The Down and Dirty Podcast

Down and Dirty Productions
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🎙 Sex. Stories. Swinger life — unfiltered. Join hosts The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for bold, real-talk episodes on ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and kink. From wild party stories to emotional deep dives, Down & Dirty is where laughter, vulnerability, and sex-positive truth collide. Whether you're curious, seasoned, or just looking for community, this show pulls back the curtain on alternative relationships with humor and heart. New episodes drop weekly. NSFW, always authentic.

  1. 1d ago

    Polyamory, Veto Power & Wild Love Theory — Naughty Gym

    Scott and April from Naughty Gym join The Professor to introduce their new book, Wild Love Theory — a relationship philosophy built around authenticity, autonomy, intentional agreements, and the idea that love should never require either partner to become smaller. Wild Love Theory goes on sale September 1, and Scott and April say preorders are open now. They will also be in Minneapolis over Labor Day weekend, with their official book-launch party happening September 6. With Dr. Scarlet and The Dean joining the conversation, the group pressure-tests Wild Love Theory against real-life non-monogamy: polyamory, swinging, veto power, hierarchy, separate dating, relationship rules, safety, jealousy, mental load, and what happens when two people genuinely want different things. Scott and April also talk about Naughty Gym's evolution into AYA Society, their upcoming unbinding ceremony, Wild Love Theory retreats, and then stick around to play DDP's Poly, Benefits, or One Night. In This Episode: What Wild Love Theory is — and why Scott and April wrote the book Why “love should never make you smaller” became a core principle Polyamory, swinging, and their version of “poly light” Rules, autonomy, veto power, and living agreements When safety and control start to collide Separate dating and the difficulty of finding a four-way match Mental load, imposed burdens, and relationship responsibility Hierarchy in non-monogamous relationships The Naughty Gym transition to AYA Society The Wild Love Theory book launch and upcoming retreats Poly, Benefits, or One NightWild Love Theory: Book release: September 1 Preorders: Open now Official Minneapolis book-launch party: September 6For Wild Love Theory, Naughty Gym / AYA Society, events, podcasts, and current book-launch information:NaughtyGym.com Host: The Professor Featured Voices: Dr. Scarlet, The Dean Guests: Scott + April — Naughty Gym / AYA Society Support & Partners: Glitz by Jax / Good Supply PassionScapes Photography CouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Follow or subscribe to The Down & Dirty Podcast so you do not miss the next episode. If you enjoyed the conversation, rate and review the show on your podcast app. Listen to more Down & Dirty:https://downdirtypodcast.com Join the CND community:https://couplesnextdoor.com

    Polyamory, Veto Power & Wild Love Theory — Naughty Gym

  2. Aug 11

    Scrolling During Sex — Swinger Meet-and-Greets & the 60-Day Sex Challenge

    The Professor reunites with original Down & Dirty co-host Mrs. Doll for an old-school catch-up that moves from Minnesota lifestyle parties and swinger meet-and-greets into solo dates, sex, and the kind of questions only these two would turn into a full conversation. They talk about why meet-and-greets still matter even when nobody is going home together, The Dean's hilarious post-date work-mule arrangement, whether scrolling your phone during sex is ever acceptable, porn during sex, Mrs. Doll's P***y Palace story, the 60-Day Sex Challenge, riding versus doggy, and their lifestyle version of Marry/F**k/Kill. In This Episode: The Professor and Mrs. Doll's old-school Down & Dirty reunionMinnesota lifestyle parties and meet-and-greet cultureSolo dates and why meet-and-greets can be a useful first stopThe Dean's unofficial post-date work-mule ruleScrolling your phone during sexPorn during sex and where the line changesMrs. Doll's P***y Palace storyThe 60-Day Sex ChallengeRiding versus doggy — and Mrs. Doll's two-for-one workout logicThe Down & Dirty lifestyle version of Marry/F**k/KillA future F**k-It Bucket tease Hosts: The ProfessorMrs. DollProducer: David Produced by: Down & Dirty Productions Support & Partners: Glitz by Jax / Good SupplyPassionScapes PhotographyCouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Listen to The Down & Dirty Podcast:https://downdirtypodcast.com Join the CND community:https://couplesnextdoor.com

    Scrolling During Sex — Swinger Meet-and-Greets & the 60-Day Sex Challenge

  3. Aug 5

    Trapeze Atlanta Swing Club: We Almost Left—Then They Said, “Meet Max”

