Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 2D AGO

    This Week’s Love Note: Sneaky Ways You’re Pushing Away Love

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 🎧 Episodes to listen to next: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") Love Is Simpler Than You Think (Here's What You've Been Missing 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min

  2. 3D AGO

    You've Been Set Up To Stay Single

    It’s not like you haven’t tried… You’ve followed all the dating advice. You’ve tried healing your “anxious attachment”. You’ve been more in your feminine energy. You’ve swiped on the apps. You’ve treated dating like a “numbers game”. You’ve done your best to stay position. You’ve even tried to stop caring. …so WHY THE F🤬 does love still feel so hard to find?!?! These are the BIG question this episode answers: 👉 Why does dating leave so many smart, self-aware, kind women feeling so exhausted, fearful, hopeless and disconnected from themselves and love? 👉 Why does it seem like the women who try the hardest to find love, are often the women who are single the longest?! In this episode, we go DEEP into a conversation every single, single woman over 30 who wants love needs to hear. What if the very advice you’ve been told will help you find love… Is actually the thing keeping you stuck, single, doubting yourself, obsessing over what you’re going “wrong”, and feeling like love’s not meant for someone like you? If you’ve ever: Felt completely burned out by datingWondered why love seems easy for other women but not youFelt like dating has slowly chipped away at your confidenceSpent years trying to “fix” yourself so someone finally chooses youFelt scared that love just isn’t going to happen for you… 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode NOW!! Because this episode explains ALLLLL of this super clearly and what actually needs to happen from here if you want to get off the merry-go-round of dating and into real, lasting love.  💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    16 min

  3. MAY 17

    This Week’s Love Note: Let Love Catch Up

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    5 min

  4. MAY 16

    “No One Looks At You When You’re 41 And Still Single”

    If you’re a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you… This episode is for you. There’s a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place... Your friends are married. Having babies. Established lives with their partners. Meanwhile you’re trying your best to hold onto the hope of love, while dating feels flatter, harder and more discouraging than ever… It feels like men don’t really see you anymore. That younger women are what men your age want. That as time ticks on you only become less desirable, less valuable, less important. Inside this episode I break down the story so many single women over 35 have unknowingly absorbed about themselves, love, aging and their worth. And why this story changes the way you date, the men you attract, your relationships and life generally, without you even realizing. Because what if the problem was never you or your age? 👉 What if you’ve simple been seeing yourself through a lens that disconnects you from love entirely?! Inside this episode you’ll see: The real reason finding love feels harder the older you getThe story so many single women over 30 accept that changes the way you see yourselfAnd how this affects the way you feel, your confidence and all your dating experiencesWhat needs to change for women 40 to find loveAnd the immediate flow on effect this has on datingWhy women become more magnetic with age (and how to amplify this to attract the right man)The power you have to change how men respond to you And there’s also a simple exercise for you to do this week that challenges you to see yourself and love in a way you never have before. 🎧 Hit play and listen now!    💖 Episodes to listen to next: “There’s Nothing Embarrassing About Wanting Love” "Is Getting Harder To Hold Onto Hope I'll Ever Find Love" 38, Single And Feeling Forgotten? Listen To This 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    15 min

  5. MAY 13

    7 Signs You're Single Because You're Not Following Love's One Rule | PART 2

    Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing… 👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do: Swipe on appsPlay “hard to get”Be less anxiously attachedBecome the chill woman men want And STILLLL end up with… Matches few and far betweenConversations that never turn into real datesDead-end datesAnd the same emotionally unavailable men who leave you disappointed and heartbroken.  In Part 2 of this series, I’m breaking down the last 4 signs that you’re still single because you’re not following the one rule love does. You’ll see exactly why: Dating hasn’t led you to loveYou keep attracting the same menIt’s the same patterns over and over and over again. And what actually needs to change for love to happen for you too.   Other episodes to listen to: 👉 Catch up on PART 1: 7 Signs You're Single Because You're Not Following Love's One Rule | PART 1 👉 "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    25 min

  6. MAY 10

    This Week's Love Note: The REAL Reason You Feel Unloved

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. 🎧 Listen to this episode next: "I Just Want A Man Who Chooses Me" Love always, Em xx 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    7 min

  7. MAY 9

    7 Signs You’re Single Because You’re Not Following Love’s One Rule | PART 1

    Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing… 👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do: Swipe on apps Play “hard to get” Be less anxiously attached Become the chill woman men want And STILLLL end up with… Matches few and far between Conversations that never turn into real dates Dead-end dates And the same emotionally unavailable men who leave you disappointed and heartbroken.  In Part 1 of this series, I’m breaking down the first 3 signs that you’re still single because you’re not following the one rule love does. You’ll see exactly why: Dating hasn’t led you to love You keep attracting the same men It’s the same patterns over and over and over again. And what actually needs to change for love to happen for you too.   👉 Be sure to subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss Part 2 (and the other 4 signs!). 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    26 min

  8. MAY 3

    This Week’s Love Note: Love Doesn't Happen How You Think

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. 📝 JOURNAL QUESTIONS from this episode: What is the “seed” you want to plant? What kind of relationship do you actually want (not the man), the relationship? How are you currently treating that seed? Are you expecting it to be a full-grown relationship already? Are you dismissing or “stamping on” early signs of love Dates, connections, experiences, because they’re not it yet? When things don’t go to plan, how do you respond? Do you fall into “this isn’t working”… or do you come back to love? Are you giving your love life what it needs to grow? Calm, trust, openness, gratitude, emotional steadiness? Or are you feeding it doubt, frustration, and hopelessness? If love was already growing… how would you think, feel, and act differently right now? Love always, Em xx 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    7 min
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
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    Find Love With Emily

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