The Introverted Influencer

Erica Van Slyke

Through a mixture of mental alchemy, spirituality and practical business advice, six-figure blogger, published interior designer, mother and introvert, Erica Van Slyke of Designing Vibes, shares tips on how to achieve success in the world of online influencing without sacrificing mental health or going against one's soul essence. After years of studying energetics and manifestation, this ex SEO consultant has tapped into her true purpose and mastered the art of abundance through ease and feminine flow.- no misery (or social media)required. Whether you are a spiritually curious entrepreneur calling in more passive income or someone simply interested in monetizing a passion, this podcast is for you! Website: https://designingvibes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/

  1. 12/19/2025

    Episode 100: Completion, Pauses, and the Permission to Begin Again

    Send me a text message! As the year comes to a close, I’ve been asking myself one question:  What actually needs to be complete before we move into what’s next? In this milestone 100th episode, I’m sharing why I’m choosing to pause the podcast — not from burnout, but from a deep sense of completion. As one cycle ends and another begins, I talk about the power of letting something finish without dragging it forward out of habit, pressure, or obligation. Before I go, I’m also leaving you with the Erica-isms — the reminders I hope you carry with you long after this show is over.  This episode is a closing chapter, a deep exhale, and an invitation to trust the timing of what wants to begin next. Thank you so much for being here. 🤍 Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas and a fabulous new year! Click here to check out my new apparel shop and enter code "INFLUENCER15" to get 15% off your first order.  **All my fellow mamas out there: I am a potty-mouth,  so you may want to listen with headphones on!** If you found this episode helpful it would mean the world to me if you could share it with a friend or screenshot this episode on your phone, upload it to Instagram stories and tag me (@designingvibes).  This podcast is not monetized, so spreading the word is the best way to "pay me back" for my time and wisdom- so to speak. If you would like to contribute monetarily to this show, you can do so by clicking here for my digital tip jar. My Shop: The Beige Hippie Co. Work With Me : introvertedinfluence.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/ My Digital Tip Jar: Contribute to the show here Blog: designingvibes.com

    21 min
  2. 10/09/2025

    The Masculine Energy You Actually Need to Uplevel (And It’s Not Hustle)

    Send me a text message! There’s a certain masculine energy no one talks about- the kind that lets you gracefully hold the uplevels and manifestations you’ve been calling in. This isn’t hustle or grind. It’s the grounded, anchored energy that keeps your nervous system steady when things start expanding. Without it, every new level can feel like chaos or self-sabotage waiting to happen. In this episode, I’m sharing: The truth about healthy masculine energy vs. hustle energyWhy this grounded masculine frequency is the key to keeping your manifestationsTwo simple shifts I personally use to tap into this energy when I start to wobbleIf you’ve mastered magnetism but struggle to hold the next level with ease, this episode will show you how to build the structure to actually receive it. **All my fellow mamas out there: I am a potty-mouth,  so you may want to listen with headphones on!** If you found this episode helpful it would mean the world to me if you could share it with a friend or screenshot this episode on your phone, upload it to Instagram stories and tag me (@designingvibes).  This podcast is not monetized, so spreading the word is the best way to "pay me back" for my time and wisdom- so to speak. If you would like to contribute monetarily to this show, you can do so by clicking here for my digital tip jar. Work With Me : introvertedinfluence.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/ My Digital Tip Jar: Contribute to the show here Blog: designingvibes.com

    15 min
  3. 09/11/2025

    Getting Comfortable with Debt and Anger

    Send me a text message! Two of the biggest “dirty words” for women? Anger and Debt. But here’s the thing : they’re not always bad. In fact, they can be powerful. In this episode, I share why anger can actually be more sacred (and useful) than depression, and how debt (when it’s tied to investing in your business or self-growth) can be a tool for expansion instead of shame. This conversation is your reminder that: Anger can be fuel, not a flaw“Good debt” can open doors instead of closing themShame around emotions and money is meant to be challengedIf you’ve ever felt guilty for being pissed off or nervous about investing in yourself, this episode will help you see both anger and debt through a whole new lens. **All my fellow mamas out there: I am a potty-mouth,  so you may want to listen with headphones on!** If you found this episode helpful it would mean the world to me if you could share it with a friend or screenshot this episode on your phone, upload it to Instagram stories and tag me (@designingvibes).  This podcast is not monetized, so spreading the word is the best way to "pay me back" for my time and wisdom- so to speak. If you would like to contribute monetarily to this show, you can do so by clicking here for my digital tip jar. Work With Me : introvertedinfluence.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/ My Digital Tip Jar: Contribute to the show here Blog: designingvibes.com

    13 min
  4. 08/28/2025

    The Truth About SEO in the AI Era: How to Show Up in Google, Bing, and ChatGPT

    Send me a text message! Tired of hearing that “SEO is dead”? Yeah, me too. The truth is, it’s not dead—it’s just getting a fresh coat of snake-oil marketing from fly-by-night companies trying to scare you into buying “AI SEO packages.” In this episode, I break down what actually matters if you want your content to show up in traditional search engines like Google and Bing and in newer AI-driven queries (think ChatGPT, Perplexity, or AI overviews). You’ll learn: Why being indexable is non-negotiableThe #1 reason scannability beats word count every timeHow authority + trust signals influence what AI pullsA simple framework to future-proof your content without falling for gimmicksIf you’ve ever wondered how to keep your blog or business visible in the age of AI, this episode is your permission slip to chill out and stick with what works. **All my fellow mamas out there: I am a potty-mouth,  so you may want to listen with headphones on!** If you found this episode helpful it would mean the world to me if you could share it with a friend or screenshot this episode on your phone, upload it to Instagram stories and tag me (@designingvibes).  This podcast is not monetized, so spreading the word is the best way to "pay me back" for my time and wisdom- so to speak. If you would like to contribute monetarily to this show, you can do so by clicking here for my digital tip jar. Work With Me : introvertedinfluence.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/ My Digital Tip Jar: Contribute to the show here Blog: designingvibes.com

    15 min
5
out of 5
24 Ratings

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Through a mixture of mental alchemy, spirituality and practical business advice, six-figure blogger, published interior designer, mother and introvert, Erica Van Slyke of Designing Vibes, shares tips on how to achieve success in the world of online influencing without sacrificing mental health or going against one's soul essence. After years of studying energetics and manifestation, this ex SEO consultant has tapped into her true purpose and mastered the art of abundance through ease and feminine flow.- no misery (or social media)required. Whether you are a spiritually curious entrepreneur calling in more passive income or someone simply interested in monetizing a passion, this podcast is for you! Website: https://designingvibes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/