Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 2d ago

    "Is He Interested?" How To Know For Sure

    If you've got a crush on a man and you're wondering… Does he like me? Is he actually interested? Is there something here… or am I imagining it? Maybe it's the guy at the gym. Someone you work with. A friend. The man you see every morning getting coffee. There are glances. Smiles. Conversations that feel like something. And meanwhile, you've already imagined approximately 47 different versions of your future relationship together 💭 But if what you actually want is a loving, committed relationship, you can't spend the next six months wondering whether this man likes you. In this episode, I'm giving you the simplest way to find out if a guy is genuinely interested in you... and what to do if he isn't. But more importantly, I'm showing you why your crush might have very little to do with this particular man and everything to do with the next step love is asking you to take. Because whether he turns out to be your man or not, this can still move you closer to the relationship you actually want. In this episode you'll discover: How to know if a man is genuinely interested in youWhy you don't need to wait for the man to make the first moveExactly what you can say without asking, “Do you like me?”The point where you need to take his lack of action as your answerWhy spending months obsessing over a crush can keep you stuck and singleHow to use this situation to actually move towards love If there's a man you're interested and you want to know if he feels the same way... 🎧 Hit play and listen to this epsiode now! Our next Loved Up Week: Dating To The REAL Relationship starts Monday 24th August inside Attract Your Man. If you're meeting men, getting matches, talking, maybe even going on a few dates, but it never seems to become the actual relationship, click the link below and come join us for this Loved Up Week. Over five days, we're changing the way you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship, so the relationship stops feeling like this enormous thing you have to somehow make happen and starts feeling like the natural next step. Join Attract Your Man 👇 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  2. 4d ago

    How To Go From Dating To The REAL Relationship

    If you're meeting men, getting matches, having conversations and going on 1st, 2nd maybe even 3rd dates but... It ends there and you NEVER the actual relationship 🤯 Hit play on this episode now! Because the answer isn’t getting better at dating. It’s not about learning what to say, how to act, when to text, how to keep him interested or how to finally get a man to commit. In this episode, I give you a sneak peek inside our next Loved Up Week: Dating To The REAL Relationship, that starts Monday 24th August 2026 inside Attract Your Man. Over five days, what you think it takes to go from meeting men to having the loving, committed relationship you want will radically shift, so that dating feels lighter, simpler and takes so much less energy and effort... And actually gets you the relationship you've wanted for so long. If you’re tired of being stuck on the dating merry-go-round and just want the relationship already... JOIN ATTRACT YOUR MAN and join us for this Loved Up Week 👇 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  3. 6d ago

    How To Meet The Right Man Without Obsessing

    If you just want to meet the right man, but in the back of your mind you're constantly thinking about: How, where and when you're going to meet him. And what else you could be doing to to finally find him... Hit play on this episode now! Because you know, that even if you focus on yourself, build a life you love, take up all kinds of new hobbies, say yes to every opportunity, even take a break from dating alotgether... You're still wondering: Will I meet him here? Should I be doing more? Am I getting any closer to meeting him? Where the F is he?!?!?! And THAT'S the part nobody tells you how to switch off. In this episode of Find Love With Emily, I’m showing you what actually needs to change if you want to meet the right man without obsessing over how and when it’s going to happen: Why the usual “love happens when you’re not looking” advice is so bloody unhelpfulWhat’s really happening before you meet your person that you probably can’t see yetAnd the shift that allows you to stop trying to orchestrate exactly how love is going to happen... so that it FINALLY can! I’ll also take you behind the scenes of Attract Your Man and show you the actual practices I teach you to use when the impatience, disappointment and I JUST WANT TO MEET HIM ALREADY feeling comes roaring back. So you don’t end up right back in the cycle of overthinking, forcing and trying to make love happen. Because you don’t need to stop wanting love. You need to know how to let love lead you there. 🎧 Episode to listen to next: The Signs You’re Missing That Love Is Happening For You 👉 Our next 5-day Loved Up Week: FROM DATING TO THE REAL RELATIONSHIP starts the 24th August 2026 inside Attract YOUR Man... Where I'll help you completely change your approach to dating, so you can get off the endless dating merry-go-round and finally (and easily) get the relationship you wanted all along. Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  4. Aug 15

