The Life and Path Podcast: Getting Unstuck, Entrepreneurship, Coaching & Manifestation, Career

Danlye Jones

Welcome to "The Life and Path Podcast," your go-to source for curated conversations that will inspire and empower you on your journey to living a joyful and fulfilling life. Join us as we explore an array of captivating topics, including anxiety management, holistic wellness, personal growth, and various other areas that contribute to creating a better and happier existence.In each episode, our host guides you through insightful discussions with thought leaders, experts, and everyday individuals who have navigated their own paths of transformation. Discover practical strategies, uplifting stories, and actionable advice that will motivate you to make positive changes in your life.Whether you're seeking tips for reducing anxiety, embracing self-care, cultivating healthy relationships, or finding purpose and meaning, our podcast covers it all. With a focus on creating a warm and inviting atmosphere, we strive to make every episode a source of inspiration and a friendly companion on your personal development journey.Prepare to embark on a transformative experience as we share stories, explore concepts, and provide practical tools to help you navigate the complexities of life with confidence and optimism. Tune in to "The Life and Path Podcast" and embark on a joyful adventure towards a better, more fulfilling life. 

Episodes

  1. Why Support is so Important - and how to get it | Life and Path Episode 6

    03/16/2024

    Why Support is so Important - and how to get it | Life and Path Episode 6

    Send us a text Welcome to the Life and Power podcast. I'm Danlye Jones. And today we are talking about why support is so important. And if you don't have enough of it, how you can get it to deal with the things that are going on in your life. So if you are going through a stressful time, especially a maximum stress time, a family member is dealing with something that is hard for you to deal with, like alcoholism or some other issue. Shame and Secrets And it makes you feel shame because you don't want to be associated with that. You're in a toxic job. You just went through a breakup, the death of a loved one. Sometimes we have this tendency, especially if you're like me, to go inward, to try and handle it, to try and fix it on your own. And it is so lonely to be in that place. So Why Haven't You Told Anyone? And so I have a question for you. If something is going on in your life, who have you told not? Who can fix this for you? Because that's not what we're looking for. But who have you told? Is there someone in your life that you can think of right now that you trust, that you haven't told? And why not? Studies Prove That Social Support Strengthens Stress Resilience And having a quality support system isn't just was nice to have thing the studies prove it. The studies prove that it helps enhance our resilience to stress. And don't we all need that? Don't we all need help with that? I know I do. I know I will take anything I can to reduce the stress in my life, or at least make it feel like it is less crushing. Study Cited: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2921311/ Real Life Examples And that's what quality support does. So I want to give you a couple examples from my life to help illustrate it. So last year I had a family member that was going through some stuff and I felt really alone in it, and I felt really like I had to handle it and like I had to sort of be like the bed for what was going on with them. And I was having my own feelings about it and trying to deal with it and trying to work through it. But for a while I just didn't tell anybody outside of my family. Like I didn't tell friends. And I was like, I need to I need to sort this. Something I did differently then was I was like, No, this isn't a thing for me to feel ashamed about. What Happened When I Reached Out I started to detach my shame from it and reached out to a friend and said, Hey, I just need to tell you this. I don't need you to do anything, but I just need someone to hear that this is going on in my life. And I sent them a text and I told them what was going on. And I got a really kind and thoughtful text back from them. And I felt heard and I felt better. And the feeling that was over me lost its power. And I told another friend same thing. The feeling that was over me lost its power and my friends knew what I was dealing with when I was with them. And I think that helped formulate a context for our interactions, right? Like, this is a thing I'm dealing with doing the best I can. We didn't spend time sitting deeply in it, but it was just known and I felt supported and I felt like I had given that vulnerability to them and the relationships got closer. Another example. I was dealing with something professionally that sucked and it was hard. And it was it was meant to be something and formulated in a way that was something that I was dealing with. You Don't Need to Feel Alone And I took that on like, Hey, this is my responsibility. I am dealing with this. I need to figure a way out. I confided in a friend of what was going on and I still kept it close and I still held on to it and felt shame around it, felt anger. And then I started to tell more trusted friends

