The Impossible Life

Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach
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God created men in the greatness of His image. Yet so many men are weak, lost, confused, and afraid. The Impossible Life is a rally cry for men to wake up and remember who they’re made to be. Former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach and marketing expert Nick Surface challenge men to rise above mediocrity and embrace their true purpose. Through Biblically-based content & training, they help men become the strong, fearless leaders they were made to be. Future generations need great men now. Are you one of them?

  1. 1H AGO

    283. The Three Fears That Are Quietly Ruining Your Life

    Fear rarely announces itself. It doesn’t walk into your life yelling. It whispers. It sounds logical. Responsible. Even wise. But underneath, it’s often just a negative imagined future—a story your mind is telling you that hasn’t happened and may never happen.  In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack how fear actually works—and why so many people don’t even recognize when they’re operating in it. Fear often begins with a subtle focus on lack or negativity, which grows into doubt and eventually becomes paralysis.  The conversation identifies three of the most common fears that quietly shape decisions: Fear of the Unknown → Robs you of purpose by demanding certainty God never promised.Fear of Loss → Keeps you from sowing, risking, and stewarding what God has given you.Fear of Failure → Distorts identity and keeps you performing for approval instead of living from it.Garrett and Nick explain how the human brain is wired for survival, constantly imagining worst-case scenarios—but that same creative power can be redirected toward faith, growth, and what’s possible. This episode is a call to recognize fear for what it is, stop letting imagined futures dictate present obedience, and step into the life God is actually inviting you to live. Because most of the time, the thing stealing your future isn’t real. It’s just believed. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    32 min

  2. 3D AGO

    282. The Motivation Myth Explained - Pain, Pleasure, or Purpose

    Why do some men stay driven for decades—while others burn out, stall, or constantly need another motivational hit? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down the three forces that motivate every human being: pain, pleasure, and purpose—and why only one of them can sustain you long-term. Using real life examples, they explain why pain and pleasure work—but only temporarily. Pain will make you move, but it won’t keep you moving. Pleasure will excite you, but it always fades. Most men live trapped in this loop, mistaking emotional intensity for direction. The conversation reframes motivation not as a feeling, but as a fuel source—and shows why purpose is the only fuel that grows stronger the more you use it. Drawing from Maslow’s hierarchy, biblical teaching, and personal experience, Garrett explains why purpose is intrinsic, eternal, and tied directly to who God created you to be. In this episode, you’ll learn:The difference between pain-, pleasure-, and purpose-driven motivationWhy motivation based on feelings always runs outHow chasing comfort and success can still leave you emptyWhy purpose produces energy instead of consuming itHow Jesus describes a motivation that never leaves you thirstyHow to identify what’s actually driving you in your health, faith, marriage, and financesThis episode isn’t about hype or temporary discipline. It’s about becoming the kind of man who doesn’t need to be motivated—because he’s anchored to purpose. If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, or frustrated that motivation never lasts, this conversation will give you a new framework—and a better fuel—to move forward. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    1 hr

  3. FEB 5

    281. How To Create Standards & Why Most People Don't Have Real Ones

    Most men don’t fail because they lack motivation. They fail because they never set real standards. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down exactly how to create standards that actually hold up under pressure—not hype-driven rules you break a week later, but identity-based minimums that shape your life. Using examples from SEAL training, family leadership, physical health, and everyday life, Garrett explains why standards are the minimum you’re willing to accept, not your best day or your intentions. When standards are clear, binary, and tied to purpose, they eliminate negotiation and build discipline automatically. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why standards must be set from a sober mindHow to anchor standards to identity, not emotionsThe role values play in making standards sustainableWhy defining the minimum protects you from disasterHow binary standards eliminate excusesWhat to do when you break a standard—and how to recover without quittingGarrett also walks through a real-world example of setting a physical health standard and explains why protecting the floor of your life matters more than chasing peaks. If you’ve ever said “this is my standard” and then watched yourself violate it, this episode will give you a framework to reset, rebuild, and move forward with clarity. Standards aren’t about being extreme. They’re about becoming reliable. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    30 min

  4. FEB 2

    280. The Narrow Road: Why Knowing Jesus Isn’t the Same as Being Changed by Him

    What if the hardest path in your life is actually the right one? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack the biblical, psychological, and practical meaning of the narrow road—and why so many people misunderstand it. Using Scripture, real-world examples, and powerful analogies, the conversation reframes the narrow road not as religious restriction, but as God’s process for transformation. The broad road promises clarity, comfort, and predictable outcomes—but only reveals its true cost later. The narrow road offers uncertainty upfront, but leads to life, maturity, and alignment with God’s purpose. Garrett explains how the narrow road began with sin entering the world, how it culminates in Christ, and why walking it—not just knowing it—prepares you for eternal life and real leadership. Together, Garrett and Nick explore why certainty kills faith, why God prioritizes who you become over what you achieve, and how this dynamic applies to marriage, business, parenting, and suffering. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why the narrow road exists and what it’s designed to produceThe difference between knowing the gate and walking the roadWhy God is a God of process, not shortcutsHow belief, surrender, and trust are forged through uncertaintyWhy transformation—not outcomes—is God’s primary goalHow the narrow road unlocks paths forward when life feels blockedIf you’re frustrated, confused, or stuck—and the easy options feel empty—this episode will give you a new framework for understanding what God may be doing in your life right now. There is a way forward. It’s just narrower than most people are willing to walk. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    45 min

