The Great Noticing

MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly
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In The Great Noticing, sisters and working moms MaryAnn and Emily explore how the simple act of noticing–that is, observing our own experience non-judgmentally, can enable personal and professional change. We discuss the impact of dismantling old narratives, breaking unhelpful cycles, and living more full and rewarding lives. Join us as insightful guests add their voices to the conversation and we journey together toward greater empowerment, freedom, and joy.

  1. Sister, Sister: Next Steps for TGN

    07/14/2025

    Sister, Sister: Next Steps for TGN

    Sisters MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly return to the mic after a long pause, diving into an open conversation about where they’ve been, how they’ve grown, and what’s next for The Great Noticing. From motherhood to mental health, discipline to body image, they unpack the layers of life with their signature honesty and warmth. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 00:00 Reconnecting After Time Apart 05:37 Navigating Personal Struggles 11:09 The Role of Discipline in Creativity 16:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery 22:23 Launching New Ventures 33:01 Navigating Overwhelm and Emotional Signals 39:12 Balancing Expectations and Reality 45:03 Exploring Resistance and Personal Growth 56:17 Creating a Supportive Environment for Children In this episode, MaryAnn and Emily reflect on two years of transformation—sharing what’s been hard, what’s been healing, and how they’ve each grown into new versions of themselves. They talk candidly about the emotional weight of motherhood, the pressure to perform, and the quiet strength it takes to keep showing up. From everyday messes to big identity shifts, the conversation uncovers what happens when you make space to slow down, speak honestly, and reconnect—with yourself, each other, and your purpose. Whether you’re in a season of rebuilding or just craving more real talk about life behind the scenes, this episode offers both comfort and connection. Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood. Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing Instagram The Great Noticing LinkedIn

    1h 10m

  2. 04/14/2025

    Balancing Ambition and Motherhood: A Lawyer’s Honest Journey

    Meet our guest, Jordan Rolfe Stimpson  She is a Fort Worth-based attorney, partner at Linebarger Goggan Blair & Sampson, LLP, and a seasoned advocate in both criminal and civil law. With a career that began in journalism and a passion for public service, Jordan brings a multidimensional view to balancing motherhood, law, and leadership. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 01:05 Welcome and Introduction01:54 Jordan's Legal Journey06:10 Saying Yes to Opportunities07:10 Changes in the Legal Profession09:36 Balancing Life and Career22:21 Morning Routines and Parenting27:19 Celebrity Encounters and High Fives28:22 Trash Bag Revelation30:49 Parenting Challenges and Joys32:19 Balancing Career and Family38:18 Father-Daughter Bonding48:16 Embracing Joy and Growth50:37 Final Thoughts and FarewellIn this episode, Jordan shares how her early aspirations in journalism unexpectedly led her to the courtroom and how saying “yes” to opportunities shaped her dynamic career in public service and law. She opens up about her time at Good Morning America, speechwriting for the Mayor of Dallas, and working on high-stakes legal cases, all while cultivating presence and joy in her family life. Jordan also dives into the challenges and rewards of raising a strong-willed daughter, the evolution of the legal profession for women, and why being present—even during a toddler meltdown at Target—is her secret to staying grounded. With humor, honesty, and heart, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone trying to juggle ambition with everyday life. Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnnThis episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.   Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    52 min

  3. 03/31/2025

    Why Local Elections Matter More Than You Think

    Meet our guest, Leah M. King.  She’s the President of the JPS Foundation, where she leads transformational fundraising efforts to support public healthcare in Tarrant County. Formerly CEO of United Way of Tarrant County, Leah is also an elected official, serving as president of the board of directors at the Tarrant Regional Water District. Her leadership spans nonprofit strategy, civic engagement, and public infrastructure. Leah lives in Fort Worth with her husband, Barry, and is a passionate advocate for systems that serve the people—and the power of showing up locally. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 01:09 Welcome to The Great Noticing Podcast01:16 Introducing Leah King: A Community Leader02:23 The Importance of Voter Turnout03:42 Local Elections and Civic Engagement06:17 The Role of the Water District07:29 Personal Anecdotes on Water Issues09:18 The Impact of Leadership Decisions16:35 Fort Worth: A Place Called Home24:10 Water Conservation Tips and Initiatives26:27 Reflecting on Historical Changes27:35 The Impact of Polarization29:51 Navigating Public Office32:48 Balancing Personal and Public Life35:01 Encouraging Community Engagement42:29 The Path to Leadership44:26 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIn this episode, Leah King breaks down why voter turnout in local elections is staggeringly low—and why that needs to change. She reveals how only 10% of eligible voters can end up making decisions for the entire population, and unpacks how that civic disengagement plays out in real life, from unprepared infrastructure to water access crises. Leah shares stories from her time in public office and invites listeners to understand the direct, tangible impact of policies made at the local level. She also reflects on her own path into leadership, the unexpected joys and challenges of running for office, and how every woman—yes, even those juggling kids and careers—can find a role in shaping their communities. Whether it's joining a board or just showing up to vote, Leah makes a compelling case for everyday civic involvement.... Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnnThis episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood. Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    46 min

