All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience

Jeff Luther

Welcome to All Can, No Can't – the podcast where we turn "I can’t" into "I can" and transform challenges into opportunities. I’m your host, Jeff Luther, and I started this journey after dying on a CrossFit gym floor and getting a life-changing diagnosis. This experience forced me to confront what I thought I couldn’t do—and taught me just how much more I was capable of. Each week, we’ll dive into stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you focus on what’s possible—even when life throws you curveballs. Whether it’s personal struggles, professional hurdles, or those quiet doubts that whisper "you’re not enough," this podcast is here to help you push forward. Because when you stop fixating on the can’t and lean into the can, you’ll realize you’re stronger than you ever thought. Let’s do this together.  Let's Master resilience together.

  1. 12/17/2025

    100: Momentum Isn’t Motivation — It’s Action (30 Seconds at a Time)

    Send us a text https://www.jeffluther.com/ What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t because you can’t do the thing… but because you’re trying to live the next ten years before taking the next 30 seconds? In this powerful 100th episode of All Can No Can’t, Jeff Luther strips away the hype, the confetti, and the “victory lap” expectations to deliver one of the most important lessons of the entire show: momentum doesn’t come from motivation — it comes from doing  This episode is for the person who knows they’re capable of more — but keeps getting trapped in their own head. This conversation is especially for you if: You feel stuck, overwhelmed, or overthinking your next move You’re successful on paper but unfulfilled or restless You keep waiting for clarity, confidence, or certainty before starting You’re afraid that starting something will change your life too much You’ve delayed a goal because you’re worried you “won’t be able to keep it up” Jeff speaks directly to entrepreneurs, high performers, and people navigating major life transitions — especially those rebuilding after setbacks, health challenges, or identity shifts What This Episode Is Really About Rather than celebrating 100 episodes with fireworks, Jeff shares the deeper truth behind consistency, discipline, and resilience: Success is not in the goal. Success is in the action. Drawing from his own experience returning to workouts after a sudden cardiac event, Jeff explains why the first step is often the easiest — and why it’s everything that comes after that keeps people from starting at all  The fear isn’t the action. The fear is the future we imagine. #allcannocant #takeactionnow #stopoverthinking

    15 min
  2. 12/10/2025

    099: You’re allowed to be afraid. You’re not allowed to stop living.

    Send us a text Book a free coaching call with Jeff: https://shorturl.at/oe6Il https://www.jeffluther.com/ A powerful solo episode about facing fear, reclaiming control, and choosing courage even when your body—and your beliefs—get shaken. In this raw and vulnerable solo episode of All Can No Can’t, host Jeff Luther shares the terrifying experience of being unexpectedly shocked by his internal defibrillator—moments after finishing a routine workout. What happened next wasn’t just a physical jolt. It shook the belief system he’s carried for years, the belief that he could outrun heart disease through discipline, strength, and mindset. From the bathroom floor to the mirror where he had to tell himself, “You’re okay,” Jeff walks listeners through the emotional, physical, and mental impact of facing the one fear he thought he could keep at bay. This isn’t theory. This is lived experience. This is a real-time example of choosing courage even when fear shows up uninvited. If you’re an entrepreneur, creator, parent, or someone navigating your own invisible battle, this episode will remind you: You are allowed to be afraid. You are not allowed to stop living. 🎧 LISTEN IF YOU ARE… An entrepreneur wrestling with imposter syndrome or pressure Someone facing a health diagnosis while refusing to stop living your life A high achiever who looks fearless on the outside but feels fear on the inside Someone who avoids their “hard thing,” hoping it won’t catch up A person in a transition, facing uncertainty, or rebuilding their identity 🔥 Key Themes What it feels like to be shocked by an internal defibrillator—and the mental aftermath The moment your body forces you to face the fear you pretend isn’t there Why movement keeps fear “at bay” (and why it will never fully disappear) How to parent, lead, and live when your kids or your team are watching your response The difference between fear guiding you and fear driving your decisions What it really means to choose “all can” in the moments that matter most 💡 Episode Takeaways Fear is normal. It is human. It is often wise. Courage isn’t the absence of fear—it's choosing action anyway. How you respond becomes your identity—and your legacy. Your next choice must match your words. When life hands you a mirror moment, you get to decide who you are. 📌 Chapters 00:00 – The moment everything changed 01:26 – The truth Jeff never says out loud 02:29 – Speaking from the bathroom floor 03:30 – The workout that wasn’t extreme 04:34 – Lightheaded… then the drop 05:16 – The shock that hit like a bat 06:30 – The coaching challenge: 50 conversations 07:18 – Realizing he can’t outrun heart disease 08:36 – Learning to live intentionally 09:33 – Considering having the device removed 10:10 – When the shock hits your belief system 11:01 – The real fear: not one shock, but many 12:21 – The frustration of living on guard 13:17 – What his kids are learning by watching 14:06 – Fear can ride in the car—but it cannot drive 15:05 – What people should really be asking 16:14 – The power of choosing your next move 17:01 – Was it worth it? Every single time 17:56 – You don’t need fear to leave before you act 18:24 – Why this episode matters 19:15 – Movement as medicine 19:40 – Final message: you choose 🔗 Connect with Jeff Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allcan_nocant