    18 min
  2. Do something scary (and live your life!) Episode 5

    01/31/2024

    Do something scary (and live your life!) Episode 5

    Send us a text Welcome to the Life and Path podcast. When was the last time that you did something that was scary, that kind of scary? That is something that you want to do, that it's worth it. That kind of scary one is the last time that you set up a challenge for yourself and you said, I'm going to do this. Today is the day. Did you meet that challenge? Did you come up to the challenge, get really close and then back away? Did you find some reason, some perfectly good reason that you shouldn't do it? Or did you cross over that threshold and do it? We're going to be talking today about crossing over that threshold and doing it and what is on the other side of it. And something scary that I did today coming up to that threshold of scary, that place where you're like, I could do it, I could do it. I'm not going to do it. Like, how many times have you come up to that threshold if you've passed it? What do you do when you pass it? Is there something else where you're coming up to the threshold and you're not passing it? What do we do when we get to that point where we're like, I could do it? What are the feelings that come up? Sometimes it's this unreasonable, like terror. Like, if I, if I post that, if I record that video of myself playing music, if I record that video of myself or social media I have been wanting to do, if I say that thing I've been wanting to say it's going to cost me right. Your body and your mind are like, No, no, no. Tomorrow, tomorrow. And it's so hard. It's so hard. Today I went past that threshold. I have been waiting to go live on TikTok. You can follow me at Life and Path. And when I did it, it was not a big deal. Like no one cared. I was full of adrenaline. I was shaking. I was completely red. And it's so funny because I've posted like, hundreds of videos. But the thought of going live was like, What's going to happen? What's going to be on the other side of that? Are people going to be mean? Is there something there? Am I going to be seen like there's a lot of things that your brain walks through in an effort to try to keep you safe? And so I decided, okay, I really know how to do this painting thing. Like I used to sell paintings full time, shipped them all over the world. I am getting back into it and doing it, and it's feeling really good. And I'm like, I'm going to I'm going to share that. I'm going to do some painting and I'm going to share my paintings and let's just do it. Let's let's talk about mental health. Let's let's share paintings. And so after a whole bunch of planning, I decided like, Yep, we're going live. We're going to do this. And I get everything set up and I'm looking at that go live button. And it's terrifying to press that button. I'm like, I don't know, I couldn't explain to you what I was feeling. So you know what I did? I, I was going to walk upstairs and just kind of walk away from it. And then I saw the cat and she was inquisitive. She just kind of wondering what I was doing. And I'm like, I'm going to I'm going to pick that cat up and I'm going to hold the cat while I press go live. So I picked up the cat. I picked up the cat and I pressed go live. And I just I was there with the cat. Well, it was doing its thing. So if you ever wanting to go live it, it starts like building an audience for you. And it takes like a minute, like 30 seconds to a minute. And so you're not sure what you should be doing. But in that moment I'm like, Well, hold my cat. Here we go. And so after about a minute, you kind of see like people start to join and like, your worst fear is like, people are going to be awful to you, right? Like, and how do you handle that? Because it's just it goes with that. It's part of the part of the game. That's what happens. But it just was like, okay, people are joining. These people are joining. People are leaving. I put on the cat. I pick up my paintbru

    15 min
  3. Coming Up for Air:  Strategies for Relief in Challenging Times

    11/11/2023

    Coming Up for Air: Strategies for Relief in Challenging Times

    Send us a text Life Path Podcast Introduction 00:00 - 00:31 Welcome to the Life Path podcast. These past weeks have been challenging, but I've found ways to catch my breath. I want to share what helped me navigate through it. We're not out of the woods, but these strategies made a difference. Coping Strategies for Overwhelm 00:31 - 00:55 If you're feeling overwhelmed, unable to catch a break, and the usual coping methods aren't working, I've been there. In this episode, I'll share what's been helping me. If this resonates, grab a free anxiety tip sheet at lifeandpath.com/anxiety. Navigating Loneliness and Pain 00:55 - 01:20 Life can be overwhelming. I get it. I've felt the loneliness and pain. If you're going through a tough time, know that you're not alone. I've compiled a list of things that have personally helped me. Emotional Awareness and Journaling 01:20 - 01:46 First, acknowledge your feelings. Sit with the emotion, understand its impact. Avoid the quick fix of social media. Instead, consider expressing your emotions through journaling. It worked wonders for me, providing relief and a fresh perspective. Creativity as Catharsis 01:46 - 02:11 Sometimes, traditional outlets like therapy or talking to loved ones may not be enough. I hit a wall despite trying everything. Out of frustration, I wrote down my grievances, allowing the emotions to flow out. Try it – it might be the release you need. Summary: Unique Self-Expression 02:11 - 02:36 In summary, maybe what you need isn't more information but something beautiful and uniquely yours. Let it out. Express the pain through creativity. It's cathartic and essential for your well-being. Taking Breaks for Resilience 02:36 - 03:08 Another approach is taking a break. Even in the midst of life's challenges, find moments of respite. I attended a concert during a difficult time, and it brought unexpected magic. Schedule moments like these, create life-affirming memories. Life Beyond Grief: Embracing Distraction 03:08 - 03:37 Life is more than just grief. Don't let depression dictate your actions. Go out, meet friends, experience different energies. Embrace distraction and build new memories. It can be pivotal in shifting your perspective. Positive Self-Talk: Smiling in the Mirror 03:37 - 04:04 A small but impactful practice is smiling at yourself in the mirror. Try the high-five habit. Celebrate your efforts, even if it feels forced initially. Positive self-talk, especially during tough times, can be transformative. Nourishing Your Body: Greens and Nutrition 04:04 - 04:29 Don't neglect nutrition. Ensure you're getting greens for essential nutrients. Even if you're stressed and busy, incorporate them into your diet. It's not about weight loss but nourishing your body during challenging times. Self-Focus and Improvement 04:29 - 04:53 Focus on yourself. It's easy to get caught up in what others should do, but prioritize your needs. Make that appointment, take that walk. Redirect your energy towards self-improvement and avoid unnecessary distractions. Summary: Strategies for Relief 04:53 - 05:12 To sum it up, these are the strategies that helped me find some relief and resilience during the heaviest weeks of my life. If you're going through a tough time, know that you can come up for air. Keep hope alive, be kind to yourself, and remember, you're not alone. Disclaimer and Well-Wishes 05:12 - 14:33 Disclaimer: I'm not a therapist o

