Join Javier Ortuño, aka Slow Mojo, a lively Twitch streamer, as he dives into a variety of captivating topics. He and TJ explore personal goals like academic growth and navigating life after a break. They hilariously discuss relationship red flags, the societal views on cosmetic surgery, and the complexities of parenting in today's tech-obsessed world. Plus, hear about Javier's ambitious resolution to quit porn and their thoughts on social media’s impact. They also share insights on health, fitness, and rediscovering sports! Episode summary — New Year Comeback W Javier Ortuño Intro & comeback context TJ and Javi open the episode talking about returning after about a year-long hiatus, getting the old podcast room back, and plans to post regularly again. 00:52 Personal check-ins & school updates They catch up on life: Javi passed a class, TJ reflects on his schooling history, and they discuss the value of steady progress versus social-media fame. 02:33 Views on cosmetic surgery & relationships TJ shares his preference against cosmetic procedures for partners, preferring natural improvements and doing the work together; they discuss motivations, consequences, and examples. 04:32 Boundaries, speaking your mind, and growth Both discuss learning when to speak up respectfully, setting boundaries, being less affected by others' opinions, and the importance of honest criticism. 10:04 Parenting, responsibilities, and adulthood TJ describes growth from fatherhood: prioritizing his daughter, handling a house and estate responsibilities, financial lessons, and choosing a partner who complements his growth. 14:46 31:51 Lessons from the 20s & red flags They reflect on lessons learned in their 20s: do things yourself, don’t take people personally, recognize red flags in relationships and investments, and when to stay vs. walk away. 15:30 22:11 Time passing, kids growing, and life autopilot Conversation about how fast time moves, children growing up (TJ’s daughter developing opinions), and the danger of living on autopilot vs. being purposefully content. 28:20 26:40 Work, finances, and career moves TJ explains leaving a warehouse job, finding better pay, escaping contentment that held him back, and balancing short-, mid-, and long-term thinking for family security. 34:30 36:24 Social media detox & content strategy Javi plans a social media break (testing one phone-free day per week, possibly a full year), discusses the differences between consumption and creation, YouTube’s hybrid role, and porn/temptation concerns. 38:30 42:41 Health, diet & fitness goals They talk about protein intake, workout habits, weight goals, and getting back into sports (tennis, soccer), plus the physical limits that come with aging. 49:25 55:00 Parenting anecdotes & kid activities TJ shares stories about parenting moments (burns, stitches), cooking with his daughter, and introducing her to tennis and different foods. 52:01 52:40 Streaming, podcast plans & sign-off Javi promotes his Twitch (slowmojo), they discuss recording video and live streams in 2026, plan future episodes (including Venezuela), and close the show. 01:06:00 01:08:19 Heard on The Lonely Stoner - New Year Comeback W Javier Ortuño.