    Why You Just Can't Crack Finding Love

    If you’ve been trying to find love for YEARS, there comes a point where you genuinely don’t know what else you’re supposed to do. You’ve worked on yourself. You’ve used the dating apps. You’ve put yourself "out there". You’ve followed the advice, healed the patterns, tried to stay positive and kept going even after yet another promising man disappeared. And still… you’re single. So what the actual f are you missing?!?!? 😖 In this episode I share a realization that hit me HARD this when I found myself experience my own version of that same frustration... Trying so hard to create something I deeply want and just not know why it stilllll wasn't clicking. What happened next made me realize how easy it is to keep trying to “crack” finding love in a way that can actually make the whole thing feel infinitely harder. We’re talking about why finding love can feel so frustrating when you’ve already tried everything already... Why doing MORE isn't actually the answer... And how your approach to finding love changes when you understand how love really happens. If you’re tired of wondering why you’re still single, you just can't figure out what you're missing, or what else you need to do to finally meet the right man, hit play on this episode now. You'll discover: Why finding love can feel so damn hard when you’ve already tried everythingWhat the exhausting cycle of trying to “fix” your dating life really doesWhy strategy won't help you meet the right manThe lesson own frustrating week made me realise about finding loveHow to stop feeling like you constantly need to do MORE to meet the right manThe shift makes finding love feel completely different. And of course, what to do to to finally crack finding love! 🎧 Episodes to listen to next: The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  5. Aug 13

    Why Dating Never Gets You The Relationship

    You can meet men. You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential… But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship. So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong. Do you need to choose better men? Be less available? Play it cooler? Change your profile? Be more in your feminine energy? Finally fix whatever it is that keeps making men disappear? Because after years of dating, it starts to feel like dating is this thing you have to finally get "right" before you get the relationship. And that’s exactly where the problem is. In this episode, I show you why trying to get dating "right" can actually keep the relationship feeling permanently out of reach. And why if you want to finally have the relationship, we have to entirely change the way that you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship.  Because the relationship doesn’t have to be this huge thing you’re trying so hard to finally get. It gets to become easy. A no-brainer. The natural next step. If you’re sick of another man, another talking stage, another couple of dates and then somehow ending up right back where you started, hit play and listen to this episode now. 🎧 Episode to listen to next: How To Break The "3rd Date Curse" 👉 AND if this is exactly where you're stuck, be sure to join us inside Attract YOUR Man... Our next 5-day Loved Up Week: FROM DATING TO THE REAL RELATIONSHIP starts the 24th August 2026. Where I'll help you completely change your approach to dating, so you can get off the endless dating merry-go-round and finally (and easily) get the relationship you wanted all along. Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  6. Aug 11

    The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You

    If you've been trying to find love for YEARS... You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want... You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible. It's still worth holding onto hope for. When finding love hasn't happening yet, it's easy to assume that NOTHING is happening. ...but that's where so many single women over 30 get love all wrong. Because the signs that love IS already happening for you are there. They just don't look the way you expect them to. So you completely miss them. And finding love becomes a whole lot harder than it needs to be. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognised the signs that love IS happening for you (even when it feels like the opposite is true).Why the earliest signs love is happening are so easy to completely misreadHow to turn those first signs into something that grows into more, into love. So instead of stumbling around blindly, wondering "is any of this getting me any closer to love?!?!" 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now. And finally see how love has been happening for you this whole time. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  7. Aug 8

    How To Find Love When You're Burnt Out By Trying To Find Love

    Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love? Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps. You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere. Tried of disappointing dates. Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't. It feels like you've tried everything already to find love. All the dating strategies, manifestation techniques, anxious attachment advice, how to be more in your "feminine energy" tips... Yet you're still single, finding love feels more hopeless than ever and you're just so burnt out by trying so hard for so long. If that's you, this episode will bring you a whole lot of relief... Because the very thing that will heal your burnt out is the same thing that makes love infinitely easier to find. In this episode, you'll discover: Why taking a break from dating never makes dating any easierWhat your dating burnout is really trying to tell youThe shift that helps you stop working against love so finding love becomes something that (actually!) leaves you feeling better than you do now. If you're getting closer and closer to the point where giving up on love would feel better than continuing how you have been... 🎧 Press play and listen to this episode now. Because finding love isn't supposed to leave you feeling burnt out, soul destroyed and exhausted. And how you find love from here, is the very thing you most need 😘 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  8. Aug 2

    He's Nice… But There's No Physical Attraction

    Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for... ✅ He's kind ✅ Emotionally available ✅ You feel safe around him ✅ He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet. But there's just no spark? No chemisty. 0 physical attraction 😐 So now what??! Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows? Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person? This exact question came up inside Attract YOUR Man recently. And it sparked a fascinating conversation that revealed the truth about dating and physical attraction when what you want is a long term, lasting, loving relationship. Inside this episode, you'll discover: Whether physical attraction can actually growWhat to do when a man has everything you're looking for... except the sparkThe dating mistake that could be causing you to walk away from the right menWhat women who've found lasting love had to say about attraction, chemistry and first datesA completely different way to think about physical attraction that makes finding the whole package man a whole lot easier! If you've ever worried about settling... Walked away from a genuinely good man because something felt "missing"... Or wondered whether you're expecting the wrong things in the early stages of dating... 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    68
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
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    Find Love With Emily

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