The Fourth Trimester

Hannah Tappenden

This podcast is all about supporting you as you navigate through the huge shifts and changes that motherhood brings.  Each week I’ll be speaking with therapists, coaches and mothers about their experience of early motherhood and how they found that transition.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 05/19/2023

    Returning to Work with Alice Darbyshire

    Returning to Work with Alice Darbyshire  Today’s guest is Alice Darbyshire. Alice’s work focuses around motherhood and career, she supports mothers and businesses to see lots of different possibilities and choices.  This is a practical and helpful listen and she will walk you through some of the conversations that will be helpful to have around your return to work after parental leave. She encourages you to take ownership of the process and ensure it is working for you.  What advice would you give about planning for your return to work after maternity leave?  Be really honest with yourself about what you want. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else and their situation. We all have different levels of support around us. Think carefully about your capacity now, how much time you have, how much energy you have and what you need as a family from a financial perspective.  Thinking about what you actually want rather than what you think you should be doing.  Being really honest about what is possible within your role. Thinking carefully about how much flexibility you could have.  When would you recommend speaking with your manager about your return to work?  As soon as you have any clarity about what it is that you want, start the conversation. You can take ownership of this process. Some managers are brilliant at getting in touch and sharing relevant information, some are terrible at this process. You may need to take the lead.  The clearer you are about what it is that you want the more likely you are to be able to shape it in a way that works for you.  Consider what you will need to be successful. What will you need on your first day, your first week and your first month back.  Finding balance between home and work when returning to work after maternity leave?  It is common for women to take on more of the household tasks whilst on maternity leave. If this works for you, great. It suits most of us. However, when you return to work this will need to be addressed. You will have less time, so you won’t be able to continue as you were before.  Sit down and consider all the tasks that are currently on your plate. What do you want to hold onto? What could be done in a different way, or by someone else?  If you are going to relinquish a task, you need to hand it over and step away. If you want that space, you will need to let it go. This is often easier said than done.  Alice Darbyshire  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alicedarbyshire/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/alicedarbyshire/ Website - https://www.alicedarbyshire.com/ Hannah Tappenden  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hannah.tappenden/ Website - https://www.hannahtappenden.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  2. Postpartum Depression and Mental Health in early motherhood with Gemma North

    06/17/2022

    Postpartum Depression and Mental Health in early motherhood with Gemma North

    This is the Fourth Trimester podcast. A place where we have real conversations about the transition to motherhood and what that recovery phase after birth feels like.  This is our eighth episode and the last one in the first series.  We will be taking a break over the summer but already have some amazing guests lined up for series two that I can’t wait to share with you.  Today’s guest is Gemma North. Gemma has 20 years experience as an actress but has retrained over the past few years in both coaching and psychology. She is in the process of developing a beautiful programme about the roles we play and how we take up space in the world.  In this episode we talk about our experience of postnatal depression and anxiety. We also cover the importance of taking up space. Gemma shares her experience of a c-section birth, societal expectations on mothers and how to put yourself first and celebrate yourself and the amazing things you do every day as a mother.  Thank you so much for listening today. If you have any questions or concerns about your mental health as a mother, please speak to someone. A professional, to make sure you get the help and support you deserve. There is lots of support out there, so please keep asking if you don’t get a helpful response first time. It is possible to make big changes to your mental health.  To stay in touch you can follow me on instagram and/or sign up to my mailing list. I’ll share the links in the show notes.  Speak to you soon! Instagram - www.instagram.com/hannah.tappenden Mailing List - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621cd68ecce909ded1742f6f Website - www.hannahtappenden.com If you would like to support the podcast, you can make a small donation here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hannahtappenden Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min

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This podcast is all about supporting you as you navigate through the huge shifts and changes that motherhood brings.  Each week I’ll be speaking with therapists, coaches and mothers about their experience of early motherhood and how they found that transition.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.