The Lavendaire Lifestyle Aileen Xu

Magical things happen when you put your Art into the world. If you have a passion, a message, or a vision that lights your soul, the anonymous New York Times Bestselling poet Atticus inspires you to share it. Define your authenticity and protect it at all costs. Choose to be seen for the right reasons. Align with your heart and never dull your light.

Atticus, the anonymous New York Times Bestselling author of Love Her Wild, The Dark Between Stars, and The Truth About Magic has taken the world by storm with his beautiful poetry and powerful, simple themes of love and strength of the human spirit. His fourth poetry collection, LVOE, is an exploration of self-love, meditation, meaning, loss, and romance. LVOE is a look forward, a look backward, but most importantly a look inward to the often confusing yet hopeful human experience.




TIMESTAMPS:

01:29 - The path to poetry
05:52 - Atticus’ success
07:00 - Confidence & courage
11:06 - Atticus’ creative process
24:03 - Fame & anonymity
31:35 - Mastering Art & business
42:51 - Everything love
54:00 - Artist Advice

FIND ATTICUS ONLINE:

Instagram: @atticuspoetry

Website

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MENTIONED:


Lost Poet Wine by Atticus

Poet Coffee by Atticus
Reading Recommendations: 

On Writing by Steven King

On the Road by Jack Kerouac

The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Mary Oliver books

Silvia Path books

Robert Frost books

Walt Whitman books

Charles Bukowski books



Personal Development Training: 
The Atlas Project
Landmark




The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 211




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Our spiritual, emotional, and physical bodies are all connected. Learn to listen to your inherent wisdom, heal your inner child, and balance your chakras. Meditate, manifest and follow through with aligned action. You are the answer you seek. From shifting mindsets to creating new possibilities, certified manifestation practitioner Latha Jay teaches us the power we hold in our intention. Transform your hope into faith, and create your dream life. 

Latha Jay is a spiritual manifestation coach and Ayurvedic practitioner who blends modern knowledge with traditional wisdom. She integrates what she has learned through life experiences to teach people to shift perceptions, manifest, and live happier lives. She is passionate about guiding clients through lifestyle and mindset modifications to flat-out transform their lives into a new experience of happiness, freedom, and love. When not working with clients, writing, spending time with her family, or building courses, Latha spends her days learning from others, farming, and persistently maintaining a beginner’s mindset in everything.




TIMESTAMPS:

01:36 - Latha’s spiritual journey
08:08 - Ayurveda & Western medicine
11:18 - Chakras 101
22:47 - Shadow work
42:46 - Connecting to nature
44:11 - Manifesting love
50:40 - Latha’s routines
57:22 - Spreading kindness

FIND LATHA ONLINE:

TikTok: @latha_jay

Website

MENTIONED:

2023 Artist of Life Workbook by Lavendaire

The Law of Attraction Manifestation Journal by Latha Jay

The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 210




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When life feels off, it gets reflected in your home. Energy, vibes, or chi impact your physical and emotional well-being. Feng Shui teaches us how to create the best flow of energy to live a harmonious life. TikTok architect Mr. Cliff Tan blends his gifts of architecture and Feng Shui to help people optimize their space and transform their lives! Tap into the intuitive wisdom of Feng Shui, shift your space, and create the resources you need to live your best life.

Cliff Tan is an architect and published author. He is most widely known for his ability to plan and optimize and make the most of any space using the principles of Feng Shui and aims to share this knowledge with the wider public as well as make architecture accessible to all.




TIMESTAMPS:

06:14 - Feng Shui 101
12:47 - Re-designing Aileen’s office
20:22 - The best place in the room
26:50 - Clutter & bad energy
30:57 - Flexibility in Feng Shui
37:40 - Cliff’s routine
42:17 - Working for the people
49:14 - Attracting success

FIND CLIFF ONLINE:

TikTok: @dearmodern

Website

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MENTIONED:

2023 Artist of Life Workbook by Lavendaire

Feng Shui Modern by Cliff Tan

The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 209




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Setting boundaries is about listening to your needs and advocating for yourself. When you grow up learning that you can't say no or put yourself first, the idea of boundaries is petrifying. But you deserve healthy and balanced relationships with others and yourself. Listen to your needs and stand up for yourself. The temporary discomfort of boundary setting is worth protecting your peace and living in alignment.

