The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors
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Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.  Hosted by Steve and Mary Alessi, you’ll hear powerful conversations on how to build a happy Christian marriage, a healthy Christian family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

  1. 3D AGO

    What HE Said: 10 Things Men Wish Their Wives Understood

    Ever wondered what husbands REALLY think about their wives?  Get inside the minds of the men of the Family Business as they candidly unpack what’s going on beneath the surface in their relationships, from why men sometimes go quiet, to what makes them feel truly respected and appreciated. You'll discover how encouragement, shared decision-making, and even small acts of physical affection can have a huge impact on marriage. Steve Alessi, along with his son Chris and sons-in-law Chris Muina and Christian Calatayud, share relatable stories about the pressure to provide and protect, the importance of harmony at home, and how each guy navigates conflict and communicates pride in their spouse. With moments of humor and honest vulnerability, the conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to build stronger relationships. Plus, there’s a twist—the wives will get their chance to respond, promising even more insight to come. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    52 min

  2. FEB 4

    Jokes or Jabs? How To Embrace Humor in your Relationships Without Hurting Feelings

    "It's only a joke..." but is it really?  Humor and sarcasm can be tricky in relationships—sometimes it’s playful, and other times it cuts deeper than intended. In this episode, you'll discover how joking, sarcasm, and humor play vital roles in healthy relationships—and what happens when jokes cross the line and reveal serious communication issues. Drawing from wisdom gained after nearly 40 years of marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi open up about their own approach to humor, how sarcasm shaped their families, and how laughter can create closeness or mask deeper issues. You'll discover why some couples thrive by balancing seriousness and lightheartedness, and how to read the room when humor is (or isn’t) appropriate. Learn how joking can be a sign of trust and intimacy—but also where it may hide unspoken truths, cause pain, or erode safety in marriage, family, or even business teams.  If you want stronger connections at home or work, you'll find practical tips for being mindful of your words, knowing when to turn off sarcasm, and embracing moments of seriousness - so you'll know when your partner's feelings are no laughing matter. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    49 min

  3. JAN 28

    The Biggest Communication Mistakes in Every Marriage (and How to Fix Them)

    In this episode, we cover our best strategies for improving communication in marriage -  so that even your arguments can be turned into opportunities to build a stronger relationship with your spouse.  Communication challenges are at the heart of most relationship struggles, whether it's disagreements over chores, different ways of processing conflict, or mismatched expectations. Couples often find themselves in arguments that seem to go nowhere, but understanding each other's styles and showing empathy can transform these moments into opportunities for growth. Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they offer practical marriage advice from nearly four decades of experience. They break down common misunderstandings, explain why "repair-rich" marriages thrive despite conflicts, and share ways to express your needs without triggering defensiveness. Learn how simple actions—like genuine apologies, recognizing your partner's strengths, and sharing the responsibility for household tasks—can create a healthier, happier home. Whether you're a newlywed or a seasoned couple, you’ll get valuable tips on handling arguments, managing emotions, and supporting each other's value system. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    53 min

  4. JAN 21

    Pressure of Modern Parenting: Making Tough Decisions about Discipline and Your Children's Health

    Ever feel overwhelmed by the endless decisions you have to make as a parent - not to mention the barrage of advice from experts with ever-changing opinions?  In this episode, we get the treat of having two of the next generation Alessi couples in the podcast booth -  Chris Muina and Stephanie Alessi Muina, and Richelle and Christopher Alessi.  Together, they are jumping into the raw realities of raising young kids—sharing laughs, struggles, and honest takes on gentle parenting, immunization and trusting your doctors, discipline, and letting go of comparison. You'll discover how friendship, flexibility, and faith help keep balance when every family meal and doctor’s visit brings new choices and opinions. Hear how they navigate the pressure to do everything “right,” wrestle with modern parenting controversies, and find peace by trusting their instincts and holding on to their parental authority.  You’ll walk away with fresh perspective on giving yourself grace, trusting your gut, and savoring the everyday chaos—plus get practical encouragement for loving your kids (and yourself) through both wins and mess-ups. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    35 min