  4. 03/24/2025

    Building Success Without Burning Out: Lessons from Melissa & Jamey Ice

    Meet our guests, Melissa and Jamey Ice Melissa Ice is the founder and Executive Director of The Net, a nonprofit dedicated to supporting survivors of sex trafficking. She also co-founded The Worthy Co., a social enterprise providing job training and employment for trafficking survivors. Her leadership has earned her recognition as one of Fort Worth Inc.'s 400 Most Influential People. Jamey Ice is a serial entrepreneur and the founder of 6th Ave LLC, which includes 6th Ave Homes, a real estate and renovation company, and 6th Ave Storytelling, a brand strategy firm. A former musician turned business leader, Jamey has grown multiple ventures and was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Fort Worth Business Press. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 01:08 Welcome and Introductions01:57 Melissa on Slowing Down and Self-Care03:24 Balancing Work and Family08:01 Jamie on Entrepreneurship and Hustle Culture16:01 Parenting and Teaching Values24:40 Handling Children's Emotions and Responsibilities26:35 Teaching the Value of Money to Kids28:50 Challenges of Implementing Chore Systems31:32 Parenting Styles and Child Personalities33:22 Balancing Obedience and Independent Thinking35:32 Navigating Homework and School Rules36:19 Cultivating Leadership in Children38:49 Faith, Trust, and Parenting41:46 Reflecting on Parenting and Legacy44:11 Conclusion and Future ConversationsIn this episode, Melissa shares the lessons she’s learned from running The Net and The Worthy Co., shedding light on the toll that mission-driven work can take. Jamey, a serial entrepreneur behind 6th Ave Homes and 6th Ave Storytelling, reflects on the balance between ambition and sustainability—both in business and at home. Together, they discuss parenting, faith, and why embracing limitations is the key to long-term success. Tune in to discover: ✔ Why success doesn’t have to mean burnout ✔ How to navigate leadership and family life without losing yourself ✔ The fine line between hustle and sustainability ✔ Parenting with intention: balancing structure with independence Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnnThis episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.   Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    47 min

  5. 03/10/2025

    Disney Cruise Diaries: What No One Tells You Before You Book

    Sisters MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly, share their unfiltered review of their recent Disney cruise adventure. From overcrowded pools to overpriced princess makeovers, they unpack the highs, lows, and unexpected life lessons discovered along the way. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 00:28 Welcome and Introduction00:40 Reflecting on the Disney Cruise Experience03:13 The Ugly Side of the Cruise15:47 The Bad and the Good18:52 Cost Breakdown and Final Thoughts25:08 The Disney World Story from Childhood25:59 The Fundraising Effort27:06 The Disappointment and Room Redecoration29:18 Reflecting on the Disney World Experience30:38 Healing and Moving Forward40:48 Parenting Challenges and Reflections43:16 Disney Cruise Review49:53 Final Thoughts and Wrap-UpIn this episode, MaryAnn and Emily dive into the reality of family vacations — the chaos, the comedy, and the cash drain. They break down their full Disney cruise experience, comparing concierge perks to sardine-class cabins, and revealing what it all really cost. Along the way, they reflect on the emotional baggage that sneaks into family trips — from childhood money wounds to navigating public meltdowns. The sisters also open up about the surprising lessons they noticed — like how vacations become a mirror for our inner lives, how our parenting styles show up under pressure, and why even the messiest memories are worth treasuring. Whether you're considering a Disney cruise or just need a laugh-filled reality check on family travel, this episode delivers honesty, humor, and heart. Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.   Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    55 min

  6. 03/04/2025

    The Impact of Philanthropy: How Giving Shapes Our Cities with Rose Bradshaw

    Meet our guest, Rose Bradshaw With a 35-year career spanning North Texas, Chicago, New York, and San Francisco, Rose Bradshaw has helped philanthropists, corporations, and foundations maximize their impact. As President and CEO of the North Texas Community Foundation, she leads initiatives to strengthen communities through strategic giving and investment. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 01:04 Introduction and Guest Welcome01:49 Rose Bradshaw's Work and Observations04:11 Challenges and Opportunities in Philanthropy07:41 Impact of Legislation on Nonprofits13:18 Trends in Charitable Giving21:25 Corporate Philanthropy and Community Impact24:32 A New School and Community Support24:56 Corporate Philanthropy and Community Engagement26:14 Best Practices for Starting Philanthropic Programs27:58 The Unique Culture of Giving in Fort Worth29:10 Personal Stories and Reflections on Fort Worth33:20 Raising Grateful and Empathetic Children37:33 Lessons from Parents and Personal Growth39:56 Final Thoughts and Reflections In this episode, Rose shares what she’s noticing in the rapidly growing North Texas region—from challenges in public education and affordable housing to the importance of flexible, dynamic solutions in community philanthropy. She talks about how effective philanthropy requires strong collaboration between nonprofits, donors, and local governments and how Fort Worth’s unique culture of generosity is shaping innovative approaches to giving. Tune in to explore: ✅How philanthropy is shaping the rapid growth of Fort Worth & North Texas ✅The power of corporate giving and community investment ✅How trends in charitable giving are shifting across generations ✅The role of nonprofits in addressing affordable housing, education, and local infrastructure ✅Personal stories on leadership, legacy, and finding purpose in giving back Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnnThis episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.   Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    44 min