Yasmine Cheyenne is a self-healing educator, author, speaker, and mental wellness advocate who helps people learn how to cultivate daily practices to build healthy, joyful lives. With an online community of over 150K and as the host of The Sugar Jar Podcast, corporate giants including ABC, Meta, and Skillshare have invited Yasmine to share her transformative teachings around self-healing which she also offers through keynote speeches, corporate presentations, and one-on-one coaching. Yasmine's first book, The Sugar Jar is currently available for pre-order and will show readers that when we nurture our energy, we can create more balance and joy in our lives.




TIMESTAMPS:

05:01 - Change & self-discovery
10:06 - Boundaries 101
17:23 - Recovering from people pleasing
21:43 - Recovering from perfectionism
25:19 - Compromise & control
33:03 - Loneliness & discomfort
45:15 - Cheyenne’s routines
48:47 - Loss, guilt & grief

FIND YASMINE ONLINE:

Instagram: @yasminecheyenne

Website

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MENTIONED:

2023 Artist of Life Workbook by Lavendaire
The Sugar Jar App
The Sugar Jar Book
Teas for Wellness - Organic Olivia


The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 208




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Taking risks is terrifying. Most of us actively avoid taking risks believing that doing nothing is a safer course of action. Well, it turns out that taking risks is the least risky thing you can do to live a fulfilling life. Things might not always turn out the way you hoped, but if you live aligned with your “why,” research suggest that you will benefit emotionally. Live your life to the fullest, follow your heart and always ask yourself “what would I regret the most?”

Alan Ying dropped out of the cardiothoracic surgery residency program at Duke University to start a software company when he was twenty-eight years old. Since selling that business, he’s enjoyed leading, investing in, and serving on the boards of start-ups to public companies. Alan grew up in Ohio and now lives in Texas. He researches risk and is co-author of The Risk Paradox: Life Lessons from 102 Amazing Risk Takers.




TIMESTAMPS:

01:35 - Backstory
10:23 - Building a business
13:59 - Start with what you can control
23:22 - Finding yourself
31:16 - 6 types of risk takers
44:10 - How to weigh risk
50:00 - How to manage fear
58:05 - Risk & age

FIND ALAN ONLINE:

Email: alan.j.ying@gmail.com

LinkedIn

MENTIONED:

2023 Artist of Life Workbook by Lavendaire
The Risk Paradox: Life Lessons From 102 Amazing Risk-Takers

The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 207




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Everything is energy. As such, you can transform your fear and pain into power and love. All it takes is openness and commitment. Through shadow work, inner child healing, journaling, self-awareness, and leaning into feeling Ellie Lee’s life has radically transformed. It’s never too late to find yourself and return to love. Feel into your pain, and release your traumas. Healing yourself is healing the world.

Ellie Lee is an on-camera personality (on E!, MTV, Vh1, iHeartRadio), actress, and mystical life coach at Masters of Self University. Her spiritual awakening 3 years ago changed the course of her life and now her purpose is to help humanity come back to love and oneness.

TIMESTAMPS:


05:29 - Hitting rock bottom
14:43 - How to discover yourself
19:25 - Alchemizing energy
26:24 - Healing triggers
37:40 - Practicing self-love & connecting to your heart
40:33 - Reprogramming societal conditioning
48:27 - Conscious relationships
58:30 - Creating harmony in society

FIND ELLIE ONLINE:


TikTok | @elliejlee

Instagram | @elliejlee


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MENTIONED:


2023 Artist of Life Workbook by Lavendaire
Rachel Fiori Podcast
Mystical Life Coaching

The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 206




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