Welcome to this super casual podcast by Caroline Dooner, the author of The F*ck It Diet and Tired as F*ck.
Back in 2016, this podcast started off as a way to chat more about about recovering from diet culture. That's still a topic on the podcast, but now Caroline also talks about other relevant (and irrelevant) stuff about black and white thinking, cult mentality, exhaustion, productivity culture, and allll the rest. Caroline chats with other experts and practitioners about topics near and dear to her heart. There will be lots of rambling. There will be lots of conversations with her dog. There was even a one year period back in 2017 when she didn't know why her microphone was so loud. But this podcast WILL be free from diet culture, and wants to bring you relatable truth
A Chat with The Thick Nutritionist
Today's episode is a conversation I had with Tash Ngindi, aka @thethicknutritionist. We talk about her early diet days, her disordered days in nutrition school, and her journey to realizing that weight loss does NOT work the way we think it does.
Find and follow her here: @thethicknutritionist and thethicknutritionist.com
And, as I mention at the end of the episode, you can read the beginning of my second book, Tired AF here: thefuckitdiet.com/tired
And learn about pre-order bonuses here: thefuckitdiet.com/tafbonus
I’m baaaaaacckk! Just a lil’ hour-long catch up episode
I am back! In this episode I talk about what's been going on these past 8 months, and some things I want to talk about in the coming months on this podcast.
But first, my second book, Tired as F***, is available for pre-order!
Find our more info and sign up to read the first chapter at: thefuckitdiet.com/tired
And find info on pre-order bonuses at: thefuckitdiet.com/tafbonus
In this ep also talk about:
social media problems
my new house
Why I’m going on a podcast hiatus (I’ll be back!!!)
I'll be back in August 2021! (Yes! I changed the podcast name! We will still be talking about diet culture, but other things too!) See you soon for "season 2"!!
We Need Inclusive Fitness!
Today I talk to Larkin Silverman, aka vinyasavixen, about inclusive fitness, trauma informed fitness, plus sized pregnancy, and lots more!
Find Larkin's site
Find Larkin on instagram
Also, find Kate Brosnan, RD, the writer of the email I read on today's episode!
Sponsor of this episode: Dr. DiNezza and FODMAP Freedom
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Also, follow Dr. DiNezza on Instagram @TriangleGUTS to learn more about FODMAP Freedom and join her upcoming free workshop "Three Sneaky Things Holding You Back From IBS Success."
When in Doubt: Eat a Snack & Take a Nap
On today's episode I chat with Christyna Johnson, MS, RDN, LDN, and eating disorder specialist and registered dietitian. We talk about eating disorder recovery, why black people and people of color are less likely to be diagnosed and treated for their eating disorders, and she answers these listener questions:
"How do I think about those studies that suggest low calorie extends life??"
“What are some of common ways the body is signaling hunger that may not be obvious to everyone?"
"Is it normal to lack energy during weight gain?"
Find Christyna on Instagram
Christyna's podcast: Intuitive Eating for the Culture
And check out my Sponsor for this episode!
Tanya Mark is a Non Diet Nutritionist, Body Image Coach, and she’s professionally certified in Intuitive Eating and Eating Psychology. She gets it. It’s not easy ditching diet culture’s BS messages. So if you’re ready to ditch food guilt and body shame for good, grab her free guide: 5 Steps to Stop Feeling Crappy About Your Body & Make Eating Easy. Just go to TANYAMARK.COM.
All of the mistakes I made with Intuitive Eating
This post and episode is brought to you by my live program, The F*ck It Diet Club. It's only running one time in 2021. Two months of live support, community, video Q&As, daily prompts, weekly beliefs to focus on, and all of us using TFID book as a textbook. Enrollment closes January 14th.
Six years before I started my own "F*ck It Diet," I read the Intuitive Eating book by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch, and decided I was going to heal my eating. I was 18 years old, and I'd already been extreme dieting for over 4 years. I was an extreme dieter, and an extreme binger. My weight violently yo-yo'd up and down every few months. And I was sure I was a food addict.
