A single humiliating moment can reset a life. When Nathan Francis literally crashed through a plastic table after a night of drinking, it wasn’t just a bruise—it was a mirror. We talk about what happened next: cutting alcohol cold, facing a long-standing porn habit, and choosing uncomfortable, daily practices that built a stronger mind, a calmer body, and a steadier brand of masculinity. We get practical. Nathan breaks down how repetition wires the subconscious and why porn’s endless novelty hijacks desire, intimacy, and confidence. He shares the replacements that worked—5 a.m. training, breathwork before bed, meditation, and semen retention—and how redirecting sexual energy fueled the gym, business, and clear speech. We go into amends as a rite of passage: meeting past partners with honesty, releasing shame without performing sorrow, and earning integrity through action. You’ll hear how journaling names emotion, why crying is strength, and how reparenting the inner child reprograms a nervous system shaped by early chaos. We also strip culture’s counterfeit models. Stifler, Charlie Harper, and hyper-sexual lyrics taught performance, not presence. Nathan unsubscribed and wrote a new code: quiet leadership, curated inputs, and chivalry that honors women—opening doors, walking curbside, planning real dates. Brotherhood matters too. As frequency shifts, old party circles fade and a new tribe emerges where vulnerability is normal and standards are kept. If you’ve felt stuck in loops of numbing, this conversation offers a path forward: set a clean intention, pick your hard, do the reps that rewire safety toward growth, and watch identity catch up. Connect with Nathan - Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/ ------------------------------------------------------- Join the Evolved Men Circle (Free Community) If the podcast hits home and you’re tired of trying to grow alone, step into the Evolved Men Circle — our free online community where men come together to lead themselves with more clarity, courage, and integrity. Inside, you’ll find resources like A Man’s Guide to Self-Leadership, guided journaling prompts, and real conversations with men who are committed to becoming stronger, more grounded leaders. 👉 Join the Evolved Men Circle Ready to go deeper? The Evolved Men Brotherhood For men who want more structure, support, and accountability, there’s the Evolved Men Brotherhood — a paid, committed community designed for real growth. This isn’t a small-group program; it’s a space built for men who want consistent coaching, clear direction, and a Brotherhood that grows with them. If you’re ready to be surrounded by men who rise together week after week, you can learn more or join here. 👉 Explore the Evolved Men Brotherhood Enjoying the podcast? Follow and review the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify — it helps more men find this work. For More, visit us at EvolvedMenProject.com | Facebook | Instagram | Youtube -------------------------------------------------------