    21 min
  3. 11/26/2025

    098: From Rock Bottom to Rebirth: How Angie Hawkins Stopped Numbing Out & Started Running in Slippers

    Send us a text In this raw and honest episode of All Can No Can’t, Jeff sits down with Angie Hawkins – coach and author of Running in Slippers – to talk about what it really takes to heal old wounds, stop playing the victim, and build a life that actually feels like yours.  Angie grew up with emotionally unavailable parents, a highly critical mom, and learned early on that perfectionism and overachieving were the only ways to avoid criticism. As an adult, that turned into corporate burnout, people-pleasing, emotional numbing, and chasing happiness through external things — a move to Hawaii, relationships, achievements, and “checking the boxes.”  When a breakup, grief, isolation, job fear, and a flooded condo all collided — and then COVID hit — Angie spiraled into hopelessness and attempted to end her life. She overdosed on anxiety meds, blacked out, and woke up in the hospital angry that she’d survived… until a friend told her, “It’s not your time.” That sentence changed everything.  If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, unhappy, or like happiness just isn’t “for you,” this episode is a lifeline. 💡 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: How emotionally unavailable parents and criticism create perfectionism and overachievingWhy so many adults feel numb, unfulfilled, and like happiness isn’t available What emotional regulation actually means and how to feel anger, sadness, and anxiety without being swallowed by themWhy numbing your “negative” emotions also turns off your joy and excitementHow women (and men) are conditioned to ignore their own needs, and how to start asking: “What do I want?”Angie’s GLOW Method framework:G – Go back to your childhoodL – Light yourself upO – Overcome external validationW – Welcome yourself back home Practical ways to reconnect with what lit you up as a kidHow to start doing one thing every day that brings you joy, even if nothing else in your life changes yet 00:00 – Angie’s childhood: criticism, emotional neglect & perfectionism05:00 – “My parents did what they could” & understanding emotional unavailability08:00 – How perfectionism became a survival strategy 10:00 – Feeling unfulfilled but believing happiness isn’t available11:30 – The move from Chicago to Hawaii: trying to outrun her problems17:00 – Job fear, loneliness, flooded condo & the slow unraveling19:00 – COVID, breakup, and the rock-bottom overdose20:00 – “It’s not your time” — the words that changed her life23:00 – Why she wrote Running in Slippers & what the title means25:00 – Emotional bypassing vs. healing “in earnest”27:00 – Emotional regulation and learning to feel safe in your body30:00 – Numbing out, men and women, and why so many people feel nothing32:00 – The GLOW Method explained👤 Connect with Angie Hawkins 🌐 Website & Book: Running in Slippers – coaching, book info & her Shine From the Inside program: runninginslippers.com💪 Work with Jeff If you’re a high performer who feels like you’re fighting something you can’t see, Jeff helps you control the chaos and take back your life. He’s survived sudden cardiac death and rebuilt from the ground up — now he coaches a small group of driven entrepreneurs and leaders to do the same. No fluff. No excuses. Just results.  👉 Apply for coaching: jeffluther.com (or your actual coaching URL) 👉 Follow Jeff on Instagram: @all

    1h 1m
  4. 11/19/2025

    097: From Addiction, Loss & Bankruptcy to Rebuilding Life With Purpose w/ Tracy Brinkmann

