"The Kitchen Table" Presented by TPI Canada

Gregg Cochlan & Ron Medved

The Kitchen Table purpose is to share with you an engaging dialogue that we hope will reveal the dynamic world of cognitive science and it’s role it plays in performance. For over four decade your co-host Ron Medved and Gregg Cochlan have work with hundreds of organizations to apply cognitive psychology, science and practices to ignite human and organizational performance. 

  1. JAN 2

    #117 Suffering a Pathway to Wisdom

    We’d love to hear from you please leave a comment As we head into our 10th season, we’re continually humbled by how far this conversation has traveled. We’ve had listeners tuning in from more than 120 countries around the world, and that global community means a great deal to us. From time to time, we’ve invited feedback, comments, questions, and curiosities—and we want you to know that invitation is always open. If you’re willing, we’d love for you to click on the comments and share a thought or a wonder. We’ll keep everything private, and we promise we won’t respond directly. Your reflections simply help shape the ongoing conversation In  this podcast, we continue our ongoing exploration of the relationship between uncertainty, anxiety, and suffering, turning our attention more deliberately toward suffering itself—how it arises, how we interpret it, and how it can become a catalyst for wisdom rather than a source of ongoing distress. We begin by revisiting the anxiety continuum, moving from concern to worry, anxiety, and ultimately panic. Using several real-life stories, we examine how suffering shows up differently at each point along this continuum—not only as an emotional experience, but as a story we tell ourselves about what is happening and what it means. In this episode, suffering becomes the central focus. Rather than treating suffering as something to eliminate or avoid, we explore how different wisdom traditions understand suffering as an inevitable part of the human condition—and, when approached wisely, a profound teacher. To ground this exploration, we draw insight from five influential wisdom voices and traditions, including the Buddha, the Stoics, and depth psychologist Carl Jung. Each offers a unique perspective on how humans relate to pain, uncertainty, and meaning. A key part of the conversation centers on Jung’s description of the stages of life—particularly his distinction between the morning, noon, and afternoon of life. We explore how much of our early life is driven by achievement, control, and certainty, and how the “noon” of life often brings heightened anxiety when those strategies stop working. Jung’s afternoon of life, however, invites a different posture: one marked by integration, acceptance, and a deeper capacity to hold suffering without being defined by it Episode 117 invites listeners not to bypass suffering, but to slow down, examine the stories they are telling, and consider how suffering—held with awareness and compassion—may be shaping them toward greater wisdom.

    1h 3m
  2. 10/02/2025

    Podcast # 112 Golf Dinner Anxiety

    We’d love to hear from you please leave a comment In this episode of the Wisdom Project, (Wisdom Study #2.0)  Gregg shares a personal but highly relatable story that brings to life the emotional continuum from concern to anxiety to borderline panic. It’s the kind of story we’ve all lived in some form—especially if you’ve ever been asked to cook for a group of very competent, very transparentx friends. Here’s the setup: Gregg and his crew—six high school buddies and six university pals—have been meeting annually for over 3 decades for a weekend of golf, food, drinks, and laughter.Each year, different guys take turns hosting meals, and this year… Gregg got tapped for the job. “Oh no!”On paper, it’s just dinner. But in reality? It stirred up a storm of comparison, performance pressure, and self-doubt.Gregg found himself spiraling into worry, feeling out of his depth when stacked up against his buddies—some of whom could probably moonlight as chefs.What followed was a humorous, insightful journey that became a perfect case study in the Wisdom Project’s ongoing exploration of how we move along a spectrum: From concern (“I hope I don’t mess this up…”)To worry (“What if my dish doesn’t stack up?”)To anxiety (“They’ll all remember this meal—for the wrong reasons…”)And finally, to a kind of reflective awareness and growth (“Wait a minute—what’s the story I’m telling myself here?”)Rather than let the inner critic win, Gregg used the experience as a kind of film review session: What triggered the anxiety?What was true?What was narrative?And how can something so small become a mirror for something much larger?It’s a story that perfectly illustrates how our inner narratives shape our outer experiences—and how self-awareness and reflection can turn even a BBQ into a wisdom practice.

    23 min
  3. 09/18/2025

    Podcast # 111 --- Uncertainties in Life --- Peter’s Confetti Brain & Afi’s Parkie

    We’d love to hear from you please leave a comment In this episode, Gregg (Afi) opens up about his own vulnerabilities, sharing uncertainties in his life and the impact they have on anxiety and suffering. By bringing his personal experience into the conversation, we aim to shed light on how wisdom practices can guide us through life’s challenges and help transform uncertainty into growth,  Both TSC and Parkinson’s bring real challenges — but also real opportunities for connection, creativity, and courage. This episode brings those stories to light, through the lens of family, love, and wisdom across generations. What is Tuberous Sclerosis Complex (TSC)? Tuberous Sclerosis Complex, or TSC, is a rare genetic disorder that causes non-cancerous tumors to grow in various parts of the body — most often in the brain, skin, kidneys, heart, eyes, and lungs. TSC is caused by a mutation in either the TSC1 or TSC2 gene, which regulate cell growth. When these genes aren’t working properly, cells can grow uncontrollably, leading to these benign tumors. We often call it “Confetti Brain” to reflect the beautiful, scattered uniqueness of grandson Peter affected — and to reframe the condition with compassion and imagination rather than fear. What is Parkinson’s Disease? Parkinson’s Disease is a progressive neurological disorder that affects movement, muscle control, and over time, cognitive and emotional functioning. It is primarily caused by the gradual loss of dopamine-producing cells in a part of the brain . Dopamine is a chemical messenger that helps regulate movement and coordination. Common symptoms include: ·       Tremors ·       Stiffness ·       Slowness of movement ·       Changes in speech or handwriting ·       Balance issues ·       Fatigue or depression While Parkinson’s progresses over time, many people live long, full lives by managing symptoms through medication, exercise, therapy, and staying mentally and emotionally engaged.

    31 min

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The Kitchen Table purpose is to share with you an engaging dialogue that we hope will reveal the dynamic world of cognitive science and it’s role it plays in performance. For over four decade your co-host Ron Medved and Gregg Cochlan have work with hundreds of organizations to apply cognitive psychology, science and practices to ignite human and organizational performance.