The Human Work

Dynamic Counseling
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  • Mental Health
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The Human Work explores the deeper work of being human. Therapists Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson talk honestly about relationships, trauma, mental health, and the patterns that shape our lives. Each episode unpacks therapy myths, pop psychology trends, and practical insights for growth. If you’re curious about healing, improving relationships, and understanding yourself more deeply, this podcast is for you. Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson are licensed therapists at Dynamic Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO. Learn more at www.dynamiccoloradosprings.com.

Episodes

  1. May 19

    Pain Needs a Villain

    Pain has a way of making the human mind ask one immediate question: whose fault is this? When we experience grief, betrayal, fear, trauma, helplessness, or emotional overwhelm, we often move toward blame. We blame ourselves, another person, God, life, or the world around us. But what if blame is not simply about morality or weakness? What if it is a nervous system strategy attempting to create certainty, safety, and control in the middle of chaos? In this episode of The Human Work, Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson explore the deep relationship between suffering, blame, attachment, and emotional regulation. Together they discuss why the brain reaches for certainty during distress, how childhood attachment wounds shape adult reactions to pain, and why emotions like anger, criticism, and contempt often protect something much softer underneath. They also explore: ​ Why helplessness feels intolerable to the nervous system​How self-blame can create an illusion of control​ Why emotional flooding collapses curiosity and complexity​ The connection between criticism and dysregulation​ How grief and pain become distorted when carried alone​ The role of co-regulation, safe attachment, and presence in healing​ Why vulnerability feels terrifying but is necessary for connection This conversation blends interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, trauma work, and real clinical insight into a deeply human discussion about suffering, relationships, and healing. If you have ever found yourself stuck in blame, criticism, shame, or emotional overwhelm, this episode offers a compassionate framework for understanding what may be happening underneath—and how healing often begins not with certainty, but with safe connection. www.dynamiccoloradosprings.com From Dynamic Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO

    32 min

  2. Apr 25

    The Tug of War in Relationships (and How to Put the Rope Down)

    Most couples are not struggling because they do not care. They are stuck in a pattern. That pattern often feels like a tug of war. The harder one person pulls to be heard, the harder the other pulls back. Conversations turn into arguments, arguments turn into distance, and both people walk away feeling misunderstood. In this episode of The Human Work, we break down what is really happening underneath these cycles. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman work, we explore why pushing harder in conflict often makes things worse, and what it actually looks like to step out of the fight. We talk about how to lay down the rope, move toward your partner instead of against them, and begin practicing real perspective taking. Not agreeing. Not giving in. But understanding what your partner is actually experiencing and why it matters. If you have ever found yourself having the same argument over and over, feeling stuck, or wondering how to feel close again, this episode will give you a clearer path forward. If you are ready to go deeper, we offer Couples Intensives designed to help you move through these patterns in a focused and meaningful way. Available virtually or in person in Colorado Springs, these extended sessions give you the space to slow down, reconnect, and do the work without the stop and start of weekly therapy. Many of our in person intensives even include a guided break to walk together at Garden of the Gods, helping you continue the process in a different environment. Learn more here: http://dynamiccoloradosprings.com/couples-counseling-intensives-colorado

    26 min

  3. Apr 4

    Episode 2: Anxiety, Attachment, and Co-Regulation: Why Your Nervous System Feels Unsafe

    Anxiety isn’t just in your thoughts. It lives in your body, your relationships, and your nervous system. In this episode, we explore how anxiety is often a signal of something deeper—shaped by past experiences, attachment patterns, and how we’ve learned to feel safe (or not) with others. We talk about why anxiety can feel like real danger even when nothing is physically wrong, and how avoidance, reassurance, and even relationships can either reinforce or relieve it. You’ll hear how co-regulation works in real life, why it matters, and how to begin building the ability to regulate yourself without becoming dependent on others. We also break down how early experiences shape core beliefs, how those beliefs fuel anxiety, and what it actually looks like to start creating new patterns. We close with a real-world question about school avoidance and anxiety, unpacking the difference between support and reinforcement, and what helps people grow instead of stay stuck. If you’ve ever felt like your anxiety doesn’t make sense—or like it’s running more of your life than you want—this episode will help you understand why, and what to do next. We are Whitney Hancock, LPC, Lizzy Gueck, and Jeri Peterson, therapists at Dynamic Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO. Learn more at www.dynamiccoloradosprings.com

    50 min

  4. Mar 12

    Episode 1: Therapy, Pop Psychology, and the Work of Being Human

    Mental health language is everywhere right now. Words like trauma, triggers, narcissism, and boundaries show up constantly on social media, in conversations with friends, and even in movies and television. Some of this increased awareness is helpful. But sometimes the complexity of human relationships gets reduced to quick labels and simplified advice. In this first episode of The Human Work, Whitney and Jeri explore what therapy actually looks like beneath the surface. They talk about the rise of pop psychology online, the difference between helpful insight and oversimplified mental health advice, why couples should fight, and why growth in therapy is often different and more relational than people expect. They also discuss how therapy is portrayed in movies and TV, why phrases like “triggered” and “gaslighting” can lose meaning when overused, and the important difference between healthy boundaries and emotional walls. Most importantly, they reflect on what they wish people knew before starting therapy and why real change often happens through patience, compassion, and honest conversation. This episode is an invitation into the deeper work of understanding ourselves and the people we love. Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson are licensed professional counselors in Colorado Springs, CO at Dynamic Counseling. Learn more at www.dynamiccoloradosprings.com.

    41 min
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About

The Human Work explores the deeper work of being human. Therapists Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson talk honestly about relationships, trauma, mental health, and the patterns that shape our lives. Each episode unpacks therapy myths, pop psychology trends, and practical insights for growth. If you’re curious about healing, improving relationships, and understanding yourself more deeply, this podcast is for you. Whitney Hancock and Jeri Peterson are licensed therapists at Dynamic Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO. Learn more at www.dynamiccoloradosprings.com.

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    Dynamic Counseling
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  • Episodes
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