two-step approach to spring cleaning both your mental and physical spaces, starting with clearing emotional clutter through a simple brain dump exercise that helps you separate fact from fiction in your thought patterns. I then explore how to reclaim your physical space through intentional changes—from redoing entire rooms to simple updates like changing bedsheets and pillows that can transform how you feel in your home.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche   What I Discuss: How to identify and reframe limiting thoughts that keep you up at night Why decluttering unexpected spaces can be surprisingly therapeutic Budget-friendly ways to make your space feel like yours again The power of putting away sentimental items until you're ready to address them Setting up a manageable decluttering schedule    Key Takeaways: "Sometimes the biggest transformations really just start with opening up one door, opening up one cabinet, or moving one picture frame." "You get to choose what you keep and what you leave behind."   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    17 min

  3. MAR 6

    358. Breaking Limits & Building Confidence After Divorce with Julia Haart

    Curious about finding empowerment after a major life change (a.k.a. divorce)?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Julia Haart, fashion entrepreneur and star of Netflix's "My Unorthodox Life." Julia shares her incredible journey from leaving her ultra-orthodox religious community to becoming a powerhouse in the fashion industry and now as the founder of BODY by Julia Haart. We dive deep into confidence, spirituality after divorce, and her innovative approach to women's fashion that prioritizes both comfort and beauty.   Resources Mentioned: BODY by Julia Haart: https://www.instagram.com/bodybyjuliahaart/ Brazen by Julia Haart: https://brazenbook.com/ My Unorthodox Life: https://www.netflix.com/title/81175724 Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: The surprising definition of confidence that changed Julia Haart's life How spirituality became Julia's lifeline after divorce The manifesting mistake most women make without realizing it Why your shapewear shouldn't make you cringe when undressing Creating a family business that thrives through crisis The simple first step to breaking free from feeling trapped   Key Takeaways: "If something doesn't make sense to you, it's probably because it's senseless and it needs to be changed." "Confidence is faith in yourself."   Find more from Julia Haart: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliahaart/   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    52 min

  4. MAR 3

    357. Using Social Media After Divorce: What to Share and What to Keep Private

    Feeling lost about what to post (or not post!) on social media after your divorce?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down how to navigate social media after divorce, whether you're just keeping friends updated or building a coaching business from your experience. I share my real-talk guidelines for what's cool to share and what's probably better kept private, with practical advice for finding your authentic voice while protecting yourself, your kids, and your co-parenting relationship with your ex.   Resources Mentioned: Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: The importance of being intentional with what you share on social media Why focusing on personal growth rather than "dirty laundry" creates better connections The 24-hour rule for emotionally charged posts The "trigger test" to avoid posting from anger Three action steps for sharing your divorce story How to transform negative narratives into growth-focused content   Key Takeaways: "You're the CEO of your damn life. You can share whatever you want to share." "Share scars, not wounds." "Your story is powerful, but so are your boundaries."   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    24 min

  5. FEB 27

    356. The Truth About Carbs, Blood Sugar, and Your Health with Phoebe Lapine

    Are you ready to rebuild your relationship with food post-divorce?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Phoebe Lapine, author of "Carbivore," to talk about something many of us struggle with after divorce: making peace with food and our bodies during major life transitions.    As the queen of "healthy hedonism," Phoebe explains why traditional diet rules (like avoiding all carbs) might be doing more harm than good, especially during high-stress periods like divorce. She shares practical strategies for rebuilding a healthy relationship with food, from understanding blood sugar and stress hormones to simple food pairings that can help you feel more energized and balanced. Plus, she offers specific advice for women in midlife dealing with hormonal changes and digestive issues that often surface during major life transitions.   Resources Mentioned: Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ Carbivore Cookbook by Phoebe Lapine: https://www.carbivorecookbook.com/ The Wellness Project: https://www.thewellnessproject.com/ Phoebe’s recipes and resources: https://feedmephoebe.com/   What We Discuss: The truth about Italian pasta and why it's different from American versions Understanding slow carbs versus low carbs Why fiber is your friend and how it affects blood sugar The relationship between stress, hormones, and carbohydrates The problem with intermittent fasting for women How to reintroduce carbs when dealing with digestive issues   Key Takeaways: "It's more important how you eat certain things than what you eat." "You can't make healthier choices until you know what choices are healthy for you." "The strategies that stick are the ones we genuinely enjoy."   Find more from Phoebe Lapine: Website: https://phoebelapine.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phoebelapine/   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    52 min