    We almost left Trapeze Atlanta. Our first impression was not what we expected. The front room was quiet, we were not sure what was happening, and then someone punched a code into a door. On the other side was the Diamond Club—and one instruction: “You need to meet Max.” Max does not work for Trapeze. He is a longtime single male member who says he has been visiting since 2004 and became an unofficial ambassador because people trust him to respect the room. Max joins The Professor, Chuck D., and The Dean to explain what single men often get wrong, why acknowledging the entire couple matters, and how communication, consent, emotional intelligence, and acting like you have been there before can build trust in lifestyle spaces. He also shares his personal memories of Trapeze’s former indoor pool and hot tubs, how Atlanta’s lifestyle scene has changed from his point of view, and one unforgettable club story involving two sisters, a cousin, and the terrifying discovery that the “lube” was actually liquid soap. In This Episode: Why The Professor and The Dean nearly left Trapeze Atlanta The coded door leading to the Diamond Club Why everyone told them they needed to meet Max How Max became an unofficial ambassador without working at the club Max’s experience visiting Trapeze since 2004 His memories of the former indoor pool and hot tubs How Atlanta’s lifestyle scene has changed from his perspective Why single men sometimes get written off in lifestyle spaces Acknowledging both partners, respecting boundaries, and reading the room Why communication and emotional intelligence matter more than swagger The liquid-soap story Chuck D. says may be stranger than his own stories Poly, friends with benefits, or one-night stand: Rihanna, Tracee Ellis Ross, and Sofía VergaraHosts and Guest: Hosts — The Professor, Chuck D., and The Dean Guest — Max Producer — David Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions CompanySponsored by: Glitz by Jax / Good Supply PassionScapes Photography CouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Listen, follow the show, and leave a rating or review:https://downdirtypodcast.com Join the CND community:https://couplesnextdoor.com

    Trapeze Atlanta Swing Club: We Almost Left—Then They Said, “Meet Max”

  4. Jul 28

    Polyamory, Oklahoma Swingers & Sooner Swing Chaos | Dirty Down South

    Dirty Down South begins with a candid conversation about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, Oklahoma lifestyle culture, and the reality of hosting events while everyone else gets to party. Justin and Jennifer join The Professor and David to talk about living openly, dealing with family judgment, the difference between swinging and poly relationships, and why consensual non-monogamy often requires more honesty and emotional work than people expect. The conversation also moves through Oklahoma's lifestyle scene, hotel takeovers, Sooner Swing, lifestyle travel, event-host pressure, and the very specific rule The Professor follows when he still has hosting duties to finish. In This Episode: ​Jennifer's decision to stop hiding that she is polyamorous​Why ethical non-monogamy can be harder than cheating​Swinging, polyamory, and different levels of emotional connection​How partners handle love, sex, autonomy, and relationship effort differently​Oklahoma's active swinger and lifestyle-event culture​What it takes to build and manage a large adult event​Why party hosts often miss the party they created​Hotel takeovers, lifestyle cruises, and traveling for community​The Professor's no-nutting-before-the-party-is-over rule​Why organizers sometimes want to experience the vibe instead of creating itFeatured Organization:On the Border Lifestyle Co. (OTB) Host & Featured Voices: ​The Professor​Justin​Jennifer​David — Producer​Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions CompanySponsored by: ​Glitz by Jax / Good Supply​PassionScapes Photography​CouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Follow the show, leave a rating or review, and find more episodes at:https://downdirtypodcast.com Join the CND community at:https://couplesnextdoor.com

    Polyamory, Oklahoma Swingers & Sooner Swing Chaos | Dirty Down South

  5. Jul 21

    Fake Swinger Profiles — AI Photos, Catfish Stories & How to Spot Them

    Fake lifestyle profiles are getting harder to spot when AI, heavy filters, old photos, one-sided couple accounts, and privacy concerns all blur together. Mrs. Doll sits down with Jax, The Dean, and David to talk about the difference between a private profile and a deceptive one, the warning signs that make them stop trusting an account, and why moving a conversation off-platform too quickly can create unnecessary risk. Jax also shares a wild early lifestyle story involving outdated photos, a woman’s secret boyfriend, a bathroom proposition, a very drunk night at Punch Bowl Social, and a couple who seemed to be wrapped in one giant red flag. In This Episode: Why one active partner does not automatically mean a couple is fake Perfect pictures, AI edits, backward tattoos, and heavy filtering Old wedding photos and profiles that no longer match real life The buffalo profile that wanted to meet without showing anyone Jax’s catfish night with a secret boyfriend and a chaotic after-party plan Why some people avoid sexting and move to an in-person meet quickly Pressure to move conversations away from a verified lifestyle platform How to protect intimate photos and personal information online Profile clues moderators look for when something feels wrong Why suspected fake profiles should be reported instead of posted publicly Green flags: recent activity, complete bios, balanced couple profiles, and verificationHost & Featured Voices: Host — Mrs. Doll Featured voices — Jax, The Dean, and David Producer — David Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions CompanySponsored by: Glitz by Jax / Good Supply PassionScapes Photography CouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Follow the show, leave a rating or review, and find more episodes at:https://downdirtypodcast.com Join the CND community at:https://couplesnextdoor.com

