The Introverted Misfit Podcast: Connection & Communication with an Awkward, Introverted Twist

Caroline Smith
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This podcast covers a wide realm of topics related to the human experience of connection and communication from an introverted misfit’s perspective. Growing up as a autistic introverted woman with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD) - a combination that fueled my severe social anxiety for almost a decade - I used to think the only way to be a part of a community was to exude lively, extroverted sociability. As I grew into myself, however, I realized that each one of us has a valuable place in society, no matter what your personality type is. Through this podcast, you’ll learn to let go of your fears, improve your communication skills, master emotional intelligence, build thriving relationships, be your authentic self, and think about things from a different perspective. We’ll talk about the human experience, introversion, extraversion, social anxiety, self-confidence, communication styles, neurodivergence, relationships of all kinds, building community, and anything under the sun that I think and hope will help you realize the great importance of human connection - with a slightly awkward, introverted twist. Stay tuned for new episodes every Monday!

  1. 21H AGO

    You Don’t Need a Thriving Social Life; You Need a Manageable One

    What’s the first thing you think of when you hear someone described as having a “thriving” social life? You probably picture a very extroverted socialite who can make connections at the drop of a hat, or maybe they’re more of an introvert but they still have managed to create a strong social circle for themselves that keeps them happy and motivated. Maybe you feel badly about your lack of a “thriving” social life as you understand that to be; the fact that you don’t go out every weekend, you don’t host parties and get-togethers all that much; and you usually leave social events without any new connections or phone numbers. Well, what if I told you that as an introvert, you shouldn’t strive for a “thriving” social life; you should strive for a manageable one — one that doesn’t overwhelm you and make you drag your feet as you’re getting ready to go. Join me as I talk about what steps you can take to create a manageable social life for yourself, including some things you should not do. ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> 60-Minute Social Confident Booster: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/sessions >> Join the Misfit Meet-Up Mailing List: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/misfit-meet-ups >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  2. AUG 18

    A Fish Out of Water: Masking to Fit In Where You Don’t Belong

    Do you ever hang out with a certain group of people, and you immediately feel like a fish out of water? Or maybe a Zebra trying to blend in with a bunch of horses? If you happen to be one of my autism spectrum listeners, you’re probably thinking, “Uh, yeah! Pretty much describes my entire life.” But even if you’re not on the spectrum, whatever it is that makes you a misfit has probably contributed to this feeling of being a social outcast. And as a result, you may have tried to fit in where you aren’t really welcome. I think it’s time to stop trying to force yourself where you don’t fit and be yourself so that you can find an accepting community. ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Register for ‘Dating With Confidence (For Quiet, Quirky Women): https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/quirky-dating >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  3. AUG 6

    Invisible at First, Unforgettable Always: The Quiet Power of Introverts

    Have you ever felt invisible when you’re in social settings and surrounded by more extroverted peers? Me too. But what I’ve learned is that while being introverted sometimes means you don’t get noticed as quickly as others might, you will make your mark when it’s your time to shine! Make no mistake about it; when a confident introvert is in in the right environment and knows how to use their communication strengths the right way, we are a force to be reckoned with! This podcast explores just how introverts can cope with being invisible at first, but how you can use your strengths to make the right connections with people who see your value and appreciate your personality! ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Register for ‘Dating With Confidence (For Quiet, Quirky Women): https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/quirky-dating >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  4. JUL 28

    Can a Quiet, Quirky Woman Ever Find Love? + Workshop Announcement

    You want to be seen. But every time you think about starting a conversation, you freeze. You overthink what to say and how to act. You worry you’ll come off as awkward, thirsty, too much — or not enough. You’re not alone and you’re not broken, although it may seem that way right now. If you’re anything like I used to be, you’ve spent years watching other women date and get a man’s attention with no problem, wondering if you’d ever even figure out how to start. You’ve got silent crushes, fantasy relationships you’ve dreamed up in your head, and a long list of reasons why you probably don’t stand a chance. Well, I’ve got some good news: You DO stand a chance, and that’s exactly what my upcoming workshop, Dating With Confidence (For Quiet, Quirky Women) is going to help you understand! ⭐REGISTER FOR THE WORKSHOP⭐ >> Dating With Confidence (For Quiet, Quirky Women): https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/quirky-dating

  5. JUL 14

    Your Mindset Creates Your Reality, so Stop Actualizing Misery!

