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  1. MH Ep. 11 - When Grief Becomes Part of Your Marriage Story ft. Nancy Kingma, Gary Stowie, Kathy Stowie, Stephanie TeSlaa

    4D AGO

    MH Ep. 11 - When Grief Becomes Part of Your Marriage Story ft. Nancy Kingma, Gary Stowie, Kathy Stowie, Stephanie TeSlaa

    Grief touches every part of life — our hearts, our relationships, and the way we show up to one another. In this episode, Gary and Kathy Stowie share the story of a profound loss and how it shaped them individually and as a family. We’re also joined by Nancy Kingma, a counselor who walks with individuals and families through grief and trauma, offering insight into how couples can remain connected with compassion, patience, and grace. This tender conversation invites us to slow down, honor the weight of loss, and remember that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted. Discussion Questions: What stood out to you from Gary and Kathy’s story or from Nancy’s insights?How has grief touched your life or the life of those close to you?When you are hurting, how do you feel most cared for?What might it look like to simply be with someone in their grief rather than trying to fix it?How can we become more comfortable creating space for grief—in our marriages, friendships, and church family?Who in your life might be carrying grief quietly?For those currently experiencing grief, what has been challenging and what has helped? Where have you sensed God meeting you?

    1h 19m

  2. 4D AGO

    Ep. 136 - Undone to Be Remade: The Conversion of Saul (Acts 9) ft. Rod VanSolkema, Jana English, Libby VanSolkema, Tryg Veker

    In Acts 9, Saul’s encounter with the risen Christ on the road to Damascus marks one of the most dramatic transformations in all of Scripture — but it’s more than a story of conversion; it’s a story of being undone and remade. We explore how true conversion always begins with a personal encounter with God that shatters pride, exposes sin, and births new life. We’ll trace Saul’s journey from zealous persecutor to humbled apostle, unpacking how his blindness became a symbol of spiritual death and resurrection, and how God’s grace pursued him even in rebellion. This conversation invites you to reflect on your own story of transformation — to ask where God may be confronting, humbling, or restoring you. Preacher: Rod VanSolkema Passage: Acts 9 Sermon Link:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CLICK HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    1h 3m
  3. MH Ep. 10 - From Busy to Broken to Beautiful ft. Greg Zimmer, Kris Zimmer, Stephanie TeSlaa

    NOV 6

    MH Ep. 10 - From Busy to Broken to Beautiful ft. Greg Zimmer, Kris Zimmer, Stephanie TeSlaa

    They were doing all the right things—raising kids, building careers, keeping busy. But somewhere along the way, Greg and Kris Zimmer’s marriage started running on empty. What began as busyness turned into distance, and before they knew it, the divorce papers were on the table. In this episode, they share how God stepped in, woke them up, and began rebuilding a love that was nearly lost. Discussion Questions: What does busyness look like in your current season of marriage? How is it affecting your ability to connect? In what ways has “doing good things” (career, kids, church, commitments) ever distracted you from “being present” in your marriage? How do pride, avoidance, or exhaustion make it harder to admit when your relationship is in trouble? What are some healthy ways you and your spouse can check in on your connection before disconnection takes root? What does repentance or humility look like in marriage when one or both spouses realize things need to change? Do we need to make any changes in our marriage or family to prioritize a healthier marriage?

    58 min

  4. NOV 5

    Ep. 135 - Healing on Every Level: Stepping Out to Step Forward ft. Brett Cain, Matt Kenney, Tryg Veker

    In this episode, we explore what it means to pursue healing — body, mind, and spirit. Like physical therapy for the soul, spiritual growth often requires intentional work, patience, and the courage to face what’s been broken. Brett Cain, a Doctor of Physical Therapy, joins us to share how the body’s journey of recovery mirrors our spiritual walk with God. Just as muscles rebuild through resistance and consistent care, so our souls grow stronger through surrender, discipline, and grace. We talk about how empathy opens the door to deeper relationships, how behavioral patterns can either hold us back or propel us toward transformation, and why sometimes the best thing you can do for your soul is retreat — to step out of the white noise of daily life and let God realign your story with His. For more information about Men's Retreats, click HERE