    Send us a text In this raw and deeply human conversation, Jeff sits down with Tracy Brinkmann — military veteran, entrepreneur, coach, and host of The Dark Horse Entrepreneur — who has walked through nearly every kind of fire life can throw at a person. Addiction. A police raid. Bankruptcy. Divorce. And the unthinkable loss of his 18-month-old daughter. But instead of letting these moments break him, Tracy used them as fuel to rebuild everything from the inside out. His story is a masterclass in resilience, personal responsibility, and choosing who you become — even in the darkest chapters of your life. Together, Jeff and Tracy explore: How writing down your desires can reshape your entire lifeThe brutal honesty required to break addictionWhat it means to rebuild yourself after devastating lossWhy “imposter syndrome” almost made him quit podcastingHow to recognize when life is pulling you off your pathThe power of taking small, consistent actions that compound over timeIf you need a reminder that rock bottom is not the end — it’s the beginning of a different version of you — this episode is that reminder. Chapters 0:00 — The power of writing down what you truly want  1:24 — Welcome to All Can No Can’t  2:00 — Introducing Tracy Brinkmann  3:33 — Tracy’s early podcasting days  4:46 — Moving to the farm & building a self-sustaining life  7:13 — Why clarity matters more than hustle  9:48 — How Tracy manifested his wife through intentional journaling  15:20 — Daily habits for identifying your true long-term goals  18:05 — Rock bottom, personal responsibility & rebuilding  20:14 — Addiction, programming, and the road to self-destruction  23:06 — The police raid that changed everything  25:13 — Choosing to rebuild from the ground up  27:22 — Coca-Cola, career rebirth, and becoming a father  28:48 — The birth of his daughter & medical crisis  33:27 — The hardest decision a parent can make  34:56 — What his daughter taught him in 18 months  35:46 — Throwing himself into personal development  36:47 — Early coaching & podcasting  38:04 — Imposter syndrome and stepping away  39:01 — Returning to the mic with a new purpose  40:08 — Where to find Tracy today  41:00 — Closing message: turning obstacles into opportunities SEO Keywords resilience stories, overcoming addiction, rebuilding after loss, Tracy Brinkmann interview, Jeff Luther podcast, All Can No Can’t, grief and resilience, entrepreneurship mindset, personal development stories, turning pain into purpose, writing down goals, the dark horse entrepreneur podcast Guest Links → Website: DarkHorseSchooling.com → Facebook: @TracyBrinkmann Follow Jeff Instagram: @allcan_nocant  LinkedIn: Jeff Luther  YouTube: @allcan_nocant

    42 min
  5. 11/12/2025

    096: Digital Detox: Reclaiming Connection in an Anxious World with Kelsey Green

    Send us a text https://www.jeffluther.com/ What if the thing stealing your focus, your peace, and your connection… was in your hand right now? In this episode of All Can No Can’t, host Jeff Luther sits down with Kelsey Green — community strategist, accountability coach, and founder of Summit in Six Mastermind — to explore how our digital habits are quietly shaping our happiness, attention, and ability to connect. Kelsey helps ambitious leaders turn big ideas into action through structure, accountability, and community. But today, she opens up about something deeper — how burnout, disconnection, and “fake dopamine” led her to rebuild her life with new rules for focus, digital boundaries, and real human connection. Together, Jeff and Kelsey unpack the modern addiction we don’t like to call an addiction — our phones — and what it takes to regain control, presence, and purpose in a hyperconnected world. You’ll learn: How “fake dopamine” from screens impacts your focus and motivation Why discipline is freedom when it comes to your digital habits How the “loneliness epidemic” is connected to constant online noise Simple ways to build real relationships in an age of isolation Why setting boundaries with yourself matters most How to find safety, accountability, and connection offline If you’ve ever caught yourself doomscrolling and wondering where your day — or your focus — went, this conversation is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to All Can No Can’t  03:20 – Meet Kelsey Green: from burnout to boundaries  09:00 – The dopamine hit we don’t talk about  14:45 – Foraging for “fake dopamine” and losing real joy  22:00 – Digital minimalism and the cost of constant input  28:15 – How our devices fuel the loneliness epidemic  35:00 – What it means to be present again  42:30 – Boundaries, discipline, and redefining control  50:00 – From busyness to balance — learning digital minimalism  58:00 – Building “Summit in 6” and turning ideas into results  1:08:00 – Real connection, rejection, and rebuilding community  1:18:00 – Screen-Free Sundays and digital detox challenges  1:25:00 – How to reclaim your focus and your life Key Takeaways We’re addicted to distraction — and awareness is the first step out. Real connection requires presence — not proximity. Discipline creates freedom, not restriction. Boundaries with yourself are the foundation of success. The most successful people protect their attention. Follow Host Jeff Luther 🌐 Website → jeffluther.com 📸 Instagram → @allcan_nocant 💼 LinkedIn → Jeff Luther ▶️ YouTube → @allcan_nocant Connect with Guest Kelsey Green 🌐 Website → kelseylgreen.com 📸 Instagram → @kelseylgreen 💼 LinkedIn → Kelsey Green Keywords: digital minimalism, phone addiction, focus and attention, accountability coaching, productivity, loneliness epidemic, setting boundaries, screen-free challenge, mindset shift, self-discipline, Jeff Luther, All Can No Can’t podcast, Kelsey Green, Summit in 6, burnout recovery #burnout  #boundaries #habitsthatchangeyourlife

