The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast

Jeremy Grater & Zach Tucker
The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast

The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you. After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge. So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy. Topics covered: Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity Navigating emotions and vulnerability Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health Coping strategies for stress and anxiety Managing work-life balance and burnout Relationships and communication skills Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting Body image and Self-esteem Dealing with depression and mood disorders Masculinity and Identity Addiction and substance abuse Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions Suicide prevention and awareness Coping with grief and loss Anger management and emotional regulation Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks The Impact of social media on Men's mental health Men's mental health and physical fitness Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep Financial stress and mental well-being Coping with unemployment and career transitions Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength Addressing loneliness and social isolation Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors) Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges Men's mental health during and after divorce Breaking the cycle of generational trauma Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions Men's mental health and the justice system Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health Men's mental health and body dysmorphia Coping with chronic illness and disability Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

  1. 4D AGO

    How Pattern Interruption Fights Depressive Episodes

    Depression hits like an unexpected storm, leaving you frozen in place and disconnected from everything that matters. In this raw, unfiltered episode, I share my recent battle with depression alongside helping a friend through their own darkness. I reveal what works for me through personal stories and actionable strategies when nothing seems to help. Whether it's cold plunges, gym sessions, or simply having someone who gets it, discover how to maintain forward momentum even when depression tries to keep you still. Topics Discussed: The paralyzing grip of depression and how it creates a feeling of being stuck in place Why isolation feels comforting but actually strengthens depression's hold How helping others through their depression can interrupt your own negative thought patterns The counterintuitive resistance to feeling better when you're used to living in darkness Cold exposure therapy as a physical pattern interrupt for mental health The crucial difference between offering solutions versus simply being present Depression's cyclical nature and why having multiple coping strategies matters Family support systems and how they can provide tools when you can't help yourself Pattern interruption techniques: movies, exercise, cold exposure, and social connection The power of committing to not quitting, even when your brain tries to convince you otherwise Resources: Tools: NuRecover sauna  Support Lines: If you or someone you know is struggling or having thoughts of suicide, call or text the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline  at 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org . In life-threatening situations, call 911. ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    18 min
  2. MAR 12

    How To Embrace Change Without Losing Your Mind

    Get your Magic Mind here: https://www.magicmind.com/FITMESS20 You get 20% for one time purchase and up to 48% off for subscriptions with my code: FITMESS20 ---- Ever feel like you're banging your head against a wall trying to make something work that clearly isn't? Yeah, we've been there. In this episode, we're ripping off the band-aid and introducing some major changes to The Fit Mess, because when life gives you lemons, sometimes you need to throw them back and try oranges instead. Join hosts Jeremy, Joe Villegas, and Jason Haworth as they dive into why change is necessary, how to embrace it, and why AI might be coming for your job (but probably not your podcast... yet). Topics Discussed: Why The Fit Mess is evolving and bringing in new co-hosts The science behind why time feels faster as we age How AI is reshaping the tech industry and content creation Strategies for embracing change instead of resisting it The importance of planned spontaneity in life The current state of tech industry layoffs How walled gardens are shaping our internet experience The role of AI in content creation and misinformation Personal development through new challenges The value of stepping outside your comfort zone ---- Resources: Tools: Big Ass Calendar system by Jesse Itzler Previous Episode: Link to Jason's wearable tech discussion ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    25 min
  3. How to Stop Your Body From Secretly Plotting Against You