  5. JAN 14

    Become Better! How The Right Habits Can Set You Up for Success in 2026

    Are you truly becoming a better person in 2026? Or are you just building things that won't bring you joy long-term?  In this episode, you'll discover how to become a better version of yourself in 2026 by developing the right habits, cultivating inner peace, and building meaningful relationships—both at home and in business. Hosts Steve Alessi and Mary Alessi kick off the new year with practical advice on why becoming matters more than what you build. Instead of chasing only achievements, learn how forming healthy habits, seeking peace, and prioritizing character can set the foundation for lasting success and true happiness. You'll hear real stories from the Alessi family’s holiday season, including lessons about handling drama-free gatherings, learning to embrace failures, and the importance of intentional, honest conversations within your family and workplace. Steve Alessi and Mary Alessi also share wisdom from decades in ministry and marriage about preparing your heart and mind for the future, nurturing self-awareness, and stepping into your role as a leader in your home. Whether you're a young couple building a life together, a business owner aiming for growth, or someone seeking health and balance in 2026, this episode provides a roadmap for becoming who you’re meant to be while you reach for your goals. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    51 min

  6. JAN 7

    Brothers on the Hunt: How We Build Strong Connections with New In-Laws

    What can you learn about your new brother-in-law while spending hours in a hunting blind? In this episode, we introduce the newest member of the family, Christian Catalayud, as he shares how he's growing a relationship with his new brothers-in-law, Chris Alessi and Chris Muina. Christian married Gaby Alessi in October 2025, and over the first few months of their marriage, Christian has been introduced to the blessed but sometimes topsy-turvy world of being married into ministry.   You'll hear a candid conversation about what it’s like to be welcomed into the Alessi family—especially through marriage and brotherhood. With fresh stories from Thanksgiving hunting trips, heartfelt moments of bonding in hunting blinds and stands, and plenty of laughs, the guys reveal the unique dynamic that unfolds when new members join a tight-knit family. From hilarious hunting adventures to navigating the ups and downs of family traditions, this episode offers real insight into the importance of honor, mutual respect, and intentional connection. Plus, Christian opens up about becoming the newest brother-in-law and what it’s like having your pastor become your father-in-law.  Whether you’re part of a big family or just trying to create meaningful relationships, you’ll find plenty to relate to here—because, as always, family is everybody’s business! Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    49 min

  7. 12/31/2025

    No More Excuses! How to Achieve Your 2026 Goals (w/ Chris Hart of Brave Coaches)

    Wondering why your New Year’s resolutions never seem to stick? As we kick off a new year, Chris Alessi teams up with his coach and close friend Chris Hart to break down the real reason that so many people fail to keep their New Year's resolutions —and how to finally build momentum for a powerful year ahead. Together, they share simple strategies for transforming your personal and family life, like starting with prayer, creating a sharp plan, finding the right people for accountability, and locking in your purpose. You'll be inspired by Chris Hart's practical, no-nonsense advice , along with practical family tips that will help you quit excuses and keep the promises you make to yourself. When you recognize that conditioning—not capacity—is the key to living a bigger life, you’ll feel inspired to step boldly into 2026 and make real change for yourself and your family.  For more information on Brave Coaches, head to: https://bravecoaches.com Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    47 min

  8. 12/24/2025

    Hidden Truth of Hormones: Revealing the Health Questions Every Woman Should Be Asking

    Has the medical establishment missed the boat when it comes to women's health?  In this important and hard-hitting episode, Mary Alessi and her longtime friend Mory Martinez dive deep into the hidden crisis affecting women from their 20s onward. They unpack the impact of hormones on everything from energy and mood to heart and bone health, sharing personal stories about early menopause, misdiagnoses, and the confusion surrounding hot flashes and migraines. You’ll pick up practical tips on how diet, sugar, sleep, and strength training are major players in hormone harmony—and why starting to pay attention in your 20s or 30s can change your future. Mary Alessi and Mory Martinez serve up the best resources, the doctors and tests you need, plus a dose of hope and encouragement. Take control, advocate for your health, and pass the wisdom along! For more resources mentioned in this episode, visit Metro Life Church's Hormone Harmony Hub. Tap to Access Disclaimer: This content has been made available for informational and educational purposes only. This episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review MORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

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Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.  Hosted by Steve and Mary Alessi, you’ll hear powerful conversations on how to build a happy Christian marriage, a healthy Christian family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

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