    45 min
  6. 11/05/2025

    095: A Near-Death Awakening – Rebuilding Life, Business, and Soul After the Brink with Holly Porter

    Send us a text https://www.jeffluther.com/ What happens when you lose control of everything — your health, your senses, your independence — and still find a way back? In this extraordinary episode of All Can No Can’t, host Jeff Luther sits down with Holly Porter, serial entrepreneur, author of 16 books (with her 17th on the way), and founder of Retreat R&R, to unpack her unbelievable story of surviving a 70-day coma, out-of-body experiences, and rebuilding her life — one breath, one choice, one miracle at a time. Holly takes us through what it’s like to literally fight for your life, lose all five senses, and come back with a new mission: to help others heal, rebuild, and find purpose after crisis. Together, they talk about control, surrender, and the messy, beautiful process of becoming someone new after losing everything you thought defined you. You’ll learn: What it’s like to experience “the in-between” — between life and deathHow a near-death experience changed Holly’s sense of purposeThe truth about control, surrender, and spiritual transformationHow she turned pain into philanthropy and purposeThe mindset shifts that helped her rebuild — body, business, and beliefIf you’ve ever wondered what happens when life strips you to your core — this conversation will remind you that survival isn’t the end of the story. It’s the beginning of becoming. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to All Can No Can’t  03:30 – Meet Holly Porter: 11 startups, 16 books, and a near-death experience  09:00 – Losing all five senses and fighting to stay alive  16:30 – What a near-death experience really feels like  25:00 – Waking up with a mission: start a nonprofit and help others heal  34:00 – Rebuilding after the coma — physically, mentally, and spiritually  46:15 – From busy to being: learning to slow down  57:00 – Finding meaning in the aftermath of chaos  1:05:00 – The creation of Retreat R&R and redefining “R&R”  1:17:00 – Lessons from the dark: control, intuition, and purpose  1:28:00 – What success means now  1:33:00 – Closing reflections and where to find Holly Key Takeaways You can lose everything — and still choose to rebuild.Control is an illusion; healing begins when you surrender.Pain is often the doorway to your real purpose.Busyness is not success — presence is.The greatest comeback starts with stillness. Follow Host Jeff Luther Website → jeffluther.com Instagram → @allcan_nocant LinkedIn → Jeff Luther YouTube → @allcan_nocant Connect with Guest Holly Porter Instagram: @hollyporterinternational Keywords: near-death experience, coma survivor story, spiritual awakening, post-traumatic growth, healing after crisis, finding purpose, resilience podcast, Jeff Luther interview, All Can No Can’t, Holly Porter story, rebuilding after trauma, surrender and control, mindset and transformation #traumahealing #nonprofit #healingjourney