  7. 02/18/2025

    Unboxing Yourself: Letting Go of Society’s Labels with Dr. Carly Buxton

    Meet Dr. Carly Buxton, the founder of Parentswarm, a startup connecting parents to expert support. She also teaches business at the University of Richmond and writes across multiple genres, including historical fiction and children's books. Her work highlights the power of nuanced thinking and embracing a multifaceted life. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 00:00 Welcome and Introductions01:17 Balancing Multiple Roles02:31 Societal Expectations and Personal Identity04:14 Challenges of Stay-at-Home Parenting06:36 Navigating Indecision and Change11:13 Parenting Neurodiverse Children17:47 Finding Joy and Creativity21:45 Engaging Conversations and Authenticity25:50 Teaching Principles: Asking the Right Questions26:27 Encouraging Nuanced Thinking in Students28:34 Designing Effective Learning Tools29:34 The Importance of Analog Thinking30:26 Balancing Personal and Professional Life34:33 The Journey to Becoming a Flight Attendant40:55 The Value of De-Technologizing44:42 Future Plans and Aspirations46:36 Closing Thoughts and Reflections In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Carly Buxton—a historian, entrepreneur, and user research strategist—who challenges the rigid labels society places on us. From academia to business, from writing to parenting, Carly shares how embracing multiple passions has shaped her life. In this conversation, we explore: ✅ The struggle of being defined by a single role or identity ✅ The pressure to have a "perfect" answer when asked, "What do you do?" ✅ How to navigate major life transitions with flexibility and confidence ✅ The power of curiosity, nuance, and stepping outside societal expectations Hosts: Emily McAnelly & MaryAnn Means-Dufresne This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.   Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    51 min

  8. 02/10/2025

    Healing Through Skincare: A Journey with Myong Chong

    Meet Myong Chong, a skincare pioneer and healer. As the founder and owner of Hanna Isul™ Skin Therapy, Myong has spent over 30 years redefining skincare through her innovative, holistic approach. Her groundbreaking products, including U.S.-patented formulas, focus on true skin transformation—going beyond surface-level beauty to deeper healing and rejuvenation. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: 00:28 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:49 The Journey of Skin Care02:05 Mind-Body Connection in Skin Health05:08 Personal Stories and Healing06:39 The Philosophy of Beauty and Faith10:12 Challenges and Triumphs in Skin Care13:24 Innovations and Patents23:05 Global Impact and Future Goals25:40 Balancing Business and Family26:26 Stem Cell Technology Journey26:58 Formulation Challenges and Success27:50 Collaborations and Breakthroughs32:22 Community Service and Leadership33:25 Cultural Integration and Education36:50 Reflections on American Culture41:36 The Myeongchung Foundation42:30 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIn this episode... In this episode, Myong shares her inspiring journey from struggling with teenage acne to becoming a world-renowned aesthetician and skincare formulator. She discusses how skin health is deeply intertwined with our diet, emotions, and even spiritual well-being. Myong also dives into her work with stem cell technology, her collaborations with top dermatologists, and the philosophy that beautiful skin begins with a healthy soul. Plus, she reveals how her faith and mission to heal others have shaped her career and impact. 🎧 Tune in to discover:✔️ Why skincare is more than just products—it’s a mind-body connection.✔️ How stress, diet, and emotions show up on your skin.✔️ The power of natural healing in skincare science.✔️ Myong’s journey to developing patented skincare innovations.✔️ The incredible link between faith, beauty, and self-care. Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnnThis episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood. Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you! The Great Noticing InstagramCollective Growth InstagramCollective Growth WebsiteMaryAnn's LinkedInEmily's LinkedInHanna Isul Website

    45 min
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In The Great Noticing, sisters and working moms MaryAnn and Emily explore how the simple act of noticing–that is, observing our own experience non-judgmentally, can enable personal and professional change. We discuss the impact of dismantling old narratives, breaking unhelpful cycles, and living more full and rewarding lives. Join us as insightful guests add their voices to the conversation and we journey together toward greater empowerment, freedom, and joy.

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  • Creator
    MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    42
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2025 The Great Noticing
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