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There is nothing more soul destroying than putting your all into dating and trying to find love, yet no matter how much you want it, what you do or how hard you try…you’re still single.

That ends here, with Emily Bucknell, your dating, love and manifestation coach. Through her 3 step, proven process to manifest love, Emily is here to get you out of your Dating Rut to attracting your absolute dream man and the loving relationship your soul is crying out for.

If you’re a smart, successful woman over 30 and you’re ready to put your dating past behind you and manifest your absolute dream love, then get listening to The Loved-Up Effect podcast now!

Like what you hear? Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss a thing!

The Loved-Up Effect Emily Bucknell

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There is nothing more soul destroying than putting your all into dating and trying to find love, yet no matter how much you want it, what you do or how hard you try…you’re still single.

That ends here, with Emily Bucknell, your dating, love and manifestation coach. Through her 3 step, proven process to manifest love, Emily is here to get you out of your Dating Rut to attracting your absolute dream man and the loving relationship your soul is crying out for.

If you’re a smart, successful woman over 30 and you’re ready to put your dating past behind you and manifest your absolute dream love, then get listening to The Loved-Up Effect podcast now!

Like what you hear? Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss a thing!

    The self-imposed limitations that are stopping you from finding love

    The self-imposed limitations that are stopping you from finding love

    Stuck in a Dating Rut? Let me show you how to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days, inside The Dating Reset. Click here to join now: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset

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    I want to remind you of what love is…

    "Love is the strongest force the world possesses.” – Ghandi

    Love isn’t bound by age, health, where you live, what dating app you’re on, appearance…ANYTHING.

    Love is limitless.

    …until of course, we humans get involved and put limits on it left, right and center.

    And of course, the craziest part of this is that 99% of the time we don’t even realize that we’re doing this.

    We don’t realize how the stories we tell ourselves, the beliefs that we hold are that powerful that they ultimately limit the love that we get to experience.

    Stories like:

    ‘There aren’t any decent men left to date.’

    ‘I’m too old to find love.’

    ‘I don’t have time to date (insert the next layer of stories here that you’re lacking in time!).’

    ‘I’m not fully healed’

    ‘No one will want to love me’

    ‘I’m a single mum’

    These stories that feel SOOOOOO real, that feel like set in stone reasons that you can’t get out there and date and find love are just that...

    Stories.

    Ways that you are limiting love.

    Inside this episode we’re going to get clear about all the ways you're limiting love, and start pulling apart these stories to get you back to the truth…that love is limitless.

    This HAS to be the story you start telling yourself if you want to have your dream relationship come into your life.

    Get listening now! ...and if you find this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a rating, or review!!

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    Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram

    • 31 min
    Husband Hunting is the worst way to find a husband

    Husband Hunting is the worst way to find a husband

    Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset

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    Where are my Husband Hunting ladies at? My ladies that are on a MISSSSSSION to find your man?!?!

    You get to that point, don't you? 

    Where you've been hoping and praying that love would just happen for you like you've seen it happen for everyone else around you...and it doesn't. 

    You thought you'd be married, with kids right now. 

    So you do what all us, smart, successful, capable, strong and awesome women do, you decide to get out there and MAKE IT HAPPEN!!

    I love you for that. I seriously do...because that is also me!

    Here's what I learned from my years spent Husband Hunting...IT DOES NOT WORK. 

    Husband Hunting actually stops you from finding your husband. 

    Inside this episode I'm going to walk you through the 4 reasons that Husband Hunting isn't the approach you want to have when it comes to manifesting love...and obvs, what to do instead!

    Happy listening and please don't forget to leave me a review if you find this episode helpful! I always LOOOOOVE hearing from you!

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    Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram

    • 29 min
    Accepting being single DOES NOT mean you give up on love

    Accepting being single DOES NOT mean you give up on love

    Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset 

    This is a **SERIOUSLY** important episode, especially if you’ve been thinking that part of manifesting your dream love is accepting your life and future as a single person.

    Acceptance and surrender to what is, your life RIGHT NOW, is 100% and essential step in manifesting your dream relationship, but your future?!