    58 min
  5. MH Ep. 9 - Leave & Cleave: The Parent's Perspective ft. Bruce Osterink, Sue Osterink, Stephanie TeSlaa

    OCT 30

    MH Ep. 9 - Leave & Cleave: The Parent's Perspective ft. Bruce Osterink, Sue Osterink, Stephanie TeSlaa

    Letting go is not easy, especially when your child gets married and the responsibility you once carried shifts to their spouse and to God. In this episode, Stephanie TeSlaa talks with Bruce and Sue Osterink about what it looks like for parents to support that transition with grace. Through honest stories, practical wisdom, and even a roll of “holy duct tape,” they share how to stay loving and present without overstepping, helping your child’s marriage thrive. Discussion Questions: DQ1: How does seeing the importance of marital unity change the way you interact with your adult child(ren)? DQ2: How can you change your approach to family expectations—such as holiday, etc.—that may cause tension in your relationship with them or create stress in their marriage? DQ3: What does it look like to support your adult children's decisions when you do not agree with them? DQ4: In what ways can you shift your role from being your child’s first stop for support to encouraging them to go to their spouse first? DQ5: How do you and your spouse navigate tension in your own marriage that arises from the process of letting go? DQ6: If you realize you’ve unintentionally created a wedge in your child’s marriage, even years later, what steps can you take together to repair and support their relationship?

    1h 2m

  6. OCT 29

    Ep. 134 - The Stoning of Stephen (Acts 6-7) ft. Adam Anderson, Rod VanSolkema, Libby VanSolkema, Tryg Veker

    Why was the witness of Stephen in the face of the power brokers in Jerusalem so inspiring, and what does it mean for us today? Preacher: Rod VanSolkema Passage: Acts 6-7 Sermon Link:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CLICK HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    1h 11m
  7. MH Ep. 8 - Leave & Cleave: The Couple's Perspective ft. Dave Geroux, Jaclyn Geroux, Stephanie TeSlaa

    OCT 23

    MH Ep. 8 - Leave & Cleave: The Couple's Perspective ft. Dave Geroux, Jaclyn Geroux, Stephanie TeSlaa

    What does it really look like to leave your family and cleave to your spouse? In this episode of The Marriage Huddle, Dave and Jaclyn open up about the struggles and breakthroughs of prioritizing their marriage over old patterns and expectations. From navigating parents’ involvement to creating a cocoon for their relationship, they share the moments that tested their commitment—and the steps that brought resurrection to a marriage on the brink. DQ1: In what ways might your family of origin’s expectations or traditions be unintentionally shaping your marriage? How can you identify where “leaving and cleaving” might cause division or conflict? DQ2: Reflect on a time when external influences—parents, friends, or others—interfered with your marriage decisions. How could you have handled it differently? DQ3: What are some practical ways you and your spouse can create intentional “cocoon” time to focus on your relationship without outside distractions? How could that be beneficial? DQ4: How do you currently navigate loyalty between your spouse and your extended families? How does your spouse feel in relation to the loyalty you may hold for your own family? DQ5: Are there any recurring patterns of conflict in your marriage that could be tied to old family dynamics? DQ6: How could prioritizing your spouse above all others (except God) help develop unity, respect, and mutual submission? DQ7: If one or both of you have felt secondary in your marriage, what steps can you take to rebuild trust, closeness, or security? DQ8: As a couple, what is one actionable way you can “leave and cleave” this week—whether in conversation, decision-making, or boundary-setting?

    1h 10m

  8. OCT 21

    Ep. 133 - This Life: More Than Religion (Acts 5:17-42) ft. Tryg Veker, Shayla Bassett, Rod VanSolkema

    Gamaliel’s words in Acts 5 cut to the heart of every generation: “If their purpose or activity is of human origin, it will fail; but if it is from God, you will not be able to stop it.” This episode unpacks that dividing line—how human-driven religion leads to jealousy, fear, and burnout, while Spirit-born faith produces courage, joy, and resilience even through suffering. Preacher: Tryg Veker Passage: Acts 5:17-42 Sermon Link:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CLICK HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    1h 3m
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    Crossroads Bible Church
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
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