    11 min
  4. Anxiety as Energy: Here's How to Release it and Find Anxiety Relief

    07/04/2023

    Anxiety as Energy: Here's How to Release it and Find Anxiety Relief

    Send us a text In this episode of the Life and Path podcast we are talking about Anxiety as Energy, we delve into the intriguing world of anxiety and explore powerful techniques for releasing its grip and finding relief. Join us as we discover how anxiety can be transformed into positive growth. Throughout the episode, we discuss various methods to release anxiety that go beyond traditional approaches. We explore the connection between exercise and anxiety relief, highlighting the role of physical activity in channeling and dissipating built-up energy. Discover how different forms of exercise, from vigorous workouts to mindful movements like yoga, can help you release tension and promote a sense of calm. But exercise isn't the only way to release anxiety. We'll also explore unconventional methods that you may not have considered. Find out how expressing yourself creatively can be a powerful tool for anxiety relief. We provide actionable tips and techniques to help you express your thoughts, emotions, and anxieties in a healthy and productive manner. Learn how journaling, art, or engaging in hobbies can become effective outlets for releasing pent-up energy and finding a sense of peace. In addition to these techniques, we emphasize the importance of accountability. Discover practical strategies for staying on track with your anxiety release journey. We discuss journaling your goals, and having an accountability partner. We'll also explore the concept of self-accountability and how setting realistic goals and tracking progress can keep you motivated and empowered on your path to anxiety relief. Please note that while the information shared in this podcast is based on personal experiences and research, it is not a substitute for professional advice. If you are experiencing severe anxiety or mental health issues, we urge you to consult with a qualified therapist or medical professional. Tune in to "Anxiety as Energy" as we provide practical insights, expert interviews, and actionable steps to help you release anxiety and find relief. Together, we'll uncover the transformative power of anxiety and embark on a journey toward greater well-being. Subscribe, listen, and share this episode with others who may benefit from discovering new approaches to anxiety relief.

    15 min
  5. Embracing Freedom: Letting Go of Control for a Happier Life

    05/27/2023

    Embracing Freedom: Letting Go of Control for a Happier Life

    Send us a text In this transformative episode of the Life and Path podcast, we delve into the powerful concept of "Letting Go of Control" and explore how it can profoundly impact our journey towards fulfillment and success. Join us as we unpack the barriers that often hinder us from attaining what we truly desire in life. From navigating changes at work to venturing into new social circles, we'll provide you with valuable insights and practical strategies for overcoming the emotional baggage that accompanies these experiences. We'll also address the challenges that arise when dealing with family members whose needs extend beyond our control, such as a loved one struggling with alcoholism. Furthermore, we'll explore the detrimental effects of anxiety on our well-being and share effective techniques to manage excessive worrying. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode, where we empower you to release the grip of control and embrace a life of freedom, joy, and authentic self-discovery. Tune in now to embark on a transformative journey towards a happier and more fulfilling existence. Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast episode is for educational and informational purposes only. The content discussed is based on personal experiences, research, and general knowledge in the field of personal development. While we strive to provide accurate and up-to-date information, we make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, suitability, or availability of the content discussed. Any reliance you place on such information is strictly at your own risk. The hosts and participants in this podcast are not licensed therapists, psychologists, or medical professionals. The strategies and techniques shared are not intended as a substitute for professional advice or treatment. It is always recommended to seek the guidance of qualified professionals regarding your specific situation or concerns. Furthermore, the experiences and examples shared in this episode are personal and may not resonate with everyone. We encourage you to approach the topics discussed with an open mind and consider your unique circumstances before applying any suggestions or recommendations. Lastly, the views expressed by the hosts, guests, or callers in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the podcast platform or its affiliates. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to the above disclaimer.

    46 min

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Welcome to "The Life and Path Podcast," your go-to source for curated conversations that will inspire and empower you on your journey to living a joyful and fulfilling life. Join us as we explore an array of captivating topics, including anxiety management, holistic wellness, personal growth, and various other areas that contribute to creating a better and happier existence.In each episode, our host guides you through insightful discussions with thought leaders, experts, and everyday individuals who have navigated their own paths of transformation. Discover practical strategies, uplifting stories, and actionable advice that will motivate you to make positive changes in your life.Whether you're seeking tips for reducing anxiety, embracing self-care, cultivating healthy relationships, or finding purpose and meaning, our podcast covers it all. With a focus on creating a warm and inviting atmosphere, we strive to make every episode a source of inspiration and a friendly companion on your personal development journey.Prepare to embark on a transformative experience as we share stories, explore concepts, and provide practical tools to help you navigate the complexities of life with confidence and optimism. Tune in to "The Life and Path Podcast" and embark on a joyful adventure towards a better, more fulfilling life.