    Fake Swinger Profiles — AI Photos, Catfish Stories & How to Spot Them

  6. Jul 14

    North Dakota Swingers — Mexico Chaos, Swinger Fails & Fargo’s Hidden Scene

    How do you go from wondering whether a couple is flirting with you at Target to taking a red-flag couple to Mexico? A and B from WFgoCouple join The Professor and Chuck D to share the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable path that brought them into the lifestyle. Their first soft-swap experience nearly made them quit. The reclaiming sex afterward turned into twenty-four times in seven days. Then they met a couple trying to fix their marriage through swinging, ignored nearly every warning sign, and somehow ended up traveling to Mexico together. They also talk about swinging in Fargo, why North Dakota’s scene is bigger than outsiders assume, how difficult it can be to find verified couples in a smaller market, and how attending CND events finally helped them find a safer and more welcoming community. In This Episode: Wondering whether another couple was flirting with them at Target Trying to find swingers “in the wild” Why two completely new couples struggled through their first soft swap The experience that nearly made them leave the lifestyle Reclaiming sex and twenty-four times in seven days Meeting a couple who said swinging would fix their marriage Recognizing a consent problem and getting dressed to leave Ignoring more red flags and eventually traveling to Mexico together Finding CND and attending their first lifestyle event The growing Fargo and North Dakota lifestyle community Advice for new couples attending their first eventHosts & Guests: Hosts — The Professor and Chuck D. Guests — A and B from WFgoCouple Producer — David Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions CompanySponsored by: Glitz by Jax / Good Supply PassionScapes Photography CouplesNextDoor.comCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25. Listen and find more episodes at:https://downdirtypodcast.com

    North Dakota Swingers — Mexico Chaos, Swinger Fails & Fargo’s Hidden Scene

  7. Jul 7

    Take Your Best Friend to a Swinger Party

    Eliza is joined by Lana and The Dean for a Ladies’ Play Den recap of Lana and Eliza’s North Carolina Friction takeover weekend — two women traveling without their husbands, walking into a new lifestyle crowd, and finding out very quickly how different every scene can feel. They compare Friction, CND, hotel takeovers, pool parties, party floors, single-female energy, regional play styles, room crawls, DJs, websites, and why bringing your best friend to a swinger party might be the ultimate girls’ trip. In This Episode: Lana and Eliza recap their North Carolina Friction takeover weekend Why two women showing up without husbands shocked the room Girls’ weekend energy at a swinger hotel takeover Single-female freedom, pressure, and safety at lifestyle events How Friction compares to CND events and Midwest party culture Hotel takeovers, pool parties, room crawls, and party-floor differences The Pink Pony Club, a Baptist church, and the wildest event-location setup Why Lana highly recommends taking your best friend to a swinger partyGuests & Credits: Host — Eliza Guests — Lana and The Dean Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions Company Music — VictoriaSponsored by: Glitz by Jax — Custom body art and glitter for dazzling nights Passionscapes Photography — Photography and creative support CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor and lifestyle community networkCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25 when signing up to support the show.

    Take Your Best Friend to a Swinger Party

  8. Jun 30

    Swinger Pool Party Rules, Potluck Drama & The Dean’s Naughty List

    The Professor brings The Dean back into the Down & Dirty chaos for a host-led episode full of pool party rules, toga-party opinions, potluck crimes, celebrity hall-pass games, and one very important warning: if you are lucky enough to get invited to a lifestyle pool party, dry your ass off before walking inside. From vasectomy follow-up comedy and “jerking off should be easier” business ideas to WhiteChocolate sexy, gods-and-goddesses themes, house-party etiquette, spicy jerk chicken, fruit salad standards, and Down & Dirty’s version of marry/f**k/kill, this episode is loose, ridiculous, and very much built for the listeners who love the crew when they are just talking shit. In This Episode: The Professor’s vasectomy follow-up story takes an unexpected turn The Dean returns to the podcast Toga parties, gods-and-goddesses themes, and WhiteChocolate sexy Pool party rules and why wet people almost ruined everything The Dean’s naughty list Why house-party guests need to bring better food Potluck crimes, fruit salad standards, and spicy jerk chicken The Prince helping run his first pool party Down & Dirty’s version of marry/f**k/kill Why the credits might be worth listening to Guests & Credits: Hosts — The Professor and The Dean Producer — David Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions Company Music — Victoria Sponsored by: Glitz by Jax — Custom body art and glitter for dazzling nights Passionscapes Photography — Photography and creative support CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor and lifestyle community network CND New Member Promo Code: Use code DD25 when signing up to support the show.

    Swinger Pool Party Rules, Potluck Drama & The Dean’s Naughty List
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🎙 Sex. Stories. Swinger life — unfiltered. Join hosts The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for bold, real-talk episodes on ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and kink. From wild party stories to emotional deep dives, Down & Dirty is where laughter, vulnerability, and sex-positive truth collide. Whether you're curious, seasoned, or just looking for community, this show pulls back the curtain on alternative relationships with humor and heart. New episodes drop weekly. NSFW, always authentic.

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  • Creator
    Down and Dirty Productions
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    68
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Down and Dirty Productions
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