    MAR 5

    How to Stop Your Body From Secretly Plotting Against You

    Tired of feeling like a zombie despite chugging enough caffeine to power a small city? Turns out, being a walking Red Bull advertisement isn't the flex we thought it was. Who knew? In this episode, learn how to stop accidentally sabotaging your health (spoiler alert: that 9 PM pre-workout isn't doing you any favors), discover why feeling like Superman might actually mean you're about to crash harder than a Windows 95 computer, and finally figure out why your "healthy lifestyle" feels more like a punishment than a solution. Warning: This episode contains actual useful information that might accidentally make you healthy. Side effects may include sleeping better and not hating mornings anymore. TOPICS DISCUSSED Why your relationship with sleep is more toxic than your ex The three stages of burnout (spoiler: the first one feels amazing, until it doesn't) Why your gut might be plotting against you like a tiny bacterial villain Fancy medical tests that actually tell you what's wrong (revolutionary, right?) Supplements: Because sometimes eating kale isn't enough How to trick yourself into healthy habits without the mental breakdown Environmental toxins: Because apparently, everything is trying to kill us Breaking up with caffeine (it's not you, it's the adrenal fatigue) Inflammation: Your body's way of saying "Stop being an idiot" Basic health stuff that actually works (boring but effective, like a Volvo) ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    22 min
  4. FEB 26

    How to Reduce Stress Without Medication

    Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and physically tense without having to rely on therapy bills or prescription medications? Stress and anxiety affect nearly everyone, but many people struggle to find accessible, effective solutions that don't require significant time or money investments. This episode reveals how yoga and meditation can serve as "real-life cheat codes" for your brain and body, offering scientifically-proven benefits including reduced anxiety, better sleep, improved focus, and enhanced emotional control – all without any special equipment or prior experience. Press play to discover how these ancient practices can help you find calm in chaos and optimize your mental and physical wellbeing starting today. Topics Discussed: The scientific benefits of yoga for physical and mental health How yoga activates the parasympathetic nervous system The role of GABA in reducing anxiety through yoga Meditation's impact on brain structure and function Simple ways to start a yoga and meditation practice Common misconceptions about yoga and meditation The connection between breath control and stress reduction How meditation improves focus and emotional regulation Scientific evidence supporting meditation benefits Practical tips for beginners in both practices ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    7 min
  5. FEB 19

    How to Transform Anxiety into Your Secret Weapon

    Transform your mornings with Loftie: Get a game-changing, phone-free alarm clock and save 20% on orders over $100 with promo code FITMESS20 at WWW.BYLOFTIE.COM. -- Why does your brain treats a mildly awkward social interaction like a life-or-death situation? Anxiety levels are skyrocketing lately as our primitive brains struggle to cope with modern stressors like social media, constant notifications, and relentless work culture. In this episode, learn how anxiety manifests in different forms, discover practical techniques for managing anxiety in the moment, and understand why your brain reacts the way it does to perceived threats. This episode provides actionable strategies for befriending your anxiety and regaining control of your thoughts. Press play to transform your relationship with anxiety and learn why your prehistoric brain might be making modern life harder than it needs to be. Topics Discussed: Evolution of anxiety from survival tool to modern-day challenge Different types of anxiety disorders and their manifestations Physical and mental symptoms of anxiety Impact of modern technology and social media on anxiety Practical anxiety management techniques The role of sleep and caffeine in anxiety Overthinking patterns and how to break them Grounding techniques for panic attacks The importance of self-compassion in anxiety management How to distinguish between real and imagined threats ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    9 min
  6. How to Guard Your Biometric Data Privacy

    FEB 12

    How to Guard Your Biometric Data Privacy

    Transform your mornings with Loftie: Get a game-changing, phone-free alarm clock and save 20% on orders over $100 with promo code FITMESS20 at WWW.BYLOFTIE.COM. ---- What if your fitness tracker is secretly working against you? With the increasing prevalence of health tracking devices, your personal health data could be vulnerable to misuse by insurance companies, tech companies, and other entities looking to profit from your information. In this episode, you'll learn crucial strategies for protecting your personal health data, discover the hidden risks in popular fitness tracking devices, and understand how to maintain privacy without sacrificing the benefits of modern health technology. Join cybersecurity expert Jason Haworth for an eye-opening conversation about securing your digital health footprint. Topics Discussed: The true cost of "free" health tracking apps How insurance companies might use fitness data Multi-factor authentication importance Data collection and anonymization Tech companies' relationship with politicians Privacy settings and data protection Identity protection services Password security best practices Health data aggregation Future implications of health tracking ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://www.haworthconsulting.com/  https://he.uprove.me/  ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    30 min
  7. Why Every Man Should Consider Therapy Now