  5. JAN 30

    279. Why You Feel Like Quitting And How To Stop It

    Why do so many men quit—not suddenly, but quietly? In this episode, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down why quitting usually isn’t about willpower. It’s about focus. When focus drifts, doubt multiplies. And once doubt takes over, quitting starts to feel logical—even justified. Using the story of David at Ziklag (1 Samuel 30), Garrett and Nick unpack what happens when everything falls apart at once. David returns home to find his city burned, his family taken, and his own men talking about killing him. In one of the most intense moments of Scripture, David doesn’t spiral—he strengthens himself in the Lord, asks God what to do next, and moves forward with clarity and conviction. The episode breaks down:The force multipliers of doubt (unknowns, obstacles, past failures, emotions)Why focus is a muscle you must consciously directHow belief multiplies when you shift focus back to who God isWhy small, daily focus resets are more powerful than waiting for motivationHow zooming out—and then taking the next right step—changes everythingThis isn’t about hype or self-help. It’s about learning how to catch your focus before it runs wild, anchor it in God’s character, and move forward—even when everything feels stacked against you. If you’ve been discouraged, distracted, or tempted to quit, this episode will help you reset your focus and reclaim momentum—starting today. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    27 min

  6. JAN 26

    278. The Impossible Life Explained: How to Live With Purpose, Power, and Faith

    What does it actually mean to live The Impossible Life? In this episode, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down the vision behind the podcast and the deeper meaning of living a life that looks “impossible” to the world but is fully possible with God. You’ll hear the origin story of the podcast, why “possible” became the foundation, and how the Impossible Life isn’t about self-help—it’s about full surrender, biblical transformation, and becoming a living demonstration of what Christianity actually looks like in real life. Garrett and Nick unpack 5 core pillars of the Impossible Life: submission to God, wanting greatness (God’s definition), identity, belief, and principles—and how each one builds a man who is resilient, disciplined, purpose-driven, and fully aligned with God’s plan. If you’re new to the show or want to recommit to the mission, this episode is your roadmap. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    1h 8m

  7. JAN 22

    277. Ten Guaranteed Ways To Ruin Your Life (Do The Opposite)

    Most people spend their lives chasing happiness yet end up miserable. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick flip the script using inverse thinking to expose 10 decisions that almost guarantee a broken, unhappy life. Inspired by the philosophies of Charlie Munger and Warren Buffett, this episode shows that sometimes the fastest path to wisdom is learning what not to do. You’ll hear why making life all about yourself leads to emptiness, how chronic complaining drains momentum, why refusing to take risks kills potential, and how neglecting self-development, health, and belief sabotages your future. Garrett breaks down how belief systems shape outcomes, why confidence and risk are inseparable, and how consuming more than you create slowly erodes purpose and fulfillment. The episode culminates with the two most destructive choices of all: loving yourself more than God, and never developing a deep, lifelong relationship with Him. If you want to avoid regret, live with meaning, and build a life that actually works, this episode gives you a clear warning sign for every major pitfall—and shows you how to walk the opposite path toward purpose, faith, and strength. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

    31 min

  8. JAN 19

    276. How to Rebuild After Divorce, Failure, or a Major Setback

    Sometimes life doesn’t just get difficult, it collapses. A marriage fails. A business blows up. A moral mistake costs you everything. A tragedy hits your family. And suddenly you’re standing in the rubble asking the question: How do I rebuild? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down what it really takes to rebuild your life the right way. Not through hype, denial, or pretending it never happened, but through grit, a strong attitude, honest ownership, and disciplined execution. Using the story of James Braddock (“Cinderella Man”) and powerful real-life examples, they show how comeback stories are forged through perseverance, not comfort. You’ll learn the step-by-step process for rebuilding: taking ownership of what happened, choosing what you’re actually willing to rebuild toward, stabilizing the basics, separating identity from performance, and staying in the fight long enough for the new foundation to hold. If you’re in a rebuilding season, or you want to prepare for one, this episode gives you the mindset and framework to come back stronger than before. Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here. Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking here Get the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking here Join us in Mindset Mastery by clicking here If you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here. Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking here GET IN TOUCH Social Media - @theimpossiblelife Email - info@theimpossible.life

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God created men in the greatness of His image. Yet so many men are weak, lost, confused, and afraid. The Impossible Life is a rally cry for men to wake up and remember who they’re made to be. Former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach and marketing expert Nick Surface challenge men to rise above mediocrity and embrace their true purpose. Through Biblically-based content & training, they help men become the strong, fearless leaders they were made to be. Future generations need great men now. Are you one of them?

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  • Creator
    Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    281
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach
  • Show Website
    The Impossible Life

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