    NOOOOOOO!

    So, if you’ve been struggling with this idea of acceptance, surrender, trying to feel ok being single, you’ve been picturing yourself as single forever or or you’re new to all of this and have NFI about what I’m talking about right now, then this episode is one you CANNOT miss.

    It’s short, sweet and will set you straight on what acceptance and surrender are, how to practice both in your life so that you truly do manifest your dream relationship.

    And if you like what you hear, be sure to let me know by leaving a review!

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    Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram

    • 38 min
    The Law of Inspired Action applied to dating

    The Law of Inspired Action applied to dating

    Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________________________

    You’ve heard that saying, haven’t you?

    That Mr Right isn’t going to fall into your lap on Friday night while you’re chilling at home.

    Totally true.

    If you want to meet Mr Right then there is action that you need to take.

    I’m 100% behind this piece of advice.

    Where this advice gets single women into a whole lot of problems is falling into action for the sake of action.

    Like get out there and online date, get friends to set you up, be on the look out for genuine single men anytime you’re out and about, go to speed dating events, singles events, online date some more…

    I was one of these women.

    I thought all I had to do is take action and eventually I’d HAVE to meet him…right?!

    Wrong.

    If you’re taking alllllll the dating action and you’re not getting any closer to having the kind of loving relationship that you want, then this, right now, is your call to stop and listen to this week’s episode of The Loved-Up Effect podcast all about the Law of Inspired Action.

    This seriously beautiful Universal Law will help you determine what action is going to get you closer to love and what action is a big old waste of your time.

    If you want to learn what action is going to actually have your dream love come into your life, get listening to this episode now.

    And if you find what you hear helpful, please let me know by leaving a review!

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    Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram

    • 33 min
    Feel confident dating

    Feel confident dating

    Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset 

    Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________

     If you just do not feel confident dating, then first of all I want you to know that you’re not alone.

     I remember feeling the same way myself.

    Simply the fact that finding love was such a struggle for me, like I was always the single friend, the one with all the relationship drama, crying on the phone to my friends, dumped and ghosted yet again, was a MASSIVE knock to my confidence.

    Love didn’t happen easily for me, so I saw myself as someone that wasn’t wanted by the awesome men I ultimately wanted a relationship with, and so whenever one of these guys came anywhere near me, I was an absolute ball of nerves, unsure of how to connect with them in a way that would lead somewhere.

    …which is the definition of a lack of confidence.

    Having confidence is literally having faith, belief, trust and certainty in yourself.

    I had none of that when it came to finding love.

    I was constantly looking for ways to fix or change myself in order to be more attractive to men.

    I didn’t truly believe I was someone that could have her dream relationship or that it was possible for me.

    And even just the thought of dating and the pressure to perform that I attached to it, meant I avoided dating as much as I possibly could.

    I didn’t think it was something I was any good at, so why bother putting myself through all the pain?!

    If you relate to that, and you simply don’t feel confident dating then get listening to this episode now! 

    Because as long as you don’t have the confidence to get out there and date as the most awesome you that you are, you’re unfortunately going to stay stuck exactly where you are.

    Inside this episode I’ll be walking you through how to start changing how you both feel about yourself and dating so you can get out there and date with confidence, able to finally make the kind of connections you want with the kind of men you want!

    • 25 min
    How to let your ex go

    How to let your ex go

    Want a proven process to manifest love and support along the way? Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

    Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________

    It can be one of the HARDEST things to do...letting that ex go (or at least it always was in my experience!). 

    Whether he broke up with you, you ended things and now regret it, it was a mutual break-up, you moved away, or there's some other reason why you're not in the committed relationship you ultimately want, then this is a MUST listen episode...because in holding on you're only stopping your ACTUAL dream love from coming into your life. 

    There are 5 steps to letting that ex go once and for all: 

    1. Attacking it from a logical perspective 

    2. Taking action to let go emotionally or energetically

    3. Uncovering and shifting those deeper, root survival beliefs that have you holding on for dear life

    4. Taking action to break any remaining ties

    5. Step into the identity of you that HAS moved on. 

    If you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review!

    • 38 min

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