    FEB 5

    Why Every Man Should Consider Therapy Now

    Are you struggling with the weight of trying to handle everything alone as a man? Many men today face a crisis of loneliness and disconnection, often waiting until divorce, job loss, or addiction forces them to seek help. But there's a better way forward. In this episode, you'll discover what healthy masculinity really means, why therapy specifically designed for men is different and more effective, and understand practical steps to break free from isolation and build meaningful connections with other men. Our guest, Marc Azoulay from Men's Therapy Online reveals the four pillars of authentic masculinity and shares how men can proactively take charge of their mental health before crisis strikes. Topics Discussed: Common barriers preventing men from seeking mental health support The current masculinity crisis and finding middle ground between traditional and modern views Four pillars of healthy masculinity: strength, courage, mastery, and honor How to combat loneliness and build meaningful male friendships as an adult Why many traditional therapy approaches fail men The importance of having male therapists who understand men's experiences Practical steps for getting started with therapy How community and group support aid in healing The value of proactive vs. reactive mental health care Breaking free from the "fix it yourself" mindset ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://menstherapy.online/  ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    24 min
  8. How To Fall Asleep Faster And Wake Up Feeling Better

    JAN 28

    How To Fall Asleep Faster And Wake Up Feeling Better

    div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9"> _*]:min-w-0"> div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9"> _*]:min-w-0"> Transform your mornings with Loftie: Get a game-changing, phone-free alarm clock and save 20% on orders over $100 with promo code FiTMESS20 at WWW.BYLOFTIE.COM. --- Are you constantly losing sleep to mindless phone scrolling and soul-crushing alarm sounds?  In this episode, you'll learn how digital addiction disrupts our most critical health ritual: sleep. By sharing his personal journey from tech entrepreneur to sleep advocate, Matt Hassett from Lofty demonstrates how innovative design can transform our relationship with rest. You will learn cutting-edge strategies for creating phone-free bedtime routines, understanding the science behind gentle wake-up techniques, and reclaiming control over their sleep experience. Discover how a single, thoughtful product can help you break free from digital distractions and wake up truly refreshed. Key Moments: Matt's personal crisis fainting at a longevity talk due to poor sleep The revelation about the nine-minute snooze standard's arbitrary origins Collaboration with Beach Fossils musicians for alarm sound design Development of the two-phase wake-up system Implementation of the "bed signal" concept from Matthew Walker's research Creating physical buttons for reliability after studying competitor products Evolution from a tech-balance company to a sleep-focused enterprise Discovery of sleep inertia's impact on morning cognitive function Integration of wind-down routines with physical light cues Balancing app functionality with digital wellness goals ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://byloftie.com/ - PROMO CODE FITMESS20 ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ----

    26 min
5
out of 5
86 Ratings

About

The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you. After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge. So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy. Topics covered: Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity Navigating emotions and vulnerability Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health Coping strategies for stress and anxiety Managing work-life balance and burnout Relationships and communication skills Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting Body image and Self-esteem Dealing with depression and mood disorders Masculinity and Identity Addiction and substance abuse Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions Suicide prevention and awareness Coping with grief and loss Anger management and emotional regulation Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks The Impact of social media on Men's mental health Men's mental health and physical fitness Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep Financial stress and mental well-being Coping with unemployment and career transitions Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength Addressing loneliness and social isolation Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors) Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges Men's mental health during and after divorce Breaking the cycle of generational trauma Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions Men's mental health and the justice system Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health Men's mental health and body dysmorphia Coping with chronic illness and disability Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

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