    40 min
  7. 10/29/2025

    094: Navigating Trauma, Neuroscience, and Mindset with Danielle Matthews

    Send us a text jeffluther.com What happens when everything that defined you — your job, your identity, your confidence — disappears overnight? In this deeply moving episode of All Can No Can’t, host Jeff Luther sits down with Danielle Matthews, speaker, educator, and founder of Brain Body Self, who turned a devastating traumatic brain injury into a journey of awakening, healing, and purpose. At just 23, Danielle was hit head-on by a drunk driver — and told she might never be the same again. But instead of accepting “this is your new normal,” she rebuilt from the inside out. Through stillness, self-awareness, and spiritual growth, she discovered that healing starts when you stop fighting reality — and start listening to what it’s teaching you. You’ll learn: How a brain injury rewired Danielle’s mind and mission The moment she decided she would not be a victim Why surrendering control can become your greatest strength How yoga, meditation, and presence reconnected her with purpose The truth about ego death, post-traumatic growth, and finding peace within If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or broken — this conversation will remind you that your greatest fall might be your greatest awakening. Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to All Can No Can’t 02:45 – Meet Danielle Matthews: trauma to transformation 08:30 – The day everything changed 15:00 – Living with a traumatic brain injury 23:15 – “This is your new normal” — and why she refused to believe it 30:20 – Letting go of control and finding presence 38:40 – Discovering the spiritual side of healing 46:30 – Ego death and identity rebirth 54:00 – The dark night of the soul 1:03:15 – Triggers are teachers: learning from conflict 1:12:00 – Post-traumatic growth and rebuilding self-worth 1:20:00 – How to heal from the inside out 1:28:00 – Closing reflections: finding the can in your can’t Key Takeaways 1. Pain is the portal — healing happens when you stop resisting it. 2. You are not your thoughts. 3. The ego has to die so your soul can live. 4. Triggers are teachers — every challenge shows you where to grow. 5. You can find peace, even in the box life puts you in. Follow Host Jeff Luther Website → jeffluther.com Instagram → @allcan_nocant LinkedIn → Jeff Luther YouTube → @allcan_nocant Connect with Guest Danielle Matthews: Website → brainbodyself.com YouTube → Heal with Danielle Keywords: traumatic brain injury recovery, post-traumatic growth, mindset and healing, self-reinvention, spiritual awakening, ego death, resilience podcast, Jeff Luther interview, All Can No Can’t, Danielle Matthews story, how to heal trauma, finding peace within, personal transformation #braininjuryawareness #traumahealing #posttraumaticgrowth

    55 min
  8. 10/22/2025

    093: Becoming the CEO of Your Recovery: Allison Pazuk Beats Cancer Through Mindset, Fasting, & Leadership

    Send us a text https://www.jeffluther.com/ When Allison Pazuk heard the words, “It’s because of your cancer,” she didn’t crumble — she took control. In this episode of All Can No Can’t, Jeff Luther talks with the author of Going Bonkers with Cancer — a former math teacher who turned her diagnosis into a mission to heal differently. Allison shares how she challenged the system, blended conventional treatment with holistic practices, and built her BONKERS mindset — a framework anyone can use to face fear, take ownership, and rewrite their story. You’ll learn: What it’s like to hear “you have cancer” — and what happens next How fasting, mindset, and meditation supported recovery Why questioning authority can save your life The BONKERS framework for resilience and courage How to lead your healing and your life like a CEO If you’ve ever felt powerless in the face of fear — this episode will remind you: you’re always in control of your next choice. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to All Can No Can’t 03:00 – Meet Allison Pazuk 07:30 – The day everything changed 12:00 – Taking control of her diagnosis 24:00 – Mindset, fasting & radical remission 38:00 – Life after cancer and redefining strength 53:00 – The BONKERS framework 1:06:00 – Becoming the CEO of your recovery 1:11:30 – Closing thoughts Key Takeaways Control what you can — question everything else. Healing starts when you lead yourself. Be brave, be curious, be BONKERS. Links Mentioned: Website → jeffluther.com Instagram → @allcan_nocant LinkedIn → Jeff Luther YouTube → @allcan_nocant Keywords: cancer survivor story, radical remission, mindset healing, resilience podcast, self-advocacy, Jeff Luther interview, women’s empowerment, overcoming fear, All Can No Can’t #cancersurvivorstories  #mindsethealing #allisonpazuk

    1h 21m

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Welcome to All Can, No Can't – the podcast where we turn "I can’t" into "I can" and transform challenges into opportunities. I’m your host, Jeff Luther, and I started this journey after dying on a CrossFit gym floor and getting a life-changing diagnosis. This experience forced me to confront what I thought I couldn’t do—and taught me just how much more I was capable of. Each week, we’ll dive into stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you focus on what’s possible—even when life throws you curveballs. Whether it’s personal struggles, professional hurdles, or those quiet doubts that whisper "you’re not enough," this podcast is here to help you push forward. Because when you stop fixating on the can’t and lean into the can, you’ll realize you’re stronger than you ever thought. Let’s do this together.  Let's Master resilience together.