The MentalEdge Podcast Fernando Lopez and Jay Wacasey

Thanks to our listers we are about to cross over the 10,000 listen mark. Yeah, it's a really big deal..at least it is to us.Are we famous? Not exactly. Do a simple google search and you will find that we fall a little short of Joe Rogan status. So why do we do what we do? It's simple, it makes us feel relevant to talk men about life and at just the right moment...you great people reach out and tell us we matter.We really don't need much more than that to keep going. What do you do t...

Fernando and Jay talk about Jay's life of crime. It's an all out confessional. Now full disclosure, the lesson here isn't really about being a candy snathcer! It's about how the presence of security in your life facilitates the lack of scarcity. So sit back and shove a little fun size candy bar in your mouth while you shove this episode in your ears and in your spirit!

Fernando and Jay talk about a phenomenon known as God Math. You heard it right. Not Trigadumetry or Advance Calcubutz, we are talking about the devine often unconventional way God takes what seems impossible and metaphorically and even sometimes literally, feeds the masses. So strap in, pluck in those ear buds, grab a note pad and pencil and we promise, this aint no "arithmatrick", nope!This is the type of multiplication that matters!

This coversation between Fernando and Jay was the result of overhearing somebody saying this all too common phrase: "I can't believe you are doing this to me after all I have done for you!"Don't get us wrong.... We're fairly certain that we all might have said this or thought this at some point in our lives but..Ultimately, it's a glimpse into a flawed philosophy. The belief that your kindness somehow creates a debt that will always be honored. When in fact, if your motivation for doing...

In a world that caters to feelings does the truth even still matter?Listen to Fernando and Jay talk about their perspective on the Feelz Vs Realz debate. Is your kindness contributing to somebody else’s blindness? Are you capable of lovingly telling the truth to somebody who matters to you? Oh there is so much good stuff to talk about. So let this episode be the truth you invest in for the next 32 minutes.And don’t be shy, let us know how you “feel” about it.

Fernando and Jay discuss a relational dynamic that is poisonous for men to be in.Based on overhearing a conversation in the parking lot this topic was catapulted to the forefront of our podcast line up. That right, what dynamic would enable a fully capable middle age man to be talked down to like a child…..Its typically, a dependency issue. Does somebody you depend on treat you badly? And do you feel helpless…What can you do about it?The hard truth is: Ur Gonna Haft Get Off Da Nipple!