    What happens when you believe all of those miserable, untrue things you tell yourself? The things like, “I’m not worth more than what I have now.” “I don’t deserve things like respect, love, and relationships like everyone else has.” “I’m too quiet, quirky and weird to have friends.” “My life is destined to be this lonely.” You create that very reality, because you do things every day that perpetuate those negative beliefs. You stay in miserable relationships way longer than you should because you don’t think you deserve more, you don’t make the kind of solid friendships that keep you motivated and energized, and you live a miserable life when you don’t even have to (most times)! This week’s podcast episode is all about how to transform your mindset from one of doom and gloom to one of hope and abundance so that you can live a life worth living! ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  6. JUN 23

    If You Want to Stop Being a Social Outcast, Stop Trying to Be Perfect!

    Are you tired of being a social outcast? Well the first step to social confidence is to break free from The Curse of Perfectionism! When your social life is being controlled by the need to be perfect, you’re too afraid to live your life. You avoid putting yourself out there for dating and relationship-making because you think you should have it all together first. You’re too afraid to invite people over to hangout because you’re convinced they will be overly judgmental and critical of your place. You’re too afraid to start a conversation with someone, go to social events, and hang out with people you know, because your social skills aren’t 100% perfect. This episode is all about how waiting until your social skills and confidence are perfect will keep you friendless, dateless, and lonely. Confidence and improved social skills come with PRACTICE, so it’s time to embrace the mistakes and awkward moments along to road to becoming socially confident. ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  7. JUN 9

    The Illusion of Lasting Change: Overcoming Setbacks on the Road to Success

    Have you ever been doing really well in a certain area of your life and making major improvements, only to one day backslide and fall back into old ways, then you find yourself right back where you started? That’s what can happen when you believe the illusion of lasting change, which is the idea that you can have the life you want and the lasting results you want forever without having to work for it. That’s not how real life works. Nothing is permanent unless you do the work to make those things last — including making it through life’s unavoidable setbacks. That’s what this week’s episode is about. Here are the high points I talk about: — Being intentional about maintaining the things you want in life, like health, happiness, and well-being — even amidst the unexpected setbacks — Why you should expect and prepare for many ups and downs along the road to success — 3 ways you can push through life’s setbacks: community, perseverance, and keeping your eyes on the prize ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

  8. MAY 6

    Nobody Cares as Much as You Think (And That’s a Good Thing)

    Sometimes, we can convince ourselves that people care about our mistakes, failures, and insecurities more than they actually do. As a result, we are hesitant to try new things, pursue relationships, and live in our purpose because we are afraid of what people may say. Here’s the good new: Nobody cares as much as you think they do, and that gives you permission (with some important exceptions) to live your life the way you want and need to live it. Here’s what I talk about in this week’s podcast episode: — How the realization that nobody cares about you that much can be the most liberating advice — What’s at the root of your obsession with other people’s opinions of you — Some important exceptions to this advice that should be considered ⭐Resources Mentioned in This Episode⭐ >> Book Your FREE Connection Call: https://calendly.com/caroline-theintrovertedmisfit/intro-call >> Communicate With Quiet Confidence: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/coaching >> JOIN MY NEWSLETTER: https://theintrovertedmisfit.com/newsletter

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This podcast covers a wide realm of topics related to the human experience of connection and communication from an introverted misfit’s perspective. Growing up as a autistic introverted woman with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD) - a combination that fueled my severe social anxiety for almost a decade - I used to think the only way to be a part of a community was to exude lively, extroverted sociability. As I grew into myself, however, I realized that each one of us has a valuable place in society, no matter what your personality type is. Through this podcast, you’ll learn to let go of your fears, improve your communication skills, master emotional intelligence, build thriving relationships, be your authentic self, and think about things from a different perspective. We’ll talk about the human experience, introversion, extraversion, social anxiety, self-confidence, communication styles, neurodivergence, relationships of all kinds, building community, and anything under the sun that I think and hope will help you realize the great importance of human connection - with a slightly awkward, introverted twist. Stay tuned for new episodes every Monday!

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