Reading the Intuitive Eating book was the very first time I had any idea that dieting was toxic, and wired to backfire. It spoke to me. I wanted to heal. But I was young, and desperate, and still stuck in extreme self-objectification. I was about to go to school at NYU for Musical Theater, and I also had a lot of health issues that I'd been trying to heal with my extreme diets. I wanted to heal my relationship with food, but I wasn't ready. I also didn't really understand some very important parts of the journey to food and body freedom. Remaining thin was still my top goal, and there was really no way to fully heal while continuing to prioritize weight control.
So over the next 6 years, while I thought I was eating intuitively, I was actually not. I was still dieting, and obsessing over my hunger and fullness cues, and calling it "intuitive eating."
Then I'd read the books and blog posts from other "mindful eating" gurus, and assume they were continuing my education on intuitive eating, when in reality, they were taking me further and further away from true intuitive eating.
Sometimes people read my work and think I'm ragging on Intuitive Eating and saying it doesn't work. I promise you, I am not. Intuitive eating is life changing, evidence based, and the dietitian authors of the book are trail-blazing experts who have changed more lives than anyone could begin to count. But people do misinterpret intuitive eating, en masse. A lot of those people become influencers themselves, and water down the intuitive eating teaching.
There are a lot of deeply ingrained diet beliefs that many of us hold, that will keep us from truly eating intuitively, and instead, keep us in a quasi-healed state, where we're still sneakily micromanaging our food intake, which will inherently still keep us obsessed with food, and feeling out of control around food.
I made a lot of mistakes during those 6 long years, so I'm sharing those mistakes in the hopes that you won't make the same mistakes I made.
1. I thought I had to listen really, really closely to my hunger and fullness cues
Listening to your body is one thing. It's what we want! But listening obsessively? Not exactly what we want. And not exactly what is gonna lead to a better relationship with food.
Here is the thing: after years of dieting, we usually feel REALLY out of control around food, so it makes sense that we assume that we need to pay extreme attention to every bite we take, and our exact level of hunger or fullness. The problem is, we don't trust ourselves or our bodies. We are still operating under the belief that our appetite has to be micromanaged. It actually doesn't.
In the beginning of stepping away from diets, we are often extremely hungry, hungrier than we think is ok or healthy or rational. And we think it's a sign that we are out of control, and that our hunger needs to be curtailed. But actually, our hunger needs to be fed. Which brings me to....
The episode on Alcohol was amazing! Amanda White needs to coin the term “disordered drinking” like she suggests on here because too many women are afraid to acknowledge their relationship with alcohol. It’s truly poison but the term “alcoholic” is just too drastic for most of us. This is a wonderful conversation by two brilliant women, thank you for confirming all of my suspicions and thoughts on this highly relatable episode.
I found this Podcast after listening to Caroline’s book. Both are pure gold and speak directly to me. I am finally working my way out of the diet cult, feeding myself and working on loving my body after so many years of restricting and binging. Thanks Caroline!! Life changing!!
I had previously had SO much success and self growth from the F*CK IT DIET book and listening to every episode of this podcast. For that I am so incredibly thankful. However, I am going to stop listening and not going to preorder your book as I was going to because of this newest episode. I wish that you had stayed in your lane of diet mentality, self improvement and staying away from diet culture instead of sharing your opinion on vaccinations which is something that you do not have any credentials to claim. Vaccine mandates, whether for these current vaccines or any others, keep people like myself safe. I am immunocompromised like so many others and I find it very disheartening that you would use your platform to spread doubt about something that is helping to keep people alive. I am disappointed. I wish that you had stayed with what made your brand popular in the first place. Thank you for everything you have done for me in the past, but I need to step back now. You have lost a listener, and I’m bummed about it. Best, Nic.