  6. FEB 24

    355. 3 Major Social Media Mistakes Killing Your Coaching Business and What Can You Do About It

    Are you tired of posting on social media without seeing real growth for your coaching business?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down the three biggest mistakes that keep coaches stuck when trying to grow their social media presence. From lacking clarity about your offer to posting without a strategic plan, I share exactly what's holding you back from turning followers into paying clients.   Resources Mentioned: Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop   What I Discuss: The three key questions every coach must answer for their business  Why being "cutesy" with your messaging is hurting your growth  The three things your content must do to be effective  How to turn followers into clients through relationship building  The importance of strategic content planning  Why solutions alone won't sell your services   Key Takeaways: "Social media is not a business—it's a tool to get leads." "People don't buy based on solutions, they buy based on connection."   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    22 min

  7. FEB 20

    354. Financial Success After Divorce: How to Have Financial Clarity and Have More Money with Phil Weiss

    Are you letting fear keep you from taking control of your financial future?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, financial expert Phil Weiss from Apprise Wealth Management shares how divorced women can take charge of their financial independence. From understanding basic money management to navigating retirement planning, Phil shares practical strategies that can help you feel more confident about your financial future, even if you're starting from scratch.   Inspired by his personal story of helping his mother through financial hardship, Phil explains why traditional financial planning often falls short and introduces the concept of life planning—a holistic approach that aligns your money with your values and life goals. He breaks down complex topics like stock market investing, retirement accounts, and tax planning into digestible steps that anyone can understand and implement.   Resources Mentioned: Join The Divorce Revolution Podcast rebrand giveaway: bit.ly/tdrrebrandgiveaway Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41881472-the-psychology-of-money Financial assessment tool: https://apprisewealth.com/assessment/ Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: Understanding the basics of financial planning post-divorce The 50/30/20 rule for budgeting and saving Smart strategies for retirement planning The difference between traditional financial planning and life planning Critical steps for protecting your assets after divorce Common mistakes women make with money and how to avoid them   Key Takeaways: "Pay yourself first; set up automatic savings so you never see the money hit your checking account." "It's never too late to start saving for retirement, but it's also never too early." "Make sure you update beneficiary designations after divorce—they override anything in your will."   Find more from Phil Weiss: Website: https://apprisewealth.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-weiss Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AppriseWealth/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phweiss11/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdxgFt2cD1r5WP0-Y6LqMDg   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

    54 min

  8. FEB 17

    353. The Divorce Revolution Podcast: Why I'm Transforming The Wellness Revolution

    Ready to turn your divorce into your comeback story?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I share why I'm pivoting The Wellness Revolution podcast into a new direction focused on helping divorced women not just survive, but thrive.    From my own journey through divorce at 40 to building a six-figure business as a single mom, I explain how this transformation reflects my deeper mission to help divorced women achieve financial independence, rediscover their identity, and create their best life.   Drawing from my experience of going from a successful 18-year corporate career to building my own coaching business, I share how this pivot will serve divorced moms who feel isolated, overwhelmed, and ready for their next chapter.    Resources Mentioned: Join The Divorce Revolution Podcast rebrand giveaway: bit.ly/tdrrebrandgiveaway Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop Join the ReNewU waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Listen to Episode 344: Online Coaching is the Perfect Business For Divorced Moms: https://ambershaw.com/podcasts/twr-344-online-coaching-is-the-perfect-business-for-divorced-moms/ Listen to Episode 346: Surprising Signs You’re Qualified to Start A Coaching Business in 2025:  https://ambershaw.com/podcasts/twr-346-surprising-signs-youre-qualified-to-start-a-coaching-business-in-2025/   What I Discuss: The journey from Wellness Revolution to Divorce Revolution How divorce became the catalyst for my own transformation Why divorced moms need targeted support and community The importance of financial independence after divorce My vision for helping women turn setbacks into comebacks   Key Takeaways: "Divorce isn't the end of your story—it's your launch pad." "You can turn your setback into your comeback." "Financial independence is crucial for thriving after divorce."   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

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You’re divorced. Now let’s make your next chapter your best one. Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who’s been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same. This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn “moving on” into moving UP. Divorce isn’t the end—it’s your launchpad. Whether you’re rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that’s fully yours. Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn’t just about starting over, it’s about leveling all the way up. If you’re ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let’s do this.

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  • Creator
    Amber Shaw
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    363
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  • Copyright
    © 2024
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    